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"Women love bad boys with giant dicks.. they say they don’t, but they do " i would agree but i would say never judge a book by it cover till read it loll | |||
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"Women love bad boys with giant dicks.. they say they don’t, but they do " Nope not true. | |||
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"Women want a bad man then the bad men fuck them over so they go with a nice guy and they the women fucks them over then they wonder why they can’t find a descent guy!" Also rubbish... Girls want all the bullshit cliches...whine about how they have been treated... Then do the same to others.. Not women! | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! " i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back " Hhmm.. If you say so OP | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Hhmm.. If you say so OP " Well it total true in my mind because my hairs on my arm stand up most times loll | |||
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"True or false do nice guys always come last because the women here only seek bad boys for fun or friendship because I believe they go top of the cream type of men due the hire number of men to women here? " the hired men you're on about are they escorts | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back " Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done " | |||
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"True or false do nice guys always come last because the women here only seek bad boys for fun or friendship because I believe they go top of the cream type of men due the hire number of men to women here? " Oh god another one feeling sorry for himself | |||
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"For me- Positivity=attractive. Empathy=attractive. Confidence=attractive. Cock size or "bad -boyness" doesn't come in to it. " so you like pec's | |||
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"Op, have you noticed all the women without exception say you’re wrong. Only some of the guys have agreed......." FTFY | |||
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"You're misunderstanding attraction to confidence to a attraction to 'bad boys'. A bad boy may be more inclined to have confidence (they think less about their behaviour's possible impacts) but it's not mutually exclusive. Many (genuinely) good guys exude confidence and, oddly enough, get the sort of attention you're describing. The key? Not deciding nor describing yourself as a 'nice guy' but actually just being a 'good person'. Try your best to be charming and attractive, but don't act like you're owed something." 100% truth...especially that last bit . | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done " Very eloquently put, OP please take this on board you will feel better and will attract women with your confidence. | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! " opssss… well said | |||
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"I’m going to let you in on a secret. Women are actually individual people and don’t actually all think the same. There is no women hive mind. We are not the borg but resistance is still futile " this says it all. Putting all women in one box means to me that the OP takes a singular view to all women who come into his life. Therefore, the negativity continues and spirals. Just to clarify: I fuck good guys: their characteristics are a turn-on. | |||
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"I’m going to let you in on a secret. Women are actually individual people and don’t actually all think the same. There is no women hive mind. We are not the borg but resistance is still futile this says it all. Putting all women in one box means to me that the OP takes a singular view to all women who come into his life. Therefore, the negativity continues and spirals. Just to clarify: I fuck good guys: their characteristics are a turn-on. " well said | |||
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"Women love bad boys with giant dicks.. they say they don’t, but they do " I dont | |||
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"True or false do nice guys always come last because the women here only seek bad boys for fun or friendship because I believe they go top of the cream type of men due the hire number of men to women here? " False. | |||
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"Women love bad boys with giant dicks.. they say they don’t, but they do " I don’t. | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done Very eloquently put, OP please take this on board you will feel better and will attract women with your confidence. " i know but being over confidence is also a bad thing in life because you can get caught out in the end anyway thanks for your nice comment have fun | |||
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"I’m going to let you in on a secret. Women are actually individual people and don’t actually all think the same. There is no women hive mind. We are not the borg but resistance is still futile " | |||
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"It's false. It's always false. It's false every time you ask the "nice guys" question OP. " i see maybe i am too nice then in the end i not as brainy and other men on here which is a big plus for them | |||
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"It's false. It's always false. It's false every time you ask the "nice guys" question OP. i see maybe i am too nice then in the end i not as brainy and other men on here which is a big plus for them " Why do you assume that the guys that do get meets are not nice? | |||
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"It's false. It's always false. It's false every time you ask the "nice guys" question OP. i see maybe i am too nice then in the end i not as brainy and other men on here which is a big plus for them Why do you assume that the guys that do get meets are not nice? " Nice guys do get meets its just about making an effort getting to know someone have a laugh dont assume because its fab its instant knickers on the floor . | |||
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"Bad boys bring drama, no one wants drama The fact is you can be as nice as you like but it won’t make ladies fancy you if the simply just don’t fancy you." | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done " I see well thank sad I take it as an insult but that life for me since returning to the uk people miss understanding me which does.. I did not intend to sound negative at all but that how you people read it by looking between the lines. Take care and have fun all | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done I see well thank sad I take it as an insult but that life for me since returning to the uk people miss understanding me which does.. I did not intend to sound negative at all but that how you people read it by looking between the lines. Take care and have fun all " As a matter of interest OP, when was it you returned to the UK from SA? | |||
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"Not true for me. Irrespective of the size of their dick a lack of respect will give them zero chance with me. Too many men on here watch too much porn and have lost all sense of reality when talking to women. Rant over... for now. " Amen sister! | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done I see well thank sad I take it as an insult but that life for me since returning to the uk people miss understanding me which does.. I did not intend to sound negative at all but that how you people read it by looking between the lines. Take care and have fun all As a matter of interest OP, when was it you returned to the UK from SA?" not saying since i not liked here it seem | |||
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"OP it doesn't matter how many times you are told this is not true, you will still be on here telling us it is and the more you say it, the less chance you are giving yourself of ever getting a meet as your constant negativity is extremely off putting! i see well thats your point of view were i was only trying a bit of banter and not being negativity in the end i feel alienated so what every happens it cool because i always feel positive no matter what people say about me behind my back Forgive me OP because I'm going to be blunt - you may "feel" positive but that's not the way you come across at all - pretty much everything you post, including this thread, comes across as negative and bemoaning your experiences here. What you posted above wasn't banter at all - it was just another negatively slanted post. I'm not saying that to be unkind, nor to put you down - but I've seen you offered a LOT of advice over time yet you still put across a negative vibe even if it's not intentional and the longer you do so, the longer you're going to remain frustrated by your interaction and experience here. Being brutally honest it's going to take a lot to turn that around but with some positivity and acceptance of the way the site works it can be done I see well thank sad I take it as an insult but that life for me since returning to the uk people miss understanding me which does.. I did not intend to sound negative at all but that how you people read it by looking between the lines. Take care and have fun all As a matter of interest OP, when was it you returned to the UK from SA? not saying since i not liked here it seem " Fair enough, it was a simple question with no hidden agenda, but your choice. | |||
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"I’m going to let you in on a secret. Women are actually individual people and don’t actually all think the same. There is no women hive mind. We are not the borg but resistance is still futile " | |||
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"OP it's nothing to do with anyone coming last or first etc and everything to do with having the right attitude and approach - if you take the negative view all the time then you're setting yourself up for failure and frustration. Take a positive view and present yourself the best you possibly can and it might not guarantee anything but it will certainly enhance your enjoyment and experience of the site generally. There is no recipe for success here - regardless of whether you have a six pack or a big cock - it's all about having the right attitude, expectations and approach - along with a decent profile and pics, a good dose of consideration and respect etc " This x | |||
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"Not true for me. Irrespective of the size of their dick a lack of respect will give them zero chance with me. Too many men on here watch too much porn and have lost all sense of reality when talking to women. Rant over... for now. " Exactly this | |||
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"False. Women want what each individual woman wants. There's no hard and fast rule, and the "nice" guys who finish last don't tend to be all that nice in the first place from my experience." I agree. A lot of people who consider themselves to be nice, really aren't. | |||
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"Women love bad boys with giant dicks.. they say they don’t, but they do " Absolutely not true ... in our experience men with "giant dicks" don't know how to use them and are only out for themselves. We agree totally with Gemini Man ... it's said it perfectly. OP just keep being yourself. If it;s any consolation, if/when we decide to invite a single man along, we will be avoiding the Giant Cock Brigade and looking for someone with personality, positivity and respect and we know many couples and women who feel the same. | |||
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"Sorry Gemini Man we didn't mean to refer to you as "it" ... it's just crap typing skills. Please accept our apology " Ha ha no apology necessary - I probably wouldn't even have noticed if you'd not pointed it out | |||
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"Sorry Gemini Man we didn't mean to refer to you as "it" ... it's just crap typing skills. Please accept our apology Ha ha no apology necessary - I probably wouldn't even have noticed if you'd not pointed it out " Thanks buddy | |||
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