FabSwingers.com forum: Had a social yesterday . . .

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

. . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm

Perhaps he’s wondering why you haven’t left him one too. Just so one for him and I’m sure you’ll get one in return.

Lou x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd be irked if I'd left him one and not vice versa. But you've not left him one either! You're overthinking it, but I understand that. Just leave one for him first

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Why don't you just drop him a message and ask if he'd like a veri ? Some people only like then for actual play meets

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m not fussed by veris so I always ask if they want one first. Especially if they don’t have one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wondered if people only meet to get the verifications.

It's not important that he gives you a verification or vice versa.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Did you discuss veris on the meet? Not everyone likes them. I'm not too fussed. Maybe drop him a line and ask if he wants one. If it's important to you ask for one back.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Stop over thinking it and just ask him if wants one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been a member off and on here for years. I feel that I don't need his veri, but in my head it gives an indication of the next move, intent, etc.

I certainly don't meet socially just to get a veri. In fact I'm much more choosey about who I meet these days as I have been in the scene a while and had my very wild days lol

I guess I should remind myself to chill

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm

Does it matter if he doesn't leave you a verification?

Why haven't you left him one?

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm

Why would he be embarassed i certainly wouldnt be.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe he's been busy? Has there been any messaging since?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bit strange when you get a message from a random woman about this.

Anyway OP, if the social went well all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d only tend to leave one if I’m asked or we agree to to do.

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