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"Just wondered what peoples opinions are on this. Theres been plenty of female profiles ive came across that Ive been interested in, with lets say, 5 or 6 verifications, but the person only displays 1. I cant help but automatically think the person has received negative verifications for whatever reasons and this puts me off. Am I the only one that thinks that way? Im sure there are plenty of reasons someone might hide a verification, but to me I just think, 'hmmm, I wonder what happened during them meets' Whats your reasons for hiding verifications? Educate me!" nobody would keep or display a negative veri why would they? | |||
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"It doesn't bother me,you read one you've read them all. How many times do I want to read...turned up on time,had a good time;treat this one with respect. The most important thing is they are verified which means they are who they say they are." Not always. Verifications can be faked | |||
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"It doesn't bother me,you read one you've read them all. How many times do I want to read...turned up on time,had a good time;treat this one with respect. The most important thing is they are verified which means they are who they say they are. Not always. Verifications can be faked" This is true,as with profiles and pics. The only way to truly know is when you meet them face to face. | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though!" That has got to be the best one yet... | |||
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"It doesn't bother me,you read one you've read them all. How many times do I want to read...turned up on time,had a good time;treat this one with respect. The most important thing is they are verified which means they are who they say they are. Not always. Verifications can be faked" you're joking who would do that | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though!" I like it, it’s funny | |||
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"I wouldn't get to worried about it. We hide ours because its our choice. Some people may not want you to know who verified them to preserve anonymity and avoid future backlash. This is the same as us, plus a couple of our veri's have been contacted by shall we say a 'stalker' of ours. Just saves a lot of agro really. H " | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though!" Ha ha, I didn't realise anyone under the age of 75 still had net curtains in 2018 but you live and learn. | |||
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"... treat this one with respect... " That one bugs the tits off me too. A, who needs to be told to treat people with respect? B, are people who write that saying that it's fine to treat the rest with no respect? | |||
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"... treat this one with respect... That one bugs the tits off me too. A, who needs to be told to treat people with respect? B, are people who write that saying that it's fine to treat the rest with no respect? " #youknowwhoyouare | |||
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"Just wondered what peoples opinions are on this. Theres been plenty of female profiles ive came across that Ive been interested in, with lets say, 5 or 6 verifications, but the person only displays 1. I cant help but automatically think the person has received negative verifications for whatever reasons and this puts me off. Am I the only one that thinks that way? Im sure there are plenty of reasons someone might hide a verification, but to me I just think, 'hmmm, I wonder what happened during them meets' Whats your reasons for hiding verifications? Educate me!" i find it like feedback on something. some u agree with some you wont and im not egotisical to require mine showing so i dont | |||
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"I don’t display mine because some are really graphic and make me cringe. A couple others actually use my name, which I don’t want on fab. And a few other members have deleted their profile, so therefore their verification they gave me is gone. Could be plenty of reasons someone is hiding their verifications " You don’t want your name to be public but don’t mind your face ?? How does that work ! | |||
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"I don’t display mine because some are really graphic and make me cringe. A couple others actually use my name, which I don’t want on fab. And a few other members have deleted their profile, so therefore their verification they gave me is gone. Could be plenty of reasons someone is hiding their verifications " I completely get this, you can't guarantee what is going to be written about a meet. I wouldn't want graphic stuff on a verification, I like a bit of mystery. I certainly wouldn't want my name. | |||
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"You know if you get a vacation from somebody and they leave the site you can no longer show there verification .. " If I ever get a vacation from someone I will be dead chuffed | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though! That has got to be the best one yet... " Agreed there should be a certify section and a vertification/meet report button | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though! That has got to be the best one yet... Agreed there should be a certify section and a vertification/meet report button" occasionally i give witty veris for meets i know well | |||
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"I made the mistake of daring my last meet to create the most sarcastic veri... Now im not sure If i should be hiding it or not haha It's one hell of a read though! That has got to be the best one yet... It’s all about being witty and the banter jj lol ?? Agreed there should be a certify section and a vertification/meet report button occasionally i give witty veris for meets i know well " | |||
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"I have one displayed as the others have all left FAB...dont make assumptions about why verifications might not be shown. Chat to that person and get to know them. Form your own opinion....don’t be persuaded by what someone else has wrote about them. " I’m sure my meets were d*unk when they have written veris for me lol | |||
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"Nobody's business who we have met,or what went the on. Also have had occasions in the past where we have displayed verifications people have contacted them trying to get information about us I'm guessing others have had similar situations and so hide theirs." My experience too! | |||
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"Nobody's business who we have met,or what went the on. Also have had occasions in the past where we have displayed verifications people have contacted them trying to get information about us I'm guessing others have had similar situations and so hide theirs. My experience too!" Same here. We've also been contacted asking about so and so and what their 'performance' was like. Some guys got pissy because we met so and so, others got annoyed because we decided to to have a break from meets but didn't meet them as soon as we were off it. There's tons of reasons bit feeling pressured to explain ourselves is our main reason. Now we play when we want without anyone knowing our business, if this bothers then it's tough really. Not showing veris has improved our fab experience. | |||
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"Nobody's business who we have met,or what went the on. Also have had occasions in the past where we have displayed verifications people have contacted them trying to get information about us I'm guessing others have had similar situations and so hide theirs. My experience too!" And mine....totally uncalled for | |||
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"thats right some are very graphic and paint the wrong picture" I've got a sucks like a Dyson one I'm more like Hetty, big and pink with googly eyes!! | |||
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"I hide mine as I'm modest but my veris are not " Are you a milkman by any chance Pat_Mustard? | |||
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"thats right some are very graphic and paint the wrong picture I've got a sucks like a Dyson one I'm more like Hetty, big and pink with googly eyes!! " thatss good | |||
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"Interesting feedback, a lot more reasons for it than I initially thought then! Ive learnt a lot today " There are loads of different reasons why individuals don't show verifications,one thing is not to assume the reasons why I show just club/party host verifications that shows I'm real and attend events,that's what they mean to me | |||
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"Go with your gut. Choose the person you are hitting it off with and go meet them for a coffee. They could have 170 amazing veris, but if you don’t click the sex would still be awful." | |||
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"I only publish a selection that represent my interests. I rarely publish social veris, lovely as they are to receive. No one needs confirmation that I can drink coffee." I do and how many cups | |||
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