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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I have become a serial profile changer, I am mildly concerned......

How often do other people change their profiles? With me it seems to be once a week lol, and thats not because I am "unsuccessful" its just that I look at each one I write and think "thats not me" and then type another one, but a week later I am thinking "thats not me either!" and then I start again, is there a help group for people like me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to move my photos around but not my text

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only thing i do with mine is tweek it occasionly. Apart from that ive had the same profile since i joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think ive given mines a second look since i wrote it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I update the pics most weeks, but only add to the words seldomly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

then it is just me...... oh dear, CAB, I wonder if they can help....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like you changing your profile, they often make me smile. You have such a way with words. Keep it up

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

I'm off to see who Pauly90 is this week! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just added a bit to ours this week because I got some veris from people just I have met at chams dont want people going on war path as only veris 1 half of couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've changed mine a few times but think the original one was probably the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm off to see who Pauly90 is this week! :D"

This weeks efforts is enitled "Just a honest cock pic". Tune in next week for "I can make you cum by winking out you"....... This one is for the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never change ours, had the same one since we started. My OH did add an update but apart from that we leave it.

I'm not hung up on trying to add every little like and dislike, well I don't have anything negative,, would never have a long list of do's and do nots.

I don't see the point of people constantly closing down their profiles to open up a new one a week later with different usernames etc, and using the same pics.

But its up to the individual how they operate their profile. I do constantly update pics, so I suppose some people may wonder why. And if people wish to add more about themselves then its their business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We never change ours, had the same one since we started. My OH did add an update but apart from that we leave it.

I'm not hung up on trying to add every little like and dislike, well I don't have anything negative,, would never have a long list of do's and do nots.

I don't see the point of people constantly closing down their profiles to open up a new one a week later with different usernames etc, and using the same pics.

But its up to the individual how they operate their profile. I do constantly update pics, so I suppose some people may wonder why. And if people wish to add more about themselves then its their business. "

I, like you, have never understood the closing down of accounts, I have been on the same one since I started, but well, yes the text changes alot, but I am seeking a group to assist me in getting over this compulsion....

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I wish those that say 'new to this' but have been on for over a year would update theirs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I update mine often.. as sometimes I'm looking for random things.. other times something else

Just depends.. I need to find time this weekend to rewrite all our profiles.

Cali x

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Gosh Pauly you didn't even need to wink.... that is a fantastic profile, so don't change it too soon. Just a shame you live so far away and that you don't want to meet couples any more (they must have been mad and I hope they are hanging their heads in shame!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Gosh Pauly you didn't even need to wink.... that is a fantastic profile, so don't change it too soon. Just a shame you live so far away and that you don't want to meet couples any more (they must have been mad and I hope they are hanging their heads in shame!)

"

To be fair (to the couples), it really is a tricky one for a single guy, because, perhaps only one half of the couple wants to meet and then well.....

Look I have nothing against couples per se, but ALL of my let-downs have been with couples (many verified). I am not having a go, just taking myself out of that loop, afterall, weekends are precious. There are a million reasons why something gets cancelled, and I understand these reasons, couples have more "complications" in their lives, than, perhaps, a single guy has, so thats why I have decided to knock that on the head, its not a gripe, its just well, you know, me making a choice.

Thank you for the compliment, it is much appreciated

P xxx

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

I think you SHOULD change it every week Pauly, I don't think you need a group to stop you. I think you have a nice fan base and regular updates will keep them all entertained!

That's what I think anyway!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

This is the third time i have changed ours in the year and half ish we have been on here. Try update pics regular also, as you says you think of things and add them, then find its getting long winded. So good to start over again and condence it lol x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more! "

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that "

My comment was made with a tongue in my cheeks...made it hard to concerntrate.. sorry. Took two attempts due to typos

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that

My comment was made with a tongue in my cheeks...made it hard to concerntrate.. sorry. Took two attempts due to typos "

oooh whose tongue and which cheeks!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that

My comment was made with a tongue in my cheeks...made it hard to concerntrate.. sorry. Took two attempts due to typos

oooh whose tongue and which cheeks!"

Read my next book...a toy boy in my luggage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How cruel you all are, with tongues in cheeks and toyboys in luggae. I shall report you to the RSPCTB and have done.

Blessed are those of us that try, for at least in the act of trying we learn failure, with failure comes insight, with insight knowledge and with knowledge, wisdom.......um, shite......anyway, get your tongue out your bloody cheek and wind it round mine

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that

My comment was made with a tongue in my cheeks...made it hard to concerntrate.. sorry. Took two attempts due to typos

oooh whose tongue and which cheeks!

Read my next book...a toy boy in my luggage "

Hope its a wipe clean book with lots of pictures

Lisa

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

, " to tweak or not to tweak, thats my question.."

I'm a serial tweaker ... I read my text regularly, there are parts I'm not totally happy with, that may be a word, a sentence or a paragraph, I m of an opinion that if the text describes you at the time of writing and it continues to reflect you leave it alone, if you think there's a better word, sentence , paragraph or a re-write, tweak away,, ,....now anyone want a tweak, cos' I'm a tweaker and proud.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"I think I have become a serial profile changer, I am mildly concerned......

How often do other people change their profiles? With me it seems to be once a week lol, and thats not because I am "unsuccessful" its just that I look at each one I write and think "thats not me" and then type another one, but a week later I am thinking "thats not me either!" and then I start again, is there a help group for people like me?"

I don't know about a serial tweaker self help group, but I know of one that might help; the 'get on the M25 and look for a right turn club'

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I have become a serial profile changer, I am mildly concerned......

How often do other people change their profiles? With me it seems to be once a week lol, and thats not because I am "unsuccessful" its just that I look at each one I write and think "thats not me" and then type another one, but a week later I am thinking "thats not me either!" and then I start again, is there a help group for people like me?

I don't know about a serial tweaker self help group, but I know of one that might help; the 'get on the M25 and look for a right turn club'

Lol"

Sorry (and no offense), but I dont get it (its ok, I am quite thick really)

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I can spot a look at me post from 10 paces...yep, excellent vision. Don't blame you paul..us couples are shocking....horrid. wouldn't meet us meself

Oh and don't really change profile much but then its for new people really and we aren't looking for more!

To be fair, I never said that couples were horrid... but in my experience (and perhaps ONLY in my experience), things have been a little "unreliable", I am not having a dig, just making a choice

As for a "look at me" post.... of course it is, I dont even believe I tried to hide that

My comment was made with a tongue in my cheeks...made it hard to concerntrate.. sorry. Took two attempts due to typos

oooh whose tongue and which cheeks!

Read my next book...a toy boy in my luggage

Hope its a wipe clean book with lots of pictures

Lisa"

Oh excellent idea. Also scratch and sniff

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"How cruel you all are, with tongues in cheeks and toyboys in luggae. I shall report you to the RSPCTB and have done.

Blessed are those of us that try, for at least in the act of trying we learn failure, with failure comes insight, with insight knowledge and with knowledge, wisdom.......um, shite......anyway, get your tongue out your bloody cheek and wind it round mine"

Well that would be tricky....you don't meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed mine fairly recently for the first time since joining, and occasionally add updates for example right now im not meeting until the new year.

I am thinking of giving the profile an overhaul in the new year anyway, its a time i always reflect on what im looking for so a good time to do it i believe.

Pics get changed every couple of months, don't want to be accused of them being out of date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have become a serial profile changer, I am mildly concerned......

How often do other people change their profiles? With me it seems to be once a week lol, and thats not because I am "unsuccessful" its just that I look at each one I write and think "thats not me" and then type another one, but a week later I am thinking "thats not me either!" and then I start again, is there a help group for people like me?"

try Fabio?

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

M25, its a ring and all exits are on the left! Were there a self help group they would be as likely of success as a self help group dedicated to serial profile changers.

possible too convoluted.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


" Gosh Pauly you didn't even need to wink.... that is a fantastic profile, so don't change it too soon.

"

a huge +1 from me - sheer poetry - i would just on that profile!

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