FabSwingers.com forum: Watching the wife

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loads of threads about how hubbys get turned on by their wives getting fucked by other guys but I’d like to hear about this scenario which has gone wrong, like the hubby or wife just couldn’t cope with the situation afterwards and how did it effect your relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine it’s gone pear shaped a few times for some people,it’s a bit of a risk and especially if there’s jealousy issues or trust etc then people shouldn’t be in the scene rather than be here to spice something up that is already dead,if your unhappy or cheating get out and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there will be stories where its gone wrong

but really is should have been something discussed before ever venturing into it, to minimise the possibility of a bad experience, a loving strong relationship between a couple is key,

The idea is to spice up your sex life not ruin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of threads about how hubbys get turned on by their wives getting fucked by other guys but I’d like to hear about this scenario which has gone wrong, like the hubby or wife just couldn’t cope with the situation afterwards and how did it effect your relationship?"
I know of an instance where it ended in a naked punch up ha

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Friends of ours went on about this for almost 2 years. Never let up on it and became relentless in their pursuit of being part of the scene.

1 meet, and she flipped her lid during play, stormed out,.now divorced and blames US for the marriage breakup.

It's a minefield for people who haven't put the right thought and communication into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A different perspective

After a very bitter divorce, I met the perfect girl.

After a few months of dating, I said that I wanted to go to a swinging club as I had never been to one.

She was very uptight but came with me, all we did was experience the environment. We went again the following week, just experienced the environment.

On they way home the second time, she said, "Aren't I enough for you?". I replied of course you are, I do not want any other woman, I simply want to experience the environment. Communication is paramount

She was much more relaxed about going from now on

On about the 4th visit, a chap chatted to us all night, nothing happened. On the way home she said, "I could see his cock under his towel". I replied "Did it bother you?". She replied, "No, it looked quite nice". I got an instant erection and that was the start of our swinging.

The next time we went, the same chap was there, he gave her a massage and she gave him a hand job.

The next time we went, same thing although she gave him a blow job.

The next time we went, he gave her a massage and then she climbed on his cock!

All of this happened over many weeks, I never ever thought I would enjoy seeing my Wife with another cock, but I love it!

We sort of fell in to this swinging lark but communication is absolutely key!

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

A few years ago myself and 4 other guys got invited to GB someone and seemed fine until we all arrived and it quickly became very clear that the GB was the male partners fantasy and that she was not fully consenting. After lots of awkward silence's I decided to leave as the atmosphere was pretty bad .

They left fab the following week !!

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

"I know of an instance where it ended in a naked punch up ha"

now I'd have paid to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know of an instance where it ended in a naked punch up ha

now I'd have paid to see that "
both couples in same room couples swapped one hubby heard his wife screaming and moaning at the hands of other hubby saw red said to his wife you never scream like that with me, then hit other guy

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

"I know of an instance where it ended in a naked punch up ha

now I'd have paid to see that both couples in same room couples swapped one hubby heard his wife screaming and moaning at the hands of other hubby saw red said to his wife you never scream like that with me, then hit other guy "

I know I shouldn't laugh but that is priceless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know of an instance where it ended in a naked punch up ha

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

My first meet with a couple. It was their first time too and it all seemed to be going ok but he seemed very nervous and twitchy. I put that down to nerves on his part. It was a car meet in a very remote spot. We were all in the back, she was giving me a bj and he was very frantically fucking her from behind. A minute later he was coming and then got out of the car. We carried on and ended up fucking with her riding me. I was aware of him outside but he wasn't complaining. I got a message from her a few days later to say he had beaten her up and she had got him thrown out by the police. She never had any contact with him again and only met me a couple more times before she got with another bloke who doted on her but wasn't going to be introduced into that chapter of her life. So at least she got rid of a nutcase and ticked off some of (rather a lot actually) her sexual bucket list.

One of the few meets I ever got from that site. A nation of chatterers.

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