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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a cuddle is a basic human need, something that we all want from time to time, admittedly some people more than others, but a cuddle can just help in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not just you.

Not having someone to cuddle is absolutely the worst part about being single, or not seeing your partner regularly (long distance relationships suck, as I know from multiple experiences…).

TBH, a social meet followed by a night cuddling sounds absolutely perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single and on my own I definitely missed the intimacy of being able to hold someone else, almost as much as sex I'd say.

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Completely agree, when I was single it was the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning before and after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes. Cuddle and a back stroke. I’ve met many people, male and female, who feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was single and on my own I definitely missed the intimacy of being able to hold someone else, almost as much as sex I'd say.

I think i miss it more than sex ... there is no masterbation equivalent of a cuddle

The pitfalls of the long term singles club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore cuddles. Could use 1 at the moment.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "

Nope!

I'm a needy bloke too. I'll be up the A1 in 4hrs...if you like. Yes, sex is nice, but cuddles are great if your knackered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've never been much of a cuddler but I like the closeness of naked skin that comes with sex.

I'll tolerate cuddling if there's kissing involved though.

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

"When I was single and on my own I definitely missed the intimacy of being able to hold someone else, almost as much as sex I'd say.

I think i miss it more than sex ... there is no masterbation equivalent of a cuddle

The pitfalls of the long term singles club"
yes miss the cuddles n snuggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and hate not being held in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!! Really struggling with this at the moment!

Really dislike meets where they are up and gone the second they have cum...

Depends on mood but a cuddle is great especially after great sex! X

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I miss cuddles and spooning, one of the downfalls of single life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "
Amen to this op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "

Not needy at all, I enjoy being single, but it is the 1 thing I miss

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By *wesomepearWoman
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Absolutely!!

But not just any cuddle.... big strong arms wrapped round me holding me tight kinda cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when Mr works away I miss the sex obviously but the just lying on the couch with your legs on him and he tickles your legs and you can just lean on and kiss him is what I miss the most x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fan of lasting cuddles

I don't like being held

I don't like holding others

I miss intimacy, but not cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss it a lot, but I won’t let it happen in a NSA situation anymore. If I’m dating someone I’ll let myself be intimate like that, but if it’s someone from here or in a club then it’s not appropriate for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate when Mr works away I miss the sex obviously but the just lying on the couch with your legs on him and he tickles your legs and you can just lean on and kiss him is what I miss the most x"

At least you know he is coming back

I honestly cant think of any more depressing fact in my life than i cant remember when i last had a cuddle and i have no idea of how infinitely long it might be before i get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This hits the nail on the head. It's different if your dating somebody, everyone misses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

I seriously miss a guy’s arms around me making me feel safe and falling asleep or just snug on sofa watching a film. Even if it was after sex it’s still an amazing feeling to be held - yeah I know I’m a soft soppy sod lol.

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I don't get them often enough. At least I have my little one to cuddle though. So I know I'm lucky in that regard. I would hate it if I never had anyone to cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% in need of a cuddle buddy! At a forget a fuck buddy I need someone happy to come round and cuddle me, At some my hair and my back and kiss my forehead at times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I don't get them often enough. At least I have my little one to cuddle though. So I know I'm lucky in that regard. I would hate it if I never had anyone to cuddle. "

My two get cuddled so much. Very grateful they haven’t started fighting me off yet. Life would be hard without even small child cuddles.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Och, it's a nice thing to have whether you're in a relationship or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's the hardest part about being newly single, no cuddles, going to bed alone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a cuddle is a basic human need, something that we all want from time to time, admittedly some people more than others, but a cuddle can just help in life."

This is so true, even some of us guys need one too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, it's the hardest part about being newly single, no cuddles, going to bed alone xx"

Ill see your newly single and raise you 4 years

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By *lantaMan
over a year ago

kettering

Everyday ??

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Not only a cuddle. I some times miss the intimacy of holding hand. The look and shared laugh of a private joke. Wow depressed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest downside to being single in my opinion, hugs from friends kids etc are lovely not the same. Hate it if I have a meet and don’t get offered a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone in the Glasgow area fancies having a completely platonic cuddle buddy, I would be very open to the idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be with someone you like though. It just doesn't work if they're just some random person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a young age, I hated being cuddled. It makes me feel suffocated...only got to enjoy it when I got together with the Monkey...if we ever called it a day, I'd miss them off him amongst other things but would probably return to being a non-cuddler...

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

A pillow just doesn't have the same effect as cuddling up to another person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's got to be with someone you like though. It just doesn't work if they're just some random person "

So true ... ive tried cuddling someone i didnt really know once ... weird as hell

Strange how we can have sex with strangers but not cuddle with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I so enjoy cuddles.

I was very surprised when I turned down sexually a friend recently, and he said so long as we can having a cuddle occasionally he was more than happy. He definitely rated the cuddles more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

*growls*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

*growls*

We have a growling kitty over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally just had this conversation! Nothing beats a Sunday spoonday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

I'll come take it's place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

I'll come take it's place

Well you know where my Cave is!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

A big yes !!

Miss it very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spooning before and after sex

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we all love cuddles and spooning when i haven't had it for a while i could just blow while spooning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

I'll come take it's place

Well you know where my Cave is!

I'm coming back up this week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never knowningly turned down a hug or a spoon. Shame I don't get them much anymore

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

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"It is not just you.

Not having someone to cuddle is absolutely the worst part about being single, or not seeing your partner regularly (long distance relationships suck, as I know from multiple experiences…).

TBH, a social meet followed by a night cuddling sounds absolutely perfect. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "

I actually really do just crave arms around me. Makes me actually quite sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I've never been much of a cuddler but I like the closeness of naked skin that comes with sex.

I'll tolerate cuddling if there's kissing involved though."

Cuddles and kisses ???? Most likely going to lead to sex though but can continue to kiss and cuddle after

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sometimes, all I want is a cuddle.

Someone just to hold me tight, especially if I've had a bad day, and make me feel safe & loved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely don’t have a large bear I spoon on occasion! Nope, absolutely not!

I'll come take it's place

Well you know where my Cave is!

I'm coming back up this week x"

Interesting (smirks)

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Sometimes, all I want is a cuddle.

Someone just to hold me tight, especially if I've had a bad day, and make me feel safe & loved...

Yeah, a lovely feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP! I am naturally a very tactile person, love touching and being touched. I miss cuddles and affection more than anything. I crave it far more than sex. Sex is easy to get, intimacy is rare.

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

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"Sometimes, all I want is a cuddle.

Someone just to hold me tight, especially if I've had a bad day, and make me feel safe & loved...

Reaches out :o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, miss it a lot. I get a fix every 6-8 weeks but need more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, big time miss cuddles more than anything x

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I did until I met my fwb, she rations the cuddles out now to keep me keen I think

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Strange how we take it for granted when it’s there but god yes, nothing better than snuggling into a pair of arms and drifting off to sleep.

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

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"Yes OP! I am naturally a very tactile person, love touching and being touched. I miss cuddles and affection more than anything. I crave it far more than sex. Sex is easy to get, intimacy is rare."

Going to have to start a cuddle pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just really miss a cuddle?

I actually cant be arsed with sex meets just now ... i would love nothing more than a few drinks with some good company and then falling into bed for a spoon

Chancers are it would lead to sex tbh but it wouldn't be the aim

Do other singles miss this too? Guys? Or is it just a needy girl thing? "

2 things I really, really, really miss are kissing and cuddling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really miss a cuddle not had sex or a cuddle for 4 years its getting bad now

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