FabSwingers.com forum: Age... Just a number?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious to hear what opinions are concerning age. I have a real hang up about playing with anyone much younger than 35. Not sure where that comes from, but it's always been an issue for me. Him, not so much

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear what opinions are concerning age. I have a real hang up about playing with anyone much younger than 35. Not sure where that comes from, but it's always been an issue for me. Him, not so much

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?"

Totally with you on this one. I feel no need to mentally compare myself to a firm, nubile twenty something.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Just a number. As long as your sex-partners are of legal age and consent, then why not go for it?

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I have an age from 30 for single males. Purely for the fact my oldest kid is 20yrs old and wudnt feel rigt on a 1-1 basis. However, in a couples scenario it dont matter..i dont kno why but that is my preference xx

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Nope, it's a lot more than a number, under 25 I'd just feel icky.

Much more comfortable around the 35-45 area x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have an age from 30 for single males. Purely for the fact my oldest kid is 20yrs old and wudnt feel rigt on a 1-1 basis. However, in a couples scenario it dont matter..i dont kno why but that is my preference xx"

I'm with you on that one - daughter is 21

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Just a number, being a twat isn't an age related phase. I should know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, it's a lot more than a number, under 25 I'd just feel icky.

Much more comfortable around the 35-45 area x "

I'd love to understand why it feels icky though

Maybe it's because I'm a mother? Argh

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes just a number but everyone to there own thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a number, being a twat isn't an age related phase. I should know

Lol, it's not the twattage that's an issue for me though - twats come in all ages (women too)

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I'm with you on that one - daughter is 21

Son 19 and Daughter 20 xx

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Nope, it's a lot more than a number, under 25 I'd just feel icky.

Much more comfortable around the 35-45 area x

I'd love to understand why it feels icky though

Maybe it's because I'm a mother? Argh"

Yes this is definitely a factor x

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

but would it not count on how old they look rather than what the age is, so say you wouldnt meet a 21 yr old, but met a 21 yr old who looked 30...har dlife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t go for younger guys, I date guys my own age and older, but on here I’m seeking for soemthing I wouldn’t find in my social circle.

It’s totally your choice on what you like and what you’re comfortable with and I don’t think anyone should be judged for it!

I know that many wouldn’t feel comfortable with going with women as young as their children/grandchildren and that’s fine.

I was messaging a man in his 50s who decided he wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting me as I’m younger than his youngest daughter, I respected that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but would it not count on how old they look rather than what the age is, so say you wouldnt meet a 21 yr old, but met a 21 yr old who looked 30...har dlife lol"

Very hard life, lol. I'd have to have a word and cook him a healthy meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a number" is the usual reply when I respond to a message with "Sorry but you are too young"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a dad, I prefer ladies older than 25. Any younger than that and I'm uneasy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Age isn't just a number. It signifies the length of time you've been alive which in its turn implies a certain experience, knowledge, set of cultural references and attitudes. It's a generalisation I know but we have to work that way or a lot of time would be wasted.

I don't want to meet men younger than about 37, I don't see it as a hang up though, it's just how I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a factor for me tbh. I do like a wide spectrum of ages, it’s called experimentation.

Yes at 44 I’m still experimenting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't go below 25, but according to the young ones,I'm a mature older lady today, so I'm considering blocking anyone under 30 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older guys and rarely break that preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn’t just a number - I wouldn’t go for anyone under 30

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Won't go below 25, but according to the young ones,I'm a mature older lady today, so I'm considering blocking anyone under 30 lol

Lol, block away. I guess that makes me ancient then

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Dirty 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Won't go below 25, but according to the young ones,I'm a mature older lady today, so I'm considering blocking anyone under 30 lol

Lol, block away. I guess that makes me ancient then

Not going to lie, I'm about wounded today

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

At my age, must about everyone wants younger haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At my age, must about everyone wants younger haha "

Maybe

Older doesn't bother me though - just younger. Lots of sexy older men about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn’t just a number - I wouldn’t go for anyone under 30

Might be in with a shot then lol

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?"

Couldn't care less if I'm attracted to the other person that's it

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?"

we exactly the same and do get a bit peed off with the " you dont know what your missing with a young cock" messages actually i do know what they we like i tried plenty when i was young too!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older woman for me xx anyday xx

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I seem to have a cut off at around 35 upwards. Don't know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is over 30 as I have a 29 year old kid x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not just a number to me - it generally indicates the likelihood of my interest in people sexually as well as for other things.

Peoples' age filters are useful for them and it's a good site feature.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

When meeting a single person I have no issues with age and. Are more snout their attitude and outlook to both life in general and the experience in which we’re about to share. Particularly that in which we’re about to share.

If we’re compatible and can manage to tantalise and tease one another then our ages are irrelevant as far as I’m concerned.

As for couples meets again it’s less about ages and more about how solid they are in their relationship. I don’t want to be with someone who has difficulty in the situation and we have been in that situation in the past.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defiantly a number my youngest 31 best fuck ever and loves me to death in the fuck sense.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its much more than a number to me

I prefer my own age or slightly older,as i find i get on with them best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters."

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I won’t meet anyone under 30 generally as my eldest is 23.

I’ll meet early 30’s but they have to be mature for their age.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Well as my girlfriend is 21 id say thats lowest id go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

I don’t mind a year or so out but if your profile says your 49 and you’re really 54 then that’s not on.

Same on the younger scale, tell me your 30 and I find out your 25, wtf!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,age is just a number.

That doesn't take anything away from the fact that many are are just the wrong number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's definitely not just a number, my age preference is a conscious choice coming from experience. I have noticed that the men below 30, they may have all the talk, but they hardly ever have the walk. They are too hang up on their cock as their main tool for satisfying a woman, and get really upset if, for whatever reason, it doesn't work. As then they don't feel 'man enough'. Also, some of them get attached too quickly.

I actually prefer older guys, over 50 but not too old. As they have very good technique and know that pleasuring a woman is not just about the cock.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Age is just a number, I've seen some 50+ ladies look drop-dead gorgeous, but I admit I've seen some ladies of younger years look like road kill.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Age is just a number, I've seen some 50+ ladies look drop-dead gorgeous, but I admit I've seen some ladies of younger years look like road kill.

Age is no bar to beauty, young or old but a great looking younger woman has different charms to a great looking older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age = experience, amongst other things. No accounting for that. Older is simply better in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is not just a number. It may seem like that for under 30s, but I am 85 and running out of numbers.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

As the saying goes if I could have pushed them out I don't want them to push back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the saying goes if I could have pushed them out I don't want them to push back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about maturity level. Undoubtedly, there are exceptions to this, but i do find my own age group more on my personal wavelength. So for me, age is not just a number (though i do find it's the younger men who tout this, when I've pointed out that they are too young).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, it's a lot more than a number, under 25 I'd just feel icky.

Much more comfortable around the 35-45 area x

I'd love to understand why it feels icky though

Maybe it's because I'm a mother? Argh"

At a wild guess I'd say that's probably what it is, in the same way as a lot of us have upper limits because it would feel weird having sex with someone the same age as our parents

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Not just a number, I want someone old enough to have something in common and be able to chat comfortably too but not too old that they can't keep up with me - don't want to be calling an ambulance (which nearly happened once with a guy who had been economical with the truth about his age)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

I don’t mind a year or so out but if your profile says your 49 and you’re really 54 then that’s not on.

Same on the younger scale, tell me your 30 and I find out your 25, wtf!!"

I agree.

It’s so out of order.

The highest I’ve seen was 11 years and he messaged me with his honest age, you could tell he was lying anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Age is not just a number. It may seem like that for under 30s, but I am 85 and running out of numbers.

But you're making the most of the numbers you've got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?"
I think you have more chance of a connection if your same age or older nut much younger not so

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

I don’t mind a year or so out but if your profile says your 49 and you’re really 54 then that’s not on.

Same on the younger scale, tell me your 30 and I find out your 25, wtf!!

I agree.

It’s so out of order.

The highest I’ve seen was 11 years and he messaged me with his honest age, you could tell he was lying anyway. "

Being serious for a second, can't say I've ever lied about my age except when under 18 to get served in a pub. Don't see the point in this context as you're going to be found out and how sad must it look when you are?!

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By *earded GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Deffo just a number , i think connection and attraction are the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

I don’t mind a year or so out but if your profile says your 49 and you’re really 54 then that’s not on.

Same on the younger scale, tell me your 30 and I find out your 25, wtf!!

I agree.

It’s so out of order.

The highest I’ve seen was 11 years and he messaged me with his honest age, you could tell he was lying anyway.

I don’t get it either.

According to some older men who I’ve asked when I’ve seen they’ve lied it’s because of filters which I think is out of order.

If you’re not in someone’s age preferences you shouldn’t be lying about your age to get into them and deceive them.

There are so many people in this site and someone for everyone there’s never a need to lie about your age in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As the saying goes if I could have pushed them out I don't want them to push back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is age just a number to you or do you have a preference?I think you have more chance of a connection if your same age or older nut much younger not so "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple at a club. Hubby was pestering me to fuck his wife(she was also asking me).

She looked a bit young to me! It creeped me out tbh.

Hubby told me she was 23 and even showed me her driving licence.

Let’s just say,I made a sharp exit and let them find another guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people have age preferences however many don’t display this in their profile using the filters... I wonder why?

Maybe they aren’t keen but wouldn’t rule it out I guess!

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

"Age isn’t just a number and it’s annoying when people lie about it (substantially) to get around filters.

I'd lie about my age to get round your filters!.....I haven't lied about my age, just so we're clear

I don’t mind a year or so out but if your profile says your 49 and you’re really 54 then that’s not on.

Same on the younger scale, tell me your 30 and I find out your 25, wtf!!

I agree.

It’s so out of order.

The highest I’ve seen was 11 years and he messaged me with his honest age, you could tell he was lying anyway.

I don’t get it either.

According to some older men who I’ve asked when I’ve seen they’ve lied it’s because of filters which I think is out of order.

If you’re not in someone’s age preferences you shouldn’t be lying about your age to get into them and deceive them.

There are so many people in this site and someone for everyone there’s never a need to lie about your age in my opinion! "

Too right, but vanity or insecurity can be motivating forces for the "what's the harm" types. Rights or wrongs of age limits, it's still the individuals choice.

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

"I think a lot of people have age preferences however many don’t display this in their profile using the filters... I wonder why?

Maybe they aren’t keen but wouldn’t rule it out I guess!"

I don't get enough offers to need filters, it's either one or nothing

*world's smallest violin plays in the background *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a number for me.

I've met people who are younger than but very mature personality wise and vice versa. I believe in not judging a book by it's cover, cliche I know.

I like to look at each person or couple subjectively and then see what kind of reaction I'm having inside me to make the next decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people have age preferences however many don’t display this in their profile using the filters... I wonder why?

Maybe they aren’t keen but wouldn’t rule it out I guess!"

That's a good tip for people asking for feedback on their profiles, myself included!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant stand the phrase `its just a number'.

We all have preferences.. just accept that that person isnt interested in you because of you age.. and get over it.

Personally I just prefer the look of guys my age and in my opinion I consider them to be more honest, sincere, tactile and they are less likely to be timewasters.. sorry but thats my experience and im sure its not the case with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how the majority of women think its not just a number and the guys do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't go below the age of 30 for male and female just a preference of mines.

Although I keep getting told age is only a number but i just don't feel right about it so won't do it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s more than just a number. But it’s difficult to define exactly why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 to 45 only.

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