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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey All,

As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,

However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I wouldn't even look at the profile after seeing the age. And guess many ladies will be the same.. as I have children the same age or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older ladies but alas I have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me I wouldn't even look at the profile after seeing the age. And guess many ladies will be the same.. as I have children the same age or older. "

Ohhh I totally get and understand there situations etc but just feel it's like fighting a losing battle at time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love older ladies but alas I have the same problem "

What can you do mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep trying I suppose!

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Caroline likes younger lads, providing they're intelligent, interesting, well turned out and able to travel.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Caroline likes younger lads, providing they're intelligent, interesting, well turned out and able to travel."

Well I can certainly travel? The others would be for you both to decide care to private message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!! "

Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey All,

As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,

However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x"

Firstly let me say that some older women ARE interested in younger men. As such being given advice from an older woman who isn't might not be of much use to you . However giving useless advice is a special talent of mine.

Have a bit of a rejig of your profile, nobody is going to message you to find things out, you need to have it all there.

I would say that if your main selling point is your youth, your pictures are spot on.

Have you actively searched out profiles that are specifically looking for your age group?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a simple matter of preference

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey All,

As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,

However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x

Firstly let me say that some older women ARE interested in younger men. As such being given advice from an older woman who isn't might not be of much use to you . However giving useless advice is a special talent of mine.

Have a bit of a rejig of your profile, nobody is going to message you to find things out, you need to have it all there.

I would say that if your main selling point is your youth, your pictures are spot on.

Have you actively searched out profiles that are specifically looking for your age group?"

I haven't no I do feel my profile could do with spicing up etc so will give that a try the rest I'm not really too sure on etc

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!

Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it? "

Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not all like that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased"

So do younger cwomen surely.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased

So do younger cwomen surely."

the ones i've had the pleasure of seeing not so much

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!

Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?

Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...! "

sorry to hear that I promise not all of us are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!

Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?

Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...! "

Quite childish if you ask me sorry you feel that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased

So do younger cwomen surely."

Updated my profile not sure if makes it any better lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased

So do younger cwomen surely.

Updated my profile not sure if makes it any better lol "

I would substitute "older women" for "older females" and "any questions feel free to ask" for "feel free to answer".

What exactly are you after? I don't get a feel for the type of meet you would enjoy. Don't say "I'm up for anything" a savvy older woman immediately interprets that as "show me stuff I've only ever dreamed of" . Do you like sensual, erotic sex or more roleplay or rougher encounters?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us."

So older women communicate their needs better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, yes. They have been through that process and know how to guide a new partner in how to please them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"In my opinion, yes. They have been through that process and know how to guide a new partner in how to please them. "

James, you need to use the quote button. That is my guidance for you .

Do you think that older men might have developed the same abilities resulting in partners of a similar age being able to communicate their likes and dislikes to each other more effectively?

I know this not to be true. I see posts from women of all ages complaining that lots of men aren't very good at oral sex and wonder why on earth they don't show them how to do it in a way that they like. I see the same complaint from men and wonder the same.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us.

So older women communicate their needs better?"

yeah that is what I meant by what I said

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich


"Hey All,

As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,

However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x"

dont worry it will wear of when your 60 and got one o0f your own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an older woman (33) some younger men can be pushy. I never had an interest in younger men until I met my partner

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because I am more than likely to be old enough to be their mothers, and therefore have nothing in common to speak them, so I avoid

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

1 week and a veri. What more do u want

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In a club I'm happy to play with a guy or guys of any age at all as long as they are clean, polite, not pushy and I find them attractive. If young guys want an older woman try a club, but don't tell them you want to fuck them because they are old - it isn't flattering

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

When i was in my mid twenties i was seduced by my violin teacher who was 19 years older than me and two years younger than my mother. I loved every single minute of it and couldnt get enough of her. She taught me a lot and we ended up having a relationship for a couple of years. By far some of the best sex i’ve ever had! Always loved older women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased"

Yes, we know what we want

Young guys are inexperienced in my mind. Hence you want older because we are more than experienced in the sac.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find its each to their own, everybodies different. Some women are mad for it some not so much. Just got to find the right one

Don’t be disheartened just because you’re not somebodies cup of tea, I’d love to be everybody’s cup of tea haha but it’s unfortunately not possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met younger and I have to say yes they are very hard work and some immature. I have met 1 that is 31 and boy does he stand out from the rest. Mature. Thoughtful. Sensual. Great sex. Can't fault him. Sadly he's the only one I'd go with that age plus I only go black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had plenty of luck with older, just by being myself, showing maturity and that I have plenty to offer. Don’t bring the age difference up just try and get conversations going and then they can see the person you are and make a decision based on that, and the age won’t matter. Ive been someones youngest and I think that made them initially hesitant but they definately didnt regret it

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