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By *exycouple20s OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

just a quick question really first ever met we are couple and will be meeting single guy what is the first met like will he be ok seeing another man inside her ?? do most mets have use of condoms etc please help

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Its very simple you set the ground rules as to what you expect.

Some people do a social only meet first and others will play on a first meet if all are happy.

You need to set your rules as a couple on how you wish to play and then you tell them or state it on your profile.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I agree - set the ground rules BEFORE you meet. Then abide by them

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Also if you are planning on playing make sure you have a supply of condoms never rely on them to bring them and make sure you have more than a few just incase

Make sure you and your partner know what to expect from each other and also the other person cos you don't want your partner freaking out half way thru and spoiling your night cos you'd not had that chat to each other and a little thing like that could kill what could be a fun life for you both good luck enjoy and relax don't drink too much before hand it makes things worse and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a quick question really first ever met we are couple and will be meeting single guy what is the first met like will he be ok seeing another man inside her ?? do most mets have use of condoms etc please help "

As others have suggested, it's best to set the ground rules before and communicate well with each other and with your invited guest.

One thing that alarmed me in your message was whether 'he' would be ok seeing another man inside her. If by 'he' you mean the single guy, he should be, he already knows you are a couple presumably? If by 'he', you mean the male half of the couple, it's really important you discuss that in advance so you are both clear about what the boundaries are and whether you want to go all the way or just stick with soft play perhaps.

Just some thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a quick question really first ever met we are couple and will be meeting single guy what is the first met like will he be ok seeing another man inside her ?? do most mets have use of condoms etc please help "

Might be better to wait till you are confident about the above stuff before you consider a meet. Please bear in mind the other couple or player too.

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