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"She needs to not make herself as available to him as she is now and almost make him a bit jealous and sit up and take notice. She’s doing all the running e.g dressing up etc and he can have it when and if he wants. Don’t know the details obviously but sounds like he doesn’t appreciate her so she should maybe go out a bit more (if that’s possible) without him, maybe Dress up a bit more when she goes out so she’s looking hot (if she doesn’t already) take in a new gym class for example. Basically start making effort for herself and elsewhere and not him. As soon as she’s heading out for a drink with friends looking hot or something like that he’ll soon start taking notice " This! It sounds like the thrill of the chase has definitely worn off and he's got complacent. It's like when you threaten to give your child's toys to someone else who will play with them..suddenly they become their favourite toy again! | |||
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"I know you say one for the guys but it sounds like he is having an affair. She needs to communicate with him about she feels and then decide if she wants to stay in a relationship like that. Counseling may help. Either couples or individually." now theirs another insight he's cheating oh my, he didn't say that though | |||
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"Maybe read the kanasutra or bring some variety like maybe she can give him a surprise threesome with yourself etc. " So in order for him to pay more attention to her during sex she needs to let him fuck another woman? Hmmmmm? 3somes or any type of swapping when in a couple should only be contemplated if the relationship is solid, it's not a bandage option or problem fixer | |||
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"I know you say one for the guys but it sounds like he is having an affair. She needs to communicate with him about she feels and then decide if she wants to stay in a relationship like that. Counseling may help. Either couples or individually." I thought this myself! But not exactly the type of option to add the mix, as far as shes said thats not on her mind so didnt want to put the thought there | |||
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"I know you say one for the guys but it sounds like he is having an affair. She needs to communicate with him about she feels and then decide if she wants to stay in a relationship like that. Counseling may help. Either couples or individually." I think counselling would help a lot of people here | |||
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