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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best meets I've have had have been with much younger. Just my personal experience, but younger guys tend to be well mannered and respectful, not overflowing with confidence that more experienced men sometimes are. It does depend on the guy though.

Biggest difference was probably half my age. (19 when I was 38). We had a great night, a proper laugh, and the sex was very decent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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The youngest man I’ve met from fab was 30. Was a very good meet, we continued to meet for about eight months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a 19 year old when I was 25. That was a hot meet. She was skinny and so tight. Meet went more than well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 or 14 years younger, can’t quite recall

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met a 19 year old when I was 25. That was a hot meet. She was skinny and so tight. Meet went more than well "

Not to denigrate your post, but the age difference between me and this guy is almost the same as your age in that meet.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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miss lilly think you know we have a 36 year gap,[been together for years]i k am a great admirer of you .you are stunning fuck age .you could be with a 26 plus guy and you would not look out of place .just do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is why I’m freaking out a bit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex partner was 15 years older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly meet people half my age, and its all good fun.

I suppose it helps i am 51 going on 25 myself, lol.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

15 years both ways.

Each had their advantages.

I’m a strong believer in the idea that if I find you attractive then age and any other label is irrelevant.

Have fun, indulge and enjoy. Pleasure and be pleased.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"15 years both ways.

Each had their advantages.

I’m a strong believer in the idea that if I find you attractive then age and any other label is irrelevant.

Have fun, indulge and enjoy. Pleasure and be pleased. "

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

He was 29 I was 54 ... it was awesome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly don't think about what others say or think, your having fun and you certainly not hurting anyone so do what makes you feel good. I used to get judged because my ex was older than me but at the end of the day she made me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 34 and have a 24yo fwb, i usually go for older, at 21 i had afew meets with a 49 year old she was incredibly sexy and experienced with bags of confidence. Ages just a number, i wouldnt go younger than 10 years though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t care about ages, all about attitude....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he treats you with respect and you have a great time then why worry

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

One of the hottest and sexiest experiences ive ever had (not from Fab) is with a woman 19 years older than me. I was 27 at the time and she was my violin teacher. She seduced me and i loved every single minute of it. We dated for 2 years after that and she was simply fantastic in the bedroom. Still look back on that experience with fondness. Tigerli!y don’t worry about it for a second! trust me - from his point of view it definitely adds a fantastic dimension to the whole experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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OP go for it! Having gone with someone so much younger a few weeks back at a club I highly recommend it. Staying power was amazing!

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By *anny0106abcMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I can do best service for you

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By *anny0106abcMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I met a sexy girl last week she 22 year old she was very happy and told me my bf never make me happy like you lol xx

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

he was 16 yrs younger and a fantastic meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No meets below the age of 28

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I've met women 20 years older than me. But I think once you're in your late 20s people don't get hung up on the age gap thing as your emotionally mature enough by that age and know how to hold a decent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.......

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In all honesty, young guys turning up for a meet with you aren't considering what you might consider your flaws or insecurities, a younger guy will be so turned on by the thought of meeting you, an older attractive woman, that he'll adore every inch of you.

Own your look, own your sexuality, and you'll floor him with you beauty

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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28 years.

Although he’d said 27 on his profile and was actually only 25. But I was sold on him by the time we found out!

Went very well btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since my last divorce at the age of 40 (from a man, incidentally, 13 years my junior) I have met men 10-30 years younger with no problems at all. Recently at a club I played with a man 40 years younger, though didn't find out till too late! These days my preferred age for a man is 45, though I remain flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 30 he was 19 and yes the boy had stamina x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since my last divorce at the age of 40 (from a man, incidentally, 13 years my junior) I have met men 10-30 years younger with no problems at all. Recently at a club I played with a man 40 years younger, though didn't find out till too late! These days my preferred age for a man is 45, though I remain flexible "

45 years old is my sweet spot for meets generally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here "

I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here

I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women."

On what factual basis do you make that comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here

I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women.

On what factual basis do you make that comment? "

I’d probably agree from experience.

Even though I’m looking for older men a lot of the men who message me seem to send the “I’m looking for a younger woman” line, but then when I look at their profile their age preference is set at 18-99, so they probably tweak their messag a bit to match the person they’re sending it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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A lot!

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I've met a guy who was 17 years younger, knew him for a few years away from the site before actually meeting. We stay in touch

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By *30FetMan
over a year ago

Bucharest

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By *30FetMan
over a year ago

Bucharest

I do love matures ...they know exactly what they want ...

Bigger the better

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

The youngest was 22 i was in my 40s and early 50s most of the ones i met were nice, the others who were younger were in their 30s and 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older people xz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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38 years. Just enjoy it. They love the older lady lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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15 years and very good met for a year

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

The best advice might be from someone who had a meet with a 44 year old woman when I was 25. You could tell she was older but she was hot and well up for it. They whole thing was very kinky. Basically he knows you are older and likes it. So don’t be self conscious and go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, not from fan, but within a local swinger's group Fem 25 Male 27/so about 30 years difference for hubby, 23 for Mrs.

It went okay, they were new to our group, she was the more experienced and enthusiastic of that couple, he seemed a tad over awed and quite jealous, it ended a quite nice experience for us all, and the age difference didn't matter one iota.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest I met on here was 26.got sick before meet because I thought he wouldn't like me but ended up meeting him few times

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here

I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women.

On what factual basis do you make that comment?

I’d probably agree from experience.

Even though I’m looking for older men a lot of the men who message me seem to send the “I’m looking for a younger woman” line, but then when I look at their profile their age preference is set at 18-99, so they probably tweak their messag a bit to match the person they’re sending it to.

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I obviously don’t search single male profiles so I can’t comment, however the number of single women and couples profile that request younger athletic men is significant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to play with a couple of guys xz

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

I'm 44. I have a friend who is 27 I meet from Time to time from here. Ages are never mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number in my opinion. If the attraction is there and you both equally want each other as much. Makes for an amazing meet.

Still yet to meet someone around my age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for this! Wish me luck!

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Think for me it goes on the person your talking with, I don’t really look into ages.

All goes on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met with a 27 year old. She is older headed but has the body of someone younger.

I don’t see age as a problem either way...it’s about the connection you have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met with a 27 year old. She is older headed but has the body of someone younger.

I don’t see age as a problem either way...it’s about the connection you have.

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Yeah. I have the body of someone older..

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

He was 23 I'm 39.

16 year gap and didn't worry me at all, I prefer younger guys generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 41 and chatting with a young lady of 24 with regards to meeting at some point. As long as your both happy and comfortable just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the attraction of younger firmer flesh but there always seems to be this issue regarding the stamina of older men....I may be unusual but I’ve always enjoyed longer sessions, 3 or 4 hours as a rule, and the only trouble I have is occasional cramp and maybe not coming as often as a younger chap but there’s plenty of life in the old fella yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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You may be fulfilling his older owman fantasy but so what? He obviously fancies you. He will obviously be very turned on when he meets you. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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When I was 19 and living in London I was seeing a 50 year old woman for 6 months. She taught me a lot lol. She loved my young stamina. In them days I could very quickly get another hard on after cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met with a 69 year old man when I was 18.

He bragged about how great he was at oral & it was quite the turn on hearing about it so we ended up meeting, his bragging was completely spot on & he looked early 50s! Quite the experience that was.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

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My experience is they have not been as good as the young men I met in my youth - I don't think their age is against them, but maybe their 'porn education' is.

But, having said that, my oldest veri is from a young French guy 30 years my junior, and he was one of my best fab meets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get the attraction of younger firmer flesh but there always seems to be this issue regarding the stamina of older men....I may be unusual but I’ve always enjoyed longer sessions, 3 or 4 hours as a rule, and the only trouble I have is occasional cramp and maybe not coming as often as a younger chap but there’s plenty of life in the old fella yet "

I have had no complaints about my mid-40s to early 50s meets, and I require men with stamina. From my experience that is a perception only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.

How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?

My experience is they have not been as good as the young men I met in my youth - I don't think their age is against them, but maybe their 'porn education' is.

But, having said that, my oldest veri is from a young French guy 30 years my junior, and he was one of my best fab meets! "

This man was very highly recommended by a female friend so I’m not anticipating a rubbish, mock-porn experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he’s younger or the same age as

My kids...not going there, just would feel a bit wrong. (21 by the way)

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer meeting an older lady, I am 41, oldest was 65. Was a great meet too. Taught me a few things.

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By *onysp654Man
over a year ago

Loddington

The youngest I've ever met has been 5 years younger

Not sure the older man thing is as popular as everyone thinks if your over 45 .. as that seems to be the limit on a lot of profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 yrs old which was a 21 yr age gap and it wasn’t the best meet to be honest, which is why have a preferred age range on my profile.

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