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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say sorry you're not for me OR not my type OR don't reply at all...

It still pisses some guys off!

So I can't win...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do read profiles and alot of people gauge what someone is like from the profile and pictures

Your profile is hardly selling you as a catch would you meet with someone who hascsuch a negative attitude

im a single guy and i get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think being Asian is hard. Try being under 6ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Omg do people say that stuff?? I wouldn’t worry too much would you really want to meet those people? Jesus this place never fails to shock me in some way or another! Some people are just scum. There are nice people, I’ve been on here a year and and every now and then there’s a decent person.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Asian... and get meets

Bit of a sweeping statement.. but if thats how you feel..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think being Asian is hard. Try being under 6ft "
i feel your pain

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"You think being Asian is hard. Try being under 6ft "

Being short isn't that bad

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Nah you can’t use that one, especially if theres not much on your profile, you need some more pics on it and to write more about yourself.

Have you tried attending social events and networking through there, youlll have more chance of sucess and fun that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asian... and get meets

Bit of a sweeping statement.. but if thats how you feel.. "

Maybe you can give him some advice away from the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Firstly, sorry you have been abused in that way. I hope you reported the profiles to admin.

Secondly, you are 5ft 7 and can't accom. Your profile doesn't exactly sell you either.

Being Asian might be one reason you are finding it tough here, but I'm guessing it is not the only reason.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Sorry I didn’t fully read your post if they said them things to you good riddence, you should be greatfull you didn’t meet those small minded people

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Asian... and get meets

Bit of a sweeping statement.. but if thats how you feel.. "

See op, it’s amazing the difference it makes when you have a decent profile writeup, some good sexy enticing pics and lack of chip on the shoulder!

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x"

Where’s these many women

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Go to Cupids. I have played with Asian men there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your dammed if you do and dammed if you dont!

if you are on here, its for a reason so use the profile to its full potential. after all no point putting in for that promotion if your negative and "nobody will read your cv" (changed cv from profile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curry. I could munch it every day. Mmmm.

However, calling someone a curry muncher is plain rude. Report them. Can’t say it’s a term I’ve ever heard in my life though.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

Where’s these many women "

Haha, you’ve only been on here 4 weeks and already have a few meets, outside of Fab I’m sure you’ve had more

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Sorry people have said such nasty things, pretty unbelievable - quite shocked actually.

Plenty of good advice on here for you, agree that your profile needs a makeover. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stress enough that getting yourself to an organised social is a really good thing to do, especially for those struggling to get meets.

You get to meet a lot of people all at once in a vanilla setting, have a good night out, show your personality and how you conduct yourself. People see the real physical you, not pictures, they get to talk to you and see your face and personality, it's so much better than from behind a keyboard and making a good impression in person can sometimes get you a meet where perhaps they wouldn't have from behind a computer screen. Speaking from experience.

And that's to do with age, height, weight as well as skin color.

There's plenty going on all over the country, and don't just go once, go a few times, make friends, have a laugh. Put your name down, then follow through, so many never show up and it just confirms why they don't get meets!

Best wishes OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "
I agree

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty..

Omg do people say that stuff?? I wouldn’t worry too much would you really want to meet those people? Jesus this place never fails to shock me in some way or another! Some people are just scum. There are nice people, I’ve been on here a year and and every now and then there’s a decent person. "

This x

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"You think being Asian is hard. Try being under 6ft i feel your pain"
what pain lol am around 5ft5 never had a problem

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

Where’s these many women "

I'm one of the many

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

OP

Nothing about your profile tells me your ethnicity but it also tells me nothing!

You get out what you put in, I check profiles before I decide to even read a message, as do most women....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

If that is true you could repot them or just keep on posting on here how hard done by you are. Personally we would not meet anyone with a negative I'm hard done by attitude.

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Not again is it because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

Report them if they say this. No room for racists on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty..

If that is true you could repot them or just keep on posting on here how hard done by you are. Personally we would not meet anyone with a negative I'm hard done by attitude. "
lots of people here with a negative attitude including you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met Asian men from here.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

Where’s these many women "

I’ve had two partners in the past that were under 5’4”, some of us don’t demand men to be this height, this build etc, some of us choose men because we actually like them for who they are and not necessarily how they look

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

Where’s these many women

I’ve had two partners in the past that were under 5’4”, some of us don’t demand men to be this height, this build etc, some of us choose men because we actually like them for who they are and not necessarily how they look "

True, but our bodies are a part of who we are also, are they not

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Report any abuse but people are allowed to have preferences. It's getting boring when people play the race card. I meet who I am attracted to not based on skin colour.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"5’7 ain’t bad, isn’t the tallest but so what, many women don’t mind that at all, height doesn’t define you especially if you got other positive attributes, you’ve got to own whatever you are x

Where’s these many women

I’ve had two partners in the past that were under 5’4”, some of us don’t demand men to be this height, this build etc, some of us choose men because we actually like them for who they are and not necessarily how they look

True, but our bodies are a part of who we are also, are they not "

Yes they are but for me it’s not a deciding factor, I’m one of those non demanding types

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Report any abuse but people are allowed to have preferences. It's getting boring when people play the race card. I meet who I am attracted to not based on skin colour. "

Somebody being called Paki or Curry Muncher, is not acceptable, it’s not playing the race card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report any abuse but people are allowed to have preferences. It's getting boring when people play the race card. I meet who I am attracted to not based on skin colour.

Somebody being called Paki or Curry Muncher, is not acceptable, it’s not playing the race card."

No it’s definitely not! That’s not acceptable at all

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Report any abuse but people are allowed to have preferences. It's getting boring when people play the race card. I meet who I am attracted to not based on skin colour.

Somebody being called Paki or Curry Muncher, is not acceptable, it’s not playing the race card."

Did I say it was??? You obviously missed the point I made about reporting abuse.

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

We politely declined a single male say thanks for the message but your not what’s we are looking for. We then get a message back of him playing the race card and like we was in the wrong. Everybody has different tastes and free to make up their own choices but totally agree name calling should not be happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are actually using that kind of speech nowadays I’m astounded. The uk is such a diverse and multicultural society, being British doesn’t mean being white. I’m sorry to hear that OP. There’s obviously a lot of dicks still in the world. As for a guy getting meets, I’ve been on here a few times and sincerely believe it has nothing to do with race. It’s just hard to get meets with likeminded individuals period. Just ask every guy on here.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty..

If that is true you could repot them or just keep on posting on here how hard done by you are. Personally we would not meet anyone with a negative I'm hard done by attitude. lots of people here with a negative attitude including you "

oh dear did we upset you by blocking you 2 months ago, we dont want to meet you, get over it and move on.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

47,5ft 6in and a Geordie living in Scotland is rough also.. but then Ive never been called a pease pudding muncher so I can't complain.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s not about colour or race or slim or large or height or body hair for me (Mrs) it’s about whether I’m physically attracted to the images and profile is see.

There has to be some sort of connection/chemistry or it doesn’t work.

Not everyone thinks like some. Please don’t tar everyone with the same brush...

what is appealing for one may not be for the other.

And I would never use the phrases you put on. That’s just not acceptable, a polite no thabkyou goes a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report any abuse but people are allowed to have preferences. It's getting boring when people play the race card. I meet who I am attracted to not based on skin colour.

Somebody being called Paki or Curry Muncher, is not acceptable, it’s not playing the race card.

Did I say it was??? You obviously missed the point I made about reporting abuse. "

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "
. Sorry to read you are getting racially abuse like this.At the end of the day us single guys heavily out number the single ladies and couples so they have more choices and options , also similar to me you can’t accommodate no matter how genuine you reasons some ladies and couples may be sceptical of this again this is their right.I think perhaps you may want to consider socials and clubs get some verifications and hopefully things will get better for you.

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By *uuLuuWoman
over a year ago

Watford


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

People meet in general who they are attracted to I would hazard a guess you woulfn't meet obese hairy white guys as you are not attracted to them which is fine. However I would agree the responses you have quoted there isn't pleasant best option is just to report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly there is absolutely no excuse for making racist comments.

Unfortunately the reality is single men on this site who are looking to meet single women or a male/female couple

Is if a woman is going to spread her legs and let another man fuck her she is entitled to be selective and decerning in her choice of partner and unless your phisically outstanding your going to struggle regardless of how nice a guy you are

X

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Then we feel very sorry for the bi male, single, Chinese, one legged dwarfs with ADHD!! What chance do they stand here???

But seriously we are of course joking. Go with the flow, change tact or try another site.

Moaning certainly isn’t attractive and even if it works it equates, at best to sympathy sex.

Man up!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty..

People meet in general who they are attracted to I would hazard a guess you woulfn't meet obese hairy white guys as you are not attracted to them which is fine. However I would agree the responses you have quoted there isn't pleasant best option is just to report them."

Ooh, any of those obese hairy (colour irrelevant) guys, point them in my direction please

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"It's getting boring when people play the race card. "

Agree completely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys thanks for the replies just to clear a few things up:

I’m not playing the race card just for the attention as some ppl seem to think, I’ve been sent a lot of supportive msg which just shows that the site is not overrun with these idiots.

Secondly I agree everyone has preferences just a simple no thank you would suffice and everyone can get on about finding the right match.

Thirdly it’s good to know a lot of ppl on the site are quite open minded in regards to race,size,height etc if there’s. No attraction then what’s the point..

So thankyou everyone for restoring my faith!!

I maybe a curry muncher but I like pussy better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys no matter what this post brings up...I got to get this off my chest..I’ve been on this site for 2-3 years.. this is what I’ve noticed if your a single guy good luck on getting a meet.. if your single and asian you might as well just admire pics because your definitely not getting a meet no matter how polite socialising and good looking you are.. everyone is entitled to their choices and tastes but cmon ppl it’s 2018.. enough with the ‘don’t go for curry munchers’ or sorry mate ‘don’t mess with pakis’ it’s one thing politely saying it but no need to get nasty.. "

To be quite honest its a womans playing field on here, dont take it personally if your not having luck, its a tough place for us lot. i used to get some nasty messages back, now i dont even luck for it or message anyone now, i float about on the forums and have much more women messaging me.

Keep your head up bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think being Asian is hard. Try being under 6ft "

I wouldn't say no

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