FabSwingers.com forum: mmf threesome

By *onnic OP Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

So me and oh have had ffm threesome but want to try with another male. How does it work in terms do they turn up do the do and leave or more have a drink then go for it.

I'm unsure on how it would work on the night. Please share or explain your experiences :P

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Probably best to set your rules before it happens..

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By *onnic OP Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Probably best to set your rules before it happens.."
yeah I see what you mean. We have our limits set and know what we want. Just unsure on the dynamic of it all xx

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

1) discuss it through.

2) sort it all out whether you want a kara chameleon (they cum and go) or something a bit more.

3) in the past I have always put in an "out" word with the partners in the past... Play host and ask if anyone wants X,Y or Z and then if you get the normal reply all good, if they use the preplanned out word you can always end it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's entirely up to you. We sit and chat for before and after and offer them a drink then they leave. It can be anything from 10 mins to half an hour....just depends on the chat really. No one we've met has ever left straight away or overstayed their welcome

Would it not be just the same as when you had ffm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll turn up if invited

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Probably best to set your rules before it happens.. yeah I see what you mean. We have our limits set and know what we want. Just unsure on the dynamic of it all xx"

Be careful. With a post like that, you’re going to get inundated with suggestions from entirely the wrong kind of fella.

Why not just find a guy you like, meet them for a social and say you’d welcome a MMF. I am pretty sure that it’s more important that it’s the right fella than anything else - someone you’re both comfy with.

I’m sure it will all unfold easily if you get that right. If I wasn’t so far away I would volunteer!! Lol.

Hope it goes well for you x

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

best to always meet for a social and chat about it over a few drinks, if there is an attraction great if not at least you have met and maybe made a friend from it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was invited to play with a couple they laid out what they wanted before hand which was pretty much turn up, have some fun, cum, and then leave. Which I was perfectly happy with, plus it helped to take away any ambiguity about what they wanted

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I've had loads of different types of MFM 3sums but most focused on me.

Just figure out what you want on the night and shove a status up asking for it, or if you really have to do the social thing then plan it but i don't think it's necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a few mmf 3somes. I normally just turn up and not much is said. I just make an excuse to go to the bathroom and come back naked. Enjoy the time had and leave xx

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By *imjayneCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We tend to meet single guys in a hotel bar, have a few drinks, get to know one another, you’ll know if it feels right that you want to lay or not with them x

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

Here if you'd like to chat more about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always turn up as it's not nice to be let down and in my experience I have always had a drink and a chat first to get comfortable with each other then a drink after.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

"So me and oh have had ffm threesome but want to try with another male. How does it work in terms do they turn up do the do and leave or more have a drink then go for it.

I'm unsure on how it would work on the night. Please share or explain your experiences :P "

Some couples I have met have found straight down to it works for them, not give the awkwardness time to set in.

Some couples I have met have preferred a social and some a few drinks before the fun to break the ice.

The key is to chat to prospective partner, let him know boundaries and go with what you guys feel comfortable with,

You've had mff fun, so treat it the same way as you did that, then you may have some comfort already there.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Best option - go to the club on Friday when single men are allowed (rule in most of the clubs).

Get drink, chat and set the rules (do and don’ts) and go for action.

If something will go wrong you can always end up safely.

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

I've had meets where there is no social time at all and straight to it ( a few with the female tied in a compromised position) and meets where there was lots of social time before

Either is good with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve played with a good few couples over the years,it’s about mutual respect and the click and just a understanding of it is what it is and just enjoy it.There has to be a physical attraction of course,it’s just knowing and understanding that they are a couple and play by the their boundaries and they do the same with you as a single.It can work really well with the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So me and oh have had ffm threesome but want to try with another male. How does it work in terms do they turn up do the do and leave or more have a drink then go for it.

I'm unsure on how it would work on the night. Please share or explain your experiences :P "
you can achieve it various ways meet see if connection is there then play, invite straight to hotel room, have social with him or play out a role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have a drink and socialise with the couple with rules set in advance and then we start together or the couple start and I join in... Love the dynamic

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"So me and oh have had ffm threesome but want to try with another male. How does it work in terms do they turn up do the do and leave or more have a drink then go for it.

I'm unsure on how it would work on the night. Please share or explain your experiences :P "

Deepens on what yous all want from the meet surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So me and oh have had ffm threesome but want to try with another male. How does it work in terms do they turn up do the do and leave or more have a drink then go for it.

I'm unsure on how it would work on the night. Please share or explain your experiences :P "

Male here, if its not in a club it's normal for me that there are messages first which gives intros likes dislikes etc, then we have a social to start with, sometimes play straight away sometimes an interview then play at another time.

Couples have said to me in the past that single guys don't always have the right focus, who gets the attention and they are only looking for they're own needs being met. Having a good conversation first helps with this.

When we have a mmf we are always totally understanding what we want and how. We don't normally do cum and go meets we like to get to know the people we are engaging with more than that.

What ever you do go from the understanding that the both of you are in charge, unless you want a bull and Dom connections.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you've had ffm then approach mmf the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've had ffm then approach mmf the same way. "
treat the extra man as a woman you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always start the meet as a social drink n chat, usually to much chat. If all's good then we get on with fun, never any rush and don't expect a cum n go, we're happy to continue the chat after and sometimes more play.

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By *r.MikeMan
over a year ago

Gran Canaria Maspalomas...sometimes in Grays

Hi everybody...Here in Gran Canaria for ex comes a lot of Tourists..I visit them with a bottle of Champagne.. and if we have mutual attraction..."obviously after finished the bottle"..we play...if not?-No problem!.i go on my Way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to the couple, but I am not into a quick fuck and go, I like to take my time and to enjoy the kissing, touching and oral giving and receiving and to make sure the couple fully enjoy their experience, has you will see by my verifications but I am a older guy So i put the couples enjoyment before my own enjoyment

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