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if I make another man suck my cock does it make me bi?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very confused with this swinging game

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No.... Just borderline sexual assault.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Did they teach you nothing at porn school????

Of course you're bi!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

did you have to force him??

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"No.... Just borderline sexual assault."

Borderline...i think if you make another man perform a sex act it is sexual assault.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Depends ..... were you in prison at the time?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"No.... Just borderline sexual assault.

Borderline...i think if you make another man perform a sex act it is sexual assault. "

Yup... You are right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not assault if the guy is naturally submissive and gets off on being 'forced' and the guy receiving the BJ is naturally dominant and gets off on forcing people to suck his cock - male or female.

Maybe the OP can clarify whether this was/is part of a BDSM fantasy or not before anyone judges him.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It's not assault if the guy is naturally submissive and gets off on being 'forced' and the guy receiving the BJ is naturally dominant and gets off on forcing people to suck his cock - male or female.

Maybe the OP can clarify whether this was/is part of a BDSM fantasy or not before anyone judges him."

informed consent

force is redundant in bdsm

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's not assault if the guy is naturally submissive and gets off on being 'forced' and the guy receiving the BJ is naturally dominant and gets off on forcing people to suck his cock - male or female.

Maybe the OP can clarify whether this was/is part of a BDSM fantasy or not before anyone judges him."

Of course... The important word is 'if'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not assault if the guy is naturally submissive and gets off on being 'forced' and the guy receiving the BJ is naturally dominant and gets off on forcing people to suck his cock - male or female.

Maybe the OP can clarify whether this was/is part of a BDSM fantasy or not before anyone judges him.

informed consent

force is redundant in bdsm"

Not if it is an intrinsic part of a scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends ..... were you in prison at the time?"

Well this made me giggle.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

i think it just make u bi curious.make a man uck ure cock the next thing is you doing the same.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make him do it against his will you are committing a sexual offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat grass, am I a horse?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It's not assault if the guy is naturally submissive and gets off on being 'forced' and the guy receiving the BJ is naturally dominant and gets off on forcing people to suck his cock - male or female.

Maybe the OP can clarify whether this was/is part of a BDSM fantasy or not before anyone judges him.

informed consent

force is redundant in bdsm

Not if it is an intrinsic part of a scene."

Then that scene is agreed beforehand...like the kind of play we cant discuss here no one is forced except without pre

agreed consent...so force becomes a redundant term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to be more detailed on how the situation came about and perhaps word it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you going to shout surprise ?

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Are you a poultry farmer and will it be shown on Countryfile?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If you made another man suck your cock.why are you asking this question.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

mmdfil, don't you know that all "porn stars" are really innocents and have no knowledge of bi-sexuality whatsoever!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you let a man suck your cock in any form then you are bi...

str8 people dont let same sex perform sex acts on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it makes you a twat

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By *ever been kissedMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

why would u make a poor bloke suck a chicken....?

that's just mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... Just borderline sexual assault."

hahahahaha sorry that really did make me laugh

but yeah if you have sexual contact with someone of the same sex you bi, dont think its anything to do with swinging tho i think that rule applies to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you let a man suck your cock in any form then you are bi...

str8 people dont let same sex perform sex acts on them."

You can't say that on here! There's no such thing as straight, allegedly, just people repressed and in denial.

Everyone is "bi playful" then "straight" when they get dressed...until the next time. Or so I've been led to believe by people here who become bi when their clothes come off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

No you are not bi if a guy sucked your cock for 5 minutes or so during a party etc. Sexuality is not defined by what happens in a few minutes of fun at a club.

We are a heterosexual couple. We are attracted to members of the opposite sex. I've had a woman lick me at a party, it doesn't make me a lesbian.

My OH has had a guy suck him too. What happened for 5 minutes has not changed his sexuality. Outside of that orgy play session in the jacuzzi at Chams, he is not suddenly bisexual and wanting sexual relationships with both men and women.

Neither of us is in any form of denial in relation to our sexuality.

My OH went into a gay bar once, he did not come out of there with a desire to wear leather hotpants either.

So no, I do not believe that a few minutes of fun in a club defines your whole sexuality and sexual identity

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

"

Actually the use of the word 'make' defines the title... for ME, it reads that if you force, 'whether in an agreed roleplay or not..' being the DOM would make you less Bi.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

Actually the use of the word 'make' defines the title... for ME, it reads that if you force, 'whether in an agreed roleplay or not..' being the DOM would make you less Bi."

ps.. and being the Dom...is still the same, your Bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted to say I love Sassy's description of "bi-playful". I've never come across an apt term before for how I feel but that's it.

As for the OP, I don't think it makes you bi, just dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I eat grass, am I a horse? "

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it looks like chesse smells like chesse tastes like chesse it sure as hell isnt roast beef is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I eat grass, am I a horse?

Probably "

Nay mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope just greedy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it looks like chesse smells like chesse tastes like chesse it sure as hell isnt roast beef is it ?"

crap, what did i eat last night then!!?!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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crap, what did i eat last night then!!?!?? "

You ate crap last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no just close your eyes ,i suck a few married guys cocks on a regular basis ,and there reason there wifes dont susk and they like to se there cum being swallowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you let a man suck your cock in any form then you are bi...

str8 people dont let same sex perform sex acts on them."

Think personally there is a tad bit more to it than that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you a raging homosexual who will never want to be with a women again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i think it may make you a tad bi!

if you were all playing and a male happend to start playing with you = bi curious or try playfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

No you are not bi if a guy sucked your cock for 5 minutes or so during a party etc. Sexuality is not defined by what happens in a few minutes of fun at a club.

We are a heterosexual couple. We are attracted to members of the opposite sex. I've had a woman lick me at a party, it doesn't make me a lesbian.

My OH has had a guy suck him too. What happened for 5 minutes has not changed his sexuality. Outside of that orgy play session in the jacuzzi at Chams, he is not suddenly bisexual and wanting sexual relationships with both men and women.

Neither of us is in any form of denial in relation to our sexuality.

My OH went into a gay bar once, he did not come out of there with a desire to wear leather hotpants either.

So no, I do not believe that a few minutes of fun in a club defines your whole sexuality and sexual identity

"

no it doesnt make you lesbien or gay..it makes you bi.

As a straight person if i let some one suck my cock for a second or an hour then that,s bi sex.

Why is that so hard for some people to understand..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

No you are not bi if a guy sucked your cock for 5 minutes or so during a party etc. Sexuality is not defined by what happens in a few minutes of fun at a club.

We are a heterosexual couple. We are attracted to members of the opposite sex. I've had a woman lick me at a party, it doesn't make me a lesbian.

My OH has had a guy suck him too. What happened for 5 minutes has not changed his sexuality. Outside of that orgy play session in the jacuzzi at Chams, he is not suddenly bisexual and wanting sexual relationships with both men and women.

Neither of us is in any form of denial in relation to our sexuality.

My OH went into a gay bar once, he did not come out of there with a desire to wear leather hotpants either.

So no, I do not believe that a few minutes of fun in a club defines your whole sexuality and sexual identity

no it doesnt make you lesbien or gay..it makes you bi.

As a straight person if i let some one suck my cock for a second or an hour then that,s bi sex.

Why is that so hard for some people to understand.."

I don't understand either. Think you and I are in a minority on this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this "am I this, if I do that" really makes me chuckle.

Just as Popeye always says "I yam what I yam"

and too be honest, no one gives a flying fook whether you are gay, bi, or straight.

The only thing that determines whether or not you might or might not get a shag, are, if they are attracted to you, they might get it on with you.

If they aren't then they definately wont.

It is that black and white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should never force another man to suck your cock,or wasit a bdsm situation ,doh now im confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's chesse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy tries to suck your cock and doesn't end up with his nose in a splint your bi.

If a guy shoves his cock in your mouth and you don't spit half of it on the floor your bi.

Being bi is not just a spur of the moment action, its a state of mind, something you've thought about that excites you and makes you want to experience it.

There are no grey areas except in the minds of people who refuse to accept what they are. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi curious,,,

a total straight guy would not let another guy do that but just cause you did dosnt make you bi,,,or gay?

hey its all about enjoying yourself and if you did,,,nothing wrong with that xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are bi for looking at pictures on the internet, even gay people turn bi or totally straight as soon as they see a nice tasty fanny.Of course gay women dont exist as they all like cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've smoked grass! Was i on my high horse
"I eat grass, am I a horse? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi curious,,,

a total straight guy would not let another guy do that but just cause you did dosnt make you bi,,,or gay?

hey its all about enjoying yourself and if you did,,,nothing wrong with that xx

auds xx "

But surely once you've done it, enjoyed it, then do it again, your no longer "bi curious".

Plus, a straight guy would never even harbour the thought, or if he did, would be completely turned off by it. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people are bi for looking at pictures on the internet, even gay people turn bi or totally straight as soon as they see a nice tasty fanny.Of course gay women dont exist as they all like cock.

"

Don't be so sure about gay women liking cock . I know plenty who don't do penetrative sex at all even with toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bud lightyear an woody are safe then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like assault with a friendly weapon to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you would understand the whole bi scene, gay scene, straight scene with you being in the porn industry Bob!

You go hobnobbing with the rich and famous, go schmoozing amongst all walks of life in your work and must see all kinds of debauchery, but then you turn around and say "If I stick my cock in another blokes mouth, am I bi?" The answer is YES!! A mans mouth, is a mans mouth, no matter if he's wearing his mums knickers or a football strip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

s'all about enjoyment, if you enjoy it do it, don't worry about labels for goodness sakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this "am I this, if I do that" really makes me chuckle.

Just as Popeye always says "I yam what I yam"

"

Yam yam? Was popeye from Wolverhamptom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I won't go into the 'make' issue because it was probably just a bad choice of words.

No you are not bi if a guy sucked your cock for 5 minutes or so during a party etc. Sexuality is not defined by what happens in a few minutes of fun at a club.

We are a heterosexual couple. We are attracted to members of the opposite sex. I've had a woman lick me at a party, it doesn't make me a lesbian.

My OH has had a guy suck him too. What happened for 5 minutes has not changed his sexuality. Outside of that orgy play session in the jacuzzi at Chams, he is not suddenly bisexual and wanting sexual relationships with both men and women.

Neither of us is in any form of denial in relation to our sexuality.

My OH went into a gay bar once, he did not come out of there with a desire to wear leather hotpants either.

So no, I do not believe that a few minutes of fun in a club defines your whole sexuality and sexual identity

"

i kind of agree with you on that

but what i define as making you bi is if you enjoyed it

my ex wasnt bi but at a party once he played with another guy, just to see what it was like really, and he didnt like it and never did it again, there for i dont think that makes him bi

however if he did enjoy it i'd class that as being bi as the chances are your going to go back and do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if your just d*unk and your enjoying a threesome for example with your girl and the other male gets close to your cock and tries to suck it. Sober you would tell him to do one. Under influence you may go ahead even if u later regret it

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"very confused with this swinging game "

depends on whether you like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u did then ure one sad man forcing someone to do it he shouled of bit it off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what if your just d*unk and your enjoying a threesome for example with your girl and the other male gets close to your cock and tries to suck it. Sober you would tell him to do one. Under influence you may go ahead even if u later regret it "

easy, stay sober then you will be in control of what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what if your just d*unk and your enjoying a threesome for example with your girl and the other male gets close to your cock and tries to suck it. Sober you would tell him to do one. Under influence you may go ahead even if u later regret it "

Then the guy Is irresponsible and a twat.

Why let yourself get into a d*unken state with other people involved and allow something like that to happen. There is one thing having a relaxing social drink or 2 but to ger like that is stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what if your just d*unk and your enjoying a threesome for example with your girl and the other male gets close to your cock and tries to suck it. Sober you would tell him to do one. Under influence you may go ahead even if u later regret it

Then the guy Is irresponsible and a twat.

Why let yourself get into a d*unken state with other people involved and allow something like that to happen. There is one thing having a relaxing social drink or 2 but to ger like that is stupid."

this is the very reason i will not play with d*unk people

when i play with someone i want them to be doing it because they want to,not because they to pissed to care

i would hate the thought of playing with someone who woke up in the morning thinking......what have i done

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

if's but's maybe's, he made a guy give him head!!!!! reguardless of if's OP didnt mention it was in a sub dom scenario, he said "he made a guy suck his cock", thats sexual assult, my hubby would never let a guy touch him and any form to do so is bi at the very least, read between the lines all u that wish to, be analytical all u want with maybe's but the post is clear he wanted a guy to perform a sexual act i have a question did u enjoy it would u do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strange obsession with labels, just chill and enjoy it.

if you shut your eyes and imagined its a woman you are straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange obsession with labels, just chill and enjoy it.

if you shut your eyes and imagined its a woman you are straight "

Or meet a TV

theres loads of straight guys verified by TVs on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if's but's maybe's, he made a guy give him head!!!!! reguardless of if's OP didnt mention it was in a sub dom scenario, he said "he made a guy suck his cock", thats sexual assult, my hubby would never let a guy touch him and any form to do so is bi at the very least, read between the lines all u that wish to, be analytical all u want with maybe's but the post is clear he wanted a guy to perform a sexual act i have a question did u enjoy it would u do it again"

Yes we know but notice how he asked the question yet hasn't Answered any of ours for us to give informed answers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what if your just d*unk and your enjoying a threesome for example with your girl and the other male gets close to your cock and tries to suck it. Sober you would tell him to do one. Under influence you may go ahead even if u later regret it

Then the guy Is irresponsible and a twat.

Why let yourself get into a d*unken state with other people involved and allow something like that to happen. There is one thing having a relaxing social drink or 2 but to ger like that is stupid.

this is the very reason i will not play with d*unk people

when i play with someone i want them to be doing it because they want to,not because they to pissed to care

i would hate the thought of playing with someone who woke up in the morning thinking......what have i done "

Exactly, our 1st meet I was offered an alcoholic drink and refused, I wanted it to be done cos it felt right not through booze, I'm a little more relaxed now but still don't get d*unk. It's irresponsible to get in that state.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if's but's maybe's, he made a guy give him head!!!!! reguardless of if's OP didnt mention it was in a sub dom scenario, he said "he made a guy suck his cock", thats sexual assult, my hubby would never let a guy touch him and any form to do so is bi at the very least, read between the lines all u that wish to, be analytical all u want with maybe's but the post is clear he wanted a guy to perform a sexual act i have a question did u enjoy it would u do it again

Yes we know but notice how he asked the question yet hasn't Answered any of ours for us to give informed answers!"

maybe he hasn't been online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

busy testing his theory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got to admit I’m really quite amused, that so called sexually enlightened swingers feel the need to debate whether either party involved in compliant-consensual same sex activity can somehow still consider themselves straight,,,

Moreover I’m equally amused that anyone who does this should have issues admitting to enjoying it as bisexual behaviour ,,,,,,,and just for the record,,,,, come-on, get real, there ain’t no such thing as straight guy who go with a TV’s….!,

By all means feel free to disagree,,, but ask ya Mam what she thinks first ….!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of it all, I agree with someone who previously pointed out he is a very sexual person and I feel if he has to ask that question he needs educating.

If he doesnt have an attraction to men then I don't think be Is bi, every bloke loves his cock sucked and maybe he was desperate and only a bloke was willing. But thats my opinion on bisexuality,

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"strange obsession with labels, just chill and enjoy it.

if you shut your eyes and imagined its a woman you are straight "
yeah keep tellin urself that pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very confused with this swinging game "

does it matter as long as you (and the other person) have fun???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah but, no but, yeah but, maybe a suck, no but I'm str8, yeah but, no but, no ones watching and I won't tell, no but, yeah but, no but I don't want to marry a guy and live together, yeah but, no but, yeah but....

It's all a pile of pish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i still dont understand whats this swinging games got to do with it

are the rules of being bi different to swingers than no swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no just close your eyes ,i suck a few married guys cocks on a regular basis ,and there reason there wifes dont susk and they like to se there cum being swallowed"

my missus gets really confused when people dont swallow, she loves it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got to admit I’m really quite amused, that so called sexually enlightened swingers feel the need to debate whether either party involved in compliant-consensual same sex activity can somehow still consider themselves straight,,,

Moreover I’m equally amused that anyone who does this should have issues admitting to enjoying it as bisexual behaviour ,,,,,,,and just for the record,,,,, come-on, get real, there ain’t no such thing as straight guy who go with a TV’s….!,

By all means feel free to disagree,,, but ask ya Mam what she thinks first ….!. "

Feels free to disagree, but unable to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah but, no but, yeah but, maybe a suck, no but I'm str8, yeah but, no but, no ones watching and I won't tell, no but, yeah but, no but I don't want to marry a guy and live together, yeah but, no but, yeah but....

It's all a pile of pish "

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Look at it this way - if you close your eyes ... a blow job is a blow job...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy tries to suck your cock and doesn't end up with his nose in a splint your bi.

If a guy shoves his cock in your mouth and you don't spit half of it on the floor your bi.

Being bi is not just a spur of the moment action, its a state of mind, something you've thought about that excites you and makes you want to experience it.

There are no grey areas except in the minds of people who refuse to accept what they are. R

XX"

So if you eat one meal with no meat does that make you a vegetarian in denial?

just because you try something doesn't mean your automatically that thing. being a proud bisexual myself (fem) i don't like to think that if i had tried it and not enjoyed it that i would automatically be bisexual just because i tried it,

i tried stilton ( back to the cheese again lol ) but i don't like it, does that make me a stilton lover/fan/addict just because i tried it? no. i'm sure you have tried plenty of things in your life that you didn't like but you wouldn't have known unless you tried, and im sure you have also been surprised by many things you have tried and liked too.

definition - dabbler - One who engages in an activity superficially or without serious intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no just close your eyes ,i suck a few married guys cocks on a regular basis ,and there reason there wifes dont susk and they like to se there cum being swallowed

my missus gets really confused when people dont swallow, she loves it!"

How can she get confused, the same with everything, not everyone likes it, some dont like the taste, texture some just dont like the idea of it. Every guy tastes different and I wouldn't swallow with someone who didn't taste very nice, don't see the confusion

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"If it looks like chesse smells like chesse tastes like chesse it sure as hell isnt roast beef is it ?"

What's chesse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha this has made me laugh out loud, well done :P

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

what did ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the topic and all the replys

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

right lol was wonderin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whether or not it makes you bi I would suggest that before "forcing" any guy to suck your cock you should make him wear a gum shield or take his gnashes out or it could make you a bit short on inches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very confused with this swinging game "

Yep, you're Bi! lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand all these food analogies myself. It's ridiculous! It's akin to when the BNP say black people can't be British even if they're born here as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse!

I don't know why some people feel embarrassed being bi. You can dress it up ad much as you like, if you indulge in same sex play you...are...bi!

Be proud, you have the best of both worlds, why the "shame"?

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over a year ago


"I don't understand all these food analogies myself. It's ridiculous! It's akin to when the BNP say black people can't be British even if they're born here as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse!

I don't know why some people feel embarrassed being bi. You can dress it up ad much as you like, if you indulge in same sex play you...are...bi!

Be proud, you have the best of both worlds, why the "shame"? "

Exactly.

There's a world of difference between food preferences and sexuality.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand all these food analogies myself. It's ridiculous! It's akin to when the BNP say black people can't be British even if they're born here as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse!

I don't know why some people feel embarrassed being bi. You can dress it up ad much as you like, if you indulge in same sex play you...are...bi!

Be proud, you have the best of both worlds, why the "shame"?

Exactly.

There's a world of difference between food preferences and sexuality.

XXXX"

so your saying trying something sexual automatically makes you that way inclined... but trying something else, food, roller coasters, paint colours, hair colours, cars, motorbikes etc etc etc *doesnt* automatically make you like them or love them.

OK.

Just so i'm clear on that..

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By *anda man.Man
over a year ago

Stockport

To force anyone of any gender is assult.

Assult is assult no matter how you justify it to yourself.

As for the crap mentioned above about were you in jail when having your cock sucked?

Some Jailhouse Bi's justify their Banged Up blowjobs as just "needs" they can't get pussy in jail so there's their self deluding justification again.

They get out and become ultra macho and Gay haters.

STRAIGHT Men don't suck cock or have Blowjobs done by other Men,not in the real world they don't.

You're Bi mate,NO two ways about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand all these food analogies myself. It's ridiculous! It's akin to when the BNP say black people can't be British even if they're born here as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse!

I don't know why some people feel embarrassed being bi. You can dress it up ad much as you like, if you indulge in same sex play you...are...bi!

Be proud, you have the best of both worlds, why the "shame"?

Exactly.

There's a world of difference between food preferences and sexuality.

XXXX

so your saying trying something sexual automatically makes you that way inclined... but trying something else, food, roller coasters, paint colours, hair colours, cars, motorbikes etc etc etc *doesnt* automatically make you like them or love them.

OK.

Just so i'm clear on that.. "

What I'm saying is, having sex with the same sex is premeditated, all this "spur of the moment" thing is just rubbish and an excuse for trying something that, up until that point, was just fantasy.

Well I'm sorry but straight guys don't fantasise about sucking or being sucked by another guy, no matter what the situation.

Eating different food, trying a fairground ride, etc, etc, are all minor things.

Sexuality is a way of life, a major thing.

I've been in some very sexy situations but never at any time has it occurred to me to touch or suck the other guys cock, I'm just not made that way.

Nor have I ever thought it would be an enjoyable thing to do, probably because I'm heterosexual not bi. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand all these food analogies myself. It's ridiculous! It's akin to when the BNP say black people can't be British even if they're born here as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse!

I don't know why some people feel embarrassed being bi. You can dress it up ad much as you like, if you indulge in same sex play you...are...bi!

Be proud, you have the best of both worlds, why the "shame"?

Exactly.

There's a world of difference between food preferences and sexuality.

XXXX

so your saying trying something sexual automatically makes you that way inclined... but trying something else, food, roller coasters, paint colours, hair colours, cars, motorbikes etc etc etc *doesnt* automatically make you like them or love them.

OK.

Just so i'm clear on that..

What I'm saying is, having sex with the same sex is premeditated, all this "spur of the moment" thing is just rubbish and an excuse for trying something that, up until that point, was just fantasy.

Well I'm sorry but straight guys don't fantasise about sucking or being sucked by another guy, no matter what the situation.

Eating different food, trying a fairground ride, etc, etc, are all minor things.

Sexuality is a way of life, a major thing.

I've been in some very sexy situations but never at any time has it occurred to me to touch or suck the other guys cock, I'm just not made that way.

Nor have I ever thought it would be an enjoyable thing to do, probably because I'm heterosexual not bi. R"

ok, well congratulations mr hetro.

you completely missed my point, sexuality is fluid, if your in a situation and someone wants to try something you cant automatically pigeon hole them for trying something... how do you know if you do or don't like it if you don't try it. sexuality doesn't determine the rest of your life..

I know women who have been with men and then decided they didn't like guys at all didn't enjoy them and became complete lesbian and everyone's heard a story about a gay man living a straight life till he decides he cant do it any more!

people are just too quick to pigeon hole people who are willing to experiment into one category or another... why... if you want to try something try it without fear of being pigeon-holed. if you enjoy it then you can label yourself bi, or gay or straight,

when I was younger I thought I was a lesbian because I had 0 sexual attraction to men, but then I got myself a boyfriend and realised how sexy he was and how much in love with his mind I was and realised I was bisexual. but if I tried a boyfriend and didn't like it would that still make me bisexual ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At our last meet with a guy just after he came I saw c was enjoying the fuckin so much I popped his cock out of her and sucked him hard again and popped it back in and they fucked again. I knew he was bi so it wudnt b a problem. I know I'm not bi I'm just a good cuckold. I'd never b attracted to a guy or have any desire to do that but in that situation just happened. No big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What I'm saying is, having sex with the same sex is premeditated, all this "spur of the moment" thing is just rubbish and an excuse for trying something that, up until that point, was just fantasy.

Well I'm sorry but straight guys don't fantasise about sucking or being sucked by another guy, no matter what the situation.

Eating different food, trying a fairground ride, etc, etc, are all minor things.

Sexuality is a way of life, a major thing.

I've been in some very sexy situations but never at any time has it occurred to me to touch or suck the other guys cock, I'm just not made that way.

Nor have I ever thought it would be an enjoyable thing to do, probably because I'm heterosexual not bi. R

ok, well congratulations mr hetro.

you completely missed my point, sexuality is fluid, if your in a situation and someone wants to try something you cant automatically pigeon hole them for trying something... how do you know if you do or don't like it if you don't try it. sexuality doesn't determine the rest of your life..

I know women who have been with men and then decided they didn't like guys at all didn't enjoy them and became complete lesbian and everyone's heard a story about a gay man living a straight life till he decides he cant do it any more!

people are just too quick to pigeon hole people who are willing to experiment into one category or another... why... if you want to try something try it without fear of being pigeon-holed. if you enjoy it then you can label yourself bi, or gay or straight,

when I was younger I thought I was a lesbian because I had 0 sexual attraction to men, but then I got myself a boyfriend and realised how sexy he was and how much in love with his mind I was and realised I was bisexual. but if I tried a boyfriend and didn't like it would that still make me bisexual ?"

You just don't seem to be getting this do you............sexuality isn't just about committing a sexual act, its about a state of mind as well.

You need to want to do something to try it in the first place.

If you want to suck another guy or lick another woman but don't do it your bi curious, if you do it your bi.

Whether you like it or not, when you try it, doesn't have any baring on the fantasies you have regarding the same sex.

Straight people aren't known for having same sex fantasies, bi curious ones are.

Fantasise about the same sex = bi curious.

Fantasise then commit sex act with same sex = bi sexual.

Have no desire to do either of the above = straight.

Its a lot simpler than you'd have us believe really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just means you enjoy getting sucked off. Nowt wrong with that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where Rick is coming from, but it isn't that straight cut.

Kate is straight, definately. She has had one experience with another lady. She wanted to try it, but says now she's tried it, she knows she is straight, and has no desire to do it again.

Using Rick's reasoning, Kate is bi, however she knows she is straight, I know she is straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand where Rick is coming from, but it isn't that straight cut.

Kate is straight, definately. She has had one experience with another lady. She wanted to try it, but says now she's tried it, she knows she is straight, and has no desire to do it again.

Using Rick's reasoning, Kate is bi, however she knows she is straight, I know she is straight.

"

Yeah Jack, in retrospect seeing it the way you put it, minus the dubious food and fairground analogies, I'll hold my hands up and go along with that.

Although..........I still stand by what I said regarding guys who do it whenever the "spur of the moment" arises but insist they're not bi. R

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

so far there has been if's what if's but'd maybe's questions ask of the OP and answered by others this will go on for even untill the OP comes in and answere for him self

1 did u force him to suck u

2did u enjoy it

3had u fantasised before hand

4do u wanna do it again

forget food we all eat all sorts of food so thats just silly fairgrounds most go for a thrill

the Op ask a question that would pigeonhole him, ok bob put us all out of ur misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so far there has been if's what if's but'd maybe's questions ask of the OP and answered by others this will go on for even untill the OP comes in and answere for him self

1 did u force him to suck u

2did u enjoy it

3had u fantasised before hand

4do u wanna do it again

forget food we all eat all sorts of food so thats just silly fairgrounds most go for a thrill

the Op ask a question that would pigeonhole him, ok bob put us all out of ur misery "

I wished he would, I've never checked a forum thread so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very confused with this swinging game "

Knowing you....probably not!

cos you're just a dirty wee tart! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand how people can get so confused over bi sexual and straight.

As a few of the more informed have already said, if you preform a sexual act on the same sex or have it preformed on you and actually enjoy it then you are bi sexual to some degree.

Now it's this point that people start to either get confused with or don't take into account, is the degree of bi sexual that a person can be.

Just because you like another man sucking your cock or you sucking one does not necessarily mean you find him sexually attractive or that

You find men sexually attractive in general.

I'll use myself as an example.

I would have classed myself as straight because I do not find men sexually attractive at all and the thought of kissing and cuddling a man would make me feel a bit sick to put it mildly, BUT I do find an erect shaved cut cock highly sexually exciting and love sucking them and would love to try someone fucking me as well, BUT I would never be able to give another man anal in return because I don't find men attractive at all.

So in short I'd say there are different levels of bi sexuality and not a one size fits all label but enjoying any form of sexual activity with the same sex has got to make you bisexual to some degree.

That's why I select bi curious because saying I was simply bi sexual would imply I was attracted to men full stop, which I ain't but I still am something bi related.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Am amazed how so people are in denial. If your a man and you want to try sucking a man or receiving then your bi curious. If you try it and realise it isnt for you then the curiosity is gone and your straight.

I love to be intimate with a woman and receive and men too. I do get attracted to women on the street but if I had a relationship with a person it would be a man by choice. I am bi and proud to admit it.

If a woman or a man is happy to receieve but not give then they are curious or bi, if they like it and do it more than once then they are curious.

I find people arent happy to label themselves. I am a woman and happy to label myself that I am a woman. Why would I not be happy to in the same way label myself as bi.

I am _ruit, I am bi and proud of it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am amazed how so people are in denial. If your a man and you want to try sucking a man or receiving then your bi curious. If you try it and realise it isnt for you then the curiosity is gone and your straight.

I love to be intimate with a woman and receive and men too. I do get attracted to women on the street but if I had a relationship with a person it would be a man by choice. I am bi and proud to admit it.

If a woman or a man is happy to receieve but not give then they are curious or bi, if they like it and do it more than once then they are curious.

I find people arent happy to label themselves. I am a woman and happy to label myself that I am a woman. Why would I not be happy to in the same way label myself as bi.

I am _ruit, I am bi and proud of it lol x"

think it's peoples deep seated subjective interpretation of these things that get in the way. they have perhaps, at one time, harboured a negative feeling about the word, so when they realise that they may be it, it is very difficult to accept.

something like that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am amazed how so people are in denial. If your a man and you want to try sucking a man or receiving then your bi curious. If you try it and realise it isnt for you then the curiosity is gone and your straight.

I love to be intimate with a woman and receive and men too. I do get attracted to women on the street but if I had a relationship with a person it would be a man by choice. I am bi and proud to admit it.

If a woman or a man is happy to receieve but not give then they are curious or bi, if they like it and do it more than once then they are curious.

I find people arent happy to label themselves. I am a woman and happy to label myself that I am a woman. Why would I not be happy to in the same way label myself as bi.

I am _ruit, I am bi and proud of it lol x

think it's peoples deep seated subjective interpretation of these things that get in the way. they have perhaps, at one time, harboured a negative feeling about the word, so when they realise that they may be it, it is very difficult to accept.

something like that anyway."

subjective penetrations great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think you are only bi if you are attracted to men in the very same way that you are attracted to women! People are too quick to label each other and sexual freedom now comes with people trying to justify their own sexual expressions. Most 'bi' blokes would be horrified at the thought of kissing another man and I find it hard to think of those guys as bi.

I've got a lot of experience in the bdsm field and I get turned on over control and dominance, I wouldn't fly off the handle and start questioning my sexuality because some guy has sucked my dick after I've pulled it out of my sub!?

I'm certainly not worried that I'm 'hiding in the closet' or harbor sexual feelings for men...this labeling of each other has to stop as if your comfortable with your own sexuality you should be able to express your own freedom during sex....going to stop now because it's going to start sounding like something off of braveheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think you are only bi if you are attracted to men in the very same way that you are attracted to women! People are too quick to label each other and sexual freedom now comes with people trying to justify their own sexual expressions. Most 'bi' blokes would be horrified at the thought of kissing another man and I find it hard to think of those guys as bi.

I've got a lot of experience in the bdsm field and I get turned on over control and dominance, I wouldn't fly off the handle and start questioning my sexuality because some guy has sucked my dick after I've pulled it out of my sub!?

I'm certainly not worried that I'm 'hiding in the closet' or harbor sexual feelings for men...this labeling of each other has to stop as if your comfortable with your own sexuality you should be able to express your own freedom during sex....going to stop now because it's going to start sounding like something off of braveheart "

agree with you braveheart (show us yer bum) it's all about enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OMG…. it appears I’m not Bisexual after all…….!.

Because I can honestly say,,,,,,,, that I’m not remotely attracted to male’s…….!.

Tuh,,,,,, and there was me thinking my sexuality was simply based on my sexual cravings and not a physical or emotional attraction to men….!.

Hey and do ya know what reader!!!…..

I've met heaps of blokes who feel the same way I do, In-fact I’ve even had sex with some of them !!!…... and do ya know what….?.

None of them thought they were straight either......

Sheeeeezzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well OMG…. it appears I’m not Bisexual after all…….!.

Because I can honestly say,,,,,,,, that I’m not remotely attracted to male’s…….!.

Tuh,,,,,, and there was me thinking my sexuality was simply based on my sexual cravings and not a physical or emotional attraction to men….!.

Hey and do ya know what reader!!!…..

I've met heaps of blokes who feel the same way I do, In-fact I’ve even had sex with some of them !!!…... and do ya know what….?.

None of them thought they were straight either......

Sheeeeezzzzzz

"

you could be a male lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could be a male lesbian "

Hey,,,,,now I kinda like the sound of that !!!!....

But only if I don't have to wear a Tintin hair cut, Doc Martins and a denim jacket....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that tickled me

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"If a guy tries to suck your cock and doesn't end up with his nose in a splint your bi.

If a guy shoves his cock in your mouth and you don't spit half of it on the floor your bi.

Being bi is not just a spur of the moment action, its a state of mind, something you've thought about that excites you and makes you want to experience it.

There are no grey areas except in the minds of people who refuse to accept what they are. R

XX"

I agree 100%. Being bi/gay is a state of mind and if you are, the you are. Especially for a man, we are not as fluid sexually as women tend to be. For a man, straight is straight and the minute you entertain thoughts about a guy sucking your cock and going all the way to experience it makes you bi.

Simples!

Did we really need a forum for this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

over 100 replies on this topic and I've kept quiet the whole thread... Just for the record I have never made a man suck my cock but have seen this happen at orgies and gang bangs and was a little confused when both men said they wasn't bi

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"over 100 replies on this topic and I've kept quiet the whole thread... Just for the record I have never made a man suck my cock but have seen this happen at orgies and gang bangs and was a little confused when both men said they wasn't bi "
in the immortal words of our bruce, good game good game didnt he do well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy tries to suck your cock and doesn't end up with his nose in a splint your bi.

If a guy shoves his cock in your mouth and you don't spit half of it on the floor your bi.

Being bi is not just a spur of the moment action, its a state of mind, something you've thought about that excites you and makes you want to experience it.

There are no grey areas except in the minds of people who refuse to accept what they are. R

XX"

This did make me chuckle... But so true!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I refer my friend to the answer I gave on his other thread! lol (But replace "kiss" with "BJ" )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man who plays with another man, or likes the idea of and or goes through with playing with another male is bi as far as i'm concerned, and to say they're not just means they haven't accepted the word and are in a huge denial.

The amount of guys i see on here who say they're straight and then looking at their friends or seeing reports of their meets say something like ' she had a great pussy , nice to fuck, when talking about a Tv , is unreal. they're not straight so they should just accept that. They might have a preference for women or like to be seen with a woman on their arm, but that doesn't make them straight . IMHO of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any man who plays with another man, or likes the idea of and or goes through with playing with another male is bi as far as i'm concerned, and to say they're not just means they haven't accepted the word and are in a huge denial.

The amount of guys i see on here who say they're straight and then looking at their friends or seeing reports of their meets say something like ' she had a great pussy , nice to fuck, when talking about a Tv , is unreal. they're not straight so they should just accept that. They might have a preference for women or like to be seen with a woman on their arm, but that doesn't make them straight . IMHO of course. "

but what if they thought about it, tried it and found they didnt like it... would they still be bi ?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Any man who plays with another man, or likes the idea of and or goes through with playing with another male is bi as far as i'm concerned, and to say they're not just means they haven't accepted the word and are in a huge denial.

The amount of guys i see on here who say they're straight and then looking at their friends or seeing reports of their meets say something like ' she had a great pussy , nice to fuck, when talking about a Tv , is unreal. they're not straight so they should just accept that. They might have a preference for women or like to be seen with a woman on their arm, but that doesn't make them straight . IMHO of course.

but what if they thought about it, tried it and found they didnt like it... would they still be bi ?"

A straight man would not think about it in the first place and then try it. If you think about it to the point where you fantasies about it and then try it, then you are bi. The fact that you want to engage sexually with a member of your gender makes you bi. It's that clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any man who plays with another man, or likes the idea of and or goes through with playing with another male is bi as far as i'm concerned, and to say they're not just means they haven't accepted the word and are in a huge denial.

The amount of guys i see on here who say they're straight and then looking at their friends or seeing reports of their meets say something like ' she had a great pussy , nice to fuck, when talking about a Tv , is unreal. they're not straight so they should just accept that. They might have a preference for women or like to be seen with a woman on their arm, but that doesn't make them straight . IMHO of course.

but what if they thought about it, tried it and found they didnt like it... would they still be bi ?

A straight man would not think about it in the first place and then try it. If you think about it to the point where you fantasies about it and then try it, then you are bi. The fact that you want to engage sexually with a member of your gender makes you bi. It's that clear."

but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men.. "

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across. "

well i guess i just better sit my female ass down and get on with it then... sorry to all the guys that were curious tried it and didn't like it.. your all bi now.. get on with it!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across. "

Don't think it has to do with being macho.

I think for women, sexuality is more fluid. Women by nature relate to each other in a touchy feely way and in a very emotional manner in friendships. I think making that leap is not so much of a giant leap from that basis. Men do not relate like that.

My two cents but by all means not perfect.. Just my thoughts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across.

Don't think it has to do with being macho.

I think for women, sexuality is more fluid. Women by nature relate to each other in a touchy feely way and in a very emotional manner in friendships. I think making that leap is not so much of a giant leap from that basis. Men do not relate like that.

My two cents but by all means not perfect.. Just my thoughts.."

sorry but that's bull and a complete double standard... but nm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across.

Don't think it has to do with being macho.

I think for women, sexuality is more fluid. Women by nature relate to each other in a touchy feely way and in a very emotional manner in friendships. I think making that leap is not so much of a giant leap from that basis. Men do not relate like that.

My two cents but by all means not perfect.. Just my thoughts.."

I totally agree with you and feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of confusion over sexuality and sexual activity. We all know that sexual activity can take place without feelings of attraction and arousal; people respond to the environment they are in at the time.

An example for me was at the weekend I was involved in sexual activity in a group room. I had a guy licking me whilst a woman sucked on my nipple. Did I enjoy it, yes was great, was I aroused by the female, no not in the slightest, am I now bisexual, no of course I'm not.

I've been in a heterosexual relationship since sexual maturity. I am not aroused by other woman, I don't get turned on by lesbian sex, I've licked a woman to see what it was like, I wasn't aroused by the sexual activity I was involved in but responding to the environment I found myself in.

I can give up swinging tomorrow and I know that ill never be in a sexual relationship with another woman, I won't fantasise over other woman, I won't become moist if I see a womans vagina in the changing room of the gym. Because I'm not bisexual. Oh but I've let woman lick my body parts for a couple of minutes, I must be - what a conundrum eh

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"There seems to be a lot of confusion over sexuality and sexual activity. We all know that sexual activity can take place without feelings of attraction and arousal; people respond to the environment they are in at the time.

An example for me was at the weekend I was involved in sexual activity in a group room. I had a guy licking me whilst a woman sucked on my nipple. Did I enjoy it, yes was great, was I aroused by the female, no not in the slightest, am I now bisexual, no of course I'm not.

I've been in a heterosexual relationship since sexual maturity. I am not aroused by other woman, I don't get turned on by lesbian sex, I've licked a woman to see what it was like, I wasn't aroused by the sexual activity I was involved in but responding to the environment I found myself in.

I can give up swinging tomorrow and I know that ill never be in a sexual relationship with another woman, I won't fantasise over other woman, I won't become moist if I see a womans vagina in the changing room of the gym. Because I'm not bisexual. Oh but I've let woman lick my body parts for a couple of minutes, I must be - what a conundrum eh "

No,a grown up

i do not understand what is so diffucult for some to understand.

Gay=attracted to same sex

Straight=attracted to opposite sex

Bi=attracted to both sexes.

Its not about what you do in the heat of the moment but the feelings underlying the actions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it just meant you had a hard on at the time lol

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"There seems to be a lot of confusion over sexuality and sexual activity. We all know that sexual activity can take place without feelings of attraction and arousal; people respond to the environment they are in at the time.

An example for me was at the weekend I was involved in sexual activity in a group room. I had a guy licking me whilst a woman sucked on my nipple. Did I enjoy it, yes was great, was I aroused by the female, no not in the slightest, am I now bisexual, no of course I'm not.

I've been in a heterosexual relationship since sexual maturity. I am not aroused by other woman, I don't get turned on by lesbian sex, I've licked a woman to see what it was like, I wasn't aroused by the sexual activity I was involved in but responding to the environment I found myself in.

I can give up swinging tomorrow and I know that ill never be in a sexual relationship with another woman, I won't fantasise over other woman, I won't become moist if I see a womans vagina in the changing room of the gym. Because I'm not bisexual. Oh but I've let woman lick my body parts for a couple of minutes, I must be - what a conundrum eh

No,a grown up

i do not understand what is so diffucult for some to understand.

Gay=attracted to same sex

Straight=attracted to opposite sex

Bi=attracted to both sexes.

Its not about what you do in the heat of the moment but the feelings underlying the actions! "

You couldn't have put it more succinctly..Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but what about women.. women are allowed to be curious and try and not like it... why not men..

Because it doesn't suit the macho adgenda that these people are trying to put across.

Don't think it has to do with being macho.

I think for women, sexuality is more fluid. Women by nature relate to each other in a touchy feely way and in a very emotional manner in friendships. I think making that leap is not so much of a giant leap from that basis. Men do not relate like that.

My two cents but by all means not perfect.. Just my thoughts.."

Aaaah...now you see, I was agreeing with you until you spoilt it with your double standards!

Personally, same sex is just that, regardless of gender, if you indulge in same sex play you're bi. Doesn't mean you're entering into civil partnership, or looking at curtain swatches - you enjoy same sex play.

I don't know what the fuss is myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any man who plays with another man, or likes the idea of and or goes through with playing with another male is bi as far as i'm concerned, and to say they're not just means they haven't accepted the word and are in a huge denial.

The amount of guys i see on here who say they're straight and then looking at their friends or seeing reports of their meets say something like ' she had a great pussy , nice to fuck, when talking about a Tv , is unreal. they're not straight so they should just accept that. They might have a preference for women or like to be seen with a woman on their arm, but that doesn't make them straight . IMHO of course.

but what if they thought about it, tried it and found they didnt like it... would they still be bi ?

A straight man would not think about it in the first place and then try it. If you think about it to the point where you fantasies about it and then try it, then you are bi. The fact that you want to engage sexually with a member of your gender makes you bi. It's that clear."

As a bi fem, fantasising and doing can turn out different, yes I fantasised about being with women but I always knew there was a chance I would not like the real thing, some things are better left as a fantasy. I was lucky as I wasn't disappointed but its not always that perfect andif the guy came away and didn't enjoy being with a man like he thought/hoped he would then I believe he is pretty much straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... Just borderline sexual assault."

It's actually rape now if forced ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats wrong with bi? or gay? its a preferance like being straight. and if you let a guy suck it and your d*unk at a party. it can happen no reason to freak out. just go with it. its all entertainment.

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over a year ago


"whats wrong with bi? or gay? its a preferance like being straight. and if you let a guy suck it and your d*unk at a party. it can happen no reason to freak out. just go with it. its all entertainment. "

No no that won't do, do you not know everyone has to have a label for everything they do now, it can't just be fun it has to have a label

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

labels are good, keeps things in order, and if ya know what ur lookin go for the label that best describes it, does what it says on the tin pmsl

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over a year ago


"labels are good, keeps things in order, and if ya know what ur lookin go for the label that best describes it, does what it says on the tin pmsl "

I do agree somewhat I just wished people could enjoy things without worrying about labels so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps we need some fresh labels for the guys, like say

bumbi and cockbi, sounds cute eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perhaps we need some fresh labels for the guys, like say

bumbi and cockbi, sounds cute eh! "

Lol sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it doesxxxxxxxx

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

with would and a lot more if it were true

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