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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I’m a 37 yr old straight guy looking to meet with couples and the odd woman...

However I can’t even get replies from msgs not a lot of interest in my profile neither can someone please shed some light on what I’m doing wrong?...

my msgs I try to keep short and polite try to quote something from the profile of the ppl I’m msging...

any help at all greatly appreciated

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Please don't be offended op but you look well pissed off in your pics, try smiling it may help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is out there

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Please don't be offended op but you look well pissed off in your pics, try smiling it may help.

"

I have to agree. Your current pics aren't very appealing and the profile needs more info.

Tou should scour the events thread for an organized social near you, sign up and attend. Great way to meet people and to be verified

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Please don't be offended op but you look well pissed off in your pics, try smiling it may help.

"

Just what I was thinking!

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Looks a little like Alex Brooker off channel 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don't be offended op but you look well pissed off in your pics, try smiling it may help.

"

This^^^^^

Can't beat a great smile and a twinkle in the eye....

Well done however for just displaying the one cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics make you look really unapproachable. You look pissed off.

There's two clubs right on your doorstep, and one I know is hosting a theme night soon that is open to non members if you get your name on the guest list.

Go with no expectation and mingle, socialise and make contacts.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Please don't be offended op but you look well pissed off in your pics, try smiling it may help.

This^^^^^

Can't beat a great smile and a twinkle in the eye....

Well done however for just displaying the one cock pic

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi I’m a 37 yr old straight guy looking to meet with couples and the odd woman...

However I can’t even get replies from msgs not a lot of interest in my profile neither can someone please shed some light on what I’m doing wrong?...

my msgs I try to keep short and polite try to quote something from the profile of the ppl I’m msging...

any help at all greatly appreciated "

Have you been to or going to a funeral? Profile pic I see from here looks like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics make you look really unapproachable. You look pissed off.

There's two clubs right on your doorstep, and one I know is hosting a theme night soon that is open to non members if you get your name on the guest list.

Go with no expectation and mingle, socialise and make contacts. "

yes clubs are a good way of meeting and socialising but can be daunting for a singleton,maybe chat to someone on here and do a club together might be easier and take the advice on the pics and do things the right way and you’ll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op.

Just out of interest ladies what do you think about my profile does the text come across as too negative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us Ladies should charge a fee for "Profile Proof Reading Services"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us Ladies should charge a fee for "Profile Proof Reading Services" "

Well I would gladly reimburse you with massage and tickling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op.

Just out of interest ladies what do you think about my profile does the text come across as too negative?"

Right here goes...

Sorry Jack but my opinion...

I found it boring for someone who states they have a GSOH...

And I switched off to be honest, there's too much info about Shoulders and tummy and average sized penis and this and that and yawn....

Sorry I'm sure your a great bloke and all that, but the profile gets a thumbs down from me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us Ladies should charge a fee for "Profile Proof Reading Services"

Well I would gladly reimburse you with massage and tickling."

Tickle me and I'll punch you...

#justsayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op.

Just out of interest ladies what do you think about my profile does the text come across as too negative?

Right here goes...

Sorry Jack but my opinion...

I found it boring for someone who states they have a GSOH...

And I switched off to be honest, there's too much info about Shoulders and tummy and average sized penis and this and that and yawn....

Sorry I'm sure your a great bloke and all that, but the profile gets a thumbs down from me... "

Well it's like a text message very difficult to get the ironic humour across.

Tbh as part of a couple and have full access to wife's single profile having read literally hundreds of profiles from guys trying to get lucky I went with the.

This is me, look like this,I am like this.

Approach instead of the.

I'm amazing I will rock your world approach.

Tbh I am incredibly funny tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op.

Just out of interest ladies what do you think about my profile does the text come across as too negative?

Right here goes...

Sorry Jack but my opinion...

I found it boring for someone who states they have a GSOH...

And I switched off to be honest, there's too much info about Shoulders and tummy and average sized penis and this and that and yawn....

Sorry I'm sure your a great bloke and all that, but the profile gets a thumbs down from me...

Well it's like a text message very difficult to get the ironic humour across.

Tbh as part of a couple and have full access to wife's single profile having read literally hundreds of profiles from guys trying to get lucky I went with the.

This is me, look like this,I am like this.

Approach instead of the.

I'm amazing I will rock your world approach.

Tbh I am incredibly funny tho "

I appreciate its never easy... And I'm merely giving my opinion as you obviously wanted?

Others will probably disagree with me.

What works for one, doesn't for another... All that matters at the end of the day, is that you are happy with it Jack Burton

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No offence taken.. this is why I’ve posted for some constructive criticism thank you.. I will cheer up a bit in my pics lol was going for a deep n mysterious look I think ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence taken.. this is why I’ve posted for some constructive criticism thank you.. I will cheer up a bit in my pics lol was going for a deep n mysterious look I think ha ha "
well good on you atleast you have made the effort and discussed it unlike some who just give single guys a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pics make you look really unapproachable. You look pissed off.

There's two clubs right on your doorstep, and one I know is hosting a theme night soon that is open to non members if you get your name on the guest list.

Go with no expectation and mingle, socialise and make contacts. "

Hi thanks for the info can I ask which one is hosting the theme night please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m a 37 yr old straight guy looking to meet with couples and the odd woman...

However I can’t even get replies from msgs not a lot of interest in my profile neither can someone please shed some light on what I’m doing wrong?...

my msgs I try to keep short and polite try to quote something from the profile of the ppl I’m msging...

any help at all greatly appreciated "

your profile needs more info, pics look OK maybe explain why you can't accom don't worry about the veris they mean nothing, the people in forums may go on about them but they are a small selection of site membership

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