FabSwingers.com forum: DDlg/Daddy Dom

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just looking to start a thread with those interested in DDlg both sexual and non sexual. What were your rules? how long was the relationship? How do you stay within the BDSM/DDlg community, social media?

Any negative comments will be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite into this kink. Would be interested to hear from others who are too. I'll be keeping an eye on this thread. Oh and tumblr is good for ddlg stuff xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've enjoyed this kink with a few play partners i enjoy it. i find my priorities a bit odd as in the non sexual size, i do enjoy nurturing but the reliance and neediness is a total turnoff, conversely, sexually i enjoy the dynamic, its a tricky one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, tumblr is good, I like reading rules and understanding other rules from Pinterest. I'm a member on the DDlg forum but it leans heavily towards American users and lots of guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The dynamics are what I enjoy too fully understand you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were heavily in to DD/lg

We love the rules , protocols and the control Daddy has over princess. We are very sexual as we’re married too but still have rules at non-sexual times such as when the kids are home, we would find it hard to go back vanilla now

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

This is something I really want to have a go at

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

Call me naïve but I don't understand the acronym..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Daddy daughter little girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Daddy daughter little girl"

Wow really!?!?!! Sounds a little beyond the norm for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Daddy daughter little girl

Wow really!?!?!! Sounds a little beyond the norm for me.."

You’d be surprised it’s a big thing in the fet world

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Daddy daughter little girl

Wow really!?!?!! Sounds a little beyond the norm for me..

You’d be surprised it’s a big thing in the fet world "

I can imagine it is. I'm not prude but it seems it sails a little close to the wind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Daddy daughter little girl

Wow really!?!?!! Sounds a little beyond the norm for me..

You’d be surprised it’s a big thing in the fet world

I can imagine it is. I'm not prude but it seems it sails a little close to the wind..."

You don’t get it that’s why!! I don’t get pony play ! Or pet play! But I’d never put anyone down for their kinks unless they are illegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things in the fet world that make me go ewwwww.

I know all our kinks are different but this one-Just no.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Daddy daughter little girl

Wow really!?!?!! Sounds a little beyond the norm for me..

You’d be surprised it’s a big thing in the fet world

I can imagine it is. I'm not prude but it seems it sails a little close to the wind...

You don’t get it that’s why!! I don’t get pony play ! Or pet play! But I’d never put anyone down for their kinks unless they are illegal "

I'm not putting anyone down for it. Anything that's legal is cool X by the way.. I'm living those killer heels you have on in your profile photo.. Now there's a fetish xxxx

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By *ong jonMan
over a year ago

leeds

Rubber clad nun I love xx

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Rubber clad nun I love xx"

Much better than blue nun!

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By *ong jonMan
over a year ago

leeds

Fetish funs amazing I adore being a bad daddy and PVC clad women and then kinkier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess its a case of each to their own and this is what fascinates me as everyone has an opinion and everyone likes different things and lives their own private life differently.

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By *llie_worcMan
over a year ago

bristol

"But I’d never put anyone down for their kinks unless they are illegal "

That doesn't leave an awful lot in the Uk these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Daddy and have had a little girl for 10 years but its not age related at all. Its all about caring, looking after and is the basis for our D/s relationship

but I do get fathers day cards and two sets of cards at Christmas and on my birthday day etc.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Daddy daughter little girl"

DDLG = Daddy DOM, little girl.

Little girl can either be a little, middle or big. Depending on what little identifies with.

Each Ddlg has their own rules, bounderies and protocals. There is not set way. Some age play, some don't some have a sexual relationship others don't.

It's another branch of Bdsm kink. You can't "become" or learn the role, you have to have it in you. Just like being bi / gay or straight. You either are or not. You can't decide you want to learn to be one. You can develop your own inbuilt skills.

It's one of the most Miss UNDERSTOOD kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dabbled in this. It excites me very much.

I'm just glad that the ones from the similar thread haven't discovered this one. Maybe using the acronym has put them off?

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By *RealHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s a huge turn on for me but without age play. I guess a lot of people don’t get that but it makes perfect sense to me and mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this, just never found anyone willing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im sure they will eventually find it, I saw some of the comments...just need to ignore the haters. Its a small pool, but its getting wider and I notice more people are feeling comfortable to place DDlg in here profile

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Mmm sounds like fun!! I’d love to try that!!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I love it... I don't think I'm a needy little but then, I'm little so I wouldn't know!

I do prefer a more sexual element to my play and given my proclivity for BDSM I'm also less about the nurturing (unless it's following a whole host of nasty things having been done to me)

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Yea love to have a big daddy so I can be his girl he he xx

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

No longer have a little but still have the dummy gag i bought her. Good memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah was my thing a while back xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This element is leaning towards more of the sexual side of it...what about the non sexual par such as picking their clothes, having rules, not being able to touch their private parts without consent, what names do ow would you call each other in public etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This element is leaning towards more of the sexual side of it...what about the non sexual par such as picking their clothes, having rules, not being able to touch their private parts without consent, what names do ow would you call each other in public etc.."

I’m not allowed to wear trousers or underwear except when I’m not with Daddy then I wear knickers, I’m not allowed to play with myself unless it’s an order from Daddy, I must always ask permission to cum, I have to be in bed naked by 10pm ready to play, I kneel and ask permission to get into bed, Daddy chooses my clothes when we go on a night out, when out I always walk to the left and hold hands where possible, he always calls me princess (or slut) and I always call him Daddy or sir, there are other little things but you get the drift

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I have a leather wrist band I place on my Daddy when we are together and out and about. At restrants Daddy chooses my meals and what I'm to drink. I have to slip to the bathroom. Remove my knickers, then come back to the table and slide them across the table to him. During swinging play, Daddy has to remove my knickers before I play. He keeps them in his pocket until we get home. Daddy is always last in and cream pies me. Are the msin rules & protical. We have lots of other little kinks.

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

So is it just a real life fantasy type roleplay or can you do it on here kind of thing? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is it just a real life fantasy type roleplay or can you do it on here kind of thing? Xx"

You could do it on here swapping messages or on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is it just a real life fantasy type roleplay or can you do it on here kind of thing? Xx"

For many it’s a lifestyle and others it’s a role play fetish thing x

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Mmm I love the sound of the roleplay xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmm I love the sound of the roleplay xx"

Join the club x

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Will need rules though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with any roleplay.

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I guess so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived a dom/ sub relationship for about two years a while back. I loved being under the control of my misstress. I wish I could have that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love this to be my real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An interest of mine with older men.... but very very very rare I feel this dynamic with anyone. And it's not really about age play and not always sexual.

My submission takes different forms and this is simply one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An interest of mine with older men.... but very very very rare I feel this dynamic with anyone. And it's not really about age play and not always sexual.

My submission takes different forms and this is simply one of them."

The complexity of kink

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