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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies how much does it bother you if a guy cums really quickly ?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread for a friend.

#nonamewillbegiven

#tameimpala

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It's kind of a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh."

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick"

Third time lucky ?

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By *irty_DeedsMan
over a year ago

Teesside

How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me If he does he does, I will just have cuddles whilst waiting for the next round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick

Third time lucky ? "

You never know till you try I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend "

Well let's say less than 2 minutes

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick"

Frustrating!! I'd probably get my vibrator out at that point, a little less offensive than leaving!

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By *irty_DeedsMan
over a year ago

Teesside


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes "

Yeah, that is quick.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes "

My reaction would be different depending on his, if he came popped his trews back on patted me on my shoulder with a thanks and trotted off I'd be livid.

If he came, then proceed to lick, suck, stroke , use toys and his mouth on me until I was a juddering mess I'd probably order him a beer and sandwich from room service x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes

My reaction would be different depending on his, if he came popped his trews back on patted me on my shoulder with a thanks and trotted off I'd be livid.

If he came, then proceed to lick, suck, stroke , use toys and his mouth on me until I was a juddering mess I'd probably order him a beer and sandwich from room service x "

Good view to have

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ladies how much does it bother you if a guy cums really quickly ? "

It's pretty unacceptable to me unless its an ultra exciting scenario and he will be going again. I'm here for good sex and that means enough time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends - does he roll over and toddle off for a drink, or does he refocus on more mutual pleasure using the other bits of his anatomy available?

First option - disappointing, rubbish and selfish

Second option - shit happens, still a possibility for another bite at the cherry. One of my longest standing fab friends took the second option when we met for the first time. We’ve met many times since and had great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's kind of a compliment "

I agree, I kind of love it and it turns me on loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's kind of a compliment

I agree, I kind of love it and it turns me on loads "

Loads of guys delighted to hear this I bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is too long to last hmm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I prefer guys with some self control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long is too long to last hmm"

When what's left of your pubes catch fire from the friction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long is too long to last hmm

When what's left of your pubes catch fire from the friction?"

That's never happened haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a strange one for me (Mr here)

With the wife I can't control myself and she can sometime get me cumming in minutes....

Yet out of 4/5 meets we've had I've never shot my load

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I had this issue a couple of years ago, with the double whammy of erectile dysfunction thrown in for good measure. Got put on viagra from my GP and not only do I have erections like I had when I was 20, I seem to last much longer now. And am able to repeat. Best thing that ever happened to me, those little blue pills...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long is too long to last hmm

When what's left of your pubes catch fire from the friction?

That's never happened haha"

Well this one time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up at the Premature ejaculation clinic for my appointment today, but it turns out it was tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

74% of men suffer from premature ejaculation.

The rest of us just don’t think it’s a problem.

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I turned up at the Premature ejaculation clinic for my appointment today, but it turns out it was tomorrow."
Badum tish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned up at the Premature ejaculation clinic for my appointment today, but it turns out it was tomorrow.Badum tish!"

Please don’t mock the afflicted.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you "

How do you suggest they learn control?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you "

Thanks for the sage advice Mr Loverman, I will take it on board and master the art of not blowing my beans when I’m highly aroused, while I make love to a beautiful woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you "

Thanks Sting.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Its not all about the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. As long as they dont run straight off after

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By *oynextdoorxMan
over a year ago

Peterlee

Am the other way round takes me forever to cum and sometimes don’t come leaving the women disappointed that they have not turned me on enough but that’s never the case rock solid through out!! So works both ways guys

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I had a really nice guy tall good looking and well equipped, he came into the bedroom and I took my skirt of and he was just taking his trousers of and he just cum there and then.gutted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I repeat quicker then I cumm lol so if quick... Get seconds and thirds quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina. "

Sounds painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes "

jeez not good , you turned him on so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes jeez not good , you turned him on so much "

Where's the harm

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes jeez not good , you turned him on so much

Where's the harm "

I wish I could give you a answer I cum very quick but ok if it is for play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes jeez not good , you turned him on so much

Where's the harm "

none it's good to know you have that ability

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina.

Sounds painful "

I think it's when the guy makes a gun shape with his hands and says "pew pew!" while pointing at your vagina.

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you

How do you suggest they learn control?"

Possibly edging? Which can be fun in its own right for some. That's just a random idea - I don't really know if it works.

Men can also train to stay hard after they cum. It's mostly a matter of keeping up (;)) the stimulation while getting through the sensitivity coupled with a belief that you can stay hard - which is easier after the first time. Dancer has helped convince quite a few of this .

Hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years and years ago when I was a young teen, I suffered really badly with PE, to the extent that it would be 3 or 4 pumps with my then GF and id cum No idea how it was possible like! Bought a numbing spray to help and with time it went away, now I can last as long as I want!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina.

Sounds painful

I think it's when the guy makes a gun shape with his hands and says "pew pew!" while pointing at your vagina. "

Nearly spat my tea out laughing

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't mind...there's usually more later...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ladies how much does it bother you if a guy cums really quickly ? "

There is no excuse for this condition in 2018!

I would be fuming...!!

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By *asterBunny38Woman
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina.

Sounds painful

I think it's when the guy makes a gun shape with his hands and says "pew pew!" while pointing at your vagina. "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about control

Take it slowly with foreplay

Teasing

Licking etc

Its not about oh well need to empty my ball sac quick.

Kind regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am the other way round takes me forever to cum and sometimes don’t come leaving the women disappointed that they have not turned me on enough but that’s never the case rock solid through out!! So works both ways guys "

I have been there too and it doesn’t matter how long you can fuck for or how many times you make her cum there’s always an air of disappointment though sometimes that works in your favour as unfinished business needs to be taken care of...or have I just been lucky?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I would like to say......

Oh too late, forget it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to say......

Oh too late, forget it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to say......

Oh too late, forget it "

get on with your work

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

are we talking quick like the guy from american pie?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are we talking quick like the guy from american pie?"

Yes

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"are we talking quick like the guy from american pie?

Yes "

so not even getting to touch, just cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it's been awhile ? Asking for a friend ??

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm still in awe of my partner and she normally jumps on top and with the dirty looks and verbal stuff she says i dont last long lol. I'm handy with my tongue and she doesn't last long either and sometimes I treat her to a good long hard pounding and find a bull on here for her which again has us wanting each other more after.... so yeah it's no issue for us

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"I'm still in awe of my partner and she normally jumps on top and with the dirty looks and verbal stuff she says i dont last long lol. I'm handy with my tongue and she doesn't last long either and sometimes I treat her to a good long hard pounding and find a bull on here for her which again has us wanting each other more after.... so yeah it's no issue for us"

it would happen to every man with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still in awe of my partner and she normally jumps on top and with the dirty looks and verbal stuff she says i dont last long lol. I'm handy with my tongue and she doesn't last long either and sometimes I treat her to a good long hard pounding and find a bull on here for her which again has us wanting each other more after.... so yeah it's no issue for us"

Lucky ye

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley

This exactly... Met a few guys who cant deliver the goods and give me jaw ache and I just get bored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This exactly... Met a few guys who cant deliver the goods and give me jaw ache and I just get bored."

It does get borning after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me, i quite like it. I would like a second go at it though, to be fully satisfied.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Any man can learn control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try high strength Vit B12 tablets. They literally work wonders !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you

How do you suggest they learn control?

Possibly edging? Which can be fun in its own right for some. That's just a random idea - I don't really know if it works.

Men can also train to stay hard after they cum. It's mostly a matter of keeping up (;)) the stimulation while getting through the sensitivity coupled with a belief that you can stay hard - which is easier after the first time. Dancer has helped convince quite a few of this .

Hat"

edging is a great way to build up your control.

as for staying hard, I'll try your advice next time

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

Talking of men having P.E I was sleeping with a girl a few years ago who couldn't last longer than a few mins sex became to sensitive for her so she would go to giving me oral then back to sex then back to oral could never really go hard and deep she couldn't handle it but my god did she cum every time when she did it was like a mains pipe bursting..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Try high strength Vit B12 tablets. They literally work wonders !!!!"

How so?

I've found 6pts of Heineken quite good, or, when I were a lad, two pints of JD and but these days that has a less beneficial effect

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick"

Sounds like heaven.. just keep going again n again n again..

Got shouted at while on a certain beach a few months ago.. firsts - seconds - thirds -then fourths..

Was gonna go again till damn boy racers arrived..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research came out about 2 years ago that most guys with PE are vitamin B12 deficient. I was told to try Vit b12 supplements a while ago as it came up I had low b12 on a blood test for something else.

After just 3 days there was a huge difference. Worth a shot maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Research came out about 2 years ago that most guys with PE are vitamin B12 deficient. I was told to try Vit b12 supplements a while ago as it came up I had low b12 on a blood test for something else.

After just 3 days there was a huge difference. Worth a shot maybe"

Is that an intentional pun?

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By *londie80Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would much rather a guy came quickly while fully involved in the fun and enjoying every moment, than a guy last longer because he's holding back/thinking of something else.

Nothing worse that a guy hammering away for hours but feeling that their mind is somewhere else because they're worried about cumming too early.

That said, please don't spurt and run. Cum quickly but then spent time cuddling, kissing, playing, sucking, talking until if we're lucky it's time for round 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would much rather a guy came quickly while fully involved in the fun and enjoying every moment, than a guy last longer because he's holding back/thinking of something else.

Nothing worse that a guy hammering away for hours but feeling that their mind is somewhere else because they're worried about cumming too early.

That said, please don't spurt and run. Cum quickly but then spent time cuddling, kissing, playing, sucking, talking until if we're lucky it's time for round 2."

This sounds perfect. Nothing worse than a guy running off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm keen that I'm satisfied as well as my partner, so if we manage and focus on tha, Instead of anxiety inducing labels like PE, its probably better.

Premature for one may be a tedious long, drawn out situation for another.

If a guy has an issue, he can look to overcome it in the longer term, rather than pressuring him to last and last immediately.

Plenty of stuff to do, kissing, hugging, caressing etc that don't need a hard cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm keen that I'm satisfied as well as my partner, so if we manage and focus on tha, Instead of anxiety inducing labels like PE, its probably better.

Premature for one may be a tedious long, drawn out situation for another.

If a guy has an issue, he can look to overcome it in the longer term, rather than pressuring him to last and last immediately.

Plenty of stuff to do, kissing, hugging, caressing etc that don't need a hard cock. "

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies "

Now there's an offer.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Following this thread for a friend.

#nonamewillbegiven

#tameimpala"

I think we have a mutual friend..although I had heard he'd been having a medical procedure to try and cure it..

I rang the ward to enquire about the friend and the nurse said it was still touch and go.

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By *lwayshorny2009Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Has long as Iv cum first it’s not a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's kind of a compliment

I agree, I kind of love it and it turns me on loads

Loads of guys delighted to hear this I bet "

You know it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer."

still waiting

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I can go for ages or cum very soon, learn control guys, your there to please the both of you

How do you suggest they learn control?"

When a guy goes for a piss, hold it in for 15 seconds and release a few times while pissing. Using the muscle that stops your piss coming out will condition it. It's the same muscle that you use to control ejaculation.

Also, if you feel you're about to cum but don't want to, push down firmly in the area right between your balls and your arsehole and that'll stop you ejaculating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it'd wouldn't be an issue as it showed how excited he'd been.

There's lots of other things to do besides - I'd be more offended if he didn't carry on with other things so that I was satisfied too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting "

Sorry I'm easily distracted

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By *parks2020Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Makes me feel less a man when it happens which I kinda like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting

Sorry I'm easily distracted "

get in my box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes

My reaction would be different depending on his, if he came popped his trews back on patted me on my shoulder with a thanks and trotted off I'd be livid.

If he came, then proceed to lick, suck, stroke , use toys and his mouth on me until I was a juddering mess I'd probably order him a beer and sandwich from room service x "

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooops sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting

Sorry I'm easily distracted get in my box "

What kind of box is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting

Sorry I'm easily distracted get in my box

What kind of box is it ?"

Probably meant to say get in your box...

Bleugh I hate that word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting

Sorry I'm easily distracted get in my box

What kind of box is it ?

Probably meant to say get in your box...

Bleugh I hate that word "

My box

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I take it as a compliment.... But then definitely hope he has a good 2nd or third round in him....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it as a compliment.... But then definitely hope he has a good 2nd or third round in him.... "

What if each time he cums just as quick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it as a compliment.... But then definitely hope he has a good 2nd or third round in him....

What if each time he cums just as quick?"

You might need to have a talk with him so..or stop looking so hot

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I take it as a compliment.... But then definitely hope he has a good 2nd or third round in him....

What if each time he cums just as quick?"

Then he needs a 4th lol

I think my record with a guy stands at 4 and that was a relatively quick meet tbh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well keep him hard and there will be no problems come on ladies

Now there's an offer. still waiting

Sorry I'm easily distracted get in my box

What kind of box is it ?"

mailbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would much rather a guy came quickly while fully involved in the fun and enjoying every moment, than a guy last longer because he's holding back/thinking of something else.

Nothing worse that a guy hammering away for hours but feeling that their mind is somewhere else because they're worried about cumming too early.

That said, please don't spurt and run. Cum quickly but then spent time cuddling, kissing, playing, sucking, talking until if we're lucky it's time for round 2."

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley


"It's kind of a compliment

I agree, I kind of love it and it turns me on loads "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh."

^ this

How about you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it as a compliment.... But then definitely hope he has a good 2nd or third round in him....

What if each time he cums just as quick?

Then he needs a 4th lol

I think my record with a guy stands at 4 and that was a relatively quick meet tbh lol"

Wow

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By *ornyandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Warrington


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina. "

Would say they are faking it just to get you to stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I do blow my beans early doors, I always make sure the lady has at least three orgasms through finger blasting her vagina.

Would say they are faking it just to get you to stop "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following this thread for a friend.

#nonamewillbegiven

#tameimpala"

I always blow my beans early doors, but luckierly for the lady I’m a repeat cummer and I’m ready to go again in a few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow early sometimes depending if too aroused.

Will always please the mrs to however she wants and with whatever she wants wether toys, tongue, fingers.

Always repeat and go for as long as wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooops i did it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooops i did it again "

It's okay I'll give you another try

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over a year ago

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

I suffer from it due to lack of experience.

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley


" "

Just from looking at your pictures has me pre cumming... stunning.x

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I take it as a compliment. But equally if they’ve cum and I haven’t, recharge time is about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me one bit! Can’t be helped sometimes, aslong as they had fun! Even if it was for only 2 mins!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Just from looking at your pictures has me pre cumming... stunning.x"

Aww thanks

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley


"

Just from looking at your pictures has me pre cumming... stunning.x

Aww thanks "

Your so very welcome... and so very hot.x

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"Doesn’t bother me one bit! Can’t be helped sometimes, aslong as they had fun! Even if it was for only 2 mins! "

I could see over stimulation being response you would cause. So I guess you've only yourself to blame

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Every man can learn control. No excuse for anyone who takes there fucking seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every man can learn control. No excuse for anyone who takes there fucking seriously. "

You think so?

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"Every man can learn control. No excuse for anyone who takes there fucking seriously.

You think so?"

Yes 100% . Almost every guy has that challenge when young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been trying these kegal exercises lately, wonder if it will make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?"

Probably average for a young guy but you should want to improve that. Unless you can repeat incredibly quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blow my beans have a few pumps and can’t go again for a fortnight.

Ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how long I last first time round but when I cum I stay hard and carry on, I won't cum a second time though will just be as long as she wants to go for xx is this normal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?"

I'd be happy with that

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that "

The women won’t be fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella "

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blow my beans after a few pumps and can’t go again for a fortnight.

Ladies "

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all. "

Would you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?"

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun! "

I'd be the same

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same "

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Ladies how much does it bother you if a guy cums really quickly ? "

I like premature ejaculation.....I've got them that worked up.

Daisy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had "

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform "

I agree.

And I think a lot of that “pressure” comes from other men themselves who think that lasting 6 hours without cumming is what all women want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's stuff that you can put on the end of your cock to make it less sensitive. Can go for hours if the have the energy then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform

I agree.

And I think a lot of that “pressure” comes from other men themselves who think that lasting 6 hours without cumming is what all women want. "

Nothing worse than a guy banging away for hours and getting bored

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I love to bang away for hours, never got bored yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so most guys will read this now and think ah its ok now if i dont last .. stuff that rather a good session than a squirt anyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find if a guy is fucking me for to long I get desensitized

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I find if a guy is fucking me for to long I get desensitized "

So if you become insensitive, does that mean you just tell them to fuck off?

More seriously - and assuming you actually want to enjoy fucking for longer, which you might well not - you should try getting them to change *how* they are fucking you. You want them to change which bit of you they're stimulating inside.

Different strokes for different folks (literally, in this case ) but roughly speaking there are different areas of erectile tissue in the vagina. Three are known to commonly lead to orgasm if properly stimulated (aka rubbed while fucking in this case): the clitoris, the g-spot, and the a-spot. Switching between them after orgasms can lead to more pleasure for longer and less of that numb, desensitized feeling.

The usual caveats apply. Your mileage may vary. The peak of your orgasm may go up as well as down. Batteries not included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to bang away for hours, never got bored yet "

The woman might have though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find if a guy is fucking me for to long I get desensitized

So if you become insensitive, does that mean you just tell them to fuck off?

More seriously - and assuming you actually want to enjoy fucking for longer, which you might well not - you should try getting them to change *how* they are fucking you. You want them to change which bit of you they're stimulating inside.

Different strokes for different folks (literally, in this case ) but roughly speaking there are different areas of erectile tissue in the vagina. Three are known to commonly lead to orgasm if properly stimulated (aka rubbed while fucking in this case): the clitoris, the g-spot, and the a-spot. Switching between them after orgasms can lead to more pleasure for longer and less of that numb, desensitized feeling.

The usual caveats apply. Your mileage may vary. The peak of your orgasm may go up as well as down. Batteries not included."

I'd usually just make the effort to change it up.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I've learned to have complete control over cumming, so if someone wants it quick then fine I can cum in a couple of minutes but alternatively I can go 5 or 6 hours if needed. Just depends on the person I'm with and the mood and situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've learned to have complete control over cumming, so if someone wants it quick then fine I can cum in a couple of minutes but alternatively I can go 5 or 6 hours if needed. Just depends on the person I'm with and the mood and situation."

If you cum quick can you get hard again soon after ?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I've learned to have complete control over cumming, so if someone wants it quick then fine I can cum in a couple of minutes but alternatively I can go 5 or 6 hours if needed. Just depends on the person I'm with and the mood and situation.

If you cum quick can you get hard again soon after ?"

If I cum quick then yeah I can go again fairly soon after. If I cum after 5 hours then no I'm probably done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago at a gangbang I arranged for Hollie I guy whilst getting her doggy, touched her leg with his cock and that was that! Spunk everywhere he muttered sorry and left, so that minus 15 seconds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've learned to have complete control over cumming, so if someone wants it quick then fine I can cum in a couple of minutes but alternatively I can go 5 or 6 hours if needed. Just depends on the person I'm with and the mood and situation.

If you cum quick can you get hard again soon after ?

If I cum quick then yeah I can go again fairly soon after. If I cum after 5 hours then no I'm probably done."

I'd imagine you'd be pretty tired alright after 5 hours

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I've learned to have complete control over cumming, so if someone wants it quick then fine I can cum in a couple of minutes but alternatively I can go 5 or 6 hours if needed. Just depends on the person I'm with and the mood and situation.

If you cum quick can you get hard again soon after ?

If I cum quick then yeah I can go again fairly soon after. If I cum after 5 hours then no I'm probably done.

I'd imagine you'd be pretty tired alright after 5 hours "

I would hope to be

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

5 to 6 hours???

I would rather get a dog!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 to 6 hours???

I would rather get a dog!"

Why?

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes

My reaction would be different depending on his, if he came popped his trews back on patted me on my shoulder with a thanks and trotted off I'd be livid.

I relish playing after a huge cum everything is so sensitive

If he came, then proceed to lick, suck, stroke , use toys and his mouth on me until I was a juddering mess I'd probably order him a beer and sandwich from room service x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How quick is quick? also asking for a friend

Well let's say less than 2 minutes

My reaction would be different depending on his, if he came popped his trews back on patted me on my shoulder with a thanks and trotted off I'd be livid.

I relish playing after a huge cum everything is so sensitive

If he came, then proceed to lick, suck, stroke , use toys and his mouth on me until I was a juddering mess I'd probably order him a beer and sandwich from room service x "

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"How long is too long to last hmm

When what's left of your pubes catch fire from the friction?"

There should be no pubes ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long is too long to last hmm

When what's left of your pubes catch fire from the friction?

There should be no pubes ever"

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"5 to 6 hours???

I would rather get a dog!

Why?"

horses For courses. I like premature ejaculaters, I couldn't manage 2 hours never mind 5 or 6.

My concentration would drift to shopping lists or football results etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooops sorry"

Not again

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform

I agree.

And I think a lot of that “pressure” comes from other men themselves who think that lasting 6 hours without cumming is what all women want. "

100% all really valid points above, however there are plenty women that do only cum from penetration and need a sustained hard fucking to get them off so would need someone with staying power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform

I agree.

And I think a lot of that “pressure” comes from other men themselves who think that lasting 6 hours without cumming is what all women want.

100% all really valid points above, however there are plenty women that do only cum from penetration and need a sustained hard fucking to get them off so would need someone with staying power "

Variety is definitely my experience - a quickie outdoors is always entertaining but then so is a whole night of fucking with breaks for sensual play and the odd 40 winks - there’s nothing quite like waking drowsily but hard as a rock and then sliding into a moist and waiting pussy before lazily fucking her awake and watching her cum again....heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average last around 5-8 minutes. Is that premature?

I'd be happy with that

The women won’t be fella

There’s one above you that said she would be happy with that... so I guess some would be. Each to their own and all.

Would you ?

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Penetration isn’t the be all and end all and there are plenty things we can do to have fun!

I'd be the same

Agreed

There's a lot of other sensual, teasing play to be had

Exactly. There's to much pressure put on guys to preform

I agree.

And I think a lot of that “pressure” comes from other men themselves who think that lasting 6 hours without cumming is what all women want.

100% all really valid points above, however there are plenty women that do only cum from penetration and need a sustained hard fucking to get them off so would need someone with staying power "

Good for them, hope they find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't so long as he can go again. If he can't then it's a bit of a disappointment tbh.

Well let's just say second time he cums as quick

Frustrating!! I'd probably get my vibrator out at that point, a little less offensive than

leaving!"

Chuckles x

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x "

I like it on the tits or mouth or face or ass

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x

I like it on the tits or mouth or face or ass "

Why choose only one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x

I like it on the tits or mouth or face or ass

Why choose only one "

Excatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i just clarify...

So the thrustmaster 3000 who can fuck for 6 hours before the moneyshot, are you talking 6 hours solid of penetration or are you being slighy more realistic my mixing it up with oral, kissing caressing etc.

I am fairly certain that 6 hours of in/out will leave both of you very sore, thirsty, hungry, tired, bored etc.

For the mere mortals amongst us,.we then face the prospect of 3 wanks prior to a meet to try and perform for several hours of penetration.

Would the ladies be more dissapointed to see a condom full of a mouses cum as the bank has been truly emptied?

Personally I let nature take it's course. If I end up blowing early, the lady will know that I have not emptied my nuts over anyone else and saved it just for her. And I'll have plenty in reserve for round 2.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad


"Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x

I like it on the tits or mouth or face or ass

Why choose only one

Excatly "

. Sorry it was an attempt at humour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Premature ejaculation Do you ladies take it on the chin or does it just get on your tits x

I like it on the tits or mouth or face or ass

Why choose only one

Excatly . Sorry it was an attempt at humour "

Maybe

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not ideal but it wouldn't bother me. Hopefully he is a repeater!!

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"Can i just clarify...

So the thrustmaster 3000 who can fuck for 6 hours before the moneyshot, are you talking 6 hours solid of penetration or are you being slighy more realistic my mixing it up with oral, kissing caressing etc.

I am fairly certain that 6 hours of in/out will leave both of you very sore, thirsty, hungry, tired, bored etc.

For the mere mortals amongst us,.we then face the prospect of 3 wanks prior to a meet to try and perform for several hours of penetration.

Would the ladies be more dissapointed to see a condom full of a mouses cum as the bank has been truly emptied?

Personally I let nature take it's course. If I end up blowing early, the lady will know that I have not emptied my nuts over anyone else and saved it just for her. And I'll have plenty in reserve for round 2."

Sums up my thoughts too. I thought it was supposed to be fun for both, rather than a macho demonstration sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've suffered with this for years, nothing seems to work so finally just coming to terms with having to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the women who say they’d be disappointed or pissed off or it’s unacceptable...

Cumming is not something you can physically control or train yourself to time. If your super horny and you the women are doing an amazing job then guess what we are going to blow our load...

Please just take it as a compliment and we will soon be ready to go again.

Don’t get annoyed just enjoy it x

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"To the women who say they’d be disappointed or pissed off or it’s unacceptable...

Cumming is not something you can physically control or train yourself to time. If your super horny and you the women are doing an amazing job then guess what we are going to blow our load...

Please just take it as a compliment and we will soon be ready to go again.

Don’t get annoyed just enjoy it x "

That’s not true at all . I am testimony that control can be overcome and learnt

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