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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it realistic to look for a regular partner for me and my husband through swinging or should we look else where? We’ve started looking into polyamory, which appeals to us; having a bi guy join us in our relationship as a sexy friend. Most often the NSA tag seems the norm, where as we feel we’d actually like a few strings attached. A and R

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If the forums are to be believed you are in the right place. A very high proportion of contributors say they want more than nsa.

I don't know much about polyamory, maybe there are other sites aimed specifically at people like you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, the NSA and not wanting seems at odd with swinging. We’ve looked around for sites for polyamory without much luck (so far). The norm there seems to be 2 females and a male. Where as we are looking for and extra male to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the last few poly relationships i had i fell into them, wasn't off here (FL was) and happened over time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a regular fwb. He stays with us most weekends and we have lots of fun in and out of the bedroom. Just recently had our first vacation abroad with him too, it was fabulous.

Amongst all the dreamers on here, we found a diamond, maybe you can too. Took us a long time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fl? "

Check your PM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a regular fwb. He stays with us most weekends and we have lots of fun in and out of the bedroom. Just recently had our first vacation abroad with him too, it was fabulous.

Amongst all the dreamers on here, we found a diamond, maybe you can too. Took us a long time though."

Thank you, that sounds what we are looking for. And it’s good to hear it can be found, even it can take some time.

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What's the story with polyamory, wouldn't you like to know.

(sung to the ballamory theme tune)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the err tuneful response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a regular fwb. He stays with us most weekends and we have lots of fun in and out of the bedroom. Just recently had our first vacation abroad with him too, it was fabulous.

Amongst all the dreamers on here, we found a diamond, maybe you can too. Took us a long time though.

Thank you, that sounds what we are looking for. And it’s good to hear it can be found, even it can take some time. "

You’re welcome, hope you find what you’re looking for. If you’d like some tips on ing out the dross, even those that think they’re clever and come across well, PM us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OkCupid has a significant polyamory community using it to look for third parties..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we looked at that site and a few others that didn’t seem show your profile as a couple. Worth another look after your recommendation though thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it realistic to look for a regular partner for me and my husband through swinging or should we look else where? We’ve started looking into polyamory, which appeals to us; having a bi guy join us in our relationship as a sexy friend. Most often the NSA tag seems the norm, where as we feel we’d actually like a few strings attached. A and R"

If you take your time getting to know people on here you will find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the reply, sound advice. Hopefully we can build the trust and understanding to do that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That sounds great. Just need to find a partner first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes indeed. Careful choosing needed.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

Best place to find a “third wheel” is probably OkCupid (lots of bi and monogamist people there) unless you have a particularly kink, in which case FetLife is probably the best place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, OKcupid looks good but doesn’t seem to let us signup as a couple? Or have we got it wrong?

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