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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Not everyone is after a huge cock. Plenty of average cocks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horses for courses on here. Some prefer bigger, some smaller. There is no 'one size fits all'

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By *pocalypse10Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Not really. Using it is the best method. And that can be learned if you are not the most experienced. I'm endowed and some girls don't like it and others I have to be gentle. But some love it hard. Everyone's different. It's about learning what works best for you and who you're sleeping with. And just have the conversation what she wants. I love being directed.

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi im not the big cock guy WISH I WAS the pictures of some guys are fucking BIG and im thinking no chance on hear

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By *pocalypse10Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Some girls I know have the best sex ever with smaller cocks so as said before. Horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im not the big cock guy WISH I WAS the pictures of some guys are fucking BIG and im thinking no chance on hear"

Don't let that put you off. Some don't belong to the person on the profile either. Genuinely, some are not hung up on size here. Just focus on the ones who are not and ignore the ones who are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im not the big cock guy WISH I WAS the pictures of some guys are fucking BIG and im thinking no chance on hear

Don't let that put you off. Some don't belong to the person on the profile either. Genuinely, some are not hung up on size here. Just focus on the ones who are not and ignore the ones who are "

. That is just another reason you are one of my favourite girls in here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*here... And no, not everyone is part of the bigger is better way of thinking. It is also more about the man it is attached to for most too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average here, and to be honest I get intimidated by the vast number of profiles looking for huge cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im not the big cock guy WISH I WAS the pictures of some guys are fucking BIG and im thinking no chance on hear

Don't let that put you off. Some don't belong to the person on the profile either. Genuinely, some are not hung up on size here. Just focus on the ones who are not and ignore the ones who are . That is just another reason you are one of my favourite girls in here x "

Aww that's really sweet. Thank you lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm average (slightly bigger apperently lol) and it seems to me that it's not just what you do with it, it's the whole meet! The kissing, the build up, there's a LOT more than just cock size.

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Thankyou guys that has made me a bit better about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gives me some hope also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I have much better orgasms with an average cock, as long as it is attached to a man I fancy the arse off!

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Guys what about the licking and the build up the girls ladys say they don't like that so what should I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I have much better orgasms with an average cock, as long as it is attached to a man I fancy the arse off! "
Damm that's me out then. Not the cock but the attractiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I have much better orgasms with an average cock, as long as it is attached to a man I fancy the arse off! "

100% agree with this. You've hit the nail on the head

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

So is the kissing and fingering is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys what about the licking and the build up the girls ladys say they don't like that so what should I do "

Find ladies that do like it! I am sure there are plenty here that love that as much as the rest! Surely wouldn't be so many bi/curious ladies, if they didn't... Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I have much better orgasms with an average cock, as long as it is attached to a man I fancy the arse off! Damm that's me out then. Not the cock but the attractiveness "

Haha well I can't see your face past the extreme close ups of your cock so I wouldn't know

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Shaved balls the lot or a bit then

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

there is a lota people on here demanding big cocks it is a lil intimidating for the normal guys like us then again I wonder how often these people are disappointed when they meet the many guys who put up pics of there aledgedly huge cock which as mentioned probably isn't there's. I would hope if a lady finds me attractive and I do the right things I can give her the pleasure she deserves well I'm Gona try anyway lol other things we do must play a huge part in it all to surely. I'm strait so my opinion is prob bit blinkered but a huge cock or a little one never look attractive to me lol that's my five and bit inches on the matter anyway xx

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

Ashley actually prefers smaller than mine in her pussy as she sometimes struggles to take me but having said that she doesn't have a preference for her ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't. A little above average here and I do ok. The vast majority of women on here are not concerned with cock size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines just like goldilicks wanted just right and snuggled right up to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear "

I prefer a larger cock, just my preference, but I don't turn down guys just because they have average cocks. There are plenty of girls here who don't like large ones so no, it doesn't matter at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big cock can be a curse, in that not every woman wants a big cock. Over the years I’ve had women turn me down just because I have a big cock.

“I want to be able to walk” and “ohh think I’m in trouble here’ have been said to me on several occasions. And anal sex with a woman, forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I have a particularly huge cock, although been told VWE so like to think the same, either way it’s not pick n mix... I’m kinda attached and make the best I can of mine LOL

To mirror what the above poster said, anal sex is a no no... only ever experienced the pleasure once, no one else has wanted to try, citing pain is not top of their to do list. Occasionally turned down in my younger years due to size and fear or concern from the other party (albeit back then they probably had limited experience and limited exposure to a variety of size)

OP... smaller guys here fair well, as do bigger guys, and all of us in between Many people have a preference and you do see a lot of profiles specifying VWE/Hung only (but read their verifications and cross reference and pull see many they meet don’t fit that requirement in the first instance) so don’t fret about it, enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a good old averaged sized one!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

no good having a huge cock but being an absolute twat, you have to message and speak to people to sort anything out and a twat would be spotted just as quick as a huge cocked guy

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Not the size but obviously how it's used...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who ask for big cocks also tend to want really muscular men. So its just superficial. I'd rather go out for a drink and get to know them first . Not my fault I love a burger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear "

I wouldn’t know - I’ve only got the one, so no way I can make a comparison as to which gets/gives the best results...

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear "

I kinda like Mr average so anything below 3 inches or above 9 inches I struggle with.

Cock size not that important but I do like a man that can spell! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average is just as enjoyable...

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

although it is a womans right to want a large cock, nothing wrong if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is classed as a big cock(no i dont mean me) i was embarrassed by mine all through my teens it lately i keep getting told that im blessed.

And no this posy isnt a sly check my profile line either just a bit of honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is classed as a big cock(no i dont mean me) i was embarrassed by mine all through my teens it lately i keep getting told that im blessed.

And no this posy isnt a sly check my profile line either just a bit of honesty "

I know what you mean dude, used to get teased in the communal showers at school. Different story now tho. Thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never got teased but never saw him as anything special...... But now its a whole new ball game(pardon the pun)

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

Just be yourself mate. Sometimes more fore play does the job. If she ever complains about not big enough then your hand was also made for fisting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

I kinda like Mr average so anything below 3 inches or above 9 inches I struggle with.

Cock size not that important but I do like a man that can spell! lol"

I here ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves!

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves! "

True say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear "

Yes it does I would say...if you look in the meeting section most profile say need to be hung/vwe/girthy/8+ etc....so I would say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

Yes it does I would say...if you look in the meeting section most profile say need to be hung/vwe/girthy/8+ etc....so I would say yes"

But if you don’t have a big cock why do you care about the profiles that are looking for soemthing you don’t have?

Plenty men don’t like BBWs it doesn’t make me feel inadequate or insecure, I just move on to those who do! Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

Yes it does I would say...if you look in the meeting section most profile say need to be hung/vwe/girthy/8+ etc....so I would say yes

But if you don’t have a big cock why do you care about the profiles that are looking for soemthing you don’t have?

Plenty men don’t like BBWs it doesn’t make me feel inadequate or insecure, I just move on to those who do! Simples. "

I don't care...he asked a question and I answered...I'm on about the meet section where you don't have to click on there profile it will have a little message attached saying for eg... ''only want hung" etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves! "

I don't know, it's only Tuesday. We could fit at least another dozen or so cries for help from insecure men who've been watching too much plastic porn and now think every other man has something like a rounders bat in their pants and every woman carries a tape measure and high expectations to every meet they have!

Just my thoughts on the subject

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

It’s mainly men that are obsessed with cock size.

Women like to follow fashion, and as fashions are often set by gay men, they end up with the same preferences, therefore some women will want guys who are bigger than average.

In reality very few women actually care. You’ll find that most of the profiles requesting minimum sized (gigantic) cocks are ones that are not verified/no pictures, ie. fake, or have a bisexual man who has more interest in it than his female partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocks have their place and some people are very attracted by them but it's not the whole story by any stretch of the imagination.

Sex, eroticism and sensuality are so much more and focusing so much on one part is very self-limiting to the array of pleasure available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

Yes it does I would say...if you look in the meeting section most profile say need to be hung/vwe/girthy/8+ etc....so I would say yes

But if you don’t have a big cock why do you care about the profiles that are looking for soemthing you don’t have?

Plenty men don’t like BBWs it doesn’t make me feel inadequate or insecure, I just move on to those who do! Simples.

I don't care...he asked a question and I answered...I'm on about the meet section where you don't have to click on there profile it will have a little message attached saying for eg... ''only want hung" etc...."

But again, so what?

If you don’t fit the description of what they are looking for what’s the problem? I just don’t get why so many are so caught up on people who have no interest in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves!

I don't know, it's only Tuesday. We could fit at least another dozen or so cries for help from insecure men who've been watching too much plastic porn and now think every other man has something like a rounders bat in their pants and every woman carries a tape measure and high expectations to every meet they have!

Just my thoughts on the subject "

LOL! Made me laugh out loud that!

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Cocks have their place and some people are very attracted by them but it's not the whole story by any stretch of the imagination.

Sex, eroticism and sensuality are so much more and focusing so much on one part is very self-limiting to the array of pleasure available. "

But you can have all of the above with an above average appendage ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves!

I don't know, it's only Tuesday. We could fit at least another dozen or so cries for help from insecure men who've been watching too much plastic porn and now think every other man has something like a rounders bat in their pants and every woman carries a tape measure and high expectations to every meet they have!

Just my thoughts on the subject

LOL! Made me laugh out loud that! "

. A ROUNDERS BAT!!! more like a cricket bale here

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves!

I don't know, it's only Tuesday. We could fit at least another dozen or so cries for help from insecure men who've been watching too much plastic porn and now think every other man has something like a rounders bat in their pants and every woman carries a tape measure and high expectations to every meet they have!

Just my thoughts on the subject

LOL! Made me laugh out loud that! "

Glad to have been of service, but just for reference, you don't have a tape measure do you?

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"How many of these threads are we going to see this week lol!

It seems to me the only ones truly bothered about cock size is the guys themselves!

I don't know, it's only Tuesday. We could fit at least another dozen or so cries for help from insecure men who've been watching too much plastic porn and now think every other man has something like a rounders bat in their pants and every woman carries a tape measure and high expectations to every meet they have!

Just my thoughts on the subject

LOL! Made me laugh out loud that! . A ROUNDERS BAT!!! more like a cricket bale here "

Had me stumped for a minute there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why the large cock bashing tho ?? just because a guy has a large dick dont mean hes a twat or he dont know how to use it ?? and so wish more women would be honest as for me would i turn a meet down for having a small cock ..yep too right i would just as i would if they had 10 inches as someone has already said there will be women who like what they like but lets stop the bashing big or small man or woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just me lol what you see what you get xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No - your cock is what you have, so the task in hand is then to find people who find you attractive in all ways, including your tool.

Lots dislike very big cocks, others put little attention to the size, others don't bother much with length, only caring about girth etc.

Be honest and confident with what you have.

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By *earded GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

It's how you use it for sure, I'm not small but not massive ether .. I'd say somwhere around average but with a slight curve .. so hit that g spot very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the size but obviously how it's used..."

My sentiments exactly. I enjoy the build up so much, the sexy playful focus on how well we pleasure each other during foreplay. Size doesn’t matter when you’re feeling every sensation from skin on skin action. Passionate kissing, rubbing your wet cock across the clit... mmmmm.... by the time you come to sliding in my pussy I’m oblivious to the size... I’m getting deliciously carried away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pref large ones myself but play with different sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why the large cock bashing tho ?? just because a guy has a large dick dont mean hes a twat or he dont know how to use it ?? and so wish more women would be honest as for me would i turn a meet down for having a small cock ..yep too right i would just as i would if they had 10 inches as someone has already said there will be women who like what they like but lets stop the bashing big or small man or woman "

Didn't you know?!? Pretty men with a 6 pack and a big dick and beautiful slim women are all horrible in the personality department!! Always seems to get that way on here anyway. Whichever body type/cock size/boob size/arse size/age etc is getting praised, the opposite almost always get slated in some way, unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

???? oh right so because im slim im bashed ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but know what you mean thing is we are all who we are and we all want different ...spend more time finding what you want and let the others do what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"???? oh right so because im slim im bashed ?? "

The point being, when there is a thread be it appreciation, self esteem or the such like, the opposite of those types will invariably sometimes get bashed. Not slim in general. It depends on the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"???? oh right so because im slim im bashed ?? "

Occasionally, possibly, yes. Some people think that bashing the opposite of who is being praised, can help their chances... The big cock guys not knowing what they are doing on an average cock thread, men prefering a real woman(bigger gals) over a stick insect... You know.. The usual guff... It Usually gets them a ticking off on here tbh but it doesn't stop em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well bugger my fat ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter if you have not got a big cock on hear

Yes it does I would say...if you look in the meeting section most profile say need to be hung/vwe/girthy/8+ etc....so I would say yes

But if you don’t have a big cock why do you care about the profiles that are looking for soemthing you don’t have?

Plenty men don’t like BBWs it doesn’t make me feel inadequate or insecure, I just move on to those who do! Simples.

I don't care...he asked a question and I answered...I'm on about the meet section where you don't have to click on there profile it will have a little message attached saying for eg... ''only want hung" etc....

But again, so what?

If you don’t fit the description of what they are looking for what’s the problem? I just don’t get why so many are so caught up on people who have no interest in them. "

....and again I'm not arsed I was just answering his question about whether it mattered...and in the majority of the profiles it does...and I state again I'm not bothered what people request on there profile. ..cheers

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Hiya guys so do the girls and lady's like cum over there face and in the mouth

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

So do ladys and girls like cum over There face or in the mouth

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By *ock.sucker300Man
over a year ago

nr wellington

I like a big one in my mouth but a small one in my ass x

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