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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

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By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York

That's disgusting way to act it's clear from your profile your size if he did not like he should not of even contacted you block the fucking idiot

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a trans person I can relate

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some people on here are just vile. Ignore the loser and try not to take it to heart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

I really feel it's guys like that, that make it even more difficult for women/couples on here to trust genuine guys. I know this has been said before but irritates me. Well I think you look great...that being said it wouldn't be right even if same thing happens to a man. (To not sound one sided).

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

What an idiot! Trust you kicked his gonads into the end of next week.

I guess the only takeaway is: to tighten up your selection process. You don't deserve that sorta shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just nasty. Obviously not worth your time!

I’ve had the odd few get abusive after polite rejection.

I had one message from someone which was “I don’t go for BBWs as not my type but you look nice” I politely told him I don’t want to be second best so if he isn’t into BBWs maybe he should keep it that way.

I would never want to meet with someone who’s not comfortable with my size or hasn’t met a BBW before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I despair at the utter idiots that are on this site! You look fablous and it sounds like you had a lucky escape!

Floppsy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had you said something to make him think sex wasn’t going to happen so he was being horrible because you’d knocked him back?

He sounds a right charmer!

To be honest inthink some men on here just make donwith larger women because the women they really want aren’t interested.

I’d been meeting a chap fairly regularly and on our last meet, just after sex, he asked if he could ask me a personal question and then asked how much I ate to maintain my size.

It was then i knew i’d must have got myself one of these men.

You live and learn OP. But unfortunately it’s by trial and error. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had you said something to make him think sex wasn’t going to happen so he was being horrible because you’d knocked him back?

He sounds a right charmer!

To be honest inthink some men on here just make donwith larger women because the women they really want aren’t interested.

I’d been meeting a chap fairly regularly and on our last meet, just after sex, he asked if he could ask me a personal question and then asked how much I ate to maintain my size.

It was then i knew i’d must have got myself one of these men.

You live and learn OP. But unfortunately it’s by trial and error. X"

Nope it was offered to him and arrangements were being made. It was less than 5 minutes between him asking to come round last night and him saying about vixens size.

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By *umblebee76Man
over a year ago

hull

Sounds like you had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your gorgeous. I love bbw.

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Sounds like you dodged one there. I looked at your profile pics and regardless of labels, you're good looking woman on what appears an honest profile. Perhaps part of the issue is that some folk get far too tied up with types based on what they think would impress others rather than focusing on what does it for them? Personally I couldn't give any less of a fuck than that, what size, shape, colour or label someone is. So long as they turn me on, we're potentially in business. I say potentially due to the small issue of mutual attraction.

So take no notice, you're looking fine and you've got a lucky fella there with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status doesn't really reflect your original post

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

There’s a tactful way to say “no thanks” without being a twat.

It sounds like you did everything right and he quite wanted to then probably his gf kicked off about keeping a secret and he just wanted a quick way out without losing face.

He’s a prick. And as another poster said, it’s why single women and couples have a hard time trusting guys on here.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

What a knob.

End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there's any need for rudeness, just say no thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a ashole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like him. His mom should have swallowed not opened her legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Disgusting bastards. ignore them and name and shame !!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

He sounds like a twat and a time waster to me hun. Block and move on. Don't worry I once had a bloke asking to meet me then he said he'd changed his mind as my tits were too small for him?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Disgusting bastards. ignore them and name and shame !!"

I would love to name and shame but it’s against the rules.

Will say that he was in uniform when met for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds like a twat and a time waster to me hun. Block and move on. Don't worry I once had a bloke asking to meet me then he said he'd changed his mind as my tits were too small for him?! "

Haha...surely he could see what size your breasts are from your pics. They nearly had me eye out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People like him. His mom should have swallowed not opened her legs. "

Dear god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an utter prick. People like that are not worth your time.

These people must get a kick out of being time-wasting bungholes and making insulting comments about how a person looks.

It's just not right at all.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

This man is a f*ckwit, Vixen is gorgeous, if he doesn’t like plus size ladies, then don’t f*cking contact them, but if you do then have some manners and decorum, people’s feelings are at stake!

:@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just plain idiots. Even if we meet people who we feel we don't have a chemistry with we are still respectful and polite in saying not for us thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your size

Curvy busty ladies are by far the sexiest

My hotwife is Defo in that category , love her shape , curves and the way she looks

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Some people just make you want to go

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Twat.....forget him your lovely

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

What the hell is wrong with some people?

Sounds an utted twat op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty. People can be cruel on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The female part of a couple message me recently asking me over to theirs and as I wasn't interested I simply sent back 'no thx, enjoy the site' the reply I got was pretty bad and aimed at my size! It's not just men that behave like this ladies do too, either way they're not worth your time, report and block xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

What an absolute prick, don't give him another thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When you say you did some more digging what do you mean?

Some people feel guilty about going behind their partners back and that guilt makes them say nasty things.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

His loss, it's twats like him that make it difficult for genuine guys to meet.

Your profile would have shown him what was on offer for him and he's gone and blown it.

I really don't understand why people have to be nasty. If it's not for you then don't make contact in the first place.

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Shame on him/them, its their loss you are gorg H x

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Well vixen, it's his loss.

What an utter prick he is, and I hope you blocked him.

Btw, from what I've seen of your photos, your stunning and will have no trouble finding someone genuine who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Btw, from what I've seen of your photos, your stunning and will have no trouble finding someone genuine who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

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By *igchef47Man
over a year ago

Billingshurst

That is not a gentlemanly way to act he should be a shamed of him self looking at your profile pictures gorgeous gorgeous boobs and body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is absolutely prickish behaviour. I hope you don't let someone like that grind you down. Someone like that does not deserve that power over you. I also looked at your profile and you are bloody gorgeous! What a tool.

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By *W1967Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire

That is a vile way to treat people. Vixen you look lovely, but even if curves and big boobs aren't his thing, its pretty obvious from the pictures, so why contact anyway. Even if he didn't spot it, there are politer ways to say no thanks. Seems a complete tosser. I'd just block him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say you did some more digging what do you mean?

Some people feel guilty about going behind their partners back and that guilt makes them say nasty things."

He has full permission to play. He has a account she has an account and they have a joint account too. So it isn’t that he wasn’t allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

I really feel it's guys like that, that make it even more difficult for women/couples on here to trust genuine guys. I know this has been said before but irritates me. Well I think you look great...that being said it wouldn't be right even if same thing happens to a man. (To not sound one sided). "

Sadly I know not of anyone to be genuine until I have met them. It's a word that aggravates me. None of us know if we are genuine unless you meet. Even veris don't mean a thing. Just my stance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a horrible experience. Some proper prats around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sadly I know not of anyone to be genuine until I have met them. It's a word that aggravates me. None of us know if we are genuine unless you meet. Even veris don't mean a thing. Just my stance "

no, this day in age i couldn't not agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As easy as it may be for me to say don’t let it get to you or get you down. Individuals like that are those you’re lucky to have narrowly escaped.

Sometimes people aren’t aware of what their actions or words can do to someone. But, the key thing really is don’t let it knock your confidence. Still keep yourself out there and carry on doing your own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a twat"

Completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

I really feel it's guys like that, that make it even more difficult for women/couples on here to trust genuine guys. I know this has been said before but irritates me. Well I think you look great...that being said it wouldn't be right even if same thing happens to a man. (To not sound one sided).

Sadly I know not of anyone to be genuine until I have met them. It's a word that aggravates me. None of us know if we are genuine unless you meet. Even veris don't mean a thing. Just my stance "

I absolutely agree.

Anyone can say they are genuine, doesn’t actually mean they are until they show you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you can’t name and shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you say you did some more digging what do you mean?

Some people feel guilty about going behind their partners back and that guilt makes them say nasty things.

He has full permission to play. He has a account she has an account and they have a joint account too. So it isn’t that he wasn’t allowed. "

I wonder if he really fancies you but his partner is bitchy and/ or mean about BBW women and that's the guilt he feels.

A male friend once told me that he loves BBW women but he daren't admit it to his mates as they'd take the piss and make him feel shit. (He wasn't saying it in a bad way to hurt me, he was being honest and I respected him for that.)

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Disgusting bastards. ignore them and name and shame !!

I would love to name and shame but it’s against the rules.

Will say that he was in uniform when met for a social. "

You are absolutely gorgeous! What a twunt he is, hope you have blocked the unsavoury twunt!

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

He's obviously a muppet, lucky that you found out before hand I say

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Fools, Vixen's a stunner

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

Jeezo that is some line! How much you eat to maintain your size!!!!!

Some blokes are a waste of a fab login!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Jeezo that is some line! How much you eat to maintain your size!!!!!

Some blokes are a waste of a fab login! "

I think if Admin charged a substantial membership fee it would put off all these rude twunts.

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

I wouldnt worry. Your hot!!! The guys an idiot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeezo that is some line! How much you eat to maintain your size!!!!!

Some blokes are a waste of a fab login!

I think if Admin charged a substantial membership fee it would put off all these rude twunts. "

It wouldn't put them off, some are paying the £5 a month, been here longer than a yr, are photo and meet verified. And they're still abusive, people seem to go to great lengths just to be rude, abusive and or timewasters!

Before i joined this site and knew how much fun it would be (6yrs ago) I wouldn't have even considered paying a substantial membership fee, now I might as I know what it's all about but back then it would have put me off and I think it would also put a lot of other females off!

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

He's depriving a village somewhere of an idiot....

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By *haron7540Woman
over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall

I have had a similar experience and it can knock your confidence but I then had a lovely meet with someone else who told me I was fabulous and unique

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Block and move on .... dont give it a second thought ....

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Disgusting bastards. ignore them and name and shame !!

I would love to name and shame but it’s against the rules.

Will say that he was in uniform when met for a social. "

Sounds even more of a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete twat

Enough said

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

He's clearly a twat and a not a nice one with it plus size women are beautiful as we all are in our own ways x being rude like that has no place and no need it's one of the things that paints us single guys in a poor light I don't claim to be perfect but being respectful is in my book common decency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He will message you again.......

He probably had other offers tonight....

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Maybe when the conversation changed it was because the Mrs had found out he was chatting to you or may have actually been the Mrs

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By *exypvcxCouple
over a year ago

Harlow

What a twat. We have had some of our horniest meets with slightly larger fems and they always have gorgeous boobs.

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By *issyme555TV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

Your stunning op and worth so much more. He's a knob and doesn't even deserve a pitty fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're stunning x

Ignore him, he's probably got cold feet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There appear to be a lot of stupid keyboard warriors on here.

Its easy to say ignore them. But try not to let the words of such idiots ruin your confidence or your time on fab.

You look great.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

How rude. Why pursue if he only wanted to insult. I hope you don't let it bother you too much and continue to have fun. I like to think the genuine people here out number the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my bbw

Big ass big tittys and big thighs simply simply lovley!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your stunning his loss!!

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By *are PackageMan
over a year ago

London

Kinda guy that give men a bad name! That's out of order, don't let it bother you though

Looking at your profike its his loss anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s just nasty. Obviously not worth your time!

I’ve had the odd few get abusive after polite rejection.

I had one message from someone which was “I don’t go for BBWs as not my type but you look nice” I politely told him I don’t want to be second best so if he isn’t into BBWs maybe he should keep it that way.

I would never want to meet with someone who’s not comfortable with my size or hasn’t met a BBW before! "

Bbw are way more beautiful then skinny girls if guys can't see that it's there fault and you are stunning

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


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I wonder if he really fancies you but his partner is bitchy and/ or mean about BBW women and that's the guilt he feels.

A male friend once told me that he loves BBW women but he daren't admit it to his mates as they'd take the piss and make him feel shit. (He wasn't saying it in a bad way to hurt me, he was being honest and I respected him for that.)

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That might not be too far from the truth. When I was working as a prostitute, I was at one point in a large massage parlour, the kind where every available girl walked out to say hello to the guys and then they choose... if it was a group of friend, the one saying cruel things about my size (I wasnt even that big then, a 14/16 then so smaller then I am now) was often the one that would book a very petite blonde thing (who would return saying he couldn't keep it up) but would find a way to book me either later on that day when he'd ditched his mates or the very next shift...

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over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Jesus some people are total moron's, sadly we are more than ever an image driven culture also there's lots of guy's these day's who seem to spend more time looking at themselves than others narcissistic and totally self involved to the point that no one lives up to their seemingly impossibly high standards unfortunately there's plenty of females like this also.

But take comfort OP in the fact that there are still some decent folk who are not so shallow and can see past body size.

It's the person within the skin that makes them sexy not the skin covering them.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

ridiculous smh sounds like he does like thick women but didnt want his wife to know lol yeah he could of told you a different way or whatever but just be glad he did and showed his true colors before the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I wonder if he really fancies you but his partner is bitchy and/ or mean about BBW women and that's the guilt he feels.

A male friend once told me that he loves BBW women but he daren't admit it to his mates as they'd take the piss and make him feel shit. (He wasn't saying it in a bad way to hurt me, he was being honest and I respected him for that.)

That might not be too far from the truth. When I was working as a prostitute, I was at one point in a large massage parlour, the kind where every available girl walked out to say hello to the guys and then they choose... if it was a group of friend, the one saying cruel things about my size (I wasnt even that big then, a 14/16 then so smaller then I am now) was often the one that would book a very petite blonde thing (who would return saying he couldn't keep it up) but would find a way to book me either later on that day when he'd ditched his mates or the very next shift..."

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Bbw are way more beautiful then skinny girls if guys can't see that it's there fault and you are stunning

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REALLY???? That's a bit of a damning generalisation is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from the hidden Profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbw are way more beautiful then skinny girls if guys can't see that it's there fault and you are stunning

REALLY???? That's a bit of a damning generalisation is it not?"

I agree.

People are allowed their preference, but there is no need to compare or put down others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete numpty!

You look in great shape to me!

Think you had a lucky escape

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Coming from the hidden Profile??"

My profile is hidden as I am not meeting at the moment due to going into hospital in a couple of days.... is that ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to be nasty or rude i had a guy message me completely out of blue asking how did i expect anyone to fxxk me, the size if me. Replied block me if u offended. Ugly and cxxt were the words used in the answer. Funny thing is guy was verified by two women bigger than me. I reported and blocked, all we can do is hold our heads up and know if we want to chsnge we can. Cant change nasty people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your pics are stunning....people are just rude and there’s no need x

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee


"No need to be nasty or rude i had a guy message me completely out of blue asking how did i expect anyone to fxxk me, the size if me. Replied block me if u offended. Ugly and cxxt were the words used in the answer. Funny thing is guy was verified by two women bigger than me. I reported and blocked, all we can do is hold our heads up and know if we want to chsnge we can. Cant change nasty people"

I seriously cannot believe that someone could message that to another person. What a fucking prick.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Some people just go through life doing that kind of thing for their own pleasure.

It’s not restricted to this scene at all but never a nice thing to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you had this unpleasant experience.

They are totally out of order.

Also they are an idiot as you as an incredibly sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Had a look at your profile op, don't worry about it you are definitely not the one losing out, that is some body you have there

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By *igchef47Man
over a year ago

Billingshurst

That bloke is an idiot there is nothing wrong with you you are a very beautiful lady with a gorgeous body and fantastic curves that a lot if men would die to get in bed with I know I would if given half a chance people like that should be banned from fab the swinging community is better off with out those sorts if people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus size queens head my way they know how to take a good pounding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me he fancied you and wanted the meet but when he told the missus she was against it . strange he just changed his mind like that otherwise .

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Plus size queens head my way they know how to take a good pounding! "

Eeesssshhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a very attractive, sexy woman, it sounds like he is either a timewaster or just simply a cockwomble.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think this always has far more to do about their faults and ugliness than other people's.

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Absolutely discracefull attitude!! Name and shame if I were you and I’d message his wife and say what’s he’s been like! I’m sure any human would be horrified!!

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Absolutely discracefull attitude!! Name and shame if I were you and I’d message his wife and say what’s he’s been like! I’m sure any human would be horrified!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Absolutely discracefull attitude!! Name and shame if I were you and I’d message his wife and say what’s he’s been like! I’m sure any human would be horrified!!"

What a nasty thing to say.. Just block them and see it as he's not worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once called a reptile, according to her fat men look like reptiles

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen...."

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why. "

Respectable point but I don’t see anything wrong with asking why I am rejected, as long as I keep myself civilised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus size queens head my way they know how to take a good pounding! "

I can assure you we don't all want to take a pounding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen...."

Yes, he actually said it would be a pity fuck!!

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I was once told “your not what I was expecting “ we’d exchanged pictures and everything so he new what he was getting.

“She’s not my type” is another.

But then being overly persistent would of put me off from the word go as well.

Lou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why. "

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once called a reptile, according to her fat men look like reptiles "

This actually made me laugh hard....you look nothing like a reptile but what an odd thing to say x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Absolutely discracefull attitude!! Name and shame if I were you and I’d message his wife and say what’s he’s been like! I’m sure any human would be horrified!!"

Would love to but it’s against the rules and we don’t want to be told off by the mods

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Yes, he actually said it would be a pity fuck!! "

That is a shame....there is clearly a difference between polite honesty (you’re not my type, I am sorry) and being a prick (I don’t like you but...meh...I’ll fuck you if it makes you feel better).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Yes, he actually said it would be a pity fuck!!

That is a shame....there is clearly a difference between polite honesty (you’re not my type, I am sorry) and being a prick (I don’t like you but...meh...I’ll fuck you if it makes you feel better). "

And if he had said the polite honest one then I would of totally accepted it, we have met some amazing people on here and we will continue to do so. He was definitely the latter, a huge PRICK

His loss, in our opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total lost for words and proves some men just use the tiny brain at the tip of there cock lol For the record you are truly and utterly sexy and don't let little cocks stop your fun

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked "

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"
Should name & shame! X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things? Should name & shame! X"

Then you'd get a forum ban. Its not allowed.

Besides this was 33 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on. "

Thanks for your input on this but you are making it sound like we went out of our way to ask him. We didn’t.

He was still texting us when we asked for a reason. This was pointed out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things? Should name & shame! X

Then you'd get a forum ban. Its not allowed.

Besides this was 33 weeks ago

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We’ve only just come back of a forum ban.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on.

Thanks for your input on this but you are making it sound like we went out of our way to ask him. We didn’t.

He was still texting us when we asked for a reason. This was pointed out. "

Wasn't that a bit of a warning sign? Man says he doesn't want to meet anymore but still keeps texting. At that point we'd be reaching straight for the block button.

Seriously, there's literally no point asking why someone doesn't want to meet. At best you'll get some bullshit excuse. At worst, you'll get insulted as you did.

I'm not trying to excuse this bloke. He's obviously an idiot with the social skills of a hippopotamus. But you can spare yourself a lot of angst on this place by not engaging with the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on.

Thanks for your input on this but you are making it sound like we went out of our way to ask him. We didn’t.

He was still texting us when we asked for a reason. This was pointed out.

Wasn't that a bit of a warning sign? Man says he doesn't want to meet anymore but still keeps texting. At that point we'd be reaching straight for the block button.

Seriously, there's literally no point asking why someone doesn't want to meet. At best you'll get some bullshit excuse. At worst, you'll get insulted as you did.

I'm not trying to excuse this bloke. He's obviously an idiot with the social skills of a hippopotamus. But you can spare yourself a lot of angst on this place by not engaging with the idiots. "

We do appreciate what you are saying. 33 weeks seems like forever ago to be honest. He was the first idiot we encountered and we learnt a lot from it. Trust me the block button will was pressed straight away

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on.

Thanks for your input on this but you are making it sound like we went out of our way to ask him. We didn’t.

He was still texting us when we asked for a reason. This was pointed out.

Wasn't that a bit of a warning sign? Man says he doesn't want to meet anymore but still keeps texting. At that point we'd be reaching straight for the block button.

Seriously, there's literally no point asking why someone doesn't want to meet. At best you'll get some bullshit excuse. At worst, you'll get insulted as you did.

I'm not trying to excuse this bloke. He's obviously an idiot with the social skills of a hippopotamus. But you can spare yourself a lot of angst on this place by not engaging with the idiots.

We do appreciate what you are saying. 33 weeks seems like forever ago to be honest. He was the first idiot we encountered and we learnt a lot from it. Trust me the block button will was pressed straight away "

Pleased to hear it!

As a couple who meet men you'll get loads of offers so adopt a zero tolerance policy for men who mess you about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Did he a c t u a l l y say to you that he would do a pity fuck with you? If so, it sadly proves that couples as well as singles can be worth a dime a dozen....

Obviously the blokes an arse, but the OP does say she did some digging as to why he changed his mind. That will rarely end well. If someone says they don't want to meet, just accept it. Don't ask why.

He begged and begged to meet.....we met, and then he begged and begged to meet straight after we had left him. He then flips his thoughts, naturally I questioned what had happened to make him change his mind. He kept messaging me and talking so ofcourse I asked

I still wouldn't ask.

That's happened to us. Blokes we've met for socials, who are very keen to meet and then go cold. It can be for all sorts of reasons, they lose their nerve, they're attached and feel guilty etc etc.

Nothing good comes of asking why someone no longer wants to meet. Just accept it and move on.

Thanks for your input on this but you are making it sound like we went out of our way to ask him. We didn’t.

He was still texting us when we asked for a reason. This was pointed out.

Wasn't that a bit of a warning sign? Man says he doesn't want to meet anymore but still keeps texting. At that point we'd be reaching straight for the block button.

Seriously, there's literally no point asking why someone doesn't want to meet. At best you'll get some bullshit excuse. At worst, you'll get insulted as you did.

I'm not trying to excuse this bloke. He's obviously an idiot with the social skills of a hippopotamus. But you can spare yourself a lot of angst on this place by not engaging with the idiots.

We do appreciate what you are saying. 33 weeks seems like forever ago to be honest. He was the first idiot we encountered and we learnt a lot from it. Trust me the block button will was pressed straight away

Pleased to hear it!

As a couple who meet men you'll get loads of offers so adopt a zero tolerance policy for men who mess you about! "

Trust me, our block list is heavily loaded. We also meet single males and have been super fortunate to meet great ones. It’s just sifting through the bad ones to find the good x

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

Note you refer to him as pushy and insistent?

Seems like he was enjoying the thrill of the chase?

His loss though.Probably couldn't get it up anyway so used insults to deflect from his inability to see it through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he missed out on a good thing. People should always be up front with who they want to meet. Save a lot of time and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok my thoughts.

I do not condone his abuse in any form.

If he seemed pushy and needy to meet, why did you agree to meet!

As seems to me he was the one insecure and needy asking to meet and be pushy

Imho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok my thoughts.

I do not condone his abuse in any form.

If he seemed pushy and needy to meet, why did you agree to meet!

As seems to me he was the one insecure and needy asking to meet and be pushy

Imho"

He wasn’t pushy until we met him quickly. We was walking the dogs and he was patrolling the area he got called off so went out separate ways but with in 5 minutes he was trying to arrange a meet with us. Within a couple of minutes of being told yeah ok he changed and went to be a dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Note you refer to him as pushy and insistent?

Seems like he was enjoying the thrill of the chase?

His loss though.Probably couldn't get it up anyway so used insults to deflect from his inability to see it through.

"

No idea what his problem was and not naming names we have mutual friends who have spoken with him.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It’s hard not to take these things personally but to be honest you shouldn’t.

He just sounds like a prize dick and you should mark him up as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok my thoughts.

I do not condone his abuse in any form.

If he seemed pushy and needy to meet, why did you agree to meet!

As seems to me he was the one insecure and needy asking to meet and be pushy

Imho

He wasn’t pushy until we met him quickly. We was walking the dogs and he was patrolling the area he got called off so went out separate ways but with in 5 minutes he was trying to arrange a meet with us. Within a couple of minutes of being told yeah ok he changed and went to be a dick. "

Ahh ok. Sounds to me he didnt dip his dick like he wanted to

Not worth your time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok my thoughts.

I do not condone his abuse in any form.

If he seemed pushy and needy to meet, why did you agree to meet!

As seems to me he was the one insecure and needy asking to meet and be pushy

Imho

He wasn’t pushy until we met him quickly. We was walking the dogs and he was patrolling the area he got called off so went out separate ways but with in 5 minutes he was trying to arrange a meet with us. Within a couple of minutes of being told yeah ok he changed and went to be a dick.

Ahh ok. Sounds to me he didnt dip his dick like he wanted to

Not worth your time x"

She wasn’t exactly going to fuck him in his police car while he’s in full police uniform in a public place.

So no he didn’t get what he wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s hard not to take these things personally but to be honest you shouldn’t.

He just sounds like a prize dick and you should mark him up as that."

We have trust us. This was over 6 months ago. No idea why this thread was even brought back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok my thoughts.

I do not condone his abuse in any form.

If he seemed pushy and needy to meet, why did you agree to meet!

As seems to me he was the one insecure and needy asking to meet and be pushy

Imho

He wasn’t pushy until we met him quickly. We was walking the dogs and he was patrolling the area he got called off so went out separate ways but with in 5 minutes he was trying to arrange a meet with us. Within a couple of minutes of being told yeah ok he changed and went to be a dick.

Ahh ok. Sounds to me he didnt dip his dick like he wanted to

Not worth your time x

She wasn’t exactly going to fuck him in his police car while he’s in full police uniform in a public place.

So no he didn’t get what he wanted. "

No but i bet he thought a social would lead to that. Some do

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Idiot must have been watching the fake playboy swinging channel lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm sure the OP is over this 32 weeks later.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure the OP is over this 32 weeks later..... "

Very much over it. We forgot this even existed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely out of order..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's clearly a complete dickhead, you look fantastic xx

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

To actually say something like that is appalling, why hurt a stranger like that?

Could be a reason, could be a message from his partner, either way it humiliating and cruel

Hope the rotten shit and or possibly her gets his/ her comeuppance one day

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Thier loss....or my gain...., I'm me and happy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

What a shit,horrid person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

The guy you refer to is quite clearly an ignorant

#@*%, who doesn't deserve you. From the attitude he has portrayed, if anything, he is the "pity fuck".

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

That is absolutely ridiculous, I honestly feel so angry for you having had someone say that. What an absolute cocknose. x

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Also, you're stunning, and they are clearly totally shallow fuckers. Lucky escape x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus size queens head my way they know how to take a good pounding! "

Classy!

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By *igress69Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Don't listen to them. It's their loss. There are decent people out there. Block and enjoy the good guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

That is such disgusting behaviour, he clearly is a foul individual. If you are not his type he should have at least been polite about it, no need for it. You do get these people out there unfortunately.

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?

That is such disgusting behaviour, he clearly is a foul individual. If you are not his type he should have at least been polite about it, no need for it. You do get these people out there unfortunately. "

Absolutely!

We're all different and like different things for different reasons. If someone isn't what you're ideally looking for then just move on with no harm done. No need to be nasty or childish over stuff, ever.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"

Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

Oh the irony.

The green arrow, such a great tool.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

My god you are stunning its definitely his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was just a twat loads on here you dodged a bullet with that dick head.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Put a meet up the other day.... I (Vixen) started talking to a few of the single men....one was local and very keen and started the conversation first. We started talking on kik. From the offset I made it very clear that I was plus size and our pictures on fab show that. He was persistent in wanting to meet, which we did socially yesterday. After he pushed more to come round last night and then suddenly changed his tune saying his Mrs wouldn’t approve of me (they have single profiles and a couples profile, although he’s kept me a secret from her) doing some more digging he basically said plus size women are not acceptable meets and clearly I would be a pity fuck, but he would still fuck me if I wanted! Why can’t people be polite about these things?"

How do these guys get meets are you sure his mrs wasn't being bitchy and that it wasn't her replying ?

Did he have verifications because the reply doesn't sound right if that makes sense ?

You're a hotty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss.....you're a gorgeous lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Oh the irony.

The green arrow, such a great tool.

"

Gosh, it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why can’t people be polite about these things?

Oh the irony.

The green arrow, such a great tool.

"

I’m not sure I can be arsed to go trawling through looking for hypocrisy. How about being specific with the accusation Miss Marple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are so rude, it's terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name & shame him

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Name & shame him "

You can't because there's three sides to every story although I believe this lady.

Usually it's His, hers and somewhere inbetween is the truth.

You could name and shame anyone if it was allowed just because you fell out with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to all the lovely people that have said such kind things on the thread and by private message .....the guy was clearly a complete and utter idiot (to put it nicely)

For those who don’t have nice things to say or always pop up on the threads we comment on to stick their oar in maybe you should act your age

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

For some reason I decided to check your profile first.

Yours is also not polite to short guys.

It will surely be more fun if we respect diversity after all most already live with their preferences.

White guys not welcomed and will be deleted bla bla bla. Gym fit, vwe are all rather discriminatory.

Even porn stars welcome all; knowing and are not short of viewers.

Fabswingers has been taken over by snobs which is a shame really.

Most don't even bother to respond, follow up or at least give a polite notice.

In life we will eventually get what we dish out.

I feel for you though; it's not a nice experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is a retard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy I chatted too was polite, i sent him a full naked pic as I'm no size 10. Next morning he said too much hastle booking a hotel for few hours fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For some reason I decided to check your profile first.

Yours is also not polite to short guys.

It will surely be more fun if we respect diversity after all most already live with their preferences.

White guys not welcomed and will be deleted bla bla bla. Gym fit, vwe are all rather discriminatory.

Even porn stars welcome all; knowing and are not short of viewers.

Fabswingers has been taken over by snobs which is a shame really.

Most don't even bother to respond, follow up or at least give a polite notice.

In life we will eventually get what we dish out.

I feel for you though; it's not a nice experience. "

People are allowed to have preferences. It is not rude to have them as we all do to a certain degree. As a very tall woman I personally do not feel comfortable playing with a shorter man, I don’t actually need to explain my reasons to you but I have done.

Also as it says people do not need to provide replies, we get a lot of messages and simply do not have time to reply to people of no interest to us or get into a debate of why not

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By *ottyNStripes30Couple
over a year ago

Oakham

You are lush, his loss, plenty lovers of curvy ladies about that are not total bellends, hope he shits hedgehogs!

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

Curvy women are desirable; lots to cuddle just ad skinny tend to be able to open up very wide.

Its all down to confidence and taking into consideration you've blocked me I think perhaps thats what you need to work on.

We all have preferences bur can still be polite which is, if I may remind you, is the crux of your grouch.

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

Is it too late to get shares in brasso?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curvy women are desirable; lots to cuddle just ad skinny tend to be able to open up very wide.

Its all down to confidence and taking into consideration you've blocked me I think perhaps thats what you need to work on.

We all have preferences bur can still be polite which is, if I may remind you, is the crux of your grouch.

"

Your message doesn’t even make sense.

Curvy women are desirable - to some people not all people (that’s a preference)

Skinny tend to be able to open up very wide - stereotyping

You have never met me (vixen)so clearly you have no idea about my confidence.

Yes we have blocked you as you do not meet out preferences so why waste yours or put time

We haven’t been rude about our preferences, it says it on our profile so people can see what we are looking for. To me that is polite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get shares in brasso?

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Huh?

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

I'm sorry if the truth sounds bitter. People will say anything to get into your knickers. You know yourselves better and the vibes are anything but polite.

But nuff said.

Peace & love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get shares in brasso?

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Haha

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"For some reason I decided to check your profile first.

Yours is also not polite to short guys.

It will surely be more fun if we respect diversity after all most already live with their preferences.

White guys not welcomed and will be deleted bla bla bla. Gym fit, vwe are all rather discriminatory.

Even porn stars welcome all; knowing and are not short of viewers.

Fabswingers has been taken over by snobs which is a shame really.

Most don't even bother to respond, follow up or at least give a polite notice.

In life we will eventually get what we dish out.

I feel for you though; it's not a nice experience. "

This is the stupidest thing I’ve read today!

First of all, pornstars get paid to fuck, so that point is completely moot.

If having a perference of who you chose to be intimate/have intercourse with makes you a snob then I’m happy with that.

Not being sexually attracted to certain physical attributes (including BBW/plus size) is not snobbery or discriminatory- being rude or offensive about said attributes is not okay, but saying ‘not for me’ is totally within a persons right to say no.

Honestly, your comment smacks of entitlement and that’s the problem with some people on fab, they expect people to compromise on their own sexual preferences to get a fuck and when they say no they get called snobs, racist etc.

Sassy

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over a year ago

Your such a pretty lady don’t give it a second thought some people on here just get off on being cruel block move on not worth the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For some reason I decided to check your profile first.

Yours is also not polite to short guys.

It will surely be more fun if we respect diversity after all most already live with their preferences.

White guys not welcomed and will be deleted bla bla bla. Gym fit, vwe are all rather discriminatory.

Even porn stars welcome all; knowing and are not short of viewers.

Fabswingers has been taken over by snobs which is a shame really.

Most don't even bother to respond, follow up or at least give a polite notice.

In life we will eventually get what we dish out.

I feel for you though; it's not a nice experience.

This is the stupidest thing I’ve read today!

First of all, pornstars get paid to fuck, so that point is completely moot.

If having a perference of who you chose to be intimate/have intercourse with makes you a snob then I’m happy with that.

Not being sexually attracted to certain physical attributes (including BBW/plus size) is not snobbery or discriminatory- being rude or offensive about said attributes is not okay, but saying ‘not for me’ is totally within a persons right to say no.

Honestly, your comment smacks of entitlement and that’s the problem with some people on fab, they expect people to compromise on their own sexual preferences to get a fuck and when they say no they get called snobs, racist etc.

Sassy"

Thank you

Btw you guys look hot

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

I agree with you on preferences and politeness.

I can tell you; am not one to feel entitled and can take rejection.

More often than not, we don't realise what we're saying or doing until we experience it ourselves is a fact.

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over a year ago


"Your such a pretty lady don’t give it a second thought some people on here just get off on being cruel block move on not worth the time "

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