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By *ornyuk23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest

Hi I'm looking to take my girlfriend to a club - she likes dressing up but on our first visit probably wouldn't want to play.

Can anyone suggest a club and a night where we could go and be dressed up but possibly just watch?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Any club will allow you to just watch, if that's all you're comfortable doing. Nowhere will force you to play. Other attendees will get the message if you say No to them asking about anything you don't want to do - and the club should be happy to intervene if people don't take No for an answer.

Whereabouts in the country are you from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said before any club and any real swinger will understand that no meens no and your just looking xxx Enjoy xxx

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By *aughtydesiresCouple
over a year ago

North West

I agree.. just one more thinks to add, if I may... Choose a night "couples only" .. every club have one.. It may make you feel better/safely being only with other couples around...

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By *ornyuk23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest

Thanks for the replies - for info were in st Helen's in the northwest.

A couples only night sounds like the way to go - if any northern people can recommend a club - I don't mind travelling so any north west clubs would be ok

Simon

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By *aughtydesiresCouple
over a year ago

North West

Try No 3 in Chorley ... you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woo No 3 club is a great club .. we second that

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By *uck-us-nowCouple
over a year ago

wednesbury

partners in bury is also a good club

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

No club. Will make you play.

It will depend what you want....towel club...night club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't always find anyone we would like to play with at clubs sometimes and have our own fun - everyone is free to do their own thing with no pressure.

Have been to Partners, No.3 & Townhouse and out of the 3 we prefer No.3

Hope this helps ease your / her nerves, maybe find someone suitable local who has been to a club and ask to go with them?

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd

Best club is Chameleons, Darlaston, Wonderful staff, marvelious atmosphere, rooms to stay in (very nice rooms! ask jane!!) plenty of viewing spots, and fantastic jucuzzi area,

Just put a note in your current status asking is anyone going to which ever club you decide on and arrange to go with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."

Clubs are full of normal people...they let us in Dont worry ,its about about being a supermodel or size zero,but about attitude.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."

First time I went to Chams I was very self-conscious but as soon as I walked through the door I suddenly felt incredibly at ease. Lots of sexy people (including the lady I went with) but I never felt uncomfortable there.

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd


"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club..

First time I went to Chams I was very self-conscious but as soon as I walked through the door I suddenly felt incredibly at ease. Lots of sexy people (including the lady I went with) but I never felt uncomfortable there."
Exactly! no one is judgmental there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm looking to take my girlfriend to a club - she likes dressing up but on our first visit probably wouldn't want to play.

Can anyone suggest a club and a night where we could go and be dressed up but possibly just watch? "

we are members of about 8 clubs and would say for your first swingers club it would have to be xtasia on a S DC night very sexy not the best club but best for a first timer good luck

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Some of the best clubs for newbies in the UK, would be (In our opinion, and depending on if you like dancing or not)

Vanilla Alternative

Liberty Elite

La Chambre

Chameleons (Darlaston)

Ourplace4fun

Xtasia

Uptopias

Theres several others, but that should keep you busy. Most couples nights are Saturdays, so aim for that.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Ha, we announced that we were newbies on our second visit to our club. We were in a spa pool with two other couples.

Before we knew it we weren't "newbies" any more.

Watch out for the "fresh meat" quotient.

( was great night, btw )

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."

No such thing as not good looking enough, look at me.

Take your courage in both hands and jump in, you will wonder why you were nervous. You will be very welcome, if you still can't do it find a local to go with or as a last choice come down to London, and I take you both. Lol

Welcome and have fun, that's what It's all about, you can do nothing, just watch, play with each other in private or not or shag everybody. It's entirely your choice .

That's why its so great.

Good luck

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Also to add, we have heard great things about the Number 3 club as well. Hope to get there next year.

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