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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re getting a spare of friend invites from folk with no pics, one line profiles and we’ve never spoken to before. Only in the last 10 days or so.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We’re getting a spare of friend invites from folk with no pics, one line profiles and we’ve never spoken to before. Only in the last 10 days or so. "

Leave them on your friends invite list then they can't keep asking. If you delete they can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate them. Proper freak me out

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We had a message (after a successful social with a couple while we were trying to coordinate a second meet) asking if we’d just been in Tesco with the kids!!??!!

Needless to say the next meet never happened.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Got one yesterday saying....

I remember fucking you about 2 years ago and filling you, I regonise your tits

My reply.....thank God you got in touch, I need a paternity test doing

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Got one yesterday saying....

I remember fucking you about 2 years ago and filling you, I regonise your tits

My reply.....thank God you got in touch, I need a paternity test doing "

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I just don't understand the mentality behind it. Surely they must realise it sounds a bit stalkerish?! If you do send or have sent messages like this, please feel free to post your reasons why on here. We'd all like to know why you do it.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"We’re getting a spare of friend invites from folk with no pics, one line profiles and we’ve never spoken to before. Only in the last 10 days or so.

Leave them on your friends invite list then they can't keep asking. If you delete they can x"

I didn’t kno that.. thanks x I just normally block them

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I've only had 1 message try that in the 8ish years I've been here.

He tried fronting it out with non specific info but as I hadn't left the house that day I knew he was talking crap.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Got one yesterday saying....

I remember fucking you about 2 years ago and filling you, I regonise your tits

My reply.....thank God you got in touch, I need a paternity test doing "

Pmsl, funny. Did he reply? X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Got one yesterday saying....

I remember fucking you about 2 years ago and filling you, I regonise your tits

My reply.....thank God you got in touch, I need a paternity test doing

Pmsl, funny. Did he reply? X"

Yeah, came back with I was only joking

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't. "

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them! "

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now.

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

nr Edinburgh

Yeah, couple of days ago got "do you realise we're not that far from each other"?

According to his profile he won't meet smokers and doesn't drink.

I replied we won't be meeting cos of that.

He then went on to say "what makes you think that"?

Twat doesn't even know what's on his OWN profile.

We also chatted to a couple about 20 miles away. Getting on fine and passed pics and details of ours, jobs etc. Then the female, without arranging anything, told us she'd been at my partner's shop but didn't see her. At lunchtime when she was out with me. Then called us for being creepy and fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now. "

I saw you recently when I was down your way buying some pasties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now.

I saw you recently when I was down your way buying some pasties. "

I’ve seen you ... the last time I was flying in business class and you were serving people in coach...

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby


"We’re getting a spare of friend invites from folk with no pics, one line profiles and we’ve never spoken to before. Only in the last 10 days or so.

Leave them on your friends invite list then they can't keep asking. If you delete they can x"

I do that with friend invites. Works a treat

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By *itavonteaseWoman
over a year ago

Romsey


"Got one yesterday saying....

I remember fucking you about 2 years ago and filling you, I regonise your tits

My reply.....thank God you got in touch, I need a paternity test doing "

Haha amazing

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yeah I had a message a couple months ago saying they had seen me around and knew who I was .. I replied back saying next time come and say hello .. haven't heard of them yet lol ... also once had someone come into my work and come straight up to me and say "I've seen you on fabswingers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't. "

Neanderthal brain cells make them do that just before I and I suspect most people hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now.

I saw you recently when I was down your way buying some pasties.

I’ve seen you ... the last time I was flying in business class and you were serving people in coach..."

I only turn left darling.

I saw you coming out of old navy in manhattan last week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now.

I saw you recently when I was down your way buying some pasties.

I’ve seen you ... the last time I was flying in business class and you were serving people in coach...

I only turn left darling.

I saw you coming out of old navy in manhattan last week. "

Wrong guy ..... Old Navy is for the poor people...

As classy gentleman like myself only shops in Walmart

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't. "

Not cool, guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a man message me the other day informing me he was keeping his beady eye on me.

All because i’d put a foof pic up. My foof pic brings all the strange men to my yard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't. "
I've had a few and I find them really scary. One of the reasons I no longer have face photos on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't.

I've had a lot of these recently.

I've taken part in several local events and obviously been recognised.

I wouldn't mind the messages, several of which were on Kik too (ok I'm not hard to find on thete but still creepy they tracked me) if they were polite or complimentary but they've all been vulgar, a couple borderline obscene another stating they now know where I work & might even pop in and see me.

What does someone think they'll gain by sending that kind of crap.

It's certainly not going to get me dropping my frilly knickers for them!

Oh I've had the I've seen you at work, you served me from a male half of a local couple. I was planning to meet them but won't be now.

I saw you recently when I was down your way buying some pasties.

I’ve seen you ... the last time I was flying in business class and you were serving people in coach...

I only turn left darling.

I saw you coming out of old navy in manhattan last week.

Wrong guy ..... Old Navy is for the poor people...

As classy gentleman like myself only shops in Walmart "

Could have sworn it was you

Walmart? I had you down for a target man myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had that but im carefull who sees my mugshot

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Some one sent me a message last week with a photo of a creepy crawlie and 2 spiders.

I thought to myself you lot are really creepy looking.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Iv got.one guy coming into garage where myself and colleagues have coffee late at night. He's sent me messages saying "ur legs look amazing in this blue heels" or "ur tits look good in that red top".

His latest is "she I see wjat car u drive reg xxxxxxx . Was stsnding at collegues car so i hope he follows him some night. Creep x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why do men and couples feel the need to send creepy, stalkerish "I've seen you in shops/town/pub" type messages? It's wrong and sometimes very unnerving for the recipient/s. Just don't. I've had a few and I find them really scary. One of the reasons I no longer have face photos on "

This is why mine are now all private and the rest ofy pics are friends only

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