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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all just wanted to know if its just me or not but no one has ever made me cum from a blow job not unless ive helped them out by playing till im almost there then they come and finish me off.

Do many guys have this same problem?

Have many women experienced this with a guy they have played with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same mate

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You need her to put in good shaft action

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By *uyana1971Man
over a year ago

nelson

I have the same problem.

My first proper sexual partner told me that if I came during a blow job I would never get it again.

I think I have only cum twice from a blow job since then.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

A small number of guys have asked to use my gloryhole as they have been unable to come through mouth to cock work..If you still come through penetration, does it matter?

I can assure you your not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to unblock the 'mental block'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, I just can’t no matter how hard I try! Wanking and fucking no problem, blowjobs = no chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop giving blow jobs,see if that helps

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Them days

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"You need to unblock the 'mental block' "

Know thyself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a young lover like you

He couldn't cum either. Too stressed in his case. Trying to cum!

It took a few sessions. A prostate massage whilst he was fucking my face

Now he cums easily

I kid you not

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Only once from a bj but it was the best I’ve ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve known a couple of men to say it, and not in a ‘would you like to cure me of my problem?’ kind of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally a high percentage of people aren’t that great at bjs sadly.

Then one day you’ll find someone who just sends you into orbit after 3 mins. Prostate massage and ball fondling goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I didn't know this was a thing... It has the opposite effect! It's intense when you cum into a girls mouth. I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made 2 guys cum recently with a blowjob!

I'm so proud

I feel like getting a plaque & have names & dates engraved on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t see it as a problem. I’ve onky cum a handful of times from bj. Prob because I love to cum fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is to find someone who genuinely loves to give a BJ.

Some people have good skills but they’re doing it for your enjoyment, which can make you feel a little anxious about cumming. If the giver is clearly enjoying it too, that will help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok seems it happens to more men than I thought.

Ive had some fantastic ones over the years plus a lot of the time blow jobs feel better than wanking and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's surprisingly hard to cum from just oral. But alot depends on the moment, the chemistry and the technique

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you need to?"

Not really but would be nice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression that for cocks which are accustomed to the death grip of the porn wank a mouth doesn’t provide enough constriction or stimulation. Is this the case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression that for cocks which are accustomed to the death grip of the porn wank a mouth doesn’t provide enough constriction or stimulation. Is this the case?"

Not in my case. I think that, often the problem is, just as I get close and it starts to get really intense, she has a habit of changing what she's doing, changing the tempo, or taking a break. It's amazing up to a point, but, when your close, it can be a little frustrating. Slow, steady and even, it's the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression that for cocks which are accustomed to the death grip of the porn wank a mouth doesn’t provide enough constriction or stimulation. Is this the case?"

Yes. Men who are used to wanking to porn obvisouly have grip that suits them. I also cant cum from blow jobs. Been accustomed to porn

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Crape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me either

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

I'm 64 and I do not come while having a blow job. But a couple of years ago, there was this couple at gems camp site. She was lying face down on what you might call a specially gym horse, and she was kneeling on a box, if you can picture it, with her husband fucking her from behind. Her chin was just about resting on the end of the gym horse at crotch hight. I was watching her sucking another guy off, when he pulled away, and left the room. I moved in closer, and dangled my dick in front of her. She took a hold of it, and pulled me in closer, and proceeded to suck me off. She was so good at sucking, it felt like I was fucking a tight virgin even with me standing up. She brought me to an orgasm. and swallowed the lot. I looked at her husband and said ''You lucky sod, to have such an attractive woman, and that can suck cock so amazingly''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression that for cocks which are accustomed to the death grip of the porn wank a mouth doesn’t provide enough constriction or stimulation. Is this the case?

Not in my case. I think that, often the problem is, just as I get close and it starts to get really intense, she has a habit of changing what she's doing, changing the tempo, or taking a break. It's amazing up to a point, but, when your close, it can be a little frustrating. Slow, steady and even, it's the way."

Noted John. Like your Kik addy!

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I have never had anyone make me cum just from a blow job and only a few times from just hand job. I enjoy both a lot but it's not enough to make me cum. My wife turns me on like hell but I still last a while. Maybe it's because she's so bloody sexy and I can still last more than 30 seconds LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Noted John. Like your Kik addy!"

Your welcome to use it, any time you like. Happy to swap tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, a skilled Woman can always make me come with her BJ skills

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By *omeFreeMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"The key is to find someone who genuinely loves to give a BJ.

Some people have good skills but they’re doing it for your enjoyment, which can make you feel a little anxious about cumming. If the giver is clearly enjoying it too, that will help."

This. The mental aspect is vital. Sometimes when I'm close I imagine a guy from one of our meets behind her and about to shoot into her or even someone presenting me with a cock to suck and it sends me over the edge. You might say you shouldn't need to imagine anything but hey, it makes it amazing...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I always assumed it was a trick to get women to say I'll prove that you can !

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