FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a sign

By *ehimus OP Couple
over a year ago

Beverley

Hi people . Working in lots of customers homes i often wonder about the useage of fab by any of theses avarage folk . Of course unless its offered on a plate with a user name conection . WHICH NEVER happens

. I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This gets asked frequently. No, there is no sign or code for being available as a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This gets asked frequently. No, there is no sign or code for being available as a swinger."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pampas grass in the front garden x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neon flashing fab light in the window x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Pampas grass in the front garden x"

wondered why my 93 year old neighbour got so many visitors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pampas grass in the front garden x"

Lies...all lies

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By *ehimus OP Couple
over a year ago

Beverley

Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .

Wouldn’t it be a bit unprofessional? Even if they did have ‘the sign’ you’re meant to be working. That would make me feel extremely uncomfortable, but hey, that’s just me

Plus, they may have ‘the sign’ and not know what it is. Lots of women wear anklets and some men from fab assume that means they’re hotwifes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See what somebody's reaction is when you use the word vanilla, before Fab and Swinging, we didn't think anything of it, now, when the word is used, we look more closely at the person using it for signs of a secret life.

Most of the time, there's nothing to see, but now and again there are other signs, none that we've ever followed through on but if a tradesman started talking about something being a little too vanilla, it would definitely raise an eyebrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on this planet would possess me to advertise I was a swinger. I can't even begin to imagine the consequences.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Pampas grass in the front garden x

Lies...all lies

I have pampas grass on my front lawn. So does one of my neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing on this planet would possess me to advertise I was a swinger. I can't even begin to imagine the consequences."

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fish symbol on the back of cars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fish symbol on the back of cars"

Bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keys in a bowl a little more subtle lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't think so, no. Real life is separate to Fab life. I would assume most would want to keep the two worlds separate. Especially if you risk the gas man hitting on you, just because there is a sign you are on fab and so are they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone mentioned, using fab and vanilla helps... I’ve a business and showroom and surprising how many people ask favours for discount!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

When you're working, why not concentrate on the job in hand and try not to let gave consume every moment of your life. Accept that not everyone are swingers.

Also, we swing, obviously. But we're not swingers all the time (if that makes sense). We'd be pretty annoyed if someone tried to cross that boundary of 'normality'. If we've hired someone to do some work for us, that's what we want. Whether we're swingers or not need not come into it.

Oh well, now that's off my chest, best get back to the daily grind before the boss asks what I'm doing on my phone again.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We have a fridge magnet on the fridge of an Orangutan saying 'born to swing' that might give it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is madness.

Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?

Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

When you're working, why not concentrate on the job in hand and try not to let gave consume every moment of your life. Accept that not everyone are swingers.

Oh well, now that's off my chest, best get back to the daily grind before the boss asks what I'm doing on my phone again. "

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I remember someone saying that in the 1970s it was a Pampas Grass in the front garden.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Keys in a bowl a little more subtle lol x"

Wow this will beat our fridge Magnet. We are buying a fish bowl at the weekend and doing away with our key holder on the wall. It will be our new center piece on the kitchen table.

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Posession of a swing set

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not search fab for people in the area you're working in to see if you can recognise them or turn your who's near on? You could make contact that way without embarrassing anybody.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Fab lolly in their freezer and love heart sweet tins...

Oh and they saying what a fab job you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fab lollies mmmm

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ace of base posters on the wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ace of base posters on the wall."

They really open up your eyes

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Leave your phone open and in view with the site home page visible. It's not initially obvious what the site is at a casual glance (scroll down a little so the title is hidden) but anyone who uses the mobile site will recognise it instantly. If they want to initiate anything then they can do. If not then on to the next job!

Obviously you may get questioned about why you're checking out other local perverts and not getting the job finished but that's by the bi

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ace of base posters on the wall.

They really open up your eyes"

They do, which is great because life can be demanding without understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keys in a bowl a little more subtle lol x

Wow this will beat our fridge Magnet. We are buying a fish bowl at the weekend and doing away with our key holder on the wall. It will be our new center piece on the kitchen table. "

I have a chameleons fridge magnet and key ring lol

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

"This is madness.

Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?

Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional. "

Some people just like to live dangerously. Risk can be quite the aphrodisiac, why else would people go dogging, the country air?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't think so, no. Real life is separate to Fab life. I would assume most would want to keep the two worlds separate. Especially if you risk the gas man hitting on you, just because there is a sign you are on fab and so are they. "

This exactly, all the other people in the club with you know what you’re there for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people . Working in lots of customers homes i often wonder about the useage of fab by any of theses avarage folk . Of course unless its offered on a plate with a user name conection . WHICH NEVER happens

. I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x

No there’s not a sign.

Next question?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people won't be attracted or compatible with most others, so it makes sense to filter well for appropriate partners. A clear sign sent to all that you are available is not really showing the discretion most want.

There are thousands of people available, so it's better to just get to optimize this site etc, rather than make more risky steps.

There is an internationally recognized language of interest, including flirting and body language too

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This exactly, all the other people in the club with you know what you’re there for."

We don't understand swinging not being real life. Everything we do in our life is real. Nothing has its own little box to be hidden away in. Maybe if we as swingers can't be open with our lifestyle is why there is such a stigma by the people who just don't know how amazing life can be. When we say open we don't mean shouting it from the roof tops, just not a hidden or pretend part of ones life. To us life is all real.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"This is madness.

Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?

Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x

The lounge smells of fanny mate its a sure sign. Well unless they are just dirty fuckers.

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By *lwayshorny2009Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Slip in a few “fabs” whilst chatting

Your soon find out

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