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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious as to where you guys learned your techniques. Through experience with others, porn or is google your friend?

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

For me, experience with others (good and bad) and a very vivid imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience every time, and we learn new things from others as we enjoy watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning as in oral or penetration or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience with others and good communication

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Learning as in oral or penetration or both? "

Those and everything else in between and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Learning as in oral or penetration or both?

Those and everything else in between and more."

Think everyone (well most) Have an idea of the basic mechanics (horrible word word I know)

It’s then about talking to partner(s) and exploring what’s good together. Everyone is different. Taking it slowly and gently at first.

My (Matt) first serious partner was 8years older than me and that helped a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You Tube tutorials are great, How to give the best oral

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Born with it

some of us are gifted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trial and error

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned most of my skills over the last 3 years. I was a bumbling fool with nervousness issues before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trial and error"

What happened when you got it wrong

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like most who have posted I learned much of what I know through experience. Quite a lot of fun experiences . On that front, experimenting just a little at a time and a lot of paying attention to what works does wonders.

I think I might buck the trend here in that I also learned a significant amount through reading. There are a lot of articles on the subject and even some scientific studies into certain aspects (go science! ).

Hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like most who have posted I learned much of what I know through experience. Quite a lot of fun experiences . On that front, experimenting just a little at a time and a lot of paying attention to what works does wonders.

I think I might buck the trend here in that I also learned a significant amount through reading. There are a lot of articles on the subject and even some scientific studies into certain aspects (go science! ).

Hat"

Have to admit I’ve never read anything on the subject. Although I presume it’s intwresting I’d always be curious about who wrote it? Surely sex and everything surrounding it is very subjective? From

Experience, what works for one is unlikely to work for everyone.

Do you have any links to anything you’ve read? I need some bedtime reading.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Just going with what feels good, so experience. Google didn't exist when I was initially gaining my experience so not going to start using it now.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Through experience primarily, and what fun learning is!. But I’ve always learned more when I play with a lover who really shows me what she loves me doing

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