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Is a handjob cheating?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on the relationship. With my ex-wife, I know anything I might have done with someone else would be considered cheating. The partner after her didn’t think anything that was purely physical was cheating - so a handjob would have been fine as long as it wasn’t accompanied by an intense emotional attachment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that yes it is. Being intimate with anyone in any shape or form is cheating.

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

It’s cheating if it hasn’t been agreed

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

" someone in desperate need"? U mean like a kidney transplant??? Lol if someone was " desperate use yer own hand !! And yes a handjob is cheating bringing sexual gratification to someone by having their cock in ur hand!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"

If he had no arms then i suppose she could justify that she was only doing a good turn and she could get away with it but its still cheating.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes... it’s a very personal and intimate act, it’s definitely cheeting if your partner does not know about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it’s cheating, unless you and your partner have agreed to an open relationship and play separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close. "

Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close.

Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had."

Sounds like a ex

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

It's cheating. Even a saucy text is cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close.

Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had.

Sounds like a ex "

An ex?

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

Yes it is, unless your partner has said Wa@k away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you wouldn't tell your partner about / your partner wouldnt be happy about, is cheating - sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"

Are you a bit mad in the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything you wouldn't tell your partner about / your partner wouldnt be happy about, is cheating - sorted!"

Not sure I fully agree with that. How many women hide shopping in their car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't there? Some things are best not said about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s cheating if it hasn’t been agreed "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's cheating. Even a saucy text is cheating"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely cheating if neither of you agreed to it.

Best to use your own hand OP methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
yes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"

It's only cheating if you use the hand you normally use on your partner

Swap to the other hand and all is good

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Not if it's self service.

Mind you, i was accused of being unfaithful if i was thinking of anyone else

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"

This line of justification worked for Clinton for a while.

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