FabSwingers.com forum: Out of your league

By *cutebum9 OP Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Males and females ever see a pic or someone you really like and that turn you on but can’t find the words to say in a message as believe there totally out of your league and simply know they will never message you back or be interested. So bloody frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have with a few guys and think FFS wish I was young again x

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By *cutebum9 OP Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We both have this problem and drives us mad and very frustrating too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one from about 6 months ago. I had him on my hotlist and quite local, but i never braved a message.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so fussed by pics, but there’s a couple I’ve spoken to I would have liked to meet.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but that’s life

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Quite a few couples and singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah...but what if they did?!

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

There’s a few I’ve spoken too and got on well with but never met . There’s a few I admire that I will probably never get to message due to filters x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes this happens to me all the time. I recently got brave and messaged one expecting to be ignored, and he wants to meet me now and I'm bricking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i am out of your most people league here loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my place, every one is out of my league lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a similar thread recently and it got me thinking about my own behaviour and why I didnt make contact. I took a risk and it paid off.

Go for it!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I know my place, every one is out of my league lol"

Don’t be daft! Fire a message off, what’s the worst that can happen? It gets deleted? Big wow! But what’s the best that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god all the time. I just hope they check who’s fabbed their photos and make contact.

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By *attooed gentMan
over a year ago

anywhere everywhere

Definitely but I have taken that risk to message and to my surprise were talking now and sorting out a meet.

If you don’t try your never gonna have the confidence within yourself to try what’s the worst thing that could happen they agree to meet or say thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No one is better than yourself. Never put yourself down in any way

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By *ammy 10Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ammy 10Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Having been lucky enough to meet lots of people on the scene .. it’s fun to socialise too .. if you meet n it doesn’t turn out a play meet it’s still part of the idea to meet new people who are on the same wavelength .. if you meet n find that urge is there to play “bonus” ..

it’s not possible that you will fancy everyone or they you .. but if you dnt ask u dnt get.. and usually the ones you would say are out your league are thinking same bout you . .. YOLO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do this.

It doesn't help that I'm terrible with opening messages too. Once I get talking though I'm fine!

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been lucky enough to meet lots of people on the scene .. it’s fun to socialise too .. if you meet n it doesn’t turn out a play meet it’s still part of the idea to meet new people who are on the same wavelength .. if you meet n find that urge is there to play “bonus” ..

it’s not possible that you will fancy everyone or they you .. but if you dnt ask u dnt get.. and usually the ones you would say are out your league are thinking same bout you . .. YOLO "

That's a great mentality to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london

Guilty as charged. Especially when it comes to messaging rather than meeting in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't know what a league is.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

ALWAYS be confident. U never know. Besides no reply never hurt anyone. I always punch above ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think i’m Non league status to be fair. I am a bit of a dad bod joe. It’s always difficult to make that first move. What do you say as a starter for 10?

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion "

I disagree... I’m a wobbly mum bod, we are both the wrong side of 40... and we (well I, as it’s only my pics displayed) get winks and messages from a spectrum of people, including the ripped bodies and amazing figured ladies...

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times but what can you do? We are what and who we are...

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I often think i’m Non league status to be fair. I am a bit of a dad bod joe. It’s always difficult to make that first move. What do you say as a starter for 10?"
we all love different things. What's a no thanks gonna do. U may be perfect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat "
she says beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I saw a profile that said "no ugly bugs"

Put us off ONLY because they sound awful

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Online no. If I fancy em I'll give it a go. Am quite used to punching above my own weight in this regard. Offline is a whole different kettle of fish. It is so difficult to find an opening line and even if I could the next step is to sustain any interest if there is any. But as I've been met with dead end after dead end on here I feel I may have to try and up my real life game now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i have

So grew a pair of balls sent a message and never thought id get a reply but she did

We met for a socail and a week later we had a proper meet where she blew my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently hooked up with a woman who only made a move on me as she was leaving her job because she thought I was out of her league and if I blew her out she'd never see me again anyway.

I was gobsmacked. I was also delighted that she was brave and made a move else we wouldn't be flirting outrageously now and planning occasional hook ups. I wouldn't have been the brave one either.

Just because you think someone is too hot for you doesn't mean they think that of themselves.

Damn that sounds SO egotistical, please don't take it like that. I'm just a bloke. Nothing special.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat "

Thankyou, that’s very kind x

Absolutely, and I’m definitely not saying it’s the “norm”, but I am saying that I can happen and DOES happen. Never think your out of anyone’s league, if you message and they don’t respond or say a polite no, what have you lost?

A few mins it took to type a message, that’s all..

not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea... but some ARE!

Please Don’t ever think you are Any less WORTH than the people you “think” are out of your league..

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I know I’m far away from being in anyone’s league, I know ordinarily they wouldn’t even look at me in the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I know I’m far away from being in anyone’s league, I know ordinarily they wouldn’t even look at me in the street "
well I (fem) definitely would xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat

Thankyou, that’s very kind x

A few mins it took to type a message, that’s all..

not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea... but some ARE!

Please Don’t ever think you are Any less WORTH than the people you “think” are out of your league..

XX"

Oh no I agree I don’t feel of any less worth . In pubs bars you know out and about I have zero issues I chat and have a great time with women I would consider out if my league but I find it so much easier face to face . I haven’t gotten the typing a message stuff down at all . I feel unable to convey my personality via the written word to be honest . Maybe I am too old fashioned

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat

Thankyou, that’s very kind x

A few mins it took to type a message, that’s all..

not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea... but some ARE!

Please Don’t ever think you are Any less WORTH than the people you “think” are out of your league..

Nothing wrong with being old fashioned at all, for me personally I struggle face to face where as here it’s easier for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your honest in your profile, and polite in your message, you’d be surprised how many write back!

Don’t ever think people are out of your league.. they are still people, and rippling muscles or an amazing lady figure does not necessarily mean they are all looking for the same!

Personality counts for so much also.

Try you might be pleasantly surprised!

This is great advice . The reality is often very different though in my opinion

I have instigated messages complimenting photos or something that’s made me smile on a profile..

if your polite and show your personality.. be playful etc.. whatever your personality is...

people will engage back with you, and you can make those messages into meets.

Not always OBVIOUSLY but it happens!

You have a great figure . But I do think the reality and again it’s only my opinion is very different. Obviously our experiences on here will differ somewhat

Thankyou, that’s very kind x

A few mins it took to type a message, that’s all..

not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea... but some ARE!

Please Don’t ever think you are Any less WORTH than the people you “think” are out of your league..

Nothing wrong with being old fashioned at all, for me personally I struggle face to face where as here it’s easier for me "

Your nails are amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never imagined single women bring daunted by messaging guys.

I suppose it's because they are so outnumbered by men on here, I always assumed the single ladies would all be confident enough to reach out.

I definitely get the "first message" issues... When so much can be picked up from someone's body language, facial expressions etc. It makes it difficult to send a polite first message and yet stand out from the crowd.

I've spent ages crafting a carefully worded first messages by reading the profile several times and bring creative... Then it either doesn't get read or is deleted immediately. Very frustrating.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

There is never anything to lose by sending a polite message and photo, especially if you have no expectation of a really or encounter.

I'm only too aware that people message us due to my wife's sexy photos. I'm more of the 'all the hot women are out of my league type but then I remind myself that can't strictly be true as I'm married to one of the hotter ones. If that's the case then I'm sure there are other sexy ladies out there that might actually like me.

The Mrs has no problem at all. Most blokes that aren't gay will probably like her photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is never anything to lose by sending a polite message and photo, especially if you have no expectation of a really or encounter.

The Mrs has no problem at all. Most blokes that aren't gay will probably like her photos."

Yep. You're right.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

The Mrs has no problem at all. Most blokes that aren't gay will probably like her photos."

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Males and females ever see a pic or someone you really like and that turn you on but can’t find the words to say in a message as believe there totally out of your league and simply know they will never message you back or be interested. So bloody frustrating "
ALL THE TIME, this site will knock ya down, i thought i was a strong 7 out of 10 but this site is making me think im more of a strong 3. its easier talking to a female at a bar than it is on here! anyway im just ranting but yes everyone is out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so many messages every day off athletic looking guys that I just know are out of my league. I usually send them a message back saying I would be punching above my weight with them and I am flattered but no I wouldn't be comfortable meeting them. It's that thing isn't it, where if I was in a club they wouldn't approach me so maybe they have mistakenly messaged me or they are messaging every girl a copy and paste message on the offchance they get more replies. Give me a 40 something bearded, tatted man with a cuddly tummy and cheeky smile any day if he would have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have with a few guys and think FFS wish I was young again x"

Really?? In your photos you look gorgeous!

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

No I don’t believe anyone is out of my league if I’m being honest they are only human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely message anyine first but Sometimes when a guy messages and his varies show he has met some amazing stunners I wonder why the hell he has messaged me and I won't meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a good preparation nobody is out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it’s not possible that you will fancy everyone or they you .. but if you dnt ask u dnt get.. and usually the ones you would say are out your league are thinking same bout you . .. YOLO "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Males and females ever see a pic or someone you really like and that turn you on but can’t find the words to say in a message as believe there totally out of your league and simply know they will never message you back or be interested. So bloody frustrating "
I never feel like that nobody is out of your league however if you want a reply that's another thing, really getting a reply is all about your message

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Oh god all the time. I just hope they check who’s fabbed their photos and make contact.

I do this too.

My prayer mat is threadbare now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god all the time. I just hope they check who’s fabbed their photos and make contact.

I do this too.

My prayer mat is threadbare now.

"
Ha hey if she's a Muslim you can pray together

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

If you don’t try then you will never know.

Leagues are just in your own mind, go for it.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't think anyone is out of my league. However, they may think they're out of mine.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Never usually bothers me but a gorgeous 20yrs younger than me couple recently sent me a few messages and I chickened out after a few messages saying the age difference was too much ...... crap ... they might see thisb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing ventured nothing gained.

If you don’t try then you will never know.

Leagues are just in your own mind, go for it."
yes I agree and in my opinion personality counts for more than looks, looks make you want to message but personality gets you a reply

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

There are definitely people on here I'd consider out of my league but a long time back, based on a forum post getting people to contact someone on their hotlist, I gave it a go and was pleasantly surprised.

I'm now of the mindset what's the worst that can happen, and I've met a few guys I never would have thought would have taken a second look.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

I think if you like someone , you should give it a go.

Not messaging someone because you are worrying about being on someone's league or not, could make you miss and opportunity.

Just go for it, worse can't happen they are not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this lifestyle nobody is out of your league

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

"I think if you like someone , you should give it a go.

Not messaging someone because you are worrying about being on someone's league or not, could make you miss and opportunity.

Just go for it, worse can't happen they are not interested

This is the attitude to have.

Don't ask you don't get. Do ask you still dont always get but you have a much better chance.

Plus, the boost to a blokes ego it gives him if a fit girl wants him, he won't turn you down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a stunning woman on here I messaged and I thought she’d never reply. But guess what, yeah she never replied. But I tell myself maybe I was out of her league, maybe the message got lost or maybe she just thought get lost you ginger loser, but any who the moral of the story is there are leagues, so many leagues.

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

"In this lifestyle nobody is out of your league "

Once again James comes with his wisdom of words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if you like someone , you should give it a go.

Not messaging someone because you are worrying about being on someone's league or not, could make you miss and opportunity.

Just go for it, worse can't happen they are not interested

Or they’ve just blocked everyone of your sex, so you can’t message anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In this lifestyle nobody is out of your league

Once again James comes with his wisdom of words

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Well we are all experts here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't subscribe to leagues. If I think someone is attractive(in my tiny little mind) then I will message. What stops messages from me is things said on profile and filters.

No everyone is as confident and we are all different and looking for different things...

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Nope. No one is better than yourself. Never put yourself down in any way "

Agreed and if you message and they’re not interested so what, they’ll be someone else who is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, every single person on my hotlist. Every woman I ever like and even Saz. I have a very low opinion of myself. So everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a stunning woman on here I messaged and I thought she’d never reply. But guess what, yeah she never replied. But I tell myself maybe I was out of her league, maybe the message got lost or maybe she just thought get lost you ginger loser, but any who the moral of the story is there are leagues, so many leagues."

I don’t believe in leagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, pretty much everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot on here I deem out of my league.

But god loves a trier apparently

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

All the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say this is the league of gentlemen though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it convenient that it is all the pretty people that don't believe in leagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it convenient that it is all the pretty people that don't believe in leagues. "
omg I never thought that but I do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed but she is also miles away too.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

"I think if you like someone , you should give it a go.

Not messaging someone because you are worrying about being on someone's league or not, could make you miss and opportunity.

Just go for it, worse can't happen they are not interested

This is the attitude to have.

Don't ask you don't get. Do ask you still dont always get but you have a much better chance.

Plus, the boost to a blokes ego it gives him if a fit girl wants him, he won't turn you down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes indeed but she is also miles away too."
who the woman of your dreams?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

you've got to go into anything in life with a positive attitude and think that you've got a chance or there's no point.

Sure you might not get a reply but what have you got to lose and what's the worst thing that can happen compared with the best outcome ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the worst thing that can happen is you get accused of sexual harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't subscribe to leagues. If I think someone is attractive(in my tiny little mind) then I will message. What stops messages from me is things said on profile and filters.

No everyone is as confident and we are all different and looking for different things...

Agree with this. I find attraction in people that many others many not. I have a quirky taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it convenient that it is all the pretty people that don't believe in leagues. "

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes indeed but she is also miles away too.who the woman of your dreams? "

Shes definently featured in a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't subscribe to leagues. If I think someone is attractive(in my tiny little mind) then I will message. What stops messages from me is things said on profile and filters.

No everyone is as confident and we are all different and looking for different things...

Agree with this. I find attraction in people that many others many not. I have a quirky taste. "

See nothing wrong with quirky... and proves my point... I would make no one's league or hotlist... but I might get on a quirky list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I don't believe in leagues.. I do know that some people will find me attractive and others won't.. same if folk contact me some I'll think yeah and others nah..if you don't ask you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality. "
of course they do....... Julia Roberts - lyle Lovett, Catherine zeta Jones -Michael Douglas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. No one is better than yourself. Never put yourself down in any way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to see a gorgeous persons profile start with. Would like to meet buck tooth, tiny penis man with no money and a great personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have with a few guys and think FFS wish I was young again x"

Your kidding me , I cant see any bloke being out of your league x

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

There are two leagues on here. Swingers and non swingers. The first will be active but innundated and you or they might get lucky by meeting up ( we have other lives off here !) . The second will be happy to chat or not for other unfathomable reasons.To increase your chances or engaging with the first you can't rely on fab messages alone. Swinging is about having fun not about finding your life partner so normal rules don't apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality. of course they do....... Julia Roberts - lyle Lovett, Catherine zeta Jones -Michael Douglas "

I believe the common factor there is money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are women I look at and think, I probably don’t stand a chance. Yes if and when I message them they rarely respond. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth doing so.

If you don’t ask in life.... you don’t get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality. "

I love tattoos and big beards. Some I find attractive and others I don’t. I can’t put my finger on it but when I know I just know. I don’t message anyone anyway but if someone interesting pops in my box and it’s not always about looks, I find intelligence sexy, I may look up and listen. I’ve said no to many conventionally good looking guys because they didn’t do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have with a few guys and think FFS wish I was young again x"

Feel free to give me a shout!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the common factor there is money. "

Julia and Lyle both had their own money. Same with David copperfield and Claudia schiffer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the common factor there is money. "
nooooooo......... Really..... Damn but they all have or had money, they were all successful, different scales mind

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We have this all the time. So many people we love the look of but just from looks alone thinking they are so far out of our league that they are in a different league altogether.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Totally get this... there are people on our hot list but dont

have the courage to contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have this all the time. So many people we love the look of but just from looks alone thinking they are so far out of our league that they are in a different league altogether. "
the human league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally get this... there are people on our hot list but dont

have the courage to contact "
just do it..... Go on I dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

I also find comments like "attracted to intelligence" a con pretty people use to sound more humble. How much can you possibly know about someone's intellect from mindless back and forth and my above average fascination for quantum mechanics and string theory has never helped me get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few message me but couldnt get my head around why someone so hot and young would want someone like ? I wish i could just shut my mind up and accept that they wanna play with me . And get on with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

For once I agree with you, intelligence will get you so far but you still have to be good looking in the first place to get the initial interest. People say it so they don’t sound shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise that there was a time you didn't agree with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise that there was a time you didn't agree with me?"

Sorry, I thought it was someone else making the comment.

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I've written polite messages to a good few and said even if it's a no thank you I'd appreciate an answer 99% I get nothing back. Good manners cost nothing in my eyes.

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Constant problem And I’m getting older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've written polite messages to a good few and said even if it's a no thank you I'd appreciate an answer 99% I get nothing back. Good manners cost nothing in my eyes. "
you're more likely to get a reply if you're rude mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've written polite messages to a good few and said even if it's a no thank you I'd appreciate an answer 99% I get nothing back. Good manners cost nothing in my eyes. "

You honestly put that, that’s going to put most women off for a start ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

For once I agree with you, intelligence will get you so far but you still have to be good looking in the first place to get the initial interest. People say it so they don’t sound shallow."

No, not at all. I found gordon Ramsey very attractive when I met him. He’s not conventionally good looking but he oozes sex appeal. I find it in weird places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

You know nothing about me and what makes my mind tick. I have a big thing for geeks and people who are very passionate about something. That’s what turns me on. I can’t just meet for sex as I don’t get turned on that easily. It can take me a day in someone’s company before something clicks hence why I don’t do casual meets. I can’t just fancy someone from a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And money. He is famous after all. If not he would just be an angry old git.

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By *anOnFire69Man
over a year ago

The bedroom

"I have with a few guys and think FFS wish I was young again x"

Kitty kat - with a body as hot as yours, I don't think age would matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And money. He is famous after all. If not he would just be an angry old git."

I married a postman, I’m not interested in money. I was at work and he was chatting. He just oozes something. He’s not an angry person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And money. He is famous after all. If not he would just be an angry old git."

Anyway, he wouldn’t be alternative enough for me.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Aren’t most of us just normal people, just a bit kinky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And money. He is famous after all. If not he would just be an angry old git.

I married a postman, I’m not interested in money. I was at work and he was chatting. He just oozes something. He’s not an angry person. "

You realise that I am not talking about you directly, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that have never made me attractive to others.

My love of Rock music

My hairy face

My knowledge of Mythology and ancient history

My impressive graphic novel collection

My love of Victorian era poetry

My love of science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me all the time! Especially with attractive couples... It's the feeling of 'why would they be interested in me, they could have anyone they want...'

I guess it's worth taking more risks

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things that have never made me attractive to others.

My love of Rock music

My hairy face

My knowledge of Mythology and ancient history

My impressive graphic novel collection

My love of Victorian era poetry

My love of science."

And you see, a few of those are things that make me more interested in a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. No one is better than yourself. Never put yourself down in any way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the risks???

Life's too short, just go for it..

Its only a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. No one is better than yourself. Never put yourself down in any way

Your a prime example of this haha

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I would never feel comfortable, and would feel pressure to perform when having sex with someone, if I felt that way,so I wouldn't even try.

Some are much younger and tho I may admire them,I accept their age restrictions.

Such a wide choice on here for me so I am not going to get frustrated about a few that got away..

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By *ral AddictsCouple
over a year ago

Swinton

We had an interesting situation a beautiful young lady not to far away, was unfortunately not for us because even though we were older. We (well more so my man) we’re not old or fat enough. This gorgeous girl has a thing for old fat men. And loves to be bossed about.

It takes all kinds ?? we all have different tastes xx

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

rochdale

He who dares find the people who don’t rate themselves are best try harder.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If someone decides you are out of their league and not attractive enough for them, fair enough, that’s up to them and you have no control over it.

On the other hand, deciding in advance you are out of someone’s league is just letting your own fear affect the magic of possibility. As long as you are prepared for possible rejection and don’t mind it, go ahead and shoot for the moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had an interesting situation a beautiful young lady not to far away, was unfortunately not for us because even though we were older. We (well more so my man) we’re not old or fat enough. This gorgeous girl has a thing for old fat men. And loves to be bossed about.

It takes all kinds ?? we all have different tastes xx"

Lol that's some kink!

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By *C500Man
over a year ago

Preston

Constantly !!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We got chatting to a couple in a club a year ago. We'd had them on our hotlist just to perve on them as they were so hot we just didn't think they'd be into us. Turns out we were also on their hotlist and thought the same about us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few say it to me, and when I look at profiles I think the same ( they are out of my league ) guess its a confidence thing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few say it to me, and when I look at profiles I think the same ( they are out of my league ) guess its a confidence thing xx"
Wow densol you're out of my league date me date me but don't sedate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like this. Nobody is out of anyone’s league! Everyone’s looking for different things. If you like someone message them. Nobody in this world is perfect. (Apart from Tom obviously but that’s an exception)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like this. Nobody is out of anyone’s league! Everyone’s looking for different things. If you like someone message them. Nobody in this world is perfect. (Apart from Tom obviously but that’s an exception) "
omg I've got no chance with you............ Coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few say it to me, and when I look at profiles I think the same ( they are out of my league ) guess its a confidence thing xx"
omg you're a young person collector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can't see attractive people contacting people who are not objectively attractive. Just incase they have a great personality.

Ah, see anyone who can explain string theory in terms I will understand DOES get my interest. But are you talking about getting laid generally, or getting laid by pretty people? If it’s just the latter then as you were. I’ll move along.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I never imagined single women bring daunted by messaging guys.

I suppose it's because they are so outnumbered by men on here, I always assumed the single ladies would all be confident enough to reach out.

I've spent ages crafting a carefully worded first messages by reading the profile several times and bring creative... Then it either doesn't get read or is deleted immediately. Very frustrating.

It is, but when YOU get messages.. what do you look at? Do you read the message and then just reply based on said message?

I look at the profile first, photos, wording.

Then I look at verifications, click into the kind of people they have met already, sometimes it’s not what you do in bed ITS WHO, I look at their veris to, what you and others wrote about THEM..

then I look at distance, ... all the factors play a part... and that sounds like a lot of work when read back, but for me/is, it all helps in choosing the right people to play with for our needs..

does the profile engage me, or is it 2 lines of “fill in later”

WHAT do people say about him?

Are they polite in their veris, or is it “fucks like a good en, nice cock” and that’s it?

Have they taken time to think about their photos or is it 28 pics of their cock?

All those things I make a snap judgement on, before I open the message.

Then I DO open the message and hopefully, there is something engaging in their rather than a “hi, what you up to”

A lot is about timing to I guess, but I have to say for all the men who write “nobody reads this but so I won’t bother filling out” some of us DO read “this bit” !!!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Ladies, I'm not out of your league. My filters are open and my inbox awaits.

Please don't be nervous, just send a message. I promise I'll answer.

*sits back and waits......

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Who defines those leagues and put you in a lower one but yourself. I don't think in leagues and when I'm interested in someone I just go ahead and message. What's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who defines those leagues and put you in a lower one but yourself. I don't think in leagues and when I'm interested in someone I just go ahead and message. What's the worst that can happen?

Well said

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Given the ratios on here, if you're a woman it's unlikely you will be rejected by a man if you message him.

If you fancy someone message him. It's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s Tom?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I never imagined single women bring daunted by messaging guys.

I suppose it's because they are so outnumbered by men on here, I always assumed the single ladies would all be confident enough to reach out.

I've spent ages crafting a carefully worded first messages by reading the profile several times and bring creative... Then it either doesn't get read or is deleted immediately. Very frustrating.

It is, but when YOU get messages.. what do you look at? Do you read the message and then just reply based on said message?

I look at the profile first, photos, wording.

Then I look at verifications, click into the kind of people they have met already, sometimes it’s not what you do in bed ITS WHO, I look at their veris to, what you and others wrote about THEM..

then I look at distance, ... all the factors play a part... and that sounds like a lot of work when read back, but for me/is, it all helps in choosing the right people to play with for our needs..

does the profile engage me, or is it 2 lines of “fill in later”

WHAT do people say about him?

Are they polite in their veris, or is it “fucks like a good en, nice cock” and that’s it?

Have they taken time to think about their photos or is it 28 pics of their cock?

All those things I make a snap judgement on, before I open the message.

Then I DO open the message and hopefully, there is something engaging in their rather than a “hi, what you up to”

A lot is about timing to I guess, but I have to say for all the men who write “nobody reads this but so I won’t bother filling out” some of us DO read “this bit” !!! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s Tom? "

Hardy

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I know if I’m standing next to someone who’s gorgeous and then me I know who’s likely to get asked for their number etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it...nothing ventured, nothing gained. Send the message.

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By *norkelingforclamsMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Every time...

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By *aturetemptressWoman
over a year ago

Knutsford

At my age

Loads sadly

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

It's funny how we all think we're different when most of us are exactly the same in soooo many ways. I will message blokes that I think are out of my league but then I would probably never meet them it's one thing messaging or skyping its not reality. The one feature I find most attractive in men and women is confidence the thing we all wish we had but would we take that over a pretty face or hot body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck it...nothing ventured, nothing gained. Send the message."

There you go... Enough said!

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

"I never imagined single women bring daunted by messaging guys.

I suppose it's because they are so outnumbered by men on here, I always assumed the single ladies would all be confident enough to reach out.

I've spent ages crafting a carefully worded first messages by reading the profile several times and bring creative... Then it either doesn't get read or is deleted immediately. Very frustrating.

It is, but when YOU get messages.. what do you look at? Do you read the message and then just reply based on said message?

I look at the profile first, photos, wording.

Then I look at verifications, click into the kind of people they have met already, sometimes it’s not what you do in bed ITS WHO, I look at their veris to, what you and others wrote about THEM..

then I look at distance, ... all the factors play a part... and that sounds like a lot of work when read back, but for me/is, it all helps in choosing the right people to play with for our needs..

does the profile engage me, or is it 2 lines of “fill in later”

WHAT do people say about him?

Are they polite in their veris, or is it “fucks like a good en, nice cock” and that’s it?

Have they taken time to think about their photos or is it 28 pics of their cock?

All those things I make a snap judgement on, before I open the message.

Then I DO open the message and hopefully, there is something engaging in their rather than a “hi, what you up to”

A lot is about timing to I guess, but I have to say for all the men who write “nobody reads this but so I won’t bother filling out” some of us DO read “this bit” !!! "

Most definitely I do exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get messages out the blue at all . Plus when I do it normally only takes a few messages to work out they are Male prentending to be a female . So when I get a message out the blue I’m very suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do leagues. Anyone who gets a message from me should consider themselves fortunate I have selected them above all others.

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By *irtydancer9418Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I struggle with confidence I never know what to write in the message most the time I think why bother because most have 100s in there mail box the chance off mine been seen anyway

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I don't do leagues. Anyone who gets a message from me should consider themselves fortunate I have selected them above all others."

Unfortunately not everyone has that confidence I struggle massively with my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do leagues. Anyone who gets a message from me should consider themselves fortunate I have selected them above all others."

Love that attitude x

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

All the time lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do leagues. Anyone who gets a message from me should consider themselves fortunate I have selected them above all others.

Love that attitude x

Truth of it is though I'm too timid to send a first message...

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x"

Or me don't get it either

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over a year ago

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x

Or me don't get it either

"
you must get it sometimes

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over a year ago

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x

Or me don't get it either

Yeah I think he’s a bit like marmite. Love him or hate him

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Good to see our wonderful class system still at work!

'Their better than me..'

'I am better than them

Glad I know my place!

I was chatting to a mate the other day and he (a builder)said he would never approach anyone on here who described themselves as 'professional'. Despite me reminding him that he is a professional builder..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x

Or me don't get it either

Yeah I think he’s a bit like marmite. Love him or hate him "
Good actor but small cock I mean size counts right

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over a year ago

Tom thumb

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Who’s Tom?

Hardy

He’s all yours, I don’t find him attractive. x

Or me don't get it either

you must get it sometimes "

The Tom Hardy thing .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bear

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