FabSwingers.com forum: Hide verifications or not....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think showing verifications is good or bad thing? Some people might want to keep it private,some might want to show the person they are.But can verifications go against you? If you have too many or people might not like the people you have met or various reasons......what’s your views and why?.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I am verified. That is all anyone needs to know.

The rest is my business..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put some on display but not all ,we are real and genuine

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Hmm well I show mine and if people don't want to meet me because of them I don't really give a damn.

I understand why why people hide them though, after a recent spate of people contacting mine in an attempt to bypass my filters.

I prefer the people I want to meet to display theirs, as I'm a nosy cow.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

I hide for discretion, verifications never a true reflection to how people are, most leave a nice verification even if they didn't enjoy the meet, fearing to offend.

If you want to make sure people are genuine you can always talk to them on the phone or have a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think showing verifications is good or bad thing? Some people might want to keep it private,some might want to show the person they are.But can verifications go against you? If you have too many or people might not like the people you have met or various reasons......what’s your views and why?."

I like to read the content of some. I won't read hundreds on one profile though. The summary tells me if they repeat meet also.

I like to see the types of people a potential meet goes for rather than the sexual content. As for the number then no that doesn't put me off, it's a swinging site and a lot could be socials.

I completely understand reasons why some keep them totally private.

I wonder if there could be an option added for the recipient to remove or display the usernames on the veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people on here. Some amazing sex etc

However to what we got up to and who with is between us.

Yes I am verified and that should be enough to show I am genuine and meet

So I keep private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm well I show mine and if people don't want to meet me because of them I don't really give a damn.

I understand why why people hide them though, after a recent spate of people contacting mine in an attempt to bypass my filters.

I prefer the people I want to meet to display theirs, as I'm a nosy cow. "

moooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should show as few or as many veris as they like. Whatever makes them happy.

I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris on show. They will be happy about that.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see them. I like to see the type of people they usually meet with. Rightly or wrongly, I've not met peeps on the strength of veris they've given and received. Acts as an additional filter on my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to see them. I like to see the type of people they usually meet with. Rightly or wrongly, I've not met peeps on the strength of veris they've given and received. Acts as an additional filter on my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

That's awful and I hope they weren't successful! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

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yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

That's awful and I hope they weren't successful! X"

They were and ended up twisting things.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here."

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here.

Exactly."
pinch of salt and hope it’s sorted x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here.

Exactly. pinch of salt and hope it’s sorted x"

Its all sorted now.....well happy to be out the drama and childish antics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here.

Exactly. pinch of salt and hope it’s sorted x

Its all sorted now.....well happy to be out the drama and childish antics."
yeah I’ve noticed some people say it’s a bit childish on here and glad it’s sorted x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We show all ours, even the bad one (I bet you all rush to take a look, I also bet you cant find it lol!).

I think its rude not to show them, if someone took time to write it, its the least you can do.

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By *adame1981Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I had some random bloke ask one of my veris for a sex tape of us

Reported and blocked

Won't stop me from displaying my verifications though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no clue why anyone would broadcast their sex life to the world

None

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

yes that’s bad and it should be fun and pleasure on here.

Exactly. pinch of salt and hope it’s sorted x

Its all sorted now.....well happy to be out the drama and childish antics. yeah I’ve noticed some people say it’s a bit childish on here and glad it’s sorted x"

It can be at times and thank you x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have absolutely no clue why anyone would broadcast their sex life to the world

None"

what I do and with who I do it with on here has nothing to do with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We show all ours, even the bad one (I bet you all rush to take a look, I also bet you cant find it lol!).

I think its rude not to show them, if someone took time to write it, its the least you can do.

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105 is time consuming haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had some random bloke ask one of my veris for a sex tape of us

Reported and blocked

Won't stop me from displaying my verifications though

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yes totally and nice eyes at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to show a few and I like to see a few verifications on others as it's an indication. If people don't show any at all then it raises some questions.

I am very honest, genuine and upfront and totally honest, so not afraid to show any here.

If people can find something interesting in them and wish to question others about me,then they can crack and do so with my blessing. Nothing to hide here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have absolutely no clue why anyone would broadcast their sex life to the world

None"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Same here. Previous veri's were contacted to gain extra information about me, asking for tips on best things to say to get my interest etc.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Same here. Previous veri's were contacted to gain extra information about me, asking for tips on best things to say to get my interest etc."

I feel sorry for the ones who do it. It just goes to show how sneaky they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to show a few and I like to see a few verifications on others as it's an indication. If people don't show any at all then it raises some questions.

I am very honest, genuine and upfront and totally honest, so not afraid to show any here.

If people can find something interesting in them and wish to question others about me,then they can crack and do so with my blessing. Nothing to hide here

I have nothing to hide, but it put the people I had met in an uncomfortable situation. They would ask if they knew if I met married men, and should they best not declare it etc.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"We show all ours, even the bad one (I bet you all rush to take a look, I also bet you cant find it lol!).

I think its rude not to show them, if someone took time to write it, its the least you can do.

105 is time consuming haha!

Yeah, but imagine if all our veries were still there (you loose them if people leave site)!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to show a few and I like to see a few verifications on others as it's an indication. If people don't show any at all then it raises some questions.

I am very honest, genuine and upfront and totally honest, so not afraid to show any here.

If people can find something interesting in them and wish to question others about me,then they can crack and do so with my blessing. Nothing to hide here

I have nothing to hide, but it put the people I had met in an uncomfortable situation. They would ask if they knew if I met married men, and should they best not declare it etc. "
well what you do is your private business and do what suits you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast "

A new username....beastlybearded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ? "
well he did ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ? "

That was too polite for a beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

That was too polite for a beast

I'll aslo make you sign a consent form as we never these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the ability to make people leave the site once they've met me, so I lose mine!

Yes, it's my Superpower - why I couldn't just be bit by a spider is beyond me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are "Cam" verified. On our previous profile we were "In Person" verified. We have chosen to show some verifications!

A lot of verifications puts us off to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to show a few and I like to see a few verifications on others as it's an indication. If people don't show any at all then it raises some questions.

I am very honest, genuine and upfront and totally honest, so not afraid to show any here.

If people can find something interesting in them and wish to question others about me,then they can crack and do so with my blessing. Nothing to hide here

I have nothing to hide, but it put the people I had met in an uncomfortable situation. They would ask if they knew if I met married men, and should they best not declare it etc. well what you do is your private business and do what suits you x"

Very true. It's when people's private business has a cruel mpact on others then it needs stamping on quickly.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have chosen one that says I attended a social, proves I'm real. As for my personal meets, they are just that...personal. What I do with one person, I might not do with others...doesn't mean I have anything to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

That was too polite for a beast

I'll aslo make you sign a consent form as we never these days

Would signed in blood suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also do an audit trail and if I see someone has met certain people, then I wouldn't want to meet them. It can put me off someone so maybe that's a negative for people displaying them. Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

That was too polite for a beast

I'll aslo make you sign a consent form as we never these days

Would signed in blood suffice

I'd prefer breast milk if I am honest with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

That was too polite for a beast

I'll aslo make you sign a consent form as we never these days

Would signed in blood suffice

I'd prefer breast milk if I am honest with you "

Ok, that's me out. I am well beyond breeding and milking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the bad ones and show the ones who protray me as a sex beast

A new username....beastlybearded

May I fuck you ?

That was too polite for a beast

I'll aslo make you sign a consent form as we never these days

Would signed in blood suffice

I'd prefer breast milk if I am honest with you

Ok, that's me out. I am well beyond breeding and milking

At least I have tried

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Same here!! And I have also been ‘stalked’ by a female on one of my meets list.... blocked!

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Ditto. If I get to a point im planning to meet someone il show they ask. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Same here!! And I have also been ‘stalked’ by a female on one of my meets list.... blocked! "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Due to others contacting some people I've met to obtain information, I have mine hidden.

Ditto. If I get to a point im planning to meet someone il show they ask. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone can stalk me as much as they want on here if they think I'm that interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I display a few to reflect the kinds of things that I enjoy and hopefully deter the usual 'fancy a fuck' messages.

I do love to read them on other peoples profiles as they can read like an explict novel which is highly entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm proud of mine , they range from being really nice to quite honestly very damn insulting lol even told I've had better she's a fucking liar of course lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm proud of mine , they range from being really nice to quite honestly very damn insulting lol even told I've had better she's a fucking liar of course lol

Ohhhhhh really? Some women can be so bitchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them very offputting myself, seeing loads of vari's puts me off messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re a mixed bag.

I do luv a good ole veri read & trail...

Do I want all mine on show, sometimes yes because people have written some lovely words about me which I like displaying.

Other times it can have quite negative connotations, which is a bummer but part of the course of being on a public site.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've recently hidden mine after getting messages asking if I actually meet people for sex! Admittedly a lot of my veris are socials so I end up telling people who ask such personal things that I only shag chaps I actually fancy, to which they take offence as they seem to think I'm easy prey given I'm on a site like this. Fucking cheek, hey?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should show as few or as many veris as they like. Whatever makes them happy.

I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris on show. They will be happy about that.

do what you want with your veris, we show ours and would never hide any to placate someone else, plus it would take an dave to hide ours,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post, something I’ve wondered as if I show it then it throws the discretion out the window but then people want to read the verifications. I think i may just copy and paste what people say on their without their user name on it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine remain hidden now after someone I met got an abusive message from another user for meeting up with me.

If a potential meet would like to see I'll show them briefly but I have only been asked that once before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine remain hidden now after someone I met got an abusive message from another user for meeting up with me.

If a potential meet would like to see I'll show them briefly but I have only been asked that once before. "

Really?! Shame on them, because that’s so not what you’re about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine remain hidden now after someone I met got an abusive message from another user for meeting up with me.

If a potential meet would like to see I'll show them briefly but I have only been asked that once before.

Really?! Shame on them, because that’s so not what you’re about."

I know and I felt awful for her but unfortunately there are some out there that will stoop so low.

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By *exual SuperheroesCouple
over a year ago

Watford / York

Depends on the content of the veri! On my single profile I only have one on show, coincidentally from DomMan, thats because of what it says, it doesn't give anything away. I'm not a fan of graphic veri's this isn't rate my shag!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the content of the veri! On my single profile I only have one on show, coincidentally from DomMan, thats because of what it says, it doesn't give anything away. I'm not a fan of graphic veri's this isn't rate my shag!!! "

That’s a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to display mine. A bit like a cv. And I like to read others, like their cv. Inspires confidence that the person is genuine and has real meets plus the person(s) they meet is a measure of their standards and what they're into. I get that it can have a negative effect e.g. someone contacting a veri to get info, but doesn't out weight wanting to display my veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to display mine. A bit like a cv. And I like to read others, like their cv. Inspires confidence that the person is genuine and has real meets plus the person(s) they meet is a measure of their standards and what they're into. I get that it can have a negative effect e.g. someone contacting a veri to get info, but doesn't out weight wanting to display my veries"

What kind of standards do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What kind of standards do you mean?"
think the comment might be the standard of people you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am verified. That is all anyone needs to know.

The rest is my business.."

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a persons verifications. Sometimes it helps me to make my decision whether or not to meet someone based on the type of people they’ve met previously and the feedback they have had.

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