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"Make it compulsory...? "Lol I hear you  | |||
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"I wish I was still 18  "we are still 18+change...... | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......"I’m 18+3 | |||
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"Why is everyone so in to them though" I'm not. Why are you into them? | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " I think the same about 40 year olds meeting and playing off fab. What a strange question. | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " I hope they have a fabulous time | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3"18 + 14 lol | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature " I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21  | |||
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"Wouldn't meet one, as I'm getting older I can't tell the difference between an 18 year old and a 15 year old. They still look like children " Yep hear you there. Slightly scary looking at the youngsters though as they all try to look older. Certainly an age thing for me. I like a more sophisticated woman, but the youth (in a legal sense) is still good to observe | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3"that will do for me  be like a extra gym session  | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3
that will do for me be like a extra gym session "‘That will do’?! Brilliant | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3
that will do for me be like a extra gym session
‘That will do’?! Brilliant "in the nicest possible way of course *hugs icon  x | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3
that will do for me be like a extra gym session
‘That will do’?! Brilliant
in the nicest possible way of course *hugs icon x" | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3
that will do for me be like a extra gym session
‘That will do’?! Brilliant
in the nicest possible way of course *hugs icon x
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x " Guess I would question why you are judging them and why you think of your children when arranging sex meets. I've always found it odd when people bring their children's ages into it, that's a very weird association to make. I just decide if I like the look of the person and how they come across and if I'd be attracted to them. | |||
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"Why is everyone so in to them though I'm not. Why are you into them? " I've not been "into" an 18 year old, since I was 24! | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x Guess I would question why you are judging them and why you think of your children when arranging sex meets. I've always found it odd when people bring their children's ages into it, that's a very weird association to make. I just decide if I like the look of the person and how they come across and if I'd be attracted to them. " Someone will answer this better than me. But we've always said "no one younger than our kids " it just doesn't seem right. I know it's a sex site but we still have lines we don't cross. People that young IMO should be out in the real world, not looking for it on here. | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x Guess I would question why you are judging them and why you think of your children when arranging sex meets. I've always found it odd when people bring their children's ages into it, that's a very weird association to make. I just decide if I like the look of the person and how they come across and if I'd be attracted to them. " I’m going to assume that you have no children of your own. And indeed it is after all ‘horses for courses’ etc but just not our preference. Our daughter is 18 and has friends that are the same age but when you see them and hear them chatting etc, you come to realise that they are still ‘children’ due to their naivety and lack of life experiences. As much as the law states that they are of legal age, I find it morally wrong and quite predatory in a way. Just my opinion. Ed | |||
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"Why is everyone so in to them though" Everyone is a bit of a sweeping statement. Give me maturity a body that has lived and a wicked smile any day.  | |||
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"Are there any genuine 18yo girls on here? Think some are old blokes just touting for cock pics! " Yes, there is a few. Not many mind you | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3"And a very nice 18+3 you are x | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
we are still 18+change......
I’m 18+3
And a very nice 18+3 you are x"Thanks | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x Guess I would question why you are judging them and why you think of your children when arranging sex meets. I've always found it odd when people bring their children's ages into it, that's a very weird association to make. I just decide if I like the look of the person and how they come across and if I'd be attracted to them. I’m going to assume that you have no children of your own. And indeed it is after all ‘horses for courses’ etc but just not our preference. Our daughter is 18 and has friends that are the same age but when you see them and hear them chatting etc, you come to realise that they are still ‘children’ due to their naivety and lack of life experiences. As much as the law states that they are of legal age, I find it morally wrong and quite predatory in a way. Just my opinion. Ed" ^^^^ this  | |||
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! " Well said - see my comment re "jail bait"  | |||
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! " It’s so easy to tell the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old. I looked older than 15 at 15, but nowhere near 18. You could TELL I was 15. I hate it when men use that as an excuse. I get messages from men on Facebook asking how old my 15 year old sister is. When I tell them, they said ‘aw I thought so, but she looks older’ 
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"I wish I was still 18 "I'd hate to be 18 again! I like myself as a person so much more now x | |||
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"I wish I was still 18
I'd hate to be 18 again! I like myself as a person so much more now x "I’m only 21 but I had so much less responsibility at 18
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! It’s so easy to tell the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old. I looked older than 15 at 15, but nowhere near 18. You could TELL I was 15. I hate it when men use that as an excuse. I get messages from men on Facebook asking how old my 15 year old sister is. When I tell them, they said ‘aw I thought so, but she looks older’
"Maybe its easy to tell where you are but round here it's impossible. I feel really sorry for some guys-they can get in a lot of trouble. | |||
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! It’s so easy to tell the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old. I looked older than 15 at 15, but nowhere near 18. You could TELL I was 15. I hate it when men use that as an excuse. I get messages from men on Facebook asking how old my 15 year old sister is. When I tell them, they said ‘aw I thought so, but she looks older’
Maybe its easy to tell where you are but round here it's impossible. I feel really sorry for some guys-they can get in a lot of trouble."If you’re unsure of someone’s age, ask. Although it does wind me up when 14,15 year olds go to nightclubs underage, go home with 18, 19 year olds and then brag about it. That lad could get into trouble, why wouldn’t they assume you’re 18?! But always better to ask. Can’t be too careful, and girls are getting better and better at makeup. And so many men use ‘but she looked older’ as an excuse | |||
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! " Fair point, but that's a different question, we're working on the assumption that the 18 year olds are actually 18. And to be honest, I can't see what benefit it would be to them coming on here and lying about their age to do so. It's not exactly difficult to find more suitable hunting grounds for sex when you're that sort of age. And yes, woe betide any one who gets caught out by deceitful jail bait, whatever their gender. | |||
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"Im not a fan tbh, i think there should be an age limit 25 I know there’s always exceptions to rules, but I know there are things I wouldn’t do now that I did then. And they are only kids, i find it weird guys wanting to be with them Just my opinion" But why? I’ve been here since 20 and think I’m mature enough for this site. If you’re over 18, it’s legal and fine. Some people are too immature for this site IMO, however, that isn’t down to age. If you don’t want to sleep with someone under 25, then don’t. Simple as that really | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " That really they should be going out and pulling in the real world like I did at 18!! | |||
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"Im not a fan tbh, i think there should be an age limit 25 I know there’s always exceptions to rules, but I know there are things I wouldn’t do now that I did then. And they are only kids, i find it weird guys wanting to be with them Just my opinion But why? I’ve been here since 20 and think I’m mature enough for this site. If you’re over 18, it’s legal and fine. Some people are too immature for this site IMO, however, that isn’t down to age. If you don’t want to sleep with someone under 25, then don’t. Simple as that really " Agree completely Mrs | |||
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You either accept Western morality as it is, or you let everybody get on with being the person they want to be within the permit of the law.
Or your like the BMW driver say in the outside lane of the motorway, doing 80 and blocking anybody who wants to go faster, but you've decided the law is wrong and 80 is fast enough so everybody should do what you want. Not the law and not what they want, you're opinion is more important than either of them. | |||
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"I don't think anybody who's not emotionally mature should be dealing with the lies, sychophancy and game playing that goes on in the swinging world. That applies at 18 or 80." True that. | |||
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"On paper of course they are adults but mentally and emotionally still very fragile. Not sure an 18 yo could cope with the sort of fucking we dish out tbh" Lol quality | |||
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"Just my opion I am still allowed an opionion aren’t I? " Of course you can have an opinion, and others can also have an opinion. No one is telling you your opinion is wrong | |||
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"To be fair at 18 I did things that some people on this site double that age wouldnt be mature enough to do. And I enjoyed them. And have absolutely no regrets. I wish I had known about fabs at that age coz I would have been a hell of a lot safer than I was at the time with some of the guys I spent time with. Let's not judge all 18 year olds by how immature you may or may not have been at that age. Not all of us were immature and childish at that age. I was all adult
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"Not going to reply directly, but yet again, swingers are judging others. So if it isn't your thing, absolutely fine don't do it. But it say its morally wrong is about as hypocritical as you can get! Not only do a lot of younger people ike the experience of older people, and probably because they are more mature than their peers. Have you not considered it morally wrong to have sex with random people at clubs and from Web sites. That isn't debatable, western morality says that is wrong, so you have redrawn your own lines where your morals are now OK but you feel you have the right to tell other people where they should draw their lines too
You either accept Western morality as it is, or you let everybody get on with being the person they want to be within the permit of the law.
Or your like the BMW driver say in the outside lane of the motorway, doing 80 and blocking anybody who wants to go faster, but you've decided the law is wrong and 80 is fast enough so everybody should do what you want. Not the law and not what they want, you're opinion is more important than either of them. " | |||
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Should they be on here?
Why not, don't like young/old/black/white/skyblue pink people or gay/bi/straight folk, don't meet them!!
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"Make it compulsory...? "Funny | |||
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"Im not a fan tbh, i think there should be an age limit 25 I know there’s always exceptions to rules, but I know there are things I wouldn’t do now that I did then. And they are only kids, i find it weird guys wanting to be with them Just my opinion But why? I’ve been here since 20 and think I’m mature enough for this site. If you’re over 18, it’s legal and fine. Some people are too immature for this site IMO, however, that isn’t down to age. If you don’t want to sleep with someone under 25, then don’t. Simple as that really " Absolutely agree. If there was an upper limit on here for people to join there would be an uproar so why should the age be change from 25? I joined here at 24 & I think I’m the best judge of whether this site is for me or not, so is any 18 year old. As you said if people don’t want to meet them they don’t have to, but they are entitled to join here just as any other adult is. | |||
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"Just my opion I am still allowed an opionion aren’t I? " Yes of course, as long as your opinion isn't telling other people what theirs should be | |||
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"Im not a fan tbh, i think there should be an age limit 25 I know there’s always exceptions to rules, but I know there are things I wouldn’t do now that I did then. And they are only kids, i find it weird guys wanting to be with them Just my opinion But why? I’ve been here since 20 and think I’m mature enough for this site. If you’re over 18, it’s legal and fine. Some people are too immature for this site IMO, however, that isn’t down to age. If you don’t want to sleep with someone under 25, then don’t. Simple as that really Absolutely agree. If there was an upper limit on here for people to join there would be an uproar so why should the age be change from 25? I joined here at 24 & I think I’m the best judge of whether this site is for me or not, so is any 18 year old. As you said if people don’t want to meet them they don’t have to, but they are entitled to join here just as any other adult is." | |||
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all " Connection? It's a sex site not a dating site. Only one person has a 'comnection' with my wife and that's me. Anybody looking for a connection can message another couple | |||
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"That's true costs way to much to go out x" You are kidding! I was going out a couple of times a month on JSA! | |||
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older " lol you just shagged someone but don’t think you have anything in common lol | |||
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older lol you just shagged someone but don’t think you have anything in common lol" No I haven’t just shagged someone I am talking hypothetically. I couldn’t be interested in even meeting a woman of that age let alone anything else . | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " I've not got a problem with 18 year old girls, but I'd struggle to actually get 18 in my van. | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab I've not got a problem with 18 year old girls, but I'd struggle to actually get 18 in my van. "  | |||
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older " There is a lot more I've got in common with 18 year old girls than men of my own age, which is very little, that's for sure. As I don't want to talk about work, football or make up stories and claims about things I haven't really done I get lost. I would much rather talk about love island and take me out. | |||
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older There is a lot more I've got in common with 18 year old girls than men of my own age, which is very little, that's for sure. As I don't want to talk about work, football or make up stories and claims about things I haven't really done I get lost. I would much rather talk about love island and take me out. " Oh no I couldn’t watch those shows if I was paid to be honest and I think that shows why I am best with women around my age and older . It’s all a personal preference at the end of the day and if you get on well with 18 year old girls then great but it’s not for me | |||
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older There is a lot more I've got in common with 18 year old girls than men of my own age, which is very little, that's for sure. As I don't want to talk about work, football or make up stories and claims about things I haven't really done I get lost. I would much rather talk about love island and take me out. Oh no I couldn’t watch those shows if I was paid to be honest and I think that shows why I am best with women around my age and older . It’s all a personal preference at the end of the day and if you get on well with 18 year old girls then great but it’s not for me " Couldn't agree more, and neither of us telling the other who is right or wrong or how we should be thinking just how swinging dis ussion should be | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21 "It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age. | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age."Oh why thank you! I like to think so | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age."That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry. | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age.
That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry. "Unfortunately I don’t think me and you would get on - I hate love island
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"Yeah but in between Sex there is often conversation and I don’t think I would have anything in common with an 18 year old . So much a different world since I was 18 . I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it at all personally . 24 would be my minimum age and I will increase that as I get older There is a lot more I've got in common with 18 year old girls than men of my own age, which is very little, that's for sure. As I don't want to talk about work, football or make up stories and claims about things I haven't really done I get lost. I would much rather talk about love island and take me out. Oh no I couldn’t watch those shows if I was paid to be honest and I think that shows why I am best with women around my age and older . It’s all a personal preference at the end of the day and if you get on well with 18 year old girls then great but it’s not for me Couldn't agree more, and neither of us telling the other who is right or wrong or how we should be thinking just how swinging dis ussion should be "Oh yeah of course I wouldn’t tell anyone what they can and can’t do. Opinions are opinions nothing more . | |||
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all " Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age.
That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry.
Unfortunately I don’t think me and you would get on - I hate love island
But thanks "Hehe, what about if I just worshipped your boobs and ass and didn't talk, lol. See what I did there
I can talk about other things, period pains and ways to deal with them, what that bitch friend posted on Facebook about your BFF, or what place would be sexiest to get your next tattoo and how much it would hurt. Hair colour, wigs and weaves I'm a master on.
But I fear your conversations are probably more mature than mine
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age.
That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry.
Unfortunately I don’t think me and you would get on - I hate love island
But thanks
Hehe, what about if I just worshipped your boobs and ass and didn't talk, lol. See what I did there
I can talk about other things, period pains and ways to deal with them, what that bitch friend posted on Facebook about your BFF, or what place would be sexiest to get your next tattoo and how much it would hurt. Hair colour, wigs and weaves I'm a master on.
But I fear your conversations are probably more mature than mine
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. " 4-5 years ago I would be straight up for that but now I don’t know maybe I’m going through male menopause or something I just wouldn’t be interested in that it feels too young and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it regardless of how attractive she is. I don’t have many lines in the sand so to speak but I have no interest in a woman that young . I am not judging those who do | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21 "Yeah and was so upset when I saw that . I I almost cried. | |||
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. 4-5 years ago I would be straight up for that but now I don’t know maybe I’m going through male menopause or something I just wouldn’t be interested in that it feels too young and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it regardless of how attractive she is. I don’t have many lines in the sand so to speak but I have no interest in a woman that young . I am not judging those who do " There is nothing wrong with not feeling comfortable with it. It’s your choice. Some people wouldn’t feel comfortable having sex with someone the same age as their children just as some people wouldn’t feel comfortable having sex with someone the same age as their parents/grandparents. It’s just preference! | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. 4-5 years ago I would be straight up for that but now I don’t know maybe I’m going through male menopause or something I just wouldn’t be interested in that it feels too young and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it regardless of how attractive she is. I don’t have many lines in the sand so to speak but I have no interest in a woman that young . I am not judging those who do " . Fair enough. I'd like to see it actually happen though, especially after you'd had a couple of beers haha. | |||
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. 4-5 years ago I would be straight up for that but now I don’t know maybe I’m going through male menopause or something I just wouldn’t be interested in that it feels too young and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it regardless of how attractive she is. I don’t have many lines in the sand so to speak but I have no interest in a woman that young . I am not judging those who do . Fair enough. I'd like to see it actually happen though, especially after you'd had a couple of beers haha. " Haha no even after beer I feel the same way when I was younger then absolutely but I genuinely wouldn’t feel right about it now | |||
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"No way that I could meet an 18 year old woman 24 and above for me . I don’t feel I could have any connection to a woman that young it’s not for me at all Are you telling me if a woman under 24 who was physically stunning and offered it to you on a plate, basically sitting on your lap trying to turn you on and you'd say "no, sorry, I need a connection and we need to have things in common." What you have in common is the desire to fuck lol. 4-5 years ago I would be straight up for that but now I don’t know maybe I’m going through male menopause or something I just wouldn’t be interested in that it feels too young and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it regardless of how attractive she is. I don’t have many lines in the sand so to speak but I have no interest in a woman that young . I am not judging those who do . Fair enough. I'd like to see it actually happen though, especially after you'd had a couple of beers haha. Haha no even after beer I feel the same way when I was younger then absolutely but I genuinely wouldn’t feel right about it now " I would definitely salute you for your willpower lol. | |||
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"I often wonder how an 18 year old ends up on here, I worry for them more than anything, I wouldn’t meet one but I’ve chatted to a few and fathered them so to speak. " Are you sure they weren’t actually middle aged men? Hahaha. | |||
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"I often wonder how an 18 year old ends up on here, I worry for them more than anything, I wouldn’t meet one but I’ve chatted to a few and fathered them so to speak. Are you sure they weren’t actually middle aged men? Hahaha. " I can usually spot those a mile off | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age.
That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry.
Unfortunately I don’t think me and you would get on - I hate love island
But thanks
Hehe, what about if I just worshipped your boobs and ass and didn't talk, lol. See what I did there
I can talk about other things, period pains and ways to deal with them, what that bitch friend posted on Facebook about your BFF, or what place would be sexiest to get your next tattoo and how much it would hurt. Hair colour, wigs and weaves I'm a master on.
But I fear your conversations are probably more mature than mine
Is that what you think all 21 year olds talking about? "No, that's what I talk about, told you that you were too mature for me! | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
It's more a question of maturity about sex ... which I sense Queen Lev has in abundance! Not so much about age.
That and having the most awesome body. Imagine blocking somebody like that from joining or talking to then allowing some of the others who are in some people's opinion more appropriate or suitable. It could make a grown man cry.
Unfortunately I don’t think me and you would get on - I hate love island
But thanks
Hehe, what about if I just worshipped your boobs and ass and didn't talk, lol. See what I did there
I can talk about other things, period pains and ways to deal with them, what that bitch friend posted on Facebook about your BFF, or what place would be sexiest to get your next tattoo and how much it would hurt. Hair colour, wigs and weaves I'm a master on.
But I fear your conversations are probably more mature than mine
Is that what you think all 21 year olds talking about?
No, that's what I talk about, told you that you were too mature for me! "Somebody just mentioned you on the best tits on fab thread and I can see why | |||
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...nowadays I'd just tuck them in and read them a bedtime story! | |||
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"Doesn't bother me I've blocked anyone younger than 25 I'm 37 and I find them too immature to meet and bit young I like more experienced ladies and a bit more mature I’ve blocked men under 30 and I’m 21
Yeah and was so upset when I saw that
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"Wouldn't meet one, as I'm getting older I can't tell the difference between an 18 year old and a 15 year old. They still look like children " "FAF?... Bring some ID though"
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"I have a 19 year old daughter and some of her friends are stunning and yes they are legal but they are still kids. Who can tell the difference between a 15 year old or an 18 year old? Or an 18 year old and a 20 year old? Dangerous ground in my opinion so not for me, I'm out! It’s so easy to tell the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old. I looked older than 15 at 15, but nowhere near 18. You could TELL I was 15. I hate it when men use that as an excuse. I get messages from men on Facebook asking how old my 15 year old sister is. When I tell them, they said ‘aw I thought so, but she looks older’
"I had a conversation like this with my partner and she said pretty much what you are saying. The problem is that you need to look at it from a point of view of the male. We are scared to be portrayed as a child sex offender (that would be anyone under the age of 16, not just a small child) when our intentions are honorable. Not every male fits the same description, as you've witnessed in papers and other media sectors there are males who do this because they are sick!! But for the vast majority of us, we don't want the stigma, the signing of a register or even jail!! I have 5 daughters, and it would kill me if I couldn't see them because of one stupid mistake of sleeping with someone who looks or says they're 18, but actually being 15. The point I made to my partner was, if I was on a night out, and a young woman started talking to me, or hitting on me, the first thing I'm going to have to do is ask her for ID. The world is a very different one to when I was 15 or even 18. Personally I steer clear of young women when I'm out or even when I'm on here chatting. I'm not always dressed as my profile, I do have a normal life when I'm not April. So for some men, it's the right thing for them to do, it's nothing personal, it's just people playing extremely safe. | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab " they're adults but for some too young to be in this life imo | |||
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"At 18 I found older men a turn off. I'm 50 and I still do! "Fair enough, just how I feel about bigger women. | |||
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"At 18 I found older men a turn off. I'm 50 and I still do!
Fair enough, just how I feel about bigger women. "Sorry if I touched a nerve! | |||
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"At 18 I found older men a turn off. I'm 50 and I still do!
Fair enough, just how I feel about bigger women. "..... and I meant older men than me lolol | |||
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18yr olds look like children to me.
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"Anyone younger than my kids is a no- no it just wouldn't seem right. Why at 18 would you want to be on here anyway...." Why wouldn’t you? It’s a site for adults... not every 18 year old wants to be out in the clubs having one night stands. With the rise of the internet more people are using sites like this, and sites like Tinder to find fun. Don’t see anything wrong with it. There are plenty of very mature and head strong 18 year olds and plenty of people double their age who still act like kids. | |||
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"Why at 18 would you want to be on here anyway...." For a similar or same reason you are on here. Only a guess though | |||
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"Nobody can afford to go out and meet people anymore. Wish I had the balls at 18 " I have the balls to do it, I know what I want and the girls do as well | |||
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"Anyone younger than my kids is a no- no it just wouldn't seem right. Why at 18 would you want to be on here anyway.... Why wouldn’t you? It’s a site for adults... not every 18 year old wants to be out in the clubs having one night stands. With the rise of the internet more people are using sites like this, and sites like Tinder to find fun. Don’t see anything wrong with it. There are plenty of very mature and head strong 18 year olds and plenty of people double their age who still act like kids. " | |||
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"I'm 18 in tree years I hope you're not Irish." Why's that? | |||
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"Personally I don’t like it and if I see a man my age willing to meet someone under 30 it’s an instant turn off" Wow really? Each to their own. | |||
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"Anyone younger than my kids is a no- no it just wouldn't seem right. Why at 18 would you want to be on here anyway.... Why wouldn’t you? It’s a site for adults... not every 18 year old wants to be out in the clubs having one night stands. With the rise of the internet more people are using sites like this, and sites like Tinder to find fun. Don’t see anything wrong with it. There are plenty of very mature and head strong 18 year olds and plenty of people double their age who still act like kids. " Each to there own | |||
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"I'm 18 in tree years I hope you're not Irish. Why's that?" The Irish pronounce THREE as TREE, so that would make him 15! | |||
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"I'm 18 in tree years I hope you're not Irish. Why's that? The Irish pronounce THREE as TREE, so that would make him 15!" Well let me set you straight then. Some do; the vast majority don't. | |||
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"What do people think of 18 year old girls meeting and playing off fab The same as I do about 18 yr old boys doing it. Personally, they can do whatever they want as they’re adults (in the eyes of the law) but we have children around that age and wouldn’t ever consider meeting someone so young. My 18 yr old is still at school. And if older people are on here to find 18 year olds then I’d have to question why they’re targeting someone so young. Lou x Guess I would question why you are judging them and why you think of your children when arranging sex meets. I've always found it odd when people bring their children's ages into it, that's a very weird association to make. I just decide if I like the look of the person and how they come across and if I'd be attracted to them. Someone will answer this better than me. But we've always said "no one younger than our kids " it just doesn't seem right. I know it's a sex site but we still have lines we don't cross. People that young IMO should be out in the real world, not looking for it on here." We're with you on this, we have kids well into their 20's now and anyone their age or younger doesn't do it for us. | |||
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