FabSwingers.com forum: Right ques

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

question for the ladies, i know fab can be a pain for guys, as we do become stupid on them DMs and tbf to you female fabbers i can see why you ignore most messages. but ladies, what makes you think hmmm i should message back, is it the photos, the bio or the message? and does race make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself "

the reason why i ask, im asian (indian decent) and ive seen so many profiles say no asains no blacks, i understand its personal preference but it made me curious to see how many females do like darker skin tones, i do understand asians can be arseholes over DMs but it makes us all look bad, especially when white females are my cup of tea... i want beige babies one day

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself

That kinda comment at the end makes u look bad!

Back to orginal question, personally i check the profile before reading new messages, if its way off from what i look for i just delete unread. If its got past that hurdle then all depends on the message content. If its clearly a copy paste job then i kick myself for opening before deleting. Dick pics = delete, asking stuff clearly covered on my profile = delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself

That kinda comment at the end makes u look bad!

the beige babies comment?

yeah id never send a dick pic. i know females don't like them.

Guys really do make it hard for everyone

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Yep that comment....its up there with the "i want to impregnate" comments that freely fly around this site lol

Its a swinging site not matchfishdotcoms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep that comment....its up there with the "i want to impregnate" comments that freely fly around this site lol

Its a swinging site not matchfishdotcoms "

daym, i didnt want it to come across like that. i dont WANT to impregnate anyone... but it was highlighting that i find white females attractive

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I try and reply to all messages even if it’s a courteous no thanks.

What makes me reply positively is a non sexual first message where they have clearly read our profile. I also look at their profile to see if there’s any attraction

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