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"All for it. Seems like (and this is no disrespect to your mate) that there are tons of girls who make and delete their profile over and over. I am suspicious as to what their motives maybe. Commercial perhaps? Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually" Have you verified yourself with a piece of paper naked showing your face? | |||
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"All for it. Seems like (and this is no disrespect to your mate) that there are tons of girls who make and delete their profile over and over. I am suspicious as to what their motives maybe. Commercial perhaps? Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually Have you verified yourself with a piece of paper naked showing your face?" You obviously haven't looked at his profile | |||
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"All for it. Seems like (and this is no disrespect to your mate) that there are tons of girls who make and delete their profile over and over. I am suspicious as to what their motives maybe. Commercial perhaps? Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually Have you verified yourself with a piece of paper naked showing your face? You obviously haven't looked at his profile " I don’t need to. I’m sure he didn’t need to verify himself with a full body shot holding a piece of paper with his user name on. | |||
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"All for it. Seems like (and this is no disrespect to your mate) that there are tons of girls who make and delete their profile over and over. I am suspicious as to what their motives maybe. Commercial perhaps? Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually Have you verified yourself with a piece of paper naked showing your face?" If you're showing yourself naked, you don't need to include your face. | |||
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"All for it. Seems like (and this is no disrespect to your mate) that there are tons of girls who make and delete their profile over and over. I am suspicious as to what their motives maybe. Commercial perhaps? Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually Have you verified yourself with a piece of paper naked showing your face? If you're showing yourself naked, you don't need to include your face." Yes sorry , my bad. I still don’t think he’s took a pic with piece of paper | |||
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"Did she sign up from your internet? Might look like you are making another profile on here and so she was flagged as needing verification. " It was on her own PC and Internet connection. | |||
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"Did she sign up from your internet? Might look like you are making another profile on here and so she was flagged as needing verification. It was on her own PC and Internet connection. " Ok. | |||
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"Did she sign up from your internet? Might look like you are making another profile on here and so she was flagged as needing verification. " | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " She don't need to show face. Just her body with her fab username | |||
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"It’s not compulsory it’s just compulsory if you leave and rejoin a lot from the same IP address/devices (this happens to a female friends of mine as she comes and goes a lot) I it’s a measure to try to prevent fake accounts unfortunately she won’t be able to get around it and will have to verify or not use the site " | |||
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"We had to photo verify after wed paid for gold. Was happy to do it but they should have asked before taking out money incase we wasnt. and wr literally could not use thr site at all even though we was gold u til we done it. " Same for us | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " you don't have to show face I'm sure | |||
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"This is fake news. Just done a search of new members near me, all but one are not photo verified. So it is not compulsory. You do need some form of verification to join the forums though, always have done." | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " There's no need to show face when photo verifying Page says full length nude is ok if face not showing Admin x | |||
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"Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually" Because if you're real and planning on using the site you'll soon have meet veris, which while they aren't infallible are worth a sight more than a photo veri which just proves they're someone of the right gender (or good with Photoshop) | |||
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"To photo verify you don't need to show your face anyway, you can use a body shot. At least that was my understanding of it." I understood the same but that makes it pointless you can't identify people buy there nipples or bellybutton can you? | |||
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"To photo verify you don't need to show your face anyway, you can use a body shot. At least that was my understanding of it. I understood the same but that makes it pointless you can't identify people buy there nipples or bellybutton can you?" Maybe they have nipple recognition software? I bet that was a popular algorithm to work on.. | |||
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"It made me photo verify before I could use my account. And as for the person that said about women deleting accounts and coming back repeatedly..... Well I'm one of them but its more to do with the amount of grief I get off single blokes on here! And yes my filters are on before anyone asks! " Why do you keep coming back then? | |||
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"Of course it’s a good thing. This site is full of fakes, prostitutes, junkies and dickheads so any way that tries to lessen that the better." How is photo registration going to stop prostitutes, drug users and dickheads? | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. There's no need to show face when photo verifying Page says full length nude is ok if face not showing Admin x" Can you please clear the issue up. Do you now have to get photo verified to use Fab? | |||
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"Of course it’s a good thing. This site is full of fakes, prostitutes, junkies and dickheads so any way that tries to lessen that the better. How is photo registration going to stop prostitutes, drug users and dickheads? " They may not be able to take a valid photo while sucking off a john, injecting crap or doing dickhead things. But no it won't stop them just slow them down. | |||
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"Of course it’s a good thing. This site is full of fakes, prostitutes, junkies and dickheads so any way that tries to lessen that the better. How is photo registration going to stop prostitutes, drug users and dickheads? They may not be able to take a valid photo while sucking off a john, injecting crap or doing dickhead things. But no it won't stop them just slow them down. " | |||
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"It made me photo verify before I could use my account. And as for the person that said about women deleting accounts and coming back repeatedly..... Well I'm one of them but its more to do with the amount of grief I get off single blokes on here! And yes my filters are on before anyone asks! " Folk can and do leave for many different reason s they can and often do rejoin for whatever reason.. Op. Only your friend can decide if she wishes to follow the protocol..gotta say I didn't know that there was that built in to the site.. .. your friend will know if she's left and rejoined. it's a process that person will have to follow or not rejoin.. | |||
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"It made me photo verify before I could use my account. And as for the person that said about women deleting accounts and coming back repeatedly..... Well I'm one of them but its more to do with the amount of grief I get off single blokes on here! And yes my filters are on before anyone asks! Folk can and do leave for many different reason s they can and often do rejoin for whatever reason.. Op. Only your friend can decide if she wishes to follow the protocol..gotta say I didn't know that there was that built in to the site.. .. your friend will know if she's left and rejoined. it's a process that person will have to follow or not rejoin.." My friend has not joined. She doesn't want to photo verify. | |||
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"It made me photo verify before I could use my account. And as for the person that said about women deleting accounts and coming back repeatedly..... Well I'm one of them but its more to do with the amount of grief I get off single blokes on here! And yes my filters are on before anyone asks! Folk can and do leave for many different reason s they can and often do rejoin for whatever reason.. Op. Only your friend can decide if she wishes to follow the protocol..gotta say I didn't know that there was that built in to the site.. .. your friend will know if she's left and rejoined. it's a process that person will have to follow or not rejoin.. My friend has not joined. She doesn't want to photo verify. " Her choice. Site has a protocol..folk either accept it or don't. | |||
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"To photo verify you don't need to show your face anyway, you can use a body shot. At least that was my understanding of it." And how would that prove that the sender of the picture was actually in the picture? | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks." I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. " I'd like to see the naked body picture | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " It hasn't (and doesn't) stop a lot of fakes either... IMHO | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture " I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic." I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. " For me, it's because no one could prove it was me holding up a piece of paper with fabswingers on it, if I used a body shot. | |||
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"It’s not compulsory it’s just compulsory if you leave and rejoin a lot from the same IP address/devices " This is not true | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. " Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. | |||
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"Since when gas being naked been a thing? I thought it was just a face photo with you holding paper with your username on it" You can choose the naked one if you don't want to show face | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified." I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. " Why do you think it should be face verified and not have the two options? | |||
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"We signed up a week ago, had no problems using 99% of the site. To use the forums you do need to have a verification (photo or in person) and be on for 168 hours or so. Which is a good thing because it keeps this area a lil more secure from idiots trolling " You don't need a profile, anyone can read the forums. Pics don't show if not signed in though. | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " Where did it even begin to suggest she should be naked? | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. Where did it even begin to suggest she should be naked? " photo verification is either your face or full naked body picture with a piece of paper with your user name on it... | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. " Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. " It could also be anyones face... | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. It could also be anyones face..." | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. " I agree and although it doesn’t prove they are 100% genuine, I don’t know why people would not show their face to be verified. It’s not like it’s on show to the public. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. " How do you know it's genuine because it's a face pic? If anyone's naked body could be used, then anyone's face could be used. | |||
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"It’s a good thing, surely... how many fake accounts are on here, how many times do people hide themselves and try to con others on this site. Great news and well done to Fab" It's not compulsory. | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " I didn't have to photo verify previously on fab but after six mths away I was asked to photo verify and could send messages until I did | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine." No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. | |||
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"Have to day I still can't verify anyone which puzzles me as I could before " You have to be meet verified | |||
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"Would be great.. photo or cam verrification... simple and effective to get rid of all the fakes..." Exactly how will it do that? | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. " Exactly this . I haven’t done it and I’d really be disinclined to do it. | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. " Why not? | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine." I am genuine. I have meet verifications. I do not want to be photo verified. | |||
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"Clubs ask for photo ID so why not have the same for a swingers website that puts you in touch with other people. " It should be compulsory, that would reduce a large amount of fake profiles. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. I agree and although it doesn’t prove they are 100% genuine, I don’t know why people would not show their face to be verified. It’s not like it’s on show to the public. It's still on a server though, which could be hacked. So are my pics on club applications but you have to do that to join. It’s funny how some people are deathly afraid to upload a face pic to the site.... But will gladly give bank and credit card info on the site... Plus give their drivers license at a club..... I’m not the sharpest pencil in the box but can’t having your banking/credit card/drivers license do more damage in your personal life than a face pic? " Clubs don’t keep my ID. Merely look at it to check it. I pay for fab via text. I don’t have a problem putting a face picture on fab. I have a problem with a process that won’t do what you say it will do (prevent fakes) but that forces me to do something I don’t want to do. V x | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. Why not? The number of adult sites that get hacked, add to those the sites that get hacked that have payment information and risks have been increased a fair amount. I have enough meet veris (if old), but hope to get back to meeting.. This. Fab doesn't have any of my payment details. You don't have to have a face photo on here if you don't wish. I fail to see the issue" I can understand the need to cut down on fake accounts (maybe CAPTCHA or a 3 month period to get cam verified in a newbie room could be an option) but you have an email tied to me, along with an IP, my age, location and pics.. Off the top of my head, if Sony, Yahoo mail, Ashley Madison can be hacked, they are my concerns for not holding a sign up is all. | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. I agree and although it doesn’t prove they are 100% genuine, I don’t know why people would not show their face to be verified. It’s not like it’s on show to the public. But ye aren't photo verified either?" We don't need to be we are known all over the net & we do also have veri's to say we are genuine | |||
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"It can only be a good thing for people to be verified when they join, the mods only have to see a face pic not a full naked pic so its not as bad as the OP thinks. I prefer to show a naked body pic tbh. I'd like to see the naked body picture I don't know why using a naked body pic would be worse than using a face pic. I would rather show my face than a naked body. I guess I take face pics more for dating apps and other stuff more than a naked body. Same here I prefer a face pic and also think everyone on here should be photo verified. I agree and think it should be face verified. When I joined another site, I had to send a full body shot but clothed and a face pic. You also have to pay for membership which I think stops many fakes joining. Yes with a face pic you know its genuine with a naked body it could be anyones naked body, if a person is genuine there should be no problem showing the mods a face pic. I agree and although it doesn’t prove they are 100% genuine, I don’t know why people would not show their face to be verified. It’s not like it’s on show to the public. But ye aren't photo verified either? We don't need to be we are known all over the net & we do also have veri's to say we are genuine " I get that, but everyone starts off with no verifications, so everyone is in the same boat when they join. | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. Why not? The number of adult sites that get hacked, add to those the sites that get hacked that have payment information and risks have been increased a fair amount. I have enough meet veris (if old), but hope to get back to meeting.. This. Fab doesn't have any of my payment details. You don't have to have a face photo on here if you don't wish. I fail to see the issue" I fail to see how uploading a photo of someone of the apparent correct gender will prove anyone is genuinely who they say they are and how it would make those of us who are well verified in person somehow more real. | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. Why not? The number of adult sites that get hacked, add to those the sites that get hacked that have payment information and risks have been increased a fair amount. I have enough meet veris (if old), but hope to get back to meeting.. This. Fab doesn't have any of my payment details. You don't have to have a face photo on here if you don't wish. I fail to see the issue I fail to see how uploading a photo of someone of the apparent correct gender will prove anyone is genuinely who they say they are and how it would make those of us who are well verified in person somehow more real. " I think it’s more for people who are joining now. I think it should be compulsory before you can use the site from now on. | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. Why not? The number of adult sites that get hacked, add to those the sites that get hacked that have payment information and risks have been increased a fair amount. I have enough meet veris (if old), but hope to get back to meeting.. This. Fab doesn't have any of my payment details. You don't have to have a face photo on here if you don't wish. I fail to see the issue I fail to see how uploading a photo of someone of the apparent correct gender will prove anyone is genuinely who they say they are and how it would make those of us who are well verified in person somehow more real. I think it’s more for people who are joining now. I think it should be compulsory before you can use the site from now on." nobody has been able to tell me how this will somehow show that people are genuine and I have asked many times. Why do you think it should be compulsory? What do you think that would do? | |||
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" I think it's a great idea. I see no reason at all why people would refuse to do this if they were genuine. No way in hell I'll have a pic of me with the site name on it. Why not? The number of adult sites that get hacked, add to those the sites that get hacked that have payment information and risks have been increased a fair amount. I have enough meet veris (if old), but hope to get back to meeting.. This. Fab doesn't have any of my payment details. You don't have to have a face photo on here if you don't wish. I fail to see the issue I fail to see how uploading a photo of someone of the apparent correct gender will prove anyone is genuinely who they say they are and how it would make those of us who are well verified in person somehow more real. I think it’s more for people who are joining now. I think it should be compulsory before you can use the site from now on. nobody has been able to tell me how this will somehow show that people are genuine and I have asked many times. Why do you think it should be compulsory? What do you think that would do?" I’m not sure as fab is very different to other sites. One I’m on you have to send 2 pics, one face and one full body. You now have to pay a fee to join as they had many fakes and people making multiple accounts. You can also pay a monthly fee to have more access to things but at £10 a month I stopped it and had the free one. I do think a joining fee would deter many more than being photo verified. | |||
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"The problem with many sites is the fakes and I have tried a few sites over the years. Ones where you have to pay EVERY month problem is the men and couples have to pay single females are FREE and that just opens the doors to a flood of fake profiles, I was forever being pestered with messages from the fakes trying to scam me. Ones where you have to pay per message sent again single women seem to get it for free and will just send single word replies trying to keep you messaging for as long as possible with zero chance of meeting. Ones like fab that have a free part a paying part and a verification part, free part just opens it up to lots of fake profiles, Paying part scammers don’t mind paying a bit if they can get lucrative scams, verification part they overcome that by using someone who is not of full mental capacity to hold the piece of paper and photo them. It is an ongoing problem that we all have to live with and use our own intelligence to sift out the fakes and scammers and find the real gems. " Pinches myself,yep I'm real and a gem | |||
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"The problem with many sites is the fakes and I have tried a few sites over the years. Ones where you have to pay EVERY month problem is the men and couples have to pay single females are FREE and that just opens the doors to a flood of fake profiles, I was forever being pestered with messages from the fakes trying to scam me. Ones where you have to pay per message sent again single women seem to get it for free and will just send single word replies trying to keep you messaging for as long as possible with zero chance of meeting. Ones like fab that have a free part a paying part and a verification part, free part just opens it up to lots of fake profiles, Paying part scammers don’t mind paying a bit if they can get lucrative scams, verification part they overcome that by using someone who is not of full mental capacity to hold the piece of paper and photo them. It is an ongoing problem that we all have to live with and use our own intelligence to sift out the fakes and scammers and find the real gems. Pinches myself,yep I'm real and a gem " a real one | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. " It’s an effort to even write out ‘fabswingers’ ha. I didn’t get around to doing it for the first 6 weeks due to laziness and not being compulsory. | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. It’s an effort to even write out ‘fabswingers’ ha. I didn’t get around to doing it for the first 6 weeks due to laziness and not being compulsory. " | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. It’s an effort to even write out ‘fabswingers’ ha. I didn’t get around to doing it for the first 6 weeks due to laziness and not being compulsory. " I've never done it because I've not needed to - I was meet verified (social) in a couple of weeks of joining. So to me, I can't see the point of doing a photo verification. | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. " It won’t though I could join and put up any picture I like. It just won’t make any difference. Has anyone answered yet if it is now required? I’ll do it if they force me to, but guaranteed it won’t make a jot of difference to the “do something about fakes and time wasters” moaners. V x | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. It won’t though I could join and put up any picture I like. It just won’t make any difference. Has anyone answered yet if it is now required? I’ll do it if they force me to, but guaranteed it won’t make a jot of difference to the “do something about fakes and time wasters” moaners. V x " Admin said above that it's not something that has to be done (and they don't intend on ever asking us to). I think sometimes people are asked to if they keep deleting then rejoining. | |||
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"Only admin and picture mods can see these pics, so I don't see the problem. I think it's a good idea if indeed it is made compulsory. It would make the trolls and timewasters think twice before joining. It won’t though I could join and put up any picture I like. It just won’t make any difference. Has anyone answered yet if it is now required? I’ll do it if they force me to, but guaranteed it won’t make a jot of difference to the “do something about fakes and time wasters” moaners. V x Admin said above that it's not something that has to be done (and they don't intend on ever asking us to). I think sometimes people are asked to if they keep deleting then rejoining." Oooh thanks. I must have skipped that bit V x | |||
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"Not really sure what anyone’s reluctance to photo verification might be. If you actually are real and have intentions of using the site beyond your phone screen someone is going to see your face eventually" You can't see the possible issues over a photo existing of your face alongside the url for an adult site? Wow. And are you really comparing that permanent image with someone setting eyes on you, minus the url, in real life? Wow again. I have photo-verified, because as a single guy I feel I need every slight advantage I can get on here, but I know of plenty of very genuine women who wouldn't entertain signing up if it were compulsory. Making it so would drive away as many real people as fakes. | |||
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"A female friend of mine signed up for fab tonight. After finishing setting up her profile she verified her email address. It now says before she can use the profile she must get photo verified. She is uncomfortable doing that as it means showing her face. I know only moderators get to see the verification photo. She also does not want to get naked to do a verification photo. When did fab make photo verification compulsory? Does this mean my friend cannot sign up to fab if she doesn't want to do a verification photo? I know when I signed up I never got forced to do a verification photo. If photo verification is now compulsory it's a good and bad thing. Verification photos may stop some fakers but not all of them. If you are good with photoshop a verification photo is easy to fake. Making verification photos compulsory is going to stop a lot of people signing up to fab. " We joined July 2017 and had to do this, the photo is private! | |||
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"Have always wished site admin would make it ccompulsory. Also be good to force new users to fill out all details, include at least one photo and write a profile of minimum length. All these factors would greatly reduce the number of fakes and people who are not seriously looking and just joining up for a laugh." It is not compulsory to photo verify on joining. By making it compulsory, it also wouldn't stop the fakes. | |||
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"It is not compulsory to photo verify on joining. Never said it was. By making it compulsory, it also wouldn't stop the fakes. No, but it would cut the volume down." Yes bcz most fakes and timewasters hopefully will be put off as they'd have to send a photo so agree it would cut the volume down somewhat | |||
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" All these factors would greatly reduce the number of fakes and people who are not seriously looking and just joining up for a laugh." It would also reduce the genuine folk on here. Seriously looking for what? There’s many reasons people are on here, not just for meeting. We aren’t on here to meet anyone. If pv was compulsory when we first joined, we wouldn’t be here. | |||
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" All these factors would greatly reduce the number of fakes and people who are not seriously looking and just joining up for a laugh. It would also reduce the genuine folk on here. Seriously looking for what? There’s many reasons people are on here, not just for meeting. We aren’t on here to meet anyone. If pv was compulsory when we first joined, we wouldn’t be here. " Neither would I. And I meet people. | |||
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"I agree with people who agreed that it's a good thing. Personally speaking if people don't want to provide proof of being genuine then they can go find somewhere else to peddle their wares. There's very few site's dating one's included where you don't have to provide a fair amount of details to sign up and most usually involve money. So either your" friend" is not a real person or they are hiding something. If people are that afraid of uploading a private picture to allow themselves to be verified then this is not the place for them. Also how the hell do they expect people to be able to trust them enough to meet if they are not willing to get photo verification. It shows lack of commitment and I would be extremely wary of meeting someone who isn't. People really don't get the whole trust and respect thing." How can you trust something you know nothing about? Not everyone who joins is a hardened swinger, Some are just starting out and dipping their toes. Also pv is easily faked and wouldn’t really help, it would just deter genuine people from joining so make make things worse | |||
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"I agree with people who agreed that it's a good thing. Personally speaking if people don't want to provide proof of being genuine then they can go find somewhere else to peddle their wares. There's very few site's dating one's included where you don't have to provide a fair amount of details to sign up and most usually involve money. So either your" friend" is not a real person or they are hiding something. If people are that afraid of uploading a private picture to allow themselves to be verified then this is not the place for them. Also how the hell do they expect people to be able to trust them enough to meet if they are not willing to get photo verification. It shows lack of commitment and I would be extremely wary of meeting someone who isn't. People really don't get the whole trust and respect thing." I met someone (socially) without a photo verification - or in fact any photos of me on the site. | |||
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"I agree with people who agreed that it's a good thing. Personally speaking if people don't want to provide proof of being genuine then they can go find somewhere else to peddle their wares. There's very few site's dating one's included where you don't have to provide a fair amount of details to sign up and most usually involve money. So either your" friend" is not a real person or they are hiding something. If people are that afraid of uploading a private picture to allow themselves to be verified then this is not the place for them. Also how the hell do they expect people to be able to trust them enough to meet if they are not willing to get photo verification. It shows lack of commitment and I would be extremely wary of meeting someone who isn't. People really don't get the whole trust and respect thing. How can you trust something you know nothing about? Not everyone who joins is a hardened swinger, Some are just starting out and dipping their toes. Also pv is easily faked and wouldn’t really help, it would just deter genuine people from joining so make make things worse" Aye...totally agree. If people see our long standing membership and actual in person verifications from many other genuine people as a lack of commitment because we won't hold up a bit of paper to be 'verified ' as apparently the correct gender then we think we can live with that... | |||
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"I agree with people who agreed that it's a good thing. Personally speaking if people don't want to provide proof of being genuine then they can go find somewhere else to peddle their wares. There's very few site's dating one's included where you don't have to provide a fair amount of details to sign up and most usually involve money. So either your" friend" is not a real person or they are hiding something. If people are that afraid of uploading a private picture to allow themselves to be verified then this is not the place for them. Also how the hell do they expect people to be able to trust them enough to meet if they are not willing to get photo verification. It shows lack of commitment and I would be extremely wary of meeting someone who isn't. People really don't get the whole trust and respect thing." That doesn’t make any sense. Commitment to what? Trust in what? If you choose to think that of me because I don’t have a photo verification then it really doesn’t impact my day. If you think I shouldn’t be here because I chose not to then that’s fine too, but that’s not the crux of the argument. I stand by what I said. If photo verification was to be mandatory then I’d do it (or maybe I wouldn’t) But I would lay money on the fact that it has absolutely zero impact on the amount of “time waster/fake” complainants. I also guarantee I could photo verify without using a photo of me and no one would know. So how on earth would that make it a good process? There is no proof I’m genuine. V x | |||
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"It’s a good thing to have happened to fab. And it’s been long over due. " But, if you read the whole thread, it hasn't been "done"! And I notice you don't address the points made by people above regarding it deterring genuine members and not stopping the fakes? If potential site members (especially single women, since they are in the minority) take one look at the requirements and think "sod that", based on some of the recent high-profile data breaches, how does that help anyone? | |||
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"It can’t be compulsory as there are new profiles made in the last few hours that aren’t photo verified. So I’m guessing they may just pick at random or something. " Yes but they cant pm in chat or use the forum to post publicly. This is to reduce dickheads. Ah, if only it was that simple...... | |||
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"It’s a good thing to have happened to fab. And it’s been long over due. " Lol, but it hasn't happened | |||
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