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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey wanted to ask your opinion on something. My gf is 25, fit, very hot and she has never tried swinging before. She told me she wants to try a group of men to spitroast her and use her in a house but I can't be present as she won't be comfortable that first time if I'm there. She said she'll need to be tipsy and I wanted your ideas on what will be the best set up: club or some strangers house (!!) with verifications?

We're based in Newcastle.

Thanks

A

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would suggest your gf makes a profile on here first and has a mooch around the forums. She can find out lots of information and decide if she really wants to try swinging.

If she does do this I would also suggest hiding her profile or setting strict message filters as soon as she signs up. If she doesn't she will be bombarded by messages from men who trawl through looking for "fresh meat" to target as they think it is easier to get replies and meets with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say both of you go to a club and chat to a few guys there. If there's some she feels comfortable with the she can go into a private room with them. She then has the security of knowing you're there for her if she changes her mind or anything.

Shame she feels she has to be tipsy to do it though.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I would suggest your gf makes a profile on here first and has a mooch around the forums. She can find out lots of information and decide if she really wants to try swinging.

If she does do this I would also suggest hiding her profile or setting strict message filters as soon as she signs up. If she doesn't she will be bombarded by messages from men who trawl through looking for "fresh meat" to target as they think it is easier to get replies and meets with them. "

This completely

I'd also suggest a club would be a safer option if she does go through with it and whilst a drink or two to settle the nerves is not a bad thing necessarily - getting tipsy (or worse) might not be such a great idea from either an enjoyment or consent perspective.

Having her own profile would definitely be a first step though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say both of you go to a club and chat to a few guys there. If there's some she feels comfortable with the she can go into a private room with them. She then has the security of knowing you're there for her if she changes her mind or anything.

Shame she feels she has to be tipsy to do it though."

Agreed!

If she needs to be tipsy to do something I’d say it’s not something she’s 100% comfortable with.

Also it’s not a great idea being tipsy and having sex with a group of men you don’t know, because of consent of course.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Club option is by far the best advice, another way is for you to be there but blindfold her that way then she’s not coming to know if she has hold of your cock or someone else’s

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

Surprised this even needs to be asked. Club only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely try a club first dude

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Private house all the way , there are a number of single gents who organise Gangbang type meets really well get chatting to these guys about what you want / don't want .

A welcoming house would be more welcoming than a club in my opinion

Meggo3 in Manchester is great by the way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present."

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully. "

I totally agree

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully. "

Agree, what young girl would want to risk this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully. "

Agreed plenty of these dreamers on here lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully. "

My thoughts exactly

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Sorry but I smell a rat ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A tipsy 25 year old alone in a strangers house being fucked by multiple men. Have a think about that op then talk to your girlfriend about a club situation, while sober with you present.

I'd bet a large sum of money this is the OPs fantasy and his girlfriend knows nothing about it.

Thankfully.

Agree, what young girl would want to risk this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey wanted to ask your opinion on something. My gf is 25, fit, very hot and she has never tried swinging before. She told me she wants to try a group of men to spitroast her and use her in a house but I can't be present as she won't be comfortable that first time if I'm there. She said she'll need to be tipsy and I wanted your ideas on what will be the best set up: club or some strangers house (!!) with verifications?

We're based in Newcastle.

Thanks

A"
should it be in a couples profile then to get what is needed so people can actually see her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably, she knows about your profile and your meets so she must have some idea what the swinging world is all about. I would do as others have said, set up a couples acount on here and let her feel her own way round and ask her own questions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You'd loose all your money Not my fantasy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'd loose all your money Not my fantasy."

So, are you going to chat with her about safety etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey wanted to ask your opinion on something. My gf is 25, fit, very hot and she has never tried swinging before. She told me she wants to try a group of men to spitroast her and use her in a house but I can't be present as she won't be comfortable that first time if I'm there. She said she'll need to be tipsy and I wanted your ideas on what will be the best set up: club or some strangers house (!!) with verifications?

We're based in Newcastle.

Thanks

A"
yes I wouldn't be comfortable either I've got p@#es

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea. When she told me I obviously didn't want to let her go to some strangers house. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions. Most people had my opinion that a club would be best safety wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea. When she told me I obviously didn't want to let her go to some strangers house. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions. Most people had my opinion that a club would be best safety wise."
a squash club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well their is ten of them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yea. When she told me I obviously didn't want to let her go to some strangers house. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions. Most people had my opinion that a club would be best safety wise."

It's not just for her safety its for the men too. No decent guy would want to get involved in the situation you describe if the girl was d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get what you are saying but 2 glasses of wine is not d*unk and it was her idea. I live in Newcastle - every night people get d*unk and have sex. And she wouldn't be d*unk. The club I used to go in Newcastle was full of swingers from this site who drank for hours and then had fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get what you are saying but 2 glasses of wine is not d*unk and it was her idea. I live in Newcastle - every night people get d*unk and have sex. And she wouldn't be d*unk. The club I used to go in Newcastle was full of swingers from this site who drank for hours and then had fun."

It's her call of course but you said tipsy. That isn't the same as sober.

People all over the world get d*unk and have sex, it doesn't mean they're always happy about it in the morning.

I wish you both luck in your quest and hope everyone gets what they want from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get what you are saying but 2 glasses of wine is not d*unk and it was her idea. I live in Newcastle - every night people get d*unk and have sex. And she wouldn't be d*unk. The club I used to go in Newcastle was full of swingers from this site who drank for hours and then had fun."

Yes every night people get d*unk and have sex, but do they do it with a group of men? Consent is a big thing when it comes to alcohol, also some people can get d*unk on two glasses of wine, my sister does it well.

I’m amazed that you’re okay with the idea of her being under the influence around a group of men she doesn’t know. I’m the same age and it would be a never in a lifetime for me. That’s scary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. You do have a point yes. I'll speak with her.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for your advice. You do have a point yes. I'll speak with her."

Use reply+quote we'll know who you're talking to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for your advice. You do have a point yes. I'll speak with her.

Use reply+quote we'll know who you're talking to "

Right haha thanks not used to these forums.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for your advice. You do have a point yes. I'll speak with her.

Use reply+quote we'll know who you're talking to

Right haha thanks not used to these forums."

It takes a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo join a club together ,meet couples /guys test the water have a soft play build up to it she will enjoy it more.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I know it's not one size fits all, but as a couple, I think it might be helpful to take the things you do as a journey you do together which can then progress to doing separate play. Having a first encounter be the type you described sounds like a recipe for disaster to me.

My advice is talk to her in depth and make sure she understands the pros and cons. Talk about how you will both handle the situation if it's not an experience she likes. Personally I think a club would be a better option, with you there.

Whatever you decide, please put her safety first.

Mrs

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