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By *abybe OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Hi there, so anyone pregnant at the moment or trying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope. i just look it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope. i just look it "

me too

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Might seem strange to ask.. But why are you asking the question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might seem strange to ask.. But why are you asking the question ?"

maybe she wants to find someone to give her a baby?

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By *abybe OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Im not looking, im a woman its not difficult to find a man to do that!

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

We've been trying for almost 2 1/2 years

*Her*

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

ive been told i can be very trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not looking, im a woman its not difficult to find a man to do that!"
so why you asking ? There was a thing i read in a mag saying some woman do come on sites like this at times if thay cant with there man i think some will do what ever it take. I know some woman who have been years having a go at having a baby and no joy .

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By *abybe OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Im pregnant, and thought could do a bit of a role call. It must be horrid wanting children and being unable to concieve...

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Im pregnant, and thought could do a bit of a role call. It must be horrid wanting children and being unable to concieve..."

AHHHH !!! So now ends the confusion Maybe a better concieved original topic message would of helped .. hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im pregnant, and thought could do a bit of a role call. It must be horrid wanting children and being unable to concieve..."

Congratulations sweetie, I hope you are very happy and all goes well for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we are trying .ive had kids from my ex hubby .ad dont have any.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Congrats _abybe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not looking, im a woman its not difficult to find a man to do that!so why you asking ? There was a thing i read in a mag saying some woman do come on sites like this at times if thay cant with there man i think some will do what ever it take. I know some woman who have been years having a go at having a baby and no joy ."

ive been approached by a couple in this situation! had to give them a quick swift 'thanks but no thanks!'

when i have kids they will be in my life everyday, not the kind of person to splash his spunk around willy nilly for all takers!! and if anybody does get my spunk it'll be down their throat or nicely wrapped up in a condom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im pregnant, and thought could do a bit of a role call. It must be horrid wanting children and being unable to concieve..."

big congratulations to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not looking, im a woman its not difficult to find a man to do that!so why you asking ? There was a thing i read in a mag saying some woman do come on sites like this at times if thay cant with there man i think some will do what ever it take. I know some woman who have been years having a go at having a baby and no joy .

ive been approached by a couple in this situation! had to give them a quick swift 'thanks but no thanks!'

when i have kids they will be in my life everyday, not the kind of person to splash his spunk around willy nilly for all takers!! and if anybody does get my spunk it'll be down their throat or nicely wrapped up in a condom!"

to be honest i think giving a childless couple the opportunity to have a child is a very selfless thing to do

its not different to surrogacy and look how many, other wise childless couples have given children loving homes thro that

but

and this is the main thing

if done thro the proper channels, not shagging your way thor a sex site and deffo not to make money from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im pregnant, and thought could do a bit of a role call. It must be horrid wanting children and being unable to concieve..."
kisses xxxx and i hope it all go well for you x Babys are what make the world go around and you make the most of it as it will be all go when the babys here xx

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

ive done sperm donating. before im on sperm donors website. a.i only im a single dad of 4 grown up kids of ny own and on another swingers site i was asked if i would i dont think its odd people using swingers sites to get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love another baby lol but will never do it again unless i was married xxx

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By *picyMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare

yea wer pregnant at d mo 3months not tryin 2 long so consider ourselves lucky, wer told it would b difficult to conceive so tried out some acupuncture recommended thru a friend an bingo, both over d moon.

but do feel for ppl tryin long time its alot of pressure on relationship

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am neither pregnant or trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love another baby lol but will never do it again unless i was married xxx"

Bit broody myself recently but a few hours with my 3 reminds me that I REALLY dont want anymore!

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock


"I would love another baby lol but will never do it again unless i was married xxx

Bit broody myself recently but a few hours with my 3 reminds me that I REALLY dont want anymore! "

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By *odic69Man
over a year ago

london


"Hi there, so anyone pregnant at the moment or trying?"

I think some couple who can't have concive come on swinger site to try and get pregnant. I think they would want a baby without the father involve, thats why they have bareback gangbangs so nobody would know who is the father.

I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant."

Are those the only 2 options available?

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I would love another baby lol but will never do it again unless i was married xxx

Bit broody myself recently but a few hours with my 3 reminds me that I REALLY dont want anymore! "
the same here...2 of my neighbors are preggers at the mo and I am quite happy to look after theirs when they come along and hand them back...my 3 are enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would sooner poke my eyes out with hot knifes than get pregnant again lol

ive done my bit, sod that lol

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By *landleeCouple
over a year ago

near hull

got three kids so dont need a sperm donator here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, so anyone pregnant at the moment or trying?

I think some couple who can't have concive come on swinger site to try and get pregnant. I think they would want a baby without the father involve, thats why they have bareback gangbangs so nobody would know who is the father.

I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant."

Nice to see some people have standards!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"i would sooner poke my eyes out with hot knifes than get pregnant again lol

ive done my bit, sod that lol"

Correct me if I'm wrong but, from the tone of your message, I'm guessing.... and it is just a guess, a wild stab in the dark (so to speak!)... that you don't want any more kids?

Is that a fair assumption to make...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would sooner poke my eyes out with hot knifes than get pregnant again lol

ive done my bit, sod that lol

Correct me if I'm wrong but, from the tone of your message, I'm guessing.... and it is just a guess, a wild stab in the dark (so to speak!)... that you don't want any more kids?

Is that a fair assumption to make...? "

i bloody dont no

my eldest has told me i cant have anymore anyway because at my age it would come out downs syndrome

i mean honestly what a thing to say, dont you just love kids

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

Are those the only 2 options available? "

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

*Her*

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

Are those the only 2 options available?

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

*Her*"

Rubbish - kidnapping someone else's kid is never an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather have a dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife had a gangbang 4 guys 2 women and fell preg last year

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"my wife had a gangbang 4 guys 2 women and fell preg last year"

From the gangbang? Was this intentional? Were you 2 already trying for a baby?

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

Are those the only 2 options available?

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

*Her*

Rubbish - kidnapping someone else's kid is never an option."

Don't you DARE rubbish my opinion!

When you've walked a mile.....

Some people need to realise what a sensitive issue this is, and behave/speak accordingly. Several people have spoken in this thread without thinking.

*Her*

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i would gladly help any lady or couple as being a single dad of 4 i know the joy kids can bring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are countless thousands of parents who would gladly give you their teenagers, I don't think there's any particular need to steal a younger one when the agony of bringing a child to that delightful age can be lessened......

Wolf

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

We are kind of trying but then again we may need a helping had from dr fertility like we did with baby number two. I find it strange and admit I do judge pregnant and swinging but only the worry of STD and what it could do to your baby/fertility. Then ageing I know men that find it so so sexy when someone is pregnant.

I would love to do egg donation and hubby would do spurt donation but two of our three children have/had disabilities so we would be unable to do it.

I think it is an amazing thing to do but could be very danger use on hear. When the csa come knocking because some random has put your name down when she said you were just helping out

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i think. i think helping some one giving the gift of life is one of the nicest things you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

Are those the only 2 options available?

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

*Her*

Rubbish - kidnapping someone else's kid is never an option.

Don't you DARE rubbish my opinion!

When you've walked a mile.....

Some people need to realise what a sensitive issue this is, and behave/speak accordingly. Several people have spoken in this thread without thinking.

People are brainwashed into thinking having a kid is the be all and end all.

*Her*"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't hide the fact I want children I was pregnant but sadly it was not meant to be.. However not sure I am going to meet the father on a swinging site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would gladly help any lady or couple as being a single dad of 4 i know the joy kids can bring"

Who are you kidding?

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


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People are brainwashed into thinking having a kid is the be all and end all.

"

Please don't negate my feelings just because it's something you don't want. No one has brainwashed me.

Wanting a child is a primal desire for most women. It's why we were put here.

Don't tell me i've been brainwashed when every fibre in my body longs for something I can't have. For me, it really IS the be all and end all.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not why we are put here. You need help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would gladly help any lady or couple as being a single dad of 4 i

Wknow the joy kids can bring"

Well any idiot can do that.

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"i would gladly help any lady or couple as being a single dad of 4 i

Wknow the joy kids can bring

Well any idiot can do that."

Apparently not.

I find your posting insensitive, bordering on abusive.

You carry on showing your true colours. I hope you feel better kicking someoe when they're pretty much as low as they can get.

I'm NOT the one who needs help.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for people like you.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"i would gladly help any lady or couple as being a single dad of 4 i

Wknow the joy kids can bring

Well any idiot can do that.

Apparently not.

I find your posting insensitive, bordering on abusive.

You carry on showing your true colours. I hope you feel better kicking someoe when they're pretty much as low as they can get.

I'm NOT the one who needs help.

*Her*"

I got to say I understand your point.. All I ever wanted was a baby I fell pregnant the man did a runner and I lost the baby. the yerning since then for a baby has been over whelming to the point I needed to speak to someone about it.. Its normal to feel like it... xx

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

Who the he'll do you think you are you offensive and very negative. Having a child is amazing and we are hear for this perpes you have no idea how we as women feel and do not feel sorry for us I think it is you I feel sorry for. The magic of becoming a mother to most is pure happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo hoo

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i feel for anyone who cant have children as i know they bring great joy

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes for the simple minded of course"

no not everyone wants children and certainly .its also no more right to want children than not to want them !! its purely what is right for that indervidual . certainly no reason to belittle people just because their point of view regards children differs from yours . theres no wrong or right just preference .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I suppose it would be better than going to kidnap a child and leave a family heart broken. But I don't think I would knowingly do a gangbang so the woman want to get pregnant.

Are those the only 2 options available?

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

*Her*

Rubbish - kidnapping someone else's kid is never an option.

Don't you DARE rubbish my opinion!

When you've walked a mile.....

Some people need to realise what a sensitive issue this is, and behave/speak accordingly. Several people have spoken in this thread without thinking.

sorry but lets re join the real world!!! under NO CERCUMSTANCE is kidnapping a child as you cant have children EVER an option ! you talk of sensativity , how insensative is it taking another persons flesh and blood away from them ! try walking a mile in THAT persons shoes before making such statments .

i myself had great issues concieving and took meny years and lots of tests ect ect before i was blessed with a daughter . so i know how heart breaking it is to want a child and not be able to have one when others seem to pop children out like peas !but how much more heartbreaking is it to loose a child ! there will be people on here whos child has died , do you think they will see your post as sensative ?? i think not.

*Her*"

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Not only did you mis quote, you mis read.

I never advocated stealing a child for one second, just pointed out that for some, it can seem like there are only a few options left (there was another option in the statement I quoted, you just chose to ignore that one)

I lost a baby one month, one week and one day ago so don't tell me I don't know how those people might feel.

You may have struggled for your child but you have one. Some of us may never have that.

I'm bowing out of this thread now as it's too painful but I hope some read it and understand a little of the turmoil infertile couples can go through.

*Her*

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

whats to misquote or misread ...

To some couples, who have exhausted all other options and being childless is NOT an option, then yes.

you can see why people will see and read it that way .

yes i have a daughter now but was in your positon myself so i do know exactly whats its like .thats why i posted

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I'm with Sensual on this one.

Someone posted something (admittedly it was a bit random) saying using swinging to get pregnant is better than kidnapping a child. To me, that was a straw man argument so I questioned whether those were the only 2 options available. It was to that post that you said for couples who wanted children and had explored all other avenues then yes, those were the only options available.

Maybe you misread the posts or misinterpreted them... I dunno. I sincerely hope you didn't really mean to condone kidnapping someone's child. That's what I was rubbishing... nothing else.

I've never experienced what it's like for couple to have a miscarriage (although I saw the emotional scars it left Mrs ex-_arambar). Nor the heartache of trying unsuccessfully to conceive. But even I'm not that much of an insensitive cock to ridicule someone over that.

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