FabSwingers.com forum: Profile reading

By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many.

Skimming isn't good but it's the normal thing on fabswingers sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time a lady didn't ready my profile and messages me was....... Never

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By *aughtyminx2404Woman
over a year ago

Torbay

Gosh yes it annoys me so much... I always read profile before I send/reply to a person xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The last time a lady didn't ready my profile and messages me was....... Never

Ready....proves I can't even read my posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this"
It's an ongoing problem

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this"

Its a filter for some to work out who is actually interested in them as an individual and who just plonks on a profile and messages regardless of what it says no a profile.

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By *ilancsguyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

It's the obvious questions they sometimes ask that make me roll my eyes

for example 'How old are you?'

It's bad enough if it's a question that's at the bottom of your profile but things like age are at the top and show up in the user search anyway....

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gosh yes it annoys me so much... I always read profile before I send/reply to a person xx"

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Never really sure who reads status updates anyway. I get very few responses to mine though.

And.. I always read profiles.

My own experience is that the women are much less likely to read profiles than I am. Most respond purely on the basis of my pictures

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Think my profile is read, its whether they get past the third and start of the fifth paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think my profile is read, its whether they get past the third and start of the fifth paragraph

Probably only the 2nd........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day. People are lazy twazerks

. Lexi

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Think my profile is read, its whether they get past the third and start of the fifth paragraph

Probably only the 2nd........

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Going by the type of messages I get daily I'd say most men don't read my profile and it really pisses me off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the type of messages I get daily I'd say most men don't read my profile and it really pisses me off!! "

It's most certainly not only men that don't read profile. From what we've seen single females and couoles are the same if not worse. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the type of messages I get daily I'd say most men don't read my profile and it really pisses me off!!

It's most certainly not only men that don't read profile. From what we've seen single females and couoles are the same if not worse. Lexi"
Depends how interesting the read is some just are not good at writing profiles

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Some people do read the whole profile and some don't, makes no difference if it's a single man, woman, couple or ts/TV.

We still get people messaging us that clearly haven't read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the type of messages I get daily I'd say most men don't read my profile and it really pisses me off!!

It's most certainly not only men that don't read profile. From what we've seen single females and couoles are the same if not worse. LexiDepends how interesting the read is some just are not good at writing profiles "

True. But if you want a reply then no matter how boring ones profile Is,you have to read it. Is that a dig at moi? I thought ours was okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people do read the whole profile and some don't, makes no difference if it's a single man, woman, couple or ts/TV.

We still get people messaging us that clearly haven't read the profile. "

#FabLife #FabProblems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people do read the whole profile and some don't, makes no difference if it's a single man, woman, couple or ts/TV.

We still get people messaging us that clearly haven't read the profile. "

In fact. Get that booty in the bums thread. Mmmmmm

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Some people do read the whole profile and some don't, makes no difference if it's a single man, woman, couple or ts/TV.

We still get people messaging us that clearly haven't read the profile.

#FabLife #FabProblems "

It was merely an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the type of messages I get daily I'd say most men don't read my profile and it really pisses me off!!

True. But if you want a reply then no matter how boring ones profile Is,you have to read it. Is that a dig at moi? I thought ours was okay?

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I havnt read yours couldn't get past the profile pic, love your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read..and hope people read mine..although it isn't for everybody lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No most obviously don’t. Although mine is quite long but that was to try and reduce the amount of messages! Main thing is the height. Not interested in anyone under 5ft 11 but nobody takes any notice!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I always read profiles. Unless they're shouty and ranty for page after page.

Judging by the messages I get, around 20% read mine.

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

Hourly!

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’ve found hiding my profile works best for me

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Too many.

Skimming isn't good but it's the normal thing on fabswingers sadly"

With so few women on here I'm surprised they can look at a profile so quickly before messaging with something pointless.

Mind you, i have blocked several hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv updated ours a few times. To stop being hated on by people on here for OUR choice of kink.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Iv updated ours a few times. To stop being hated on by people on here for OUR choice of kink.

Um, I struggled to see a kink. Pretty straight forward fabber fayre. Well done for such a reasonable profile. You werent posting it on a caravan club website were you? Actually, that could be the motherload of potential contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol no no. Just had a mouthful a few times cause people think we want the bi lady to be a preformer:/

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I always read profiles and I still get them asking stupid questions and I had a couple message me before reading be my sexuality was bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All

The

Time

Scary how many guys will send a message asking for a meet / fuck with absolutely no knowledge of who they are sending it to even though it’s easily available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly!!

Mostly from unverified guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most seem to read mine. I would say a very high percentage of first messages refer to it. I think it's when people have long dull profiles the reader tends to skim read or just give up.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

7 messages this morning and obvious that none have read our profile....this is quite normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"7 messages this morning and obvious that none have read our profile....this is quite normal."

Pretty much the same but its a good filter for who isn't really interested in you just some place to park their cock.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Most look at pics, send message - hi what are you into? Or your fit wanna meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that ignore what our profile says and message anyway,tend to be the same ones that put up forum posts complaining of "rudeness" and their messages going unanswered or deleted unread.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

men nearly never read it the one or 2 woman that message could repeat it verbatim, and with couples I can tell who messaged me (the man) because its always the same, where you from (doh) meet now, or wui.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

The amont of times we get" would love to chat to you"

I now have a blanket reply of " you've read our profile then? ".

It quite clearly says what we're offering and looking for. Along with "not into chatting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this"

Guilty, I keep sending random titties pic’s to people without reading their profiles

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By *carlet071Woman
over a year ago

bristol

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this

Guilty, I keep sending random titties pic’s to people without reading their profiles

hehe

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By *carlet071Woman
over a year ago

bristol

Oh dear, first world problems I guess

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this"

Overall for us I would say it is probably about 50/50 who read and who don't.

However if it was based only on single guys I guess it would go to around 80/20. The 80 being the ones that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see so many status updates requesting peoples profile be read

I've had it before where some one hasn't read mine of skipped something from it. But I wanted to put it to the forum how many times do you get this"
Twice so far

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

If I'm going to send a message to someone, I always make sure I read their profile thoroughly. It's not just good manners, but you at least find out more about them, and after all, it's considerate.

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Think my profile is read, its whether they get past the third and start of the fifth paragraph

What is acceptably long? Some write war and peace, others only one line.

First rule of thumb I find useful is if you're waffling and adding nothing more by way of information then stop.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If they don't read my profile, I'm under no obligation to message them back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they don't read my profile, I'm under no obligation to message them back. "
oh go on just once

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

It's a pet hate ..... shows they can't be arsed in my opinion so why should I bother ... but I'm never rude like some . On occasion it's very interesting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a pet hate ..... shows they can't be arsed in my opinion so why should I bother ... but I'm never rude like some . On occasion it's very interesting though

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jane and Dan well that's a gorgeous set of pic's you have and I've read your profile very nice , what a figure

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

If someone can’t be bothered to spend the relatively short five minutes to read my (proportionately) lengthy profile, I don’t see why their company in person should be worthwhile.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We like long ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think my profile is read, its whether they get past the third and start of the fifth paragraph

Probably only the 2nd........

It is a little long......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the vast majority of men who message me haven't read my profile. They just look at the pretty pictures and make their own assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do it because they think they're too nice to have to read it and think that you'll just reply even though they clearly haven't read it and some are just too lazy and have no intention of reading it. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say the vast majority of men who message me haven't read my profile. They just look at the pretty pictures and make their own assumptions "

I'd say couples and females do it just as much from our experience. Not sure why single guys get most the stick. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gosh yes it annoys me so much... I always read profile before I send/reply to a person xx"

We always read profiles before looking at pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read them rarely get messages as not meeting at the moment. But some of them clearly have not read that part when I do get the odd one.

Ps check out the social I'm organising if anyone is local ha ha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say the vast majority of men who message me haven't read my profile. They just look at the pretty pictures and make their own assumptions

I'd say couples and females do it just as much from our experience. Not sure why single guys get most the stick. Lexi"

I can only comment on single guys because I am not looking for women or couples

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