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ROLE OF THE BLACK MALE IN A CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIP

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By *lackalphabull OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

this is a message posted on the subject a few months ago .Found it interesting enough to repost this after reading a paper on genetic biology.

whats also interesting is the cognitive dissonance in the use of the word to serve the cuckold couple.forfeiting his humanity.

so being of a much higher understanding we also acknowledge the lack in the cuck to satisfy his own woman! so how many black guys are cucks ? then tell who is not fulfilling there natural role or is it the difference in social economic family circumstances that will let her stay in a rather unfulfilling relationship after discovering new found mental and physical stimulation so the bull is also esoteric to Taurus which also means to turn or rotate in the cultural mythos.

How many on here share this opinion and are able to be honest in there relationship rather than in there fantasies .

in my personal opinion, it is acceptable to treat the black bull with contempt because his function is to serve the cuckold couple. also, he is generously compensated for partially forfeiting his humanity: he gets to have casual sex with another man’s wife!

what do you think about my comments? is the black bull a human being or just a big black cock?

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

of course he is a human being, he does talk and have to have a personality to be a true regular bull, i dont think many women will have sex with a twat just because he is hung

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

Leek

What does being black have do to with being a bull?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Bulls come in various guises.

The black bull has been perpetuated by porn.

I know a few black guys who feel they've been used by cuck couples. Expecting to come in, perform, fulfill their requirements and fuck off. Bit soulless really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bulls come in various guises.

The black bull has been perpetuated by porn.

I know a few black guys who feel they've been used by cuck couples. Expecting to come in, perform, fulfill their requirements and fuck off. Bit soulless really."

This is true, it’s almost as if by allowing you to have casual sex with said wife it means the bull has no rights. In the past when I have said no to a certain situation I have been met with genuine astonishment. It’s not all about the couples and what’s the point in doing something if it’s not enjoyable? We all have our own kinks

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


" this is a message posted on the subject a few months ago .Found it interesting enough to repost this after reading a paper on genetic biology.

whats also interesting is the cognitive dissonance in the use of the word to serve the cuckold couple.forfeiting his humanity.

so being of a much higher understanding we also acknowledge the lack in the cuck to satisfy his own woman! so how many black guys are cucks ? then tell who is not fulfilling there natural role or is it the difference in social economic family circumstances that will let her stay in a rather unfulfilling relationship after discovering new found mental and physical stimulation so the bull is also esoteric to Taurus which also means to turn or rotate in the cultural mythos.

How many on here share this opinion and are able to be honest in there relationship rather than in there fantasies .

in my personal opinion, it is acceptable to treat the black bull with contempt because his function is to serve the cuckold couple. also, he is generously compensated for partially forfeiting his humanity: he gets to have casual sex with another man’s wife!

what do you think about my comments? is the black bull a human being or just a big black cock?"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

Leek


"Bulls come in various guises.

The black bull has been perpetuated by porn.

I know a few black guys who feel they've been used by cuck couples. Expecting to come in, perform, fulfill their requirements and fuck off. Bit soulless really.

This is true, it’s almost as if by allowing you to have casual sex with said wife it means the bull has no rights. In the past when I have said no to a certain situation I have been met with genuine astonishment. It’s not all about the couples and what’s the point in doing something if it’s not enjoyable? We all have our own kinks "

Though I’ve had this experience in clubs before, I’m very picky who I play with. When I’ve turned women down, there been astonished and followed sometimes by insulting. The rooms atmosphere completely changes, just because a guy dared turn down an offer.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Some cucks do not tolerate humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op ..dont you mean the role of a bull ? what i mean is when im looking for a bull/dom/confident guy i never assume hes going to be black ??, i just meet a guy who can do the job of giving me a good time.

as for the humiliation side of things well while's im sub to my choice of guy for fun the only person who gets to humiliate my cuck is me ?? yes sure he may feel a little silly in front of the bull but thats my choice not the bulls and if im perfectly honest im not keen on the term bull or bbc or bwc i just want confident guys who know what they want from me as for my cuck leave him to me as i know what makes him tick ..or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should also add by giving me a good time i will be giving a good time back too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bulls come in various guises.

The black bull has been perpetuated by porn.

I know a few black guys who feel they've been used by cuck couples. Expecting to come in, perform, fulfill their requirements and fuck off. Bit soulless really."

Barry white could of done that, but he would never of done it in a soulless way.

Nor would James Brown.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Bulls come in various guises.

The black bull has been perpetuated by porn.

I know a few black guys who feel they've been used by cuck couples. Expecting to come in, perform, fulfil their requirements and fuck off. Bit soulless really."

There is always that danger. all the more reason why communication beforehand, not making assumptions, trusting ones instincts and patience are oh so very important. I can think of a few occasions in which I felt "used" by cuckold couples but I learnt from them. The bulk of my past experiences with cuckold couples were mutually beneficial and pleasurable for all concerned.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion. "

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'."

Stag and vixen is hotwifing, not cuckolding. Let’s not have this convo again please! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'."

We often get messages from black men enquiring about this.... We are absolutely not a cuckold couple, i just love the company of well equipped men, especially black men.

I'd hate them to feel used by us though...if anything, I'm the opposite, it's me who wants to be used and destroyed by my male friends... Then Dave can scoop me up, do it all again , then cuddle me off to sleep haha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'.

Stag and vixen is hotwifing, not cuckolding. Let’s not have this convo again please! Lol"

Interchangable terms I'm afraid, there's already research on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'.

Stag and vixen is hotwifing, not cuckolding. Let’s not have this convo again please! Lol

Interchangable terms I'm afraid, there's already research on this subject"

I’m not going into it as there have been many different threads on this and I don’t want to derail this one. The terms are not interchangeable in the slightest, they are very different things and are very clearly defined. It’s particularly relevant to this thread because the dynamic is totally different and so would change peoples views and experiences and comments to OP’s original question.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

I don't know what you read but it doesn't sound at all credible. Firstly, only about half cuckold couples enjoy any form of humiliation at all. Of those half, it's dubious that 100% of the men don't satisfy their wives. So with that in mind, the majority of cuckold men can and do satisfy their wives, they just get a kick out of seeing their personal porn star. That makes the rest of the analysis DOA in my opinion.

Have to agree with this. Would also like to add that in some cases (such as our own) the male isn't even a cuck especially when it is he who's the dominant in the relationship, day to day and sexually too. Much more prefer to be seen as the 'stag' which is a more fitting 'label'.

Stag and vixen is hotwifing, not cuckolding. Let’s not have this convo again please! Lol

Interchangable terms I'm afraid, there's already research on this subject

I’m not going into it as there have been many different threads on this and I don’t want to derail this one. The terms are not interchangeable in the slightest, they are very different things and are very clearly defined. It’s particularly relevant to this thread because the dynamic is totally different and so would change peoples views and experiences and comments to OP’s original question. "

Last thing I'm going to say on this, but there is research showing that only half of cuckolds do any form on humiliation. In reality, hotwifing is just a sub-category of cuckolding.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"

Last thing I'm going to say on this, but there is research showing that only half of cuckolds do any form on humiliation. In reality, hotwifing is just a sub-category of cuckolding. "

Can you please send a link to the research? This topic always fascinates me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any bull is more than just a cock, all of the best scenarios involve mental stimulation so that should always be the case. There are lots of great couples on the scene but as in life also a few arseholes. The amount of willing guys on here and disproportionate ratio of ‘bulls’ to couples leads to saturation and couples maybe having to cut corners with messaging etc which in turn leads to taking people for granted and sometimes a lack of politeness and courtesy. I find the best way to avoid this is to be very selective and get to know a couple properly first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" this is a message posted on the subject a few months ago .Found it interesting enough to repost this after reading a paper on genetic biology.

whats also interesting is the cognitive dissonance in the use of the word to serve the cuckold couple.forfeiting his humanity.

so being of a much higher understanding we also acknowledge the lack in the cuck to satisfy his own woman! so how many black guys are cucks ? then tell who is not fulfilling there natural role or is it the difference in social economic family circumstances that will let her stay in a rather unfulfilling relationship after discovering new found mental and physical stimulation so the bull is also esoteric to Taurus which also means to turn or rotate in the cultural mythos.

How many on here share this opinion and are able to be honest in there relationship rather than in there fantasies .

in my personal opinion, it is acceptable to treat the black bull with contempt because his function is to serve the cuckold couple. also, he is generously compensated for partially forfeiting his humanity: he gets to have casual sex with another man’s wife!

what do you think about my comments? is the black bull a human being or just a big black cock?"

With a cock like yours why are you arsed haha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

Last thing I'm going to say on this, but there is research showing that only half of cuckolds do any form on humiliation. In reality, hotwifing is just a sub-category of cuckolding.

Can you please send a link to the research? This topic always fascinates me."

I found it online once but think it's been removed since. If you Google cuckold survey then there are some active new ones but i can't see their results yet.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

For us a degree of subservience to the bull is always a part of the expereince. Greater for the cuckold than the wife. For whatever reason this feels much enhanced when the bull is black, or at least it has been in our experiences.

The context of our relationships with bulls has always been wholly sexual. That is, we don’t have a relationship beyond the sessions arranged for sex. If we did, then things might be different, but within those sessions there is a clear hierarchy. For us the bull must be comfortable with his superiority and dominance. He is the alpha Male. Before, during and after the actual fucking he is treated with respect form both and deference from the cuckold. That, to us, just seems right.

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By *incolnjamesMan
over a year ago

Linoln

Having had my fair share of "Bull" scenarios I rarely found that the "cuck" wanted humiliating but rather that he wanted his wife to enjoy herself and have a good time.

Showing respect between all partners involved is more likely to result in return invites as my verifications hopefully show.

James

Ps _lackalphabull you were very respectful of my partner (pamdacarr) & I at Chams and welcome any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does being black have do to with being a bull? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships being as such, if the job is for a mutually satisfactory outcome between all parties, they why complain?

The question is how do many Black Men feel about this situation?

Certainly the inability to form lasting relationships due to old taboos make it a challenge.

But the perpetuated stereotype of Black men being virile, alpha, aggressive sexually, with a lack of intimate emotion, with large appendages has become the truth.

It’s a curse and a blessing at the same time.

These men have feelings and emotions, and should not be ashamed of expressing them, if they are being treated badly, then they should have the courage to say what is on their mind.

Or the situation is never going to change

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Relationships being as such, if the job is for a mutually satisfactory outcome between all parties, they why complain?

The question is how do many Black Men feel about this situation?

Certainly the inability to form lasting relationships due to old taboos make it a challenge.

But the perpetuated stereotype of Black men being virile, alpha, aggressive sexually, with a lack of intimate emotion, with large appendages has become the truth.

It’s a curse and a blessing at the same time.

These men have feelings and emotions, and should not be ashamed of expressing them, if they are being treated badly, then they should have the courage to say what is on their mind.

Or the situation is never going to change

"

That’s exactly why I wrote a blog during the period in which I was cuckolding couples. When I first took an interest I was disappointed by the lack of information out there that spoke from the Bulls perspective.

Judging by the feedback I got from couples as well as aspiring Bulls at the time I think they were quite useful to some people.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

I question the intelligence of those who only see the physical attributes, as well as those who feel empowered by those same people.

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By *uckold MistressCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

It has been said before that every couple and every bbc have different want's needs and requirements.There seem to be a lot of assumptions in your post !

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