FabSwingers.com forum: The south coast is an empty void regards swinging clubs

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Anyone else have this problem?

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Cornwall ain’t much better..... Nearest is Torquay or Weston-Super-Mare/Burnham. At least a three hour drive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try the inner hebrides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Anyone else have this problem?"
One small one in Bournemouth

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It is. We often wish there was something within half an hours drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying living in North Devon!

Nearest is Secrets is Totnes!

Or swingers Quay in Torquay (not that I’d recommend that one)

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Looks round Lincolnshire's fields nop can't see any here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree totally

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By *erberaWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Only 2 clubs for the whole of Scotland unfortunately so unless you live near Glasgow or Edinburgh you've a long drive to get to one

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We need to all club together and set up a chain of clubs

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"We need to all club together and set up a chain of clubs"

Cock u like

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

I hear ya

I’m Sussex/ Hampshire way and it’s dry as a bone!!

Whose up for launchin a club?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes clubs severely lacking .. having to travel to Kent is a pain

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I hear ya

I’m Sussex/ Hampshire way and it’s dry as a bone!!

Whose up for launchin a club?!

I wouldn't want the responsibility.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Anyone else have this problem?"

Try this side of the Solent, apart from the cost of crossing the worlds most expensive stretch of water, you've at least an hour to the journey to wherever

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Black Country... Literally one every town. Horny fuckers up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try Norfolk; it’s the land that shenanigans forgot.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"You should try Norfolk; it’s the land that shenanigans forgot. "

Hahaha haha, thought for a moment "Doug MacClure's gonna have to put in some performance to make that exciting..." instead he will be sat in his rocking chair at the window, chewing turkey, waiting for some lost stranger to come to their aid.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Maybe one of you lovely fabbers should open a swingers club down south

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

NW too many to chose from

What's a hot couple to do ?

I know , try them all !!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Maybe one of you lovely fabbers should open a swingers club down south

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We can't even open our home up to accommodating (mores the pity) don't see the club opening idea getting much traction from here.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"NW too many to chose from

What's a hot couple to do ?

I know , try them all !!"

I know where the next UK holiday is going to be

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I hear ya

I’m Sussex/ Hampshire way and it’s dry as a bone!!

Whose up for launchin a club?!

I wouldn't want the responsibility."

That's ok we just need your money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you forgetting BGHS in Brighton? Great place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Anyone else have this problem?"

We really need a more upmarket club. I don't want to go to saunas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ysed to live in w.sussex and there was a place called Hamshaws it shut down and we moved is anybody on here that knows what went on and if it reopened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bghs brighton , pleasures in Maidstone eureaks in fawkham dv8 in sittingbourne and a new one opening soon in Canterbury.

all in kent, south east

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Liberation the Jackals on here hold events at different venues across Brighton, Portsmouth , Bournemouth etc

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"bghs brighton , pleasures in Maidstone eureaks in fawkham dv8 in sittingbourne and a new one opening soon in Canterbury.

all in kent, south east"

Bgsh is not a club no open play allow

The other are over an hour drive away

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Are you forgetting BGHS in Brighton? Great place "

It's a nice spa but be nicer to have a club

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Liberation the Jackals on here hold events at different venues across Brighton, Portsmouth , Bournemouth etc "

Spa and houses

Nice but still not a club

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

"We ysed to live in w.sussex and there was a place called Hamshaws it shut down and we moved is anybody on here that knows what went on and if it reopened?"

Hamshaws - aka Brighton Sun Club - was our first ever club visit and experience. Many moons ago, but it did close down and, I believe, became an old peoples home! So probably don't go knocking.

SJ's was also good and a lot of fun, also gone.

We're in a void too - too close to the local one to visit and everything else good is miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m another wanting a local club down in Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bghs brighton , pleasures in Maidstone eureaks in fawkham dv8 in sittingbourne and a new one opening soon in Canterbury.

all in kent, south east

Bgsh is not a club no open play allow

The other are over an hour drive away"

Not true. No play in the spa but you can in the playrooms upstairs and that has open spaces

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Guess im lucky here in Weston we have 3 clubs within a 30 minute drive Route 69 here in Weston Decadent nights in Highbridge 15 minutes and Dare to in Bristol less than 30 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The North East seems void of swingers, care to swop locations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bghs brighton , pleasures in Maidstone eureaks in fawkham dv8 in sittingbourne and a new one opening soon in Canterbury.

all in kent, south east

Bgsh is not a club no open play allow

The other are over an hour drive away"

What's an hour drive compared to the fun you can have.lots travel further than that for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of clubs etc is so noticeable when you look at what’s going on and there is very little of class in the south coast!!!!

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Try cornwall lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if it was me id choose a club i wanted to visit , book a travelodge near by as there cheap but comfortable and clean and bingo, your going clubbing

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We travel hour n half to 2hrs & stay over, worth the trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly they're all up around London, especially fetish style clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok to travel if you have the time, unfortunately not everyone has that luxury.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Looks round Lincolnshire's fields nop can't see any here!"

Chunky Muffin Parties Boston.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

You should all come up to the NW for a visit ... we’d love to see you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should all come up to the NW for a visit ... we’d love to see you!!

Cupids is on my list

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Clubs in Kent...one good one ok and 2 ..dont bother ..we may have a few but quality is best ...one like a 1970s ...billy Butlins holiday camp but worse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs in Kent...one good one ok and 2 ..dont bother ..we may have a few but quality is best ...one like a 1970s ...billy Butlins holiday camp but worse...."

all clubs have different things for all to enjoy just because they are not for you that doesn't mean they are crap, what about the new one opening soon near Canterbury is that crap too

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Well how do we know not open yet is it ....we all have our own opinions and have visited all the Kent clubs on many occasions....opinions are allowed in a forum....

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We are very lucky here, at least 3 clubs within an hours drive. It makes it much easier for last minute decisions if we get some kid free time and fancy going out.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Yes it is a pity we don’t gave any. If there are several in Kent I wonder if it is a police thing? Perhaps Sussex police don’t like them.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Anyone else have this problem?"

Yep, welcome to our world. Exeter = Gems, route 69 = weston, the Attic = Darby. It's all to do with licencses. We're too prim and proper for sex clubs! It's really hard finding meets.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Nothing in Oxfordshire

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Nothing in East Sussex

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

House parties are one way to meet , as to clubs think there are to many h&s rules to follow making it hard to open and stay inside the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is a pity we don’t gave any. If there are several in Kent I wonder if it is a police thing? Perhaps Sussex police don’t like them."

I did wonder if that was the case but there are gay clubs I believe? Not been but there is one near hove station but it's guys only

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Yes it is a pity we don’t gave any. If there are several in Kent I wonder if it is a police thing? Perhaps Sussex police don’t like them.

I did wonder if that was the case but there are gay clubs I believe? Not been but there is one near hove station but it's guys only

There's Bristol Gardens Spa in Brighton? Or do you not class that as a club?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Cornwall ain’t much better..... "

I know.. tell me about it... but then I do put a meet thing up for a really nice social at mine and nobody is interested ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't class that as a spa suitable for swingers.

Its a naturist spa.

Have enjoyed it in the past but we broke the rules and are now banned. Fair enough they have their rules and we should have stuck to them but they do not really like swingers at Bghs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being in Scotland - we have two, both of which are far away from me

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

Someone was looking at opening one up in Lewisham not to long ago.

However the local council only permit one licenced adult premises in the Borough.

Which is possessed by my shop.

You may find that your local councils have a set limit on the number of licenced adult premises and that's why there isn't a club near you.

That or people have looked into it and decided that it's not financially viable for any number of reasons.

Mr GR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of 4/5 in a hour radius

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Couldn’t agree more the selection in Kent is nonexistent we have to travel to Tempsford which took 3 hours last time. Don’t get me wrong VA is worth it but something of similar standards in Kent would be most welcome xx

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By *rysandMadsCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

"Cornwall ain’t much better..... Nearest is Torquay or Weston-Super-Mare/Burnham. At least a three hour drive...

I thought we had it bad in north devon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn’t agree more the selection in Kent is nonexistent we have to travel to Tempsford which took 3 hours last time. Don’t get me wrong VA is worth it but something of similar standards in Kent would be most welcome xx"

Did you not like Pleasures in Maidstone? DV8 on the Sittingbourne / Medway border? Eurekas in Fawkham Dartford?

Ive not been to any yet so personal opinions are gratefully received.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Sussex is a huge disappointment. Perhaps we should start some private parties..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live close to Portsmouth, aside from a social events, organised nights in a grotty local sauna and the odd party which is usually the same people.

This part of the county really is devoid of clubs Hampshire,west Sussex and Dorset to my knowledge don't have a single club.

It's a real pain having to travel while yes it adds to the experience but it also adds to the cost and time involved.

Better then east anglia haha

Anyone else have this problem?"

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

"Sussex is a huge disappointment. Perhaps we should start some private parties.. "

That’s it! I agree

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Did you not like Pleasures in Maidstone? DV8 on the Sittingbourne / Medway border? Eurekas in Fawkham Dartford?

Ive not been to any yet so personal opinions are gratefully received. "

We looked into all 3 in some depth but found they were just not what we were looking for, we’re sure they are fine for others but we were looking more for VA, Le Boudoir, Liberty Elite standards. We have never been (so could be wrong) but we have friends and other couples we’ve met all said they were a little dated and not on the same level as the one we’ve mentioned. Obviously this is only our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not like Pleasures in Maidstone? DV8 on the Sittingbourne / Medway border? Eurekas in Fawkham Dartford?

Ive not been to any yet so personal opinions are gratefully received.

xx"

Friends of mine who have been said the same about those clubs too. However, they did say out of the 3, Pleasures seems the better quality club.

Reading a strangers opinion and club reviews, just seems to back up what I've previously been told. They don't seem my cup of tea either.

I may go and see this new Canterbury club when it opens. See if that one is a cut above the rest. You never know!

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

You’ll have to let us know. We didn’t realise one was opening in Canterbury but it might be to close to home for us. Maybe they’ll have a theme night and we can wear masks lol (no pleasing us lol) xx

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