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"Ego boost possibly? Who knows.. My pics never made it to the top list but I have over 1000 likes for 1 pic I still meet though.. " Prove it! Meet me! | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " they here for the confidence boost and they are probably narcissists | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Possibly for some - as JessicaXY mentioned, I'm sure it's a boost to the ego. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if both viewer and viewed get a little joy from it. Meanwhile I'm sure others have other reasons. Just here for the forums, chat, or banter seems common. Hat | |||
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"Defo ego boost" I don't think the hottest need an ego boost. They are having fun | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " And even more guys don't meet or cancel at the last min | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " How do you know they don't meet? | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? Possibly for some - as JessicaXY mentioned, I'm sure it's a boost to the ego. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if both viewer and viewed get a little joy from it. Meanwhile I'm sure others have other reasons. Just here for the forums, chat, or banter seems common. Hat" A little joy is good. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " How do you determine that? That these ladies dont meet? | |||
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" Possibly for some - as JessicaXY mentioned, I'm sure it's a boost to the ego. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if both viewer and viewed get a little joy from it. A little joy is good. " Amen to that. Although maybe a lot of joy is better | |||
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"Pics are not for ego boost. Women can’t meet everyone and most on fab are simply not attractive enough. " I beg to differ there are loads of very attractive women on fab | |||
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" How do you determine that? That these ladies dont meet?" There are actually quite a few profiles that explicitly state "not meeting" or something similar. Many of them also explain *why* they are not meeting which would seem to answer the original question too, in a lot of cases. That's where I drew my alternative answer from. Hat | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " For some yes, others will have their own reasons. There really is no criteria to meet for being here and certainly it’s not to please the men on here but to do it for themselves. Whatever they’re getting out of it good on them I say | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? For some yes, others will have their own reasons. There really is no criteria to meet for being here and certainly it’s not to please the men on here but to do it for themselves. Whatever they’re getting out of it good on them I say" | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Does it really matter? | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Nothing wrong with that. As long as people are honest about it and dontpretend or lead someone on.. I suspect alot actually would meet off that chatted to someone really nice, but maybe use the "won't meet" as a filter to avoid people just after sex | |||
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"I think us women can choose how we use fab. " I agree ! It wasn’t a criticism but an observation | |||
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" How do you determine that? That these ladies dont meet? There are actually quite a few profiles that explicitly state "not meeting" or something similar. Many of them also explain *why* they are not meeting which would seem to answer the original question too, in a lot of cases. That's where I drew my alternative answer from. Hat " Perhaps people meet offsite? For whatever reason? | |||
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"Ego boost possibly? Who knows.. My pics never made it to the top list but I have over 1000 likes for 1 pic I still meet though.. " You have 1001 now | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Every one uses the site for different reasons. It’s up to the lady if she meets or not and if she does not meet she is under no obligation to give reasons why. | |||
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"It's fun, accessible & pictures make a huge part of 'fab'.. Ultimately a meet is preferred & yes I do meet x" Hope you want to meet me | |||
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"Ego boost possibly? Who knows.. My pics never made it to the top list but I have over 1000 likes for 1 pic I still meet though.. You have 1001 now " That's 1030 now thanks | |||
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"As a rule, we don’t meet anyone from here until we have met. " I thought for a moment that you might have to meet at causality dilemma club (aka chicken and egg club) . But I guess you could meet someone outside of fab first and resolve the dilemma in the more conventional way . Hat | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Yes | |||
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"They might just not be meeting new people but keep the profile for the social side. I have on my profile that I'm not meeting but I'm still meeting people that I have met before. I just don't have the headspace to get to know anyone new right now." same here. That's the reason I don't have pics on show anymore. Those who know me know me | |||
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"They might just not be meeting new people but keep the profile for the social side. I have on my profile that I'm not meeting but I'm still meeting people that I have met before. I just don't have the headspace to get to know anyone new right now. same here. That's the reason I don't have pics on show anymore. Those who know me know me " I deleted a few of my pics, I should have just made them private..doh... but I'll take some more if I ever decide to open up my message filters. I like having control over who I talk to on here. If I see someone I want to talk to, then I approach them, rather than sit back & let the 'wanna meet' msgs fill up my inbox. | |||
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"They might just not be meeting new people but keep the profile for the social side. I have on my profile that I'm not meeting but I'm still meeting people that I have met before. I just don't have the headspace to get to know anyone new right now. same here. That's the reason I don't have pics on show anymore. Those who know me know me I deleted a few of my pics, I should have just made them private..doh... but I'll take some more if I ever decide to open up my message filters. I like having control over who I talk to on here. If I see someone I want to talk to, then I approach them, rather than sit back & let the 'wanna meet' msgs fill up my inbox." all ours are in private so I can show to anyone who may be of interest. That way you don't get unwanted attention lol. | |||
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"Some women don’t meet because of bad experiences they have had on Fab. " | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. " Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " they've been here years and have many admirers they could go to their grave with enough contacts | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant" The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant" There’s a lot like this. You say you’re not interested to one person and they come to the conclusion that you don’t meet anyone or that you’re a timewaster. They don’t realise that you saying “No thanks” to them, doesn’t mean you’ll say no thanks to the next person. | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant There’s a lot like this. You say you’re not interested to one person and they come to the conclusion that you don’t meet anyone or that you’re a timewaster. They don’t realise that you saying “No thanks” to them, doesn’t mean you’ll say no thanks to the next person. " Exactly. Some people just don't get that they aren't someone's cup of tea and shouldn't get worked up about it. Just keep moving on until you connect with someone. In the meantime, have fun on here. | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you " I dont broadcast my sex life to the world, my love. I really dont feel the need. And as explained in many of the replies to this thread, verifications mean naff all. You have no idea what people are doing, and who they are doing it with. Do you? Perhaps you should concentrate on the people who do meet you? And leave the ones who dont, to do what the bloody hell they please? | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " I am not in the most fabbed but not actually looking to meet as in play right now. For some their kink is sharing photos. | |||
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"I think us women can choose how we use fab. " Exactly - we all have our reasons to be here. Similarly, as a male, I don’t have to message and chase after every female on here. We can all be choosy about what we do and who we look for. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Probably. But Where's the harm in that? | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you I dont broadcast my sex life to the world, my love. I really dont feel the need. And as explained in many of the replies to this thread, verifications mean naff all. You have no idea what people are doing, and who they are doing it with. Do you? Perhaps you should concentrate on the people who do meet you? And leave the ones who dont, to do what the bloody hell they please?" Why are you being so aggressive towards me? What have I done to warrant that? | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you I dont broadcast my sex life to the world, my love. I really dont feel the need. And as explained in many of the replies to this thread, verifications mean naff all. You have no idea what people are doing, and who they are doing it with. Do you? Perhaps you should concentrate on the people who do meet you? And leave the ones who dont, to do what the bloody hell they please? Why are you being so aggressive towards me? What have I done to warrant that? " 'Scuse me? You felt the need to brag that you have more verifications than me!! Didnt you? I responded accordingly. | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you I dont broadcast my sex life to the world, my love. I really dont feel the need. And as explained in many of the replies to this thread, verifications mean naff all. You have no idea what people are doing, and who they are doing it with. Do you? Perhaps you should concentrate on the people who do meet you? And leave the ones who dont, to do what the bloody hell they please? Why are you being so aggressive towards me? What have I done to warrant that? 'Scuse me? You felt the need to brag that you have more verifications than me!! Didnt you? I responded accordingly. " “The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant” That was your first remarks to me !!! I just don’t understand the anger??? | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you I dont broadcast my sex life to the world, my love. I really dont feel the need. And as explained in many of the replies to this thread, verifications mean naff all. You have no idea what people are doing, and who they are doing it with. Do you? Perhaps you should concentrate on the people who do meet you? And leave the ones who dont, to do what the bloody hell they please? Why are you being so aggressive towards me? What have I done to warrant that? 'Scuse me? You felt the need to brag that you have more verifications than me!! Didnt you? I responded accordingly. “The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant” That was your first remarks to me !!! I just don’t understand the anger???" And I dont understand why its anyones business who people meet. Guess we'll both have to just carry on not understanding. I'm not sure where the 'anger' bit comes in either. Could you point it out please? | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant The OP has more verifications on his single profile than you " Lol | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." And you know this, how? | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy " you look amazing | |||
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"Defo ego boost I don't think the hottest need an ego boost. They are having fun" I doubt that | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy you look amazing " Thanks for the ego boost | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy you look amazing Thanks for the ego boost " Ha see you're on the ball to | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." I’m single and do meet but it has to be someone pretty amazing to get my attention. I’m sure it’s more than one percent that meets. | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy you look amazing Thanks for the ego boost Ha see you're on the ball to " Even with a hangover. Go me! | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy you look amazing " It's true, you do | |||
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"Everyone is on here for different reasons. Nothing wrong with just an ego boost, if that's what they enjoy you look amazing Thanks for the ego boost Ha see you're on the ball to Even with a hangover. Go me! " did you go out last night? | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow! | |||
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"I don't plan to meet anyone anytime soon. Thw majority of emails I get have put me off. They seem to want instashag and be far more interested in their needs than mine. Quite frankly if I'm going to be someone's hotel company as they pass through for work I'd want paid for it! Sometimes though, someone catches my attention and if they don't put me off or seem out of my league i may be tempted. " Nothing wrong with being patient and selective... | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? " How would you know they haven't met someone? | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow!" 1% could roughly equate to over 200 women, so I think we can safely say more than that meet on here. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone?" You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. " Lot of guys won't leave verifications so not much they can do about that. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. " So would I. I'd assume it to be a fake profile with a man behind it. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. So would I. I'd assume it to be a fake profile with a man behind it. " I'm verified but I choose not to publish them ... But I am definitely a woman, and a genuine one at that | |||
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"Surely Fab is here to be used as people want to use it and it isn't for the rest of us to question why - we all have our own reasons. As a couple we rarely prearrange meets. We much prefer the excitement and spontaneity of having sex with total strangers in clubs without the long build up, exchanges of messages and possibilities of no-shows. That's just our "thing". Perhaps sone wonen feel the same." exactly this I rarely show my profile and I NEVER meet. Clubs are easier | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. So would I. I'd assume it to be a fake profile with a man behind it. I'm verified but I choose not to publish them ... But I am definitely a woman, and a genuine one at that " Me too. I was meaning the ones without the green tick or green flag, nothing at all. Not those with hidden veris. | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." Good job we do because what would the 99% of men that just come here to wank do with themselves. | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." Have you been through every SF profile for that figure?! I know of 8 SF within my area who meet. Maybe 99% of the SF aren’t SF | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. Have you been through every SF profile for that figure?! I know of 8 SF within my area who meet. Maybe 99% of the SF aren’t SF " Definitely not. No doubt he’s had a few messages from women saying “No thanks” which have pissed him off to the point he’s deluded himself into believing 99% of us on here are only here for the attention. I notice this is very common with men who’ve been rejected or don’t get many replies! | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason." Nothing like a made up statistic. Another single woman who meets regularly. I guess the poster means 99% of single women aren’t meeting him. And if some women are on here because they enjoy posting pics for others to look at, fair play to them - as long as they’re not arranging meets they’ve no intention of turning up to, their choice. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " So what if they are?!!! They probably get so many messages it's difficult for them to find men they find attractive enough to want to have sex with! | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. Nothing like a made up statistic. Another single woman who meets regularly. I guess the poster means 99% of single women aren’t meeting him. And if some women are on here because they enjoy posting pics for others to look at, fair play to them - as long as they’re not arranging meets they’ve no intention of turning up to, their choice. " Let's face it what stats are ever correct very few I'd say | |||
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"Pics are not for ego boost. Women can’t meet everyone and most on fab are simply not attractive enough. " Wow, which side of that wall are you including yourself on in that sweeping statement? Just so we know where the line gets drawn. | |||
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"Ego boost possibly? Who knows.. My pics never made it to the top list but I have over 1000 likes for 1 pic I still meet though.. " 1001 | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? " How do you know they haven’t met? I’ve met women from this site that don’t want verifications posted and won’t post veri’s either. You’d never know whether they met, or not. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How do you know they haven’t met? I’ve met women from this site that don’t want verifications posted and won’t post veri’s either. You’d never know whether they met, or not." I've noticed a lot of men will hide a female veri as well. Clearly they don't want other men to know about a female that does meet. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? You wouldn’t know for certain. I would be cautious of a woman on here a year with no verifications though. So would I. I'd assume it to be a fake profile with a man behind it. I'm verified but I choose not to publish them ... But I am definitely a woman, and a genuine one at that Me too. I was meaning the ones without the green tick or green flag, nothing at all. Not those with hidden veris. " Ahh, gotcha ... Of course, sorry I forgot about the green ticks/flags | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone?" They would have verifications wouldn’t they? | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Basically, a few live on page one of the hot photos and that’s all they’re interested in. Ego boosts. It’s pretty narcissistic, but each there own. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? They would have verifications wouldn’t they? " Not necessarily- I’ve met people I got on with just fine and didn’t verify for all sorts of reasons. | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? They would have verifications wouldn’t they? Not necessarily- I’ve met people I got on with just fine and didn’t verify for all sorts of reasons. " you can still leave them hidden but doesn’t prove that you’re genuine and meet people if it’s displayed that you actually have? Some people like to know that they are meeting verified genuine site users who meet others and maybe are reluctant to meet someone who has met 1 person over a year ago which is understandable as well as those which are all cam too. | |||
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"Well I don’t meet but decided to today... guess what it didn’t happen. Something came up but he didn’t let me know until ten mins ago. And people wonder why we don’t bother. " bottled it more likely | |||
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"It’s confidsnce killing " don't let it ruin your confidence. His loss x | |||
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"Well I don’t meet but decided to today... guess what it didn’t happen. Something came up but he didn’t let me know until ten mins ago. And people wonder why we don’t bother. bottled it more likely " no intention of meeting in the first place more like | |||
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"Well I don’t meet but decided to today... guess what it didn’t happen. Something came up but he didn’t let me know until ten mins ago. And people wonder why we don’t bother. bottled it more likely no intention of meeting in the first place more like " probably an ego boost for him knowing someone wanted to meet. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Too many cam girls on here. Too many not even verified by meet! But its you lot who fab the pics! | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? Basically, a few live on page one of the hot photos and that’s all they’re interested in. Ego boosts. It’s pretty narcissistic, but each there own." How do you know that's all they are interested in? I've read many threads about the girls that make hot pics and usually those words vain and narcissistic are thrown around at some point. I agree with you about each to their own though...they're using fab in the way that works best for them, whether they meet or not. P.S. just for the record I do meet | |||
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"Well when someone has been on the site over a year and not met a single person then you know not to waste your time but it’s down to everyone’s choice,for me I like the forums but of course meeting In person is the main reason we’re here right? How would you know they haven't met someone? They would have verifications wouldn’t they? " I didn’t want verifications for the first 8 months of being here. I found sexual ones a bit distasteful etc. I had met many and asked not to send one. Then I went to a social with loads of people and now have many but they weren’t sexual meets so I was happy to display them. I have now hidden them again. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? Basically, a few live on page one of the hot photos and that’s all they’re interested in. Ego boosts. It’s pretty narcissistic, but each there own. How do you know that's all they are interested in? I've read many threads about the girls that make hot pics and usually those words vain and narcissistic are thrown around at some point. I agree with you about each to their own though...they're using fab in the way that works best for them, whether they meet or not. P.S. just for the record I do meet " I know you do. It was more I had one in mind, but I didn’t want to single her out. Okay, the narcissistic comment was lazy, it could be for numerous reasons why she does it. But I’m not judging, they’re free to use the site how they like. | |||
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"Well I’ve met one of the top fabbed ladies a couple of times now and she gives the best cuddles " In fact I’ve met two #justtoshowoff | |||
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"Many people on fab have said to me they believe if you havent had a meet in 12 months on here your profile should be automatically deleted what do people think about that maybe get rid of a percentage of time wasters who have no intention of meeting maybe??? " I don’t really think it will help, the guy I was meant to meet today has been on here ages but still flaked in me. | |||
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"It has though, you can’t even trust the ones you’re always chatting too. " Tell him (or her) to fuck off and meet someone else. A knob who doesn't turn up shouldn't knock your confidence xx | |||
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"It has though, you can’t even trust the ones you’re always chatting too. Tell him (or her) to fuck off and meet someone else. A knob who doesn't turn up shouldn't knock your confidence xx" I had a feeling, but I was hopeful. So I decided to drink lots which I don’t do. It hurts... it shouldn’t. | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant There’s a lot like this. You say you’re not interested to one person and they come to the conclusion that you don’t meet anyone or that you’re a timewaster. They don’t realise that you saying “No thanks” to them, doesn’t mean you’ll say no thanks to the next person. " It's almost like, they're so indignant you said no to them. You're not allowed to meet anyone else.. | |||
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"Unless you're with them 24/7 you can never know if someone is meeting or not. Precisely this And why is it anyone else's business anyway? The OP sounds like yet another " why cant I get layed" merchant There’s a lot like this. You say you’re not interested to one person and they come to the conclusion that you don’t meet anyone or that you’re a timewaster. They don’t realise that you saying “No thanks” to them, doesn’t mean you’ll say no thanks to the next person. It's almost like, they're so indignant you said no to them. You're not allowed to meet anyone else.." So true. How dare you say no to me! | |||
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"Many people on fab have said to me they believe if you havent had a meet in 12 months on here your profile should be automatically deleted what do people think about that maybe get rid of a percentage of time wasters who have no intention of meeting maybe??? " How would you know someone isn't meeting unless you're monitoring them 24/7? The site provides different options for different needs, not everyone can meet but still like to use the forums and/or chatrooms. | |||
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"I think us women can choose how we use fab. " What she said!!! | |||
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"So fab is an open forum with one or two low hurdles that you have to step over to get involved and that leaves it wide open to pretty much anyone to sign up. Me I have been here off and on over the past six years and during that time I have had a number of profiles (only one at a time mind) I have lost veris and as a result I don’t get taken seriously and am blocked by a few women. The point I am making is that we are all allowed to use fab however we wish and if I just want to flutter about in the forums and post the occasional picture why is that any different to what those top 10 girls are doing? It’s all about getting what you need from the site and not expecting to be entitled to anything more than that. " | |||
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"Of course they meet you just have to find the right approach " What come in from the side ? | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow!" No, but I do read the forum posts on the subject, and I have quite a bit of personal experience thanyou very much. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " Some women keep on deleting the photos and then putting them back up. Precise same photos. they are addicted to getting their photos fabbed. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? How do you determine that? That these ladies dont meet?" That’s exactly what I was thinking...is that not just an assumption that they don’t meet? | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow! No, but I do read the forum posts on the subject, and I have quite a bit of personal experience thanyou very much." Oh I still meet, I may say I’m not meeting but that’s because I have enough to keep me occupied for now. It also stops the amount of messages I receive. Occasionally someone interesting may catch my attention. | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow! No, but I do read the forum posts on the subject, and I have quite a bit of personal experience thanyou very much." I think what you mean is 99% of single women won't meet you there is a big difference in the two things. | |||
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"Pics are not for ego boost. Women can’t meet everyone and most on fab are simply not attractive enough. I beg to differ there are loads of very attractive women on fab" I agree. There are some stunningly sexy women on fab. I have seen women on Fab in their 60's on here who are very sexy and very attractive. There are women of all ages on fab who are very sexy. If I was to have sex with every woman on Fab who is very sexy I would be dead before I got to the end of the list. | |||
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"Quite a few ladies with top fabbed photos don’t seem to meet! Could it be they are only on here to post pics and get the most fabs ? " but to what end, they probably have many friends and people they meet within that group | |||
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"Some women are on here for an ego boost, I'm 100% sure of that, but some women are on here just purely because they love to post pics of themselves naked, and they like the thought of guys looking at their photos while they wank off. Other women are just on here for a laugh, but at the end of the day, it's their choice. I know that 99% of single girls on here don't meet though, for whatever reason. I’d love to see evidence of this. You’ve spoken to 99% of girls on here to know they don’t meet? Wow! No, but I do read the forum posts on the subject, and I have quite a bit of personal experience thanyou very much." reading forum posts is an education but I don't think it necessarily equates to learning anything tangible | |||
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