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By *isa2018 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

How hard can it be? Anyone else have this problem?

Out of hundreds of messages S has about 10 that she likes the look of, so we chat more and show our full photos. At this point every guy is like wow/She's gorgeous/She's sexy/shes stunning etc etc and can't wait to meet for a first drink.

Out of 7 guys with opportunities to meet, 1 has turned up for a drink and is a great guy we will see for.aome fun when we are back from a little break. The others range from pre-arranged 'dates' to last minute dates wherw they are dead keen but just then dont turn up or it's too much of a rush etc.

We totally get working round work and kids etc so you expect the off one and you can get a feel for a genuine one as they are very apologetic, but it's seems really common to have these last minute 'out of my control' issues. We can only think everyone must just meet up and fuck straight away so much that a social seems like a wasted meet for some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard can it be? Anyone else have this problem?

Out of hundreds of messages S has about 10 that she likes the look of, so we chat more and show our full photos. At this point every guy is like wow/She's gorgeous/She's sexy/shes stunning etc etc and can't wait to meet for a first drink.

Out of 7 guys with opportunities to meet, 1 has turned up for a drink and is a great guy we will see for.aome fun when we are back from a little break. The others range from pre-arranged 'dates' to last minute dates wherw they are dead keen but just then dont turn up or it's too much of a rush etc.

We totally get working round work and kids etc so you expect the off one and you can get a feel for a genuine one as they are very apologetic, but it's seems really common to have these last minute 'out of my control' issues. We can only think everyone must just meet up and fuck straight away so much that a social seems like a wasted meet for some?"

It's their loss. She is a stunner. I'd be more than happy to make a weekend visit, do a social and then join you both in a club.

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By *isa2018 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I'm sure there are a lot of very genuine guys on here. Tye problem is S is very fussy and has to fancy anyone we talk to further. That does mean she likes guys that are good looking to her, and probably good looking to a lot.of other women, meaning they are probably quite popular themselves.

I guess it's just one of those things but it just seems bizarre to me that we are actually prepared to make more effort in meeting up for a social than they are, when I'm actually meeting to then potentially let these guys join us in fucking S silly.

Seems strange to me as a guy, when there a bloody gorgeous sexy blonde, older MILF type too, being offered up on a plate to the ones that passed her vetting. LOL.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Isn't just that most single guys arn't single?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

This isn't a thread about lack of washing facilities on social meets then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard can it be? Anyone else have this problem?

Out of hundreds of messages S has about 10 that she likes the look of, so we chat more and show our full photos. At this point every guy is like wow/She's gorgeous/She's sexy/shes stunning etc etc and can't wait to meet for a first drink.

Out of 7 guys with opportunities to meet, 1 has turned up for a drink and is a great guy we will see for.aome fun when we are back from a little break. The others range from pre-arranged 'dates' to last minute dates wherw they are dead keen but just then dont turn up or it's too much of a rush etc.

We totally get working round work and kids etc so you expect the off one and you can get a feel for a genuine one as they are very apologetic, but it's seems really common to have these last minute 'out of my control' issues. We can only think everyone must just meet up and fuck straight away so much that a social seems like a wasted meet for some?"
where did a shower come into this?

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I always have a shower before going on a social.

Being serious now its the guys loss if they cant be bothered to show up as the OP looks stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard can it be? Anyone else have this problem?

Out of hundreds of messages S has about 10 that she likes the look of, so we chat more and show our full photos. At this point every guy is like wow/She's gorgeous/She's sexy/shes stunning etc etc and can't wait to meet for a first drink.

Out of 7 guys with opportunities to meet, 1 has turned up for a drink and is a great guy we will see for.aome fun when we are back from a little break. The others range from pre-arranged 'dates' to last minute dates wherw they are dead keen but just then dont turn up or it's too much of a rush etc.

We totally get working round work and kids etc so you expect the off one and you can get a feel for a genuine one as they are very apologetic, but it's seems really common to have these last minute 'out of my control' issues. We can only think everyone must just meet up and fuck straight away so much that a social seems like a wasted meet for some?"

If they don't want to make an effort its there loss , you look and sound a great couple hope you find your gent soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get no shows (luckily) but I do get a lot of short notice cancellations for social meets.

I assume they had a better offer, or maybe even a night in is less effort, so more interesting.

I must admit there are times when I really don’t feel like going on a meet after a difficult day, so I understand (but I still go). It still frustrates me though, free time is precious so I try not to waste it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If they feel like it's a wasted meet, their loss. I won't meet for anything else without a social first. If people feel entitled to more then that's their problem, not mine. Good luck. x

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