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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??"

You have to read between the lines of each profile. There’s a secret code you have to crack.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Most ladies will look at a profile before even deciding to read a message and if it's not appealing and enticing to them delete and move on

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Most ladies will look at a profile before even deciding to read a message and if it's not appealing and enticing to them delete and move on "

This^^

I would also advise to review what you have written in your status. Unless you’re looking for men, I would suggest removing the bit where you say: ‘show me the lust laddies’.

Seriously, do a forum search for help writing profiles. You’ve only been here 2 weeks and sometimes it can take time to get yourself known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the profile, if its lacking then it matters not what your message says.

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??"

Firstly, you sound like you’ve been watching too many episodes of Take me Out.....you’ll be asking to come down the love lift next!! And, to us a good profile means good grammar and spelling, plus at least a couple of public photos.....good luck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once i get a new message, i go straight to there likes on profile page, if its not similar to my ticked boxes i dont reply.

Its a waste of finger tapping ,why should i explain myself if you cant be bothered to read my profile thoroughly before you message me?

Get with it or get out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting no replies doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong.

You have to understand that many won’t be attracted to you just as many will, your profile also plays a part in it and personally if it was me, if I don’t like the sound of the profile or don’t like the photos I won’t reply.

Tweaking your profile and your photos doesn’t mean you’ll automatically get messages. So just go with the flow.

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By *otlegs80Couple
over a year ago

lancashire

U only have friend only photos.. nobody will friend you right off the bat. You need some public pics and id say only 1 of your snake . Always send a face pic with your message.. if the ladies dont get back to you then move on to the next. Good luck

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"U only have friend only photos.. nobody will friend you right off the bat. You need some public pics and id say only 1 of your snake . Always send a face pic with your message.. if the ladies dont get back to you then move on to the next. Good luck"

Still send a face pic in your message if you already have face pics as public?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks I will have a look back over my profile and change it a bit ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good input I will take this on board thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I didn’t think that my message would only be read after a glance over my profile , profile tweaked and going with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good input I will take this on board thanks "

Personally I wouldn't send face pic with your first message as you don't realy no who your giving it to.

Good luck

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??"

I'm sure someone mentioned this, profile picture would be a good start

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

You know you don’t actually have to have a status. Sometimes less is more

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Status and lack of pics and profile is enough to put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks , could you look at my profile quickly if you don’t mind and let me know where it’s lacking , would be appreciated.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Thanks , could you look at my profile quickly if you don’t mind and let me know where it’s lacking , would be appreciated."

Would you really meet ladies up to the age of 99 ?

Try to write a bit more on your profile. Think about the people who get 30 messages and look at the profiles of those gents. Why would they chose to reply to you ?

Look at it from their point of view, rather than what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status is horrendous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??"

Ummm firstly just start with a public photo and not a blank avatar.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

And after all these comments you still think that status is a good idea. There really isn’t a great deal of hope and I wouldn’t even look any further at your profile

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As a fairly new guy on here I wonder what it is I am not doing or doing wrong when it comes to messaging females ,, either no reply or deleted, any feed back Is good feed back so fire away guys ??"

If they don't reply or delete they are not interested right now simple as. The reasons can be many from lack of photos to your message your profile who knows so change things up is your only option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say you should try visiting clubs among other things. I usually get zero replys on my profile, but happen to befriend a few couples I got lucky enough to play with

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Always remember to include a picture of you cock next to a can/tv remote, that's a guaranteed winner with you first contact, honestly

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