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Had a social yesterday . . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

. . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know


". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm "

Perhaps he’s wondering why you haven’t left him one too. Just so one for him and I’m sure you’ll get one in return.

Lou x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd be irked if I'd left him one and not vice versa. But you've not left him one either! You're overthinking it, but I understand that. Just leave one for him first

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Why don't you just drop him a message and ask if he'd like a veri ? Some people only like then for actual play meets

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m not fussed by veris so I always ask if they want one first. Especially if they don’t have one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wondered if people only meet to get the verifications.

It's not important that he gives you a verification or vice versa.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Did you discuss veris on the meet? Not everyone likes them. I'm not too fussed. Maybe drop him a line and ask if he wants one. If it's important to you ask for one back.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Stop over thinking it and just ask him if wants one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been a member off and on here for years. I feel that I don't need his veri, but in my head it gives an indication of the next move, intent, etc.

I certainly don't meet socially just to get a veri. In fact I'm much more choosey about who I meet these days as I have been in the scene a while and had my very wild days lol

I guess I should remind myself to chill

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm "

Does it matter if he doesn't leave you a verification?

Why haven't you left him one?

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


". . . Seemed to go well, but he hasn't left me a veri. Incidentally I haven't written him one. Are there any unwritten veri rules peeps.?

Do I read anything into this? Am I being needy? Should it make a difference?

He made it clear what he would like to do to me lol. Hmmmmm me being me is making it into ( he doesn't want to leave me a veri because he is embarrassed he met me).

Hmmmmmm "

Why would he be embarassed i certainly wouldnt be.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe he's been busy? Has there been any messaging since?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bit strange when you get a message from a random woman about this.

Anyway OP, if the social went well all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d only tend to leave one if I’m asked or we agree to to do.

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