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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

every man is attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Looking at your photos I am confident you would make me cum

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

every man is attracted to you "

Ha - I wish they were!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they like to please. I do

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

every man is attracted to you

Ha - I wish they were!! "

maybe not the blind ones lol x

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By *almon15Man
over a year ago

rh17

I would definitely cum u r very sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves.

And then when they become self conscious about it, it becomes even worse.

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Looking at your photos I am confident you would make me cum

Thanks!!

But, in all seriousness, does this happen because the man suddenly wishes he wasn’t there or could they popped a little blue pill!!! Rock solid - but after nearly 1.5hrs nothing, nada!! I’m obviously doing something wrong lol!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It could happen for any number of reasons OP and almost certainly not the ones you are thinking of - the fact they get hard would surely be an indication of their arousal and attraction to you.

Just like some women don't cum, or can only do so a certain way, the same applies to some men - it's just a question of finding what buttons you need to press sometimes and that's half the fun

I'd definitely not take it as a sign of anything about you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much wanking, or not enough. Can't quite remember which is also a sign of to much wanking or not enough

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

iv just cum from looking at your pics

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Don't take it too personally. Many women don't climax from meets. Why should men be any different. Sometimes it takes time to get in sync. Maybe he hadn't quite hit his rhythm with you, or was so busy concentrating on putting on a good performance that he was making sure you climaxed.

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Nerves.

And then when they become self conscious about it, it becomes even worse."

Was third time of meeting this guy. Mr G recons he may have taken viagra or wanked to last longer......but he was ok the first few times!! Happened a year or so ago with a friend of MrG - but we were d*unk so didn’t get quite so paranoid that time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. Too much wanking desensitises people so sex doesn’t do it. It’s why I abstain before meets just in case.

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid "

Mmmm, can’t see it being a health thing!! Only leaves the other option then lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the pressure to perform on here "must be able to fuck for 6 hours" etc, it is entirely possible that men are using delay creams, having a wank just before meeting etc etc.

Would you feel equally disappointed if a chap came within 5 minutes?

If they are genuinely hard for you, all is good.

If they are having to pop a pill to get hard, it is a problem they need to address.

If I was one of the guys meeting you? I would have the good grace to let nature takes it's course.

Bottom line, it isn't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum often. I prefer to make sure my partner is fully and completely satisfied. Not sure why, but it doesn't mean I enjoy the experience any less, most of my enjoyment is seeing my partners enjoyment

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"With all the pressure to perform on here "must be able to fuck for 6 hours" etc, it is entirely possible that men are using delay creams, having a wank just before meeting etc etc.

Would you feel equally disappointed if a chap came within 5 minutes?

If they are genuinely hard for you, all is good.

If they are having to pop a pill to get hard, it is a problem they need to address.

If I was one of the guys meeting you? I would have the good grace to let nature takes it's course.

Bottom line, it isn't you."

Awww - thank you!! Crikey - do people really want it for 6hrs!!

. I’d be sore lol.

We never have or set expectations. Just go with flow kind of guys....just feeling a lack of confidence recently and then that happens and was made to feel a bit shitty on Friday!! Made me even more paranoid that it’s me.......Poor Mr G hey, no one likes a nut job female!!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s often nerves or worries that get in the way - maybe he was worried about his performance, maybe you were giving him the feeling that he was disappointing you, maybe you were both trying too hard? Sometimes a bit of time out and doing something else to ease the tension can be all it takes. Don’t blame yourself or him, just be kind to each other and don’t forget that if it’s the third or more time that you have met than you may need to communicate more or take a break. People are funny peculiar and you have to give them space to be themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Looking at your photos think your extremely sexy, so please don’t think it’s you!

As a guy who has suffered twice!!! to get and maintain an erection while with a lady that I did fancy, it’s so frustrating for us guys. (Well it was for me) I can only assume that it was down to pressure I placed on myself to satisfy the lady, also one lady I thought was absolutely beautiful and this pressure was far to much!

Not sure if also in s few situations with MMF at club, I have also suffered through what I think to be down to another males presence?

Condoms also play a part, iv started to use skins as they are more sensitive. Tesco own brand are to thick for me and I can’t feel a thing! Lol

Think the answer is slow down, try to remove the pressure and plenty of foreplay. Some lady’s have expected me to just penetrate straight away and we’ll, I do prefer some play before hand.

Thanks my thoughts anyway. Not you, it’s us guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can get a little self-conscious sometimes (it is a bit like not being able to pee at the urinal, even when you’re desperate, I imagine.)

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes it happens to others but a lot of people wouldn't admit it..

As mentioned it can be a number of reasons such as, performance anxiety,pressure to perform, A guy can feel inadequate if the partner is stunning/handsome/confident/ seen as 'out of their league'.

For myself I have discovered I perform better with average looks rather than good looks..

Sex can still be mind blowing without cumming, I think we are conditioned to feel it's necessary..I like edging until I want to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nerves.

And then when they become self conscious about it, it becomes even worse."
I'd say this. X it is quite a lot of pressure for a guy on here x

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thanks guys!! It nice to see it from a male perspective sometimes!!

I’m old enough to know things just happen and sometimes we’re not in control of a situation even if we want to be!!

Nothing less sexy than a woman not confident in their own skin hey!! X

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Well it does happen that the other person doesn’t float your boat but looking at your pics that’s not your case.

but I had an issue with a very sexy hot t girl..who I really fancied ...but as she was sucking my cock she sorted spitting on my cock(sorry to be rude) it turned me off no end & tried & tried but just couldn’t as I had this spitting thought in my mind....hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After you’re lass thread about confidence I’d have thought the feedback you got there would have reassured you op.

Obviously not

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By *irthy73Man
over a year ago

stourport

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Hi Mrs G. Try not to worry so, easier said I know.

I’ve had great sex before now and not achieved climax.

And better then them not being able to control themselves and over too quick.

Your a very attractive lady from your pics, and I’m sure you’re an active participant and the guys enjoy their time with you.

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By *ninja000Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It could be a few things; unable to relax through nerves, or pressure. Possibly uncomfortable if rubbered up; don't take it personally. If he is a genuine lover he will put you first, and takes satisfaction in your satisfaction x

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"After you’re lass thread about confidence I’d have thought the feedback you got there would have reassured you op.

Obviously not

Mmmmm, not so good at taking compliments!! Mr G tells me off all the time.....and no, I’m not just looking for them to feed my ego!! Far from it, I promise!! And this happened on Friday, after the last thread - hence why making me even more paranoid!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could happen for any number of reasons OP and almost certainly not the ones you are thinking of - the fact they get hard would surely be an indication of their arousal and attraction to you.

Just like some women don't cum, or can only do so a certain way, the same applies to some men - it's just a question of finding what buttons you need to press sometimes and that's half the fun

I'd definitely not take it as a sign of anything about you though

Agreed. It happens to me on occasion. Useually involving a change during the ‘critical moment’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the 1st orgasm for me it take sometime befor i get round to cumming agen.( no limp dicks here).dosnt mean a gent isnt enjoying the time hes having

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Rather than worry about whether he orgasmed or not - how about looking at it another way? Did you have a good time and get pleasure from it? Did he seem to?

If the answer to both of those is "yes" then perhaps focus on that rather than worry about whether he cums or not.

The fact you've met this guy three times now must also tell you something if he keeps coming back for more?

In fact you must know him well enough by now to be able to talk to him about it and maybe ask if it bothered him not cumming? If he's anything like me and most other guys the answer will probably be no not at all

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Only person that could answer this is the guy.. he might not like his sex life being discussed

if you've had a good time (and if I've read right) you've met the guy more than once he must have enjoyed himself as well.. why worry..orgasm isn't everything for everyone.

I had a vasectomy a few years ago scar tissue has formed around some nerves so when I do orgasm it feels like I've been kicked in the nuts, I now because of the pain it induces rarely orgasm.. I still get great pleasure from meeting ladies having great sex and seeing and hearing them having fun.

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

This happened to me with a beautiful friend, I was massively turned on by her, but never came.

I'm not entirely sure why either, but it certainly wasn't because I found her unattractive.

The sex was great too...just no cum ( from me, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs G

You have fabulous legs, beautiful hands, luscious boobs and the most spankable bum - now cut the crap take a good look at yourself and say “I am a beautiful sexy desirable woman who loves sex, is good at it and any man in his right mind would want to ravish me right here and now” - I’m sure Mr G would agree with those sentiments - you’re a hot babe and I don’t ever say these things lightly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all at some stage. Happened once with someone i was with,dont know why... it just didnt happen.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Every time I've been in a club

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

How old is he?

Could have something to do with age, just saying....

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Mrs G

Thank you!!! X

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By *ekyllnHide OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"How old is he?

Could have something to do with age, just saying...."

At 40 I would hope not lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes has happened once to me so embarrassing they are a lovely couple and they still want to meet again lol

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

Passion4lust.

Your special arn't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on many factors for me. I take a lot longer to cum of I've had a few drinks and the downside there is the longer I go, the wetter she gets, the less stimulated I get abs so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passion4lust.

Your special arn't you. "

Not really no. So you wanna get personal do ya?? Fire away...lets do this

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

It was a rediculous Ill informed statement.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Usually just nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Looking at your photos I am confident you would make me cum

Thanks!!

blue pills can stop you coming!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Some of my playmates aren’t interested in cumming, they get hard very easily but their true joy is my pleasure.

Some men don’t want to cum because that means game over, the urge is sorted but what they want to do is carry on so holding back a cum means more play and more fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

It's usually nothing to do with the partner they are with. All sexual connections start and finish the mind so dependant on how tgey think depends on what happens. As has been said nerves, self conscious, repetive neg thoughts or actions, the number of people around or they're general psychological state. You arnt the problem honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a rediculous Ill informed statement. "

So why did you not just ignore it? You calling me "special" for it is more ridiculous...

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to cum quickly with women I wasn’t attracted to. I wasn’t bothered about it lasting and just wanted a release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality may not match the fantasy, people can see a picture and build up a scenario but then struggle when it happens differently, something they see or hear changes the way they thought it would be.

People are all different and things can change quickly.

I’d guess it’s not you but something on their side, did they end up really going for it so they would cum but then didn’t, pressure to perform from themselves can stop them orgasming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d blow my beans early doors with you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

I cant believe it. I am miles away and you have made me cum xx

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Let’s get to the facts on men’s ejaculation issues.

The three main and most common problems are:

premature ejaculation

delayed ejaculation

retrograde ejaculation

Search the NHS web site for details or just google.

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By *rodigalMan
over a year ago

sunderland

I take ages to cum always have sometimes needs a bit dirty talk or to speed up I get off on the lady getting pleasure so don't worry about it nerves play a massive part all have to get comfortable x Dan

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By *nverman67Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have no issues getting and maintaining erections and the reason I rarely cum is due to a couple of the meds I take. This has only been an issue on one meet but after explaining the situation all is normally great??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Were they single or male half of a couple. Was it at a club or private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he arranged a meet it's safe to say he was attracted to you, also he had no problem staying erect. This has happened to me a few years ago with an old girlfriend who was awesome in bed. I had just started taking tablets for anxiety and if anything they made me incredibly horny, however the downside was I really struggled to cum, which was no fun for either of us. It could be that he is on something similar.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid "

What a completely dumb reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply. "

Not really as i was speaking from my own experience that happened a couple of years ago. You dont understand at all.

If you didnt like my reply then you should just ignore it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply. "

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi"

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anti drepresants can delay cumming quite dramatically but not the ability to get or maintain and erection. So if he was taking anti drepesants and used viagra, he could likely maintain for a long time but not feel like cumming... doesn’t mean he wasn’t enjoying it.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i would cum for sure.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

Not really as i was speaking from my own experience that happened a couple of years ago. You dont understand at all.

If you didnt like my reply then you should just ignore it!!"

Whilst dumb *may* have been a little strong - your reply was ill informed at best in my opinion - you appeared to suggest that what the OP was asking about was down to one of only two things i.e. something wrong with her or health problems on the part of the guy.

As this thread has clearly shown there could be many reasons behind it from simply the guy holding back to any number of other things besides.

So to put it down to one of two things when you don't know the full details is, as I said, incredibly ill informed - not to mention insensitive being as you appear to suggest that the OP (who has already stated she's questioning her self) is one of those two reasons.

As for telling someone to ignore a post if they don't like it - it's a public forum where you have to be prepared to have things questioned if someone disagrees with an opinion you've offered, especially if that opinion is flawed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

This happens between us sometimes & when we play, no idea why. Mrs just benefits from the extra time and Mr reminds her of it on the times where he’s a little too keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Storm in a tea cup i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

I get this problem but its not an attraction thing. If I drink a lot I cant cum

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I don't usually cum at meets. Still enjoy them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

Not really as i was speaking from my own experience that happened a couple of years ago. You dont understand at all.

If you didnt like my reply then you should just ignore it!!

As this thread has clearly shown there could be many reasons behind it from simply the guy holding back to any number of other things besides.

Yayy..another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry OP..unfortunately i cant delete my pathetic and poitless opinions now.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience "

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive "

Yes i completely agree

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix. "

Oh whatever...bored now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Check their medication cabinet! That can affect it

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix.

Oh whatever...bored now!!"

And it seems a short attention span. So possibly ok for a quickie ( if desperate) but not an all nighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldnt be worried if they can't cum or evrn can't get erect as it is sometimes difficult to due to peer pressure. But you should be worried if he throws up after kissing you

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

As others have said there are many reasons why a guy may not cum, but it doesn't mean that you hare not attractive or that he doesn't fancy you. The fact he got hard means that there is attraction there. After that it could be a whole list of things, most of which have been mentioned such as nerves, anxiety, trying too much to impress (both parties), or some underlying medical problem that means cuming doesn't happen every time (and I'm no expert here, but I do know this happens).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix.

Oh whatever...bored now!!

And it seems a short attention span. So possibly ok for a quickie ( if desperate) but not an all nighter "

Haha...Keep stirring it up.

I apolagised to the OP for my opinions. I admit could have said my part better but hey ho

Time to end this now!

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix.

Oh whatever...bored now!!

And it seems a short attention span. So possibly ok for a quickie ( if desperate) but not an all nighter

Haha...Keep stirring it up.

I apolagised to the OP for my opinions. I admit could have said my part better but hey ho

Time to end this now!"

Is this a request or demand ?

As always there seems a lot of !!!!! Involved in your text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s one - is it a sign of a guy not being attracted to a women if they just can’t seem to cum!!!

Getting paranoid that there is something wrong with me and I’m just not doing it enough for them....happened twice now!!

Does it happen to anyone else?

Yes its a massive sign...or could be health problems on his side. One of those reasons im afraid

What a completely dumb reply.

I thought it was a good reply as one of many. How was it dumb?. Lexi

Maybe that’s the thing with forums, it’s hard to get way something’s intended.

Personally I read it as quite insulting and harsh.

Boohoo! Get over it now please. Was just my opinion from a past experience

Maybe best to apply your own advice. If not happy with a reply then just ignore.

The style of your replies just confirms my thoughts of your attitude. Overly aggressive

Yes i completely agree

And a little thin skinned with confidence issues. Hence the aggression when challenged.

Generally not a nice mix.

Oh whatever...bored now!!

And it seems a short attention span. So possibly ok for a quickie ( if desperate) but not an all nighter

Haha...Keep stirring it up.

I apolagised to the OP for my opinions. I admit could have said my part better but hey ho

Time to end this now!

Is this a request or demand ?

As always there seems a lot of !!!!! Involved in your text. "

Do what you like lol. Im past caring now. Go single someone else out.

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