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By *ickedwilly OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bangor

You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and block

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By *8m00kWoman
over a year ago

balby

Defo delete and block no explanation is always easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ? "
sorry mate you're fugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ? "

Be honest like you would expect.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Delete and block "

Noooooo! That’s a little mean!

If there’s been a lot of communication I think it’s only fair to let him know, as kindly as possible, that he’s not quite what you’re looking for!

Clit - welcome back Mr Meanie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does ignorance rule here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think just the old;

“Thanks for the picture but you’re not quite what we are looking for” works well..

I don’t like to delete and block, it just feels rude to me..

~ Bonnie

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Usually a ‘sorry your not what I’m looking for’ or ‘not my type’. There’s no need to be rude. Guys deserve an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually a ‘sorry your not what I’m looking for’ or ‘not my type’. There’s no need to be rude. Guys deserve an answer. "

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By *AVE AND MANDYCouple
over a year ago

near jaen spain not east midlands

everything that is wrong with this site summed up here....

no thanks is fine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ? "

Done this a few times recently...always best to be kind but it is brutal. I just message to say I find it best to be upfront and that they are not for me. Wish them well and don't enter into further conversation. It usually seems to work. If they message back to say thanks, no further comment. If they message back with abuse, no further comment

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Sorry not for me , take care have fun .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry not for me , take care have fun ....."
oh cmon give me a break I'll change for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry not for me , take care have fun ....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the perspective of a guy.... just be honest... Im sorry my wife has a certain type and you are not what she looks for.

I would much prefer it to be straightforward

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think just the old;

“Thanks for the picture but you’re not quite what we are looking for” works well..

I don’t like to delete and block, it just feels rude to me..

~ Bonnie "

I agree.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As above, politely decline.

In future tell the guy from the start that your wife won't even get involved in chatting about meeting until she's seen their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ?

Be honest like you would expect. "

just say, sorry not for us and wish them well and good luck on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a polite thanks for the picture but unfortunately your not for the wife and myself and then if you were to get a rude reply block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ? "

Sorry we’ve not interested. Happy swinging, and then block that’s what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he’s straight you could always say very nice. Hubby wants a piece now. Think that would do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the perspective of a guy.... just be honest... Im sorry my wife has a certain type and you are not what she looks for.

I would much prefer it to be straightforward

"

This

You can reject someone without being nasty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does ignorance rule here then?"

Seemingly so...which actually goes against all of the values that swingers claim to have....openmindedness and respect..but hey ho! Hypocrisy eh?

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By *ickedwilly OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bangor

Thanks everyone

Delete and block seems harsh I shall try the politely your not our type.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"You finally get a face pic from a male to show the wife.

There’s no way she’s going to fancy him what’s the easiest way to tell him ? "

Just say the attraction isn't there simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone

Delete and block seems harsh I shall try the politely your not our type. "

If he uses the forums he will know already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he’s straight you could always say very nice. Hubby wants a piece now. Think that would do the trick "
not if he's fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he’s straight you could always say very nice. Hubby wants a piece now. Think that would do the trick not if he's fab straight "

Who the hubby or single guy

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Sorry not for me , take care have fun .....oh cmon give me a break I'll change for you "

Fibber..you've Not changed !

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By *oshmoleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Usually a ‘sorry your not what I’m looking for’ or ‘not my type’. There’s no need to be rude. Guys deserve an answer. "

This is what we do.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Usually a ‘sorry your not what I’m looking for’ or ‘not my type’. There’s no need to be rude. Guys deserve an answer. "

Totally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think just the old;

“Thanks for the picture but you’re not quite what we are looking for” works well..

I don’t like to delete and block, it just feels rude to me..

~ Bonnie "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha nice one

Can you send a pic of you now please

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