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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kids are off school arnt they I’m guessing that puts a stop to a lot of people’s fun

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s becoming a chore

Offers are very few and far between

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By *ndrew025Man
over a year ago

west lancs


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "

With pictures like that I’m suprised your not inundated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "

You find someone you like, you send them a nice message with a photo and wait

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

Is it a rhetorical question or are you looking for opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys I get the bit about schools being off I gues it just used to be easier and we don’t feel like as many people meet anymore

Lots of people look but when it comes to playing they dint go ahead x

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By *ieran2210Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I always struggle to get meets lol so nothing new to me sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More people are into the social aspect of swinging not the sex.....

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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago

Stornoway

It's a feast or a famine on here, comes and goes in waves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Def seems to be more like fb everyday

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York


"It's a feast or a famine on here, comes and goes in waves."

Thats my experience too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re finding the same xx

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yep I agree with that aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would x

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36

Yup I know exactly what you mean

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I’m genuinely surprised to hear you say that. The forums are good for chatting but I for one am here for real meets with real fun people - and it certainly looks like you are that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The problem is that too many people chat about meeting and have fantasies but when it comes to it a lot are all talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "
People are just so busy making money, sex is on back burner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok I'll meet you if I have to !

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"The problem is that too many people chat about meeting and have fantasies but when it comes to it a lot are all talk "

That’s an easy way to excite yourself but what could be more exciting than closing the bedroom door with some new friends and knowing that all the naughtiness is about to start!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we are giving the site until Xmas and if no improvement we will be out of here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found the ratio of men to women is so far adrift.

Women's inboxes are overflowing, it's so hard to even get a message read making for very difficult work (banging head on wall emoji)

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm finding it pretty easy, but then I mostly look for men so the numbers are in my favour.

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By *utual InterestsMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm finding it pretty easy, but then I mostly look for men so the numbers are in my favour. "

Plus you are as fit as fuck which will also help

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "

Yeah I get what you mean like it’s become so tough lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We meet guys too but we won’t just meet anyone maybe that’s why we find it hard we are not snobs but needs to be an attraction physical and mental but that’s just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding it pretty easy, but then I mostly look for men so the numbers are in my favour. "
that's true plus you look very sexy in profile pic that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester is a hotbed of couples, we meet most of our playmates on club nights, do you get to them very often or is it just on fab you meet?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We struggle on our couple profile,to find straight couples (those who happy to play straight)and getting four way attraction is so hard.

This is why we use our single profiles more and the couple profile for socials and club meets.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People will always look at a profile first, I do before responding to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "

Because you live too far away

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Were finding it difficult aswell, get the messages and then they just disappear when it comes to organising a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been here long so don’t know what it was like before, but there are a lot of timewasters!

Doesn’t affect my fun on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People will always look at a profile first, I do before responding to messages. "

god yes, saves unexpected unpleasant surprises

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "
It does seem that way just lately.Think in our case it may be our age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a man on this site .. you will be banging you head against the walls within weeks.

It's got to the point that a rarely send a messages now .. I just end up reading the forums

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"People will always look at a profile first, I do before responding to messages.

god yes, saves unexpected unpleasant surprises "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x It does seem that way just lately.Think in our case it may be our age. "

You guys look good for your age but we look for full swap which also narrows the field x

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Biggest issue I have is getting the time as due to being out in the sticks, it's usually going to require travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "
it's been harder for quite a while now.

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I think a lot of time wasters, dreamers and young girls who want 'treating' (paying) have joined since Craigslist closed their casual encounters page

Single males have more luck with couples, in my experience

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x it's been harder for quite a while now. "

Ghosting is now quite a frequent issue of late.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just think it’s all very hard and people allegedly want to meet but in reality they just fantasise about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x "

*Looks at train times from London to Manchester...*

From the looks of your pictures you’re not struggling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see why youd have trouble getting a meet op

pictures well sexy in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience, there’s seems to be a lot of couples and women who talk the talk but when it comes to it there’s excuses or they just go missing... like the idea of it but then bottle it for one reason or another... maybe it’s the idea of spending a few short hours in my company!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I rejoined here a couple months ago. I did get a few meets. But I have noticed it’s been harder meet.

Last meet didn’t happen and it was annoying to behonest.

I can get people can get cold feet but there seem to be more people mucking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x it's been harder for quite a while now.

Ghosting is now quite a frequent issue of late. "

What happened to the good old fashioned days ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Unfortunately my work is my life at the moment so my time for meeting has been drastically reduced...I have to plan weeks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is so hard recently to get a meet x

It used to be easy now it’s like a chore x It does seem that way just lately.Think in our case it may be our age. "

It shouldn’t make a difference, you have great pics. Age is but a number

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to you all it’s been a good subject to get the juices going and the mind working x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect anything

If things happen then that's great.

Everyone has a life outside of here

Kids

Work

Get chatting to people that are on your tick list

Kind regards

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I rejoined here a couple months ago. I did get a few meets. But I have noticed it’s been harder meet.

Last meet didn’t happen and it was annoying to behonest.

I can get people can get cold feet but there seem to be more people mucking about.

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Oh you just realised. Fab never changes sadly. Just be patient and careful. We all have reasons for not meeting. Some people are perhaps saying they are single but actually married.

A little bit of respect goes a long way...

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

I find the same most are all talk I've been let down so many times with meets I don't really now why I still bother it's definitely starting to put me off meets think I'll just stick to clubs

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