FabSwingers.com forum: Fab - Expectations Vs Reality

By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

How long you got?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just how I expected it to be

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was expecting to find like minded free thinkers happy to chat and share experiences.

Ive found an active forum which is good but message responses are slow. Everyone has their preferences and reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

I expected more honesty than on dating sites. Although there is a degree more honesty here, there are still men who are happy to lie to get into a woman's knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

How long you got?"

We're here all day

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul "

You should chat to Sappy

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I expected to meet this one guy just once, maybe even twice for a little bit of hangover fun.

Over a year later, we’re on a couples profile together, with a bunch of veris from meets and have a few sex club visits under our belts now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt expect anything, but got a bit more than that. Then it all gets lost or goes peculiar. So I dont expectate anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul

You should chat to Sappy"

I cant do 9 inches

My vagina is old now

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul

You should chat to Sappy

I cant do 9 inches

My vagina is old now"

Don;t worry, neither can he -you know how bad us men are with measurements (especially those south of the border)

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Expected nothing.

Got a lot more - including abuse because of my honesty.

Better than I thought tho

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By *ligible GentMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Expected more than I got. But appreciate I could, and should put more effort into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm not sure what we expected when we signed up. We were very innocent at the time ha ha.. not anymore!

We haven't really used fab for meets but we have used fab to find out about parties and events that usually lead to playing. So it's been very useful indeed.

So expectations of swinging met I guess.

Eve. x

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

So good I've introduced other people too it

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hmmm not sure what we expected when we signed up. We were very innocent at the time ha ha.. not anymore!

We haven't really used fab for meets but we have used fab to find out about parties and events that usually lead to playing. So it's been very useful indeed.

So expectations of swinging met I guess.

Eve. x"

I was also here keeping an eye out for local events and parties but not having as much luck as id like .

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm not sure what we expected when we signed up. We were very innocent at the time ha ha.. not anymore!

We haven't really used fab for meets but we have used fab to find out about parties and events that usually lead to playing. So it's been very useful indeed.

So expectations of swinging met I guess.

Eve. x

I was also here keeping an eye out for local events and parties but not having as much luck as id like ."

Oh really? You have some great events in your area and I'm sure you're very popular at parties!

Eve. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul "

Oh Mr Statham you are being rather polite offering only 9” i’m Sure I have felt an inch more than that

not forgetting that girth. That’s why you are one of my faves

I would say it’s been way more than what we were expecting, some good some bad. For me personally I was hoping to meet a tall, hot, sexy, Jamaican and you fulfilled that fantasy and more

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hmmm not sure what we expected when we signed up. We were very innocent at the time ha ha.. not anymore!

We haven't really used fab for meets but we have used fab to find out about parties and events that usually lead to playing. So it's been very useful indeed.

So expectations of swinging met I guess.

Eve. x

I was also here keeping an eye out for local events and parties but not having as much luck as id like .

Oh really? You have some great events in your area and I'm sure you're very popular at parties!

Eve. x"

At BMFC parties or similar variations I get attention but outside of that it's very hit and miss

Nether-the-less my time on here has been quite a positively fun experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies "

That sums it up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i wasnt expecting much and i think its better then what i had expected ive been on loads of other sites like fab and had bad experiences from them so fab is heaven compared to other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm not sure what we expected when we signed up. We were very innocent at the time ha ha.. not anymore!

We haven't really used fab for meets but we have used fab to find out about parties and events that usually lead to playing. So it's been very useful indeed.

So expectations of swinging met I guess.

Eve. x

I was also here keeping an eye out for local events and parties but not having as much luck as id like .

Oh really? You have some great events in your area and I'm sure you're very popular at parties!

Eve. x

At BMFC parties or similar variations I get attention but outside of that it's very hit and miss

Nether-the-less my time on here has been quite a positively fun experience

I see. Well at interracial parties, you know that you're atleast going to be surrounded by people that are open to interracial play. That's a start.

However, I'm sure there are lots of parties that you would do well at, just choose the right ones.

We have had some hit and miss parties.

Now we tend to stick to ones that have an age limit, that will have lots of people there that we are looking for. For example young guns and mums is good for us as I love muscular men and chic is great for couples etc.

Interracial are great for us too but mostly because we don't mind the colour of people's skin if they are sexy ha ha.

Eve. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies

That sums it up!!

Certainly does.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies "

Sounds familiar

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I have no expectations

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"9 inches tehehe

Sorry just playing around

I'm here for the long haul

Oh Mr Statham you are being rather polite offering only 9” i’m Sure I have felt an inch more than that

not forgetting that girth. That’s why you are one of my faves

I would say it’s been way more than what we were expecting, some good some bad. For me personally I was hoping to meet a tall, hot, sexy, Jamaican and you fulfilled that fantasy and more

It's mutual (being one of my favs)

And I prefer to say 9" that way they may get a present surprise because I was being a little humble and modest

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

And I prefer to say 9" that way they may get a present surprise because I was being a little humble and modest "

Well you just blew that particular ruse

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I have no expectations "

You do realise you are competing with the lowest comman denominator on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies "

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didnt expect anything, but got a bit more than that. Then it all gets lost or goes peculiar. So I dont expectate anymore

I think I can make the same comment.

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We didn't know what to expect when we first signed up but we are having a ball and then some

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I expected a group if people who like actual swinging and who would want to meet.

In the main I've footy nd a liityo if people that like to fantasise about meets, aren't really swingers, in fact lok down in those who are, and the most vociferous are extremely judgemental.

But there are some great people and some people do actually want to meet, plus it's a great way to keep in touch with club meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expected to use it for clubs/parties and to get a feel for what this is all about.

Got that for sure but also a bit disheartened by the amount of fakes and people cheating outside of relationships...

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expected loads is sexually liberated people looking for erotic group experiences.

Reality, lots of socially awkward guys looking for 10min quickies

That sums it up!!

Certainly does. "

And the rest of the guys pretend they are single and looking for a f/b or perhaps more for 1 to 1. In reality they are married and want a woman who will stay in waiting for them so they can have a fuck and go with her whenever they fancy without any effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took the view of enjoying the chat and not expecting anything more ... so on that basis it's exceeded my expectations!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We didn't really know what to expect from Fab and it took us a bit of time to find our feet but after that things have gone pretty well.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

Didn't expect anything

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We expected it to be a smorgasbord of sexual experiences with horny people... and its been all that and more... plus we have made some awesome friends!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve had good times and bad .... met some lovely people along the way and had some experiences I’d only ever dreamt about .... clubs opened my eyes to things I’d never thought I’d see .... so after 14yrs of swinging I’m still going ... not all spent here mind you ... and I continue to meet new people and enjoy new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the highest high when you’ve had a brilliant meet and the worst place when you’ve had a crap encounter. I’ve had the privilege to meet some really lovely people who I’d call friends, one I’m still regularly in touch with 7 years on. That’s why I come back

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The good out weigh the bad. although fab can be addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

I expected more honesty than on dating sites. Although there is a degree more honesty here, there are still men who are happy to lie to get into a woman's knickers.

People on here lie?

Do you want to go on a date with me? We will fly in my private airplane to an island I own and we can have sex. you can suck on my 20 inch cock. Lol

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expected to meet horny women that wanted to have great sex....

The reality is most of these women want a monogamous relationship and use swinging as a ruse to trap men.....

Some women do put “ looking for a relationship “ on their profiles so not all women are being deceitful....

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I expected to meet horny women that wanted to have great sex....

The reality is most of these women want a monogamous relationship and use swinging as a ruse to trap men.....

Some women do put “ looking for a relationship “ on their profiles so not all women are being deceitful...."

I have seen this 1 or 2 times.

Seems like it's being addresses as "not looking to go through all the men on this site, i just want one nice guy that keeps me happy"

Not an issue at all but the ratio is against men as it already stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

.... who's gonna point out it's free to join???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

I couldn't, nor will I recommend Fab to any body! If a person might have a different opinion then another, they are treated like doggy poopoo. If a person specifies that a particular group of people NOT contact them, they get dozens of inquiries from the very same people who were asked not to! This site is certainly NOT worth the money it cost to join it!"
awwwww you have to be flexible in your approach to everything even here trouble is once you get older your patience runs out and things that wouldn't have annoyed you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expected to chat to single guys...females and couples. To have good chat and have mmf ffm and mfmf

Reality...guys are brand new with good chat. Females are a pain in the arse and couples can't string a sentence together x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I expected to chat to single guys...females and couples. To have good chat and have mmf ffm and mfmf

Reality...guys are brand new with good chat. Females are a pain in the arse and couples can't string a sentence together x"

You're a couple and you just did..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Fab is what you make it. I've met lovely people on here and interacted with some not so nice people. It meets my expectations however I choose to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

I don't expect anything

If things get off the ground great.

Its definitely not a marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reality hasn't always been good. Did meet one guy though who changed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

I couldn't, nor will I recommend Fab to any body! If a person might have a different opinion then another, they are treated like doggy poopoo. If a person specifies that a particular group of people NOT contact them, they get dozens of inquiries from the very same people who were asked not to! This site is certainly NOT worth the money it cost to join it!awwwww you have to be flexible in your approach to everything even here trouble is once you get older your patience runs out and things that wouldn't have annoyed you do "

You also need manners. Some people are rude. You need loads of patience. You need decency and respect.

Reality is this.

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

I joined expecting fuck all and have not been disappointed.

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Over eleven years on and off Fab have had two swinging relationships and was happy. Most meets have been good but not exceptional.

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By *exual SuperheroesCouple
over a year ago

Watford / York

I got more than I ever imagined possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had zero expectations, I didn’t even know what the whole place was about, just stumbled onto it one day more years ago than I care to remember! The reality has been great mainly, I’ve made some great friend, had some amazing times and don’t regret a damn thing (other than that one meet where I wasn’t sure and I turned up and she had no teeth) (no really!)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When I set up this profile I didn't expect anything other than to spend time messing around on the forums and I still don't expect a great deal more than that.

The reality is I spend time messing around on the forums but also talking to some great people and when there's a connection and chemistry there I have met them too.

So expectations have been very much exceeded

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Win some loose some we have met some amazing people and created mind blowing memories. And it goes without really saying some total time wasters

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

We expected loads of sex .

We got loads of sex .

It was exactly as we thought it would be .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you expect?

Whats your reality?

Has it been a better or worse experience than you would have hoped?

We expected loads of sex .

We got loads of sex .

It was exactly as we thought it would be ."

You win the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes in cycles ... sometimes good and then a bit quiet. But overall it's good and I've bumped into some fun folks, some of whom I've had the pleasure to meet!

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