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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi! Just curious to see why cougars prefer younger men over older men

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By *aturetemptressWoman
over a year ago

Knutsford

I don't

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I don't "

Me either.......for me it’s either a guy around the same age or upto 5 years older ish!!!

I personally cant understand why a young guy would want an old woman compared to all these young gorgeous girls....I speak for myself I know, but I’d be terribly self conscious about my body!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cougars... 35 years old. is that a good age ?

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

I find mature women attractive... I don't know what it is but their body's are amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say “I don’t” then you’re not a cougar surely ? I thought the name came from the idea of hunting young prey

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

For me I’m just not physically attracted to older guys

In my head I’m still much younger clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find mature women attractive... I don't know what it is but their body's are amazing! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s just something very attractive about a confident older woman

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By *ithASmileMan
over a year ago

southampton

I must admit an older lady does have a certain confidence and way about her that a younger lady just doesn’t.

They seem to know how to carry themselves a lot better in sexy underwear too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be keeping an eye on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love cougars, but i am 47 so how old do they need to be??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love cougars, but i am 47 so how old do they need to be??"

Lol I’m 36 so how old would my cougar be??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older then mine

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera


"Hi! Just curious to see why cougars prefer younger men over older men"

I just find them attractive is all...especially once feminised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guys are not for me either. I certainly would not meet a guy same age as my son...wouldn't seem right x

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Only see younger, don't fancy men my age or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t the term ‘cougar’ mean the women look for younger men, if they didn’t you wouldn’t be a cougar as such ?

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Personally I think some women go for younger guys to somehow hold onto their youth after all your only as old as......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I met my fiancé, all my previous boyfriends/partners have been younger, normally 5-7 years. I loved their energy and the sex drive.

Having now been in the life style a year, and having met my fiancé through the lifestyle, I’ve personally found although younger men have stamina, they don’t have the knowledge and the want to satisfy a woman that the older guys do.

N is 7 months older than me and I prefer to play with people in our range now. Although I get a lot of 20-29 asking to join us, definitely no as my daughter is in that age range and wouldn’t feel right

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By *otlegs80Couple
over a year ago

lancashire

Im 37 but darn im picky.. I keep in really good shape and told I only look in my 20s... well flattery gets you everywhere??. My guy is 44 and in mint condition so I wont go below his standard and unfortunately I find it hard to find men at our age that keep themselves tidy .. I know there are a few out there but ive found them few and far between so for me, thats why I tend to go for the younger lads.. if im going to partner swap why have mince when u can have steak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Google for 'feline scale' will give you an idea of at what age the name changes.

Ive seen ladies 20 years older and 10 years younger. For me there is no better or worse, all women are sexy in their own way .

I think even guys have a term relating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guys can usually get hard again quickly and I just like the dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh interesting, this makes me a jaguar. To answer OP though I think for me it is because I feel younger myself so naturally gravitate to younger men. I’d never go as young as my son though as it doesn’t feel right and haven’t completely ruled out a sexy man my age......just haven’t met one yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love younger guys, my long term fwb is 31.

Youngest fwb has been 26.

I find I can I am more on their wavelength. I also find that younger guys are a lot more respectful.

As for my wobbly bits, all the young guys have loved my body tbf.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I find mature women attractive... I don't know what it is but their body's are amazing! "

What's amazing about them? Everyone knows the human body deteriorates with age. I mean what do you call mature? Once I considered 25 mature haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar? "

Cougars are between 40 and 49...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I’m just not physically attracted to older guys

In my head I’m still much younger clearly"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer younger men.

I generally don’t consider older men at all. Even men my age aren’t that attractive to me, in general.

But, I cannot do very young either, so 10years is my limit usually.

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By *eath by boobsWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For me, im just attracted to younger men. They would normally be late 20s to in their 30s. Plus they have stamina and seem to able to rise more often. The thought of using younger men for sex is a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh interesting, this makes me a jaguar. To answer OP though I think for me it is because I feel younger myself so naturally gravitate to younger men. I’d never go as young as my son though as it doesn’t feel right and haven’t completely ruled out a sexy man my age......just haven’t met one yet. "

You can meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

Cougars are between 40 and 49..."

Okay!

So, I guess I have a year and a bit to wait for the qualification

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"For me I’m just not physically attracted to older guys

In my head I’m still much younger clearly"

Me too.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

Cougars are between 40 and 49...

Okay!

So, I guess I have a year and a bit to wait for the qualification "

Do you have to sit an exam first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger guys can usually get hard again quickly and I just like the dynamic. "

I get hard again after 2 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

Cougars are between 40 and 49...

Okay!

So, I guess I have a year and a bit to wait for the qualification

Do you have to sit an exam first?"

In the ‘feline scale’ apparently I’m a puma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

Cougars are between 40 and 49...

Okay!

So, I guess I have a year and a bit to wait for the qualification "

While you wait... Your apparently a Puma.....

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Because younger guys are very fit, can keep up, are full of joi de vivre, I love them and they say they like mature women's sexual talents and calm demeanour

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"For me I’m just not physically attracted to older guys

In my head I’m still much younger clearly

Me too. "

Exactly this

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I don't

Me either.......for me it’s either a guy around the same age or upto 5 years older ish!!!

I personally cant understand why a young guy would want an old woman compared to all these young gorgeous girls....I speak for myself I know, but I’d be terribly self conscious about my body!!! "

Mummy issue or experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mature men my age or older I’m afraid!

Yet to meet a young man who fits this category...... but I could be wrong!

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

Ae a generalization

Less issues.. more fun

Naughtier... less drama.. up for a laugh.. pretty to look at... better hygiene... stamina...etc etc.

Tbh an olde4 guy wh9ses looked after himself and fun is rarer than unicorn shite. So cubs are a nice destraction whilst searching x

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

I prefer older women. There’s something about the experience side of things and always manage to teach you something new no matter if you think you jnow it all anyway.

I also think they dress a lot sexier in and out the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, im just attracted to younger men. They would normally be late 20s to in their 30s. Plus they have stamina and seem to able to rise more often. The thought of using younger men for sex is a turn on. "

Use and abuse all you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stamina... banter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't look like they could be me dad

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old do you have to be to qualify as a cougar?

Or is it just a preference for younger men?

Or is it the age difference that makes you a cougar?

Cougars are between 40 and 49...

Okay!

So, I guess I have a year and a bit to wait for the qualification

Do you have to sit an exam first?

In the ‘feline scale’ apparently I’m a puma "

I think I prefer the puma term to the cougar term!

Suits you well!

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

Married guy 20 years older together over 30 years with 1 son & had toyboy 25 when I was 52 for 3 years - age is a number & I like all men whatever age ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married guy 20 years older together over 30 years with 1 son & had toyboy 25 when I was 52 for 3 years - age is a number & I like all men whatever age ;p "
38 a good age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A large cougar living in the Cascade Mountains kills a deer or elk every 9 to 12 days, eating up to 20 pounds at a time and burying the rest for later.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Not me, pass me by.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

We all have our preferences, some like tall blondes, some like short brunettes, some like older people, some more attracted to younger. Its not always explainable, in my opinion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only old as the woman you're feeling

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