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“Don’t sh*t on your own doorstep”

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By *ubSirVient-Definition OP   Couple
over a year ago

dukinfield

Do people mainly play in clubs away from their own areas in case you “bump” into anyone? Or do you just crack on!

Aj

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

The nearest club is 20 miles away so it's quite a simple choice for me. I've never met anyone I know in one but have met people from the same small town as me who I didn't know, if that makes sense.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I couldn't give a fuck how close it is to home.

I went to Malia on holiday aged 19 and whilst in a restaurant bumped into a friend I'd not seen since primary school.

Doesn't matter where you are, you always run the risk of seeing someone you know.

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By *ubSirVient-Definition OP   Couple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"I couldn't give a fuck how close it is to home.

I went to Malia on holiday aged 19 and whilst in a restaurant bumped into a friend I'd not seen since primary school.

Doesn't matter where you are, you always run the risk of seeing someone you know."

I get that tbh I used to be quite well known on the (night)clubbing scene so was recognised literally wherever I went! (Thankfully not so much these days) so get that you may always bump in to someone I suppose

Aj

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

If everyone applied the same theory you'd still bump into other locals, just at a club further away!

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

We can't wait to meet someone we know at a club!

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By *urryfannyfuntimeWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

Well they would be there for the same reason as me. So why not just crack on?

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By *ubSirVient-Definition OP   Couple
over a year ago

dukinfield

Very good points well made I suppose.

Aj

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

We generally play away because locally (Suffolk) there's very little. However, there are parties we go to in the next village and our attitude is that if we meet anyone we know, well they're here for the same reason! We couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just crack on. It's doesn't bother me how close they live...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our closest club is 11/2 hours away but still bumping into folk we know,there for same reason nothing to stress over

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By *ubSirVient-Definition OP   Couple
over a year ago

dukinfield

I'd imagine there would be the initial embarrassment on both sides. Depends on how well you knew each other I suppose. Ah well we'll see what happens if/when it does. Lol

Cheers guys

AJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to our local club. If we meet someone there we couldn't give a flying foot..

It's not like they can be judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to my nearest club and yes I've seen a couple who live in my little town... just all adults so it doesn't bother me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nearest club that I am happy to attend is 77 miles away. Haven't bumped into anyone I know yet thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never bothered me in all honesty. They are there for the same reason after all.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I couldn't give a fuck how close it is to home.

I went to Malia on holiday aged 19 and whilst in a restaurant bumped into a friend I'd not seen since primary school.

Doesn't matter where you are, you always run the risk of seeing someone you know."

A bloke I worked with had a similar thing, but he was at Alice springs Australia.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I regularly attend a club that's just a few miles from my house. I have met a couple whose child was in my sons class, and a local business man over the years.

A smile and a knowing nod was exchanged. I wasn't embarrassed at all. We were all there for the same reason. I have also bumped into people I know at a club over 100 mile from home.

Best option is to go to your favourite, and not worry about who might turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bump into people I know all the time. The first time in chameleons it was a woman who knew my brother and recognised me.

Then in xtasia I met a work colleague and to to it off the owner said she recognised me a knee my sister.

It's not like anyone will say oh I met so and so in a swingers club the other night.

A work colleague did find my profile on here and showed everyone at work. That was awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us is bothered by meeting people close by. In fact we prefer it.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i wont go to either local club for this very reason wich is why its taken me so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people mainly play in clubs away from their own areas in case you “bump” into anyone? Or do you just crack on!

Aj "

Travailing a little bit out of my area is a far better alternative in my opinion and suits me better but I know some people who are very close to clubs they play in.

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

Just an aside to our earlier comment ... if we bumped into our daughter we'd be mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have moved around so i don't really count but rarely play in a club close to where I am living at the time it prevents complications not doing so.

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