FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie profile tips?

By *tsJeanLuc OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

So I’m fairly new to the site, I’ve changed my bio about 4 times because I have no idea what to put, what tips would you give to a newbie? I understand it’s hard for a single guy to get anywhere if they’re not verified by somebody else which is not likely to happen as nobody wants to it’s a full circle lol can you give me some tips please? Many thanks

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Ladies read your profile , before they reply to your message you. So think of it like a shop window...you need to get people interested and tempted to want to find out more.

You don't say anything about why people would want to meet you. What you have to offer. Why choose you rather than one of the other messages they have received.

Your profile focusses on what you like and what you are looking for.

Maybe look at it from the point of view of the person reading it.

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By *tsJeanLuc OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ladies read your profile , before they reply to your message you. So think of it like a shop window...you need to get people interested and tempted to want to find out more.

You don't say anything about why people would want to meet you. What you have to offer. Why choose you rather than one of the other messages they have received.

Your profile focusses on what you like and what you are looking for.

Maybe look at it from the point of view of the person reading it."

Thanks for replying!

So basically change my profile and kinda sell myself? I’ve no idea how to do that but I guess I’ll try my best lol

What about having no verifications? It’s very hard to meet with people when you have none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ar not meet verified is hard to get a meet, I suggest you to go in a club for social and should be more easy after

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By *tsJeanLuc OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"If you ar not meet verified is hard to get a meet, I suggest you to go in a club for social and should be more easy after "

Yup that’s why I’m thinking nobody wants to meet not even for a coffee lol

I’ll be going to a meet next weekend so hopefully I can talk to some people there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you ar not meet verified is hard to get a meet, I suggest you to go in a club for social and should be more easy after

Yup that’s why I’m thinking nobody wants to meet not even for a coffee lol

I’ll be going to a meet next weekend so hopefully I can talk to some people there "

Or try to become a member at a swingers club, near you...

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By *tsJeanLuc OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"If you ar not meet verified is hard to get a meet, I suggest you to go in a club for social and should be more easy after

Yup that’s why I’m thinking nobody wants to meet not even for a coffee lol

I’ll be going to a meet next weekend so hopefully I can talk to some people there

Or try to become a member at a swingers club, near you... "

Closest one to me isn’t that far I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly new 8 months really your gonna wait 8 months before asking

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By *tsJeanLuc OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Fairly new 8 months really your gonna wait 8 months before asking"

Not a clue why it says 8 months, I’ve only been on here for about a month

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