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lots of chat and messaging but arrange a meet?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More and more recently weve been struggling to get that first meet arranged, message people (or reply to their message), chat on here msn or fone all goes very well till you actually suggest that meet!!!!

Were starting to think that alot of people just like the idea of swinging but will never actually go thru with it!!

your views please

Mike xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, lots of people just want to chat. We hated it when we get messages saying

"wanna chat"

People can be what ever they want online. You only get to know if your compatible for fun if you meet up.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we found that too, so we dont do phone chat, as some seem to want phone sex, we dont cam cos that seems to be all they r lookin, we dont txt sex, only real meets, s out the wanna be's and those happy just to chat dirty on phone or cam, just how we see it and it works for us

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By *atiecd1967TV/TS
over a year ago

cambridge

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By *atiecd1967TV/TS
over a year ago

cambridge

I have had many similar experiences I guess this site like many others attracts those, both genuine and fake, that enjoy or fantasise about swinging but when it actually comes down to it they run faster than road runner lol

There is no real advice anyone can give you other than there are REAL people here of many shapes, sizes, preferences, kinks, persuasions, colours and creeds.

The cream, so to speak, will always rise to the top and I am certain a sexy couple such as yourself will find who and what you are looking for before too long.

if you think its tough finding some fun as an MF couple you should try being a cross dressing guy lol

Be patient, be honest and dont give up it will all come good in the end, at least thats what I keep telling myself lol. Happy Swinging !!!

Hugs Katie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found tht to of late u try to arrange a meet n all u get is wat do work at wat do u like wat do u want wat turns u on unfeel like screaming it's on my profile I wana arrange to have some fun if your just on to talk thn plz look eals were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes same here, makes you wonder how much time some people have on their hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its more annoying having a meet that says this week,and u wait and wait...and wait..for the confirmation...set aside time/money for the meet...and well...things go quiet......

so u hate to pester but do u wanna be siting at home when there was someone else feasibly interested but u know u cant double book urself??

U dont wan t anyone to think they are sloppy seconds either lol(of course I mean that in the way u dont wanna make them feel u only chose them cos u were let down!!!),I take sloppy seconds,thirds,fourths etc happily lol

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Sum ppl are juat on here to make friends i guess.its really annoying for some of us indeed.it makes u wonder why they dont try facebook instead of just bein on here looking endless mails.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

we think most on here will have experienced the ones who turn shy at a meet, we do wonder if its just one half of a couple that fancies the idea but hasnt got round to telling their partner yet lol (of course this would not apply to singles)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never understand couples who cant get a meet

when i started swinging i was married and swung for several years with my ex before we split up

we never ever struggeled to get a meet as a couple, we met loads of people, had lots of regular couple we met as well as the few one offs

i really dont understand what couples are doing wrong if they find it hard to meet other couples cause wenever had a problem and there was nothing special about us

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

it happens it's more annoyin when 2 days before meet ya see "user has left site", it is always the ones that want txt sex send them dirty stories or cam sex we dont and we make it clear, i dont waste my time tell them go buy a mag or video lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"i never understand couples who cant get a meet

when i started swinging i was married and swung for several years with my ex before we split up

we never ever struggeled to get a meet as a couple, we met loads of people, had lots of regular couple we met as well as the few one offs

i really dont understand what couples are doing wrong if they find it hard to meet other couples cause wenever had a problem and there was nothing special about us "

The problem we have is finding couples that both of us are attracted to. Then of course when we meet that both of us actually like.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"i never understand couples who cant get a meet

when i started swinging i was married and swung for several years with my ex before we split up

we never ever struggeled to get a meet as a couple, we met loads of people, had lots of regular couple we met as well as the few one offs

i really dont understand what couples are doing wrong if they find it hard to meet other couples cause wenever had a problem and there was nothing special about us

The problem we have is finding couples that both of us are attracted to. Then of course when we meet that both of us actually like. "

very true it has to be a four way thing for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think there should be a box to tick.

Anal, Toys, Just Chat that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find cam on with face shot helps better than cock in hand, but same as you really the amount of women who want to meet me then use the best excuse you can have by saying its that time of month really iritates and insults my intelligence so i just chat and dont expect anything else,and if it happens all well and good but lost allot of faith in actual meet but we,ll see

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We are the same even with people that we've played with we arrange another meet and have weeks of chats till that week comes and it all goes quiet or she got mother nature visiting if you don't want to meet or have had second thoughts just be honest and give the other couple to rearrange something so its not a wasted night for them like someone else said the time and money put aside and babysitters to sort out it can be hard work to plan a night where you can meet couples then just to be let down at last min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i agree ,i have not met anyone as yes,and not sure i will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we found that too, so we dont do phone chat, as some seem to want phone sex, we dont cam cos that seems to be all they r lookin, we dont txt sex, only real meets, s out the wanna be's and those happy just to chat dirty on phone or cam, just how we see it and it works for us"

ditto that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another thing that will put us off is people who chat with regard to a possible meet and they are too much centred on what they want and there doesn't seem to be any mutuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were here a year b4 we met any1! B

Patient guys it will happen. I still hav problems

With timewasters I'm afraid that's just the

Nature of the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

n I'm sure they would love you right on back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never understand couples who cant get a meet

when i started swinging i was married and swung for several years with my ex before we split up

we never ever struggeled to get a meet as a couple, we met loads of people, had lots of regular couple we met as well as the few one offs

i really dont understand what couples are doing wrong if they find it hard to meet other couples cause wenever had a problem and there was nothing special about us

The problem we have is finding couples that both of us are attracted to. Then of course when we meet that both of us actually like. "

yes i agree, we didnt play with evereyone we met, once you meet theres no guarantee you will all clique, but getting to the point of meeting people for a drink i think is easy as a couple

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