FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Does it matter?

We are all here for the same thing why add labels?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

Another couple who thinks they are superior to the singles on here. Surely the essence of a swinger is their attitude to NSA sex not their relationship status.

Your attitude makes you look like you think they are second class citizens in the swinging community. Here I lu to serve the high lord couples of fab who are the true rulers of swjngersville

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whoa hold on.....

Read it again, it’s a thought that we’ve put on here to discuss, no way are we suggesting we are correct hence the asking for thoughts. Also it’s just a thought and thoughts can be changed.

If anything it’s in the wrong forum and should be for general chat.

So less judgmental eh folks and calm down....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Less judgmental from, those who claim single men can't be swingers but are OK to enhance their swinging life

good one

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Our take on single folks of either sex is that if they want to meet and play with couples then they fall under the swingers umbrella and if they only meet other singles they are simply just shaggers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our take on single folks of either sex is that if they want to meet and play with couples then they fall under the swingers umbrella and if they only meet other singles they are simply just shaggers. "

Yeah good point

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Are singles who meet only singles swingers? My opinion- no but swinging has evolved to include almost everyone. The days of couples meeting couples only being classed as swingers is long gone. The people who shouldn't be here are those with a negative attitude to swingers - the ' I am single but wouldn't let my partner swing if I had one, but it's ok if I fuck your missus'attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that there's ever been a formal definition of what makes people into swingers - and there's certainly no definition on this site...

But if you would prefer that all us single women leave, then please just say so...

We'll probably just ignore you though, and keep on doing what we want..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes for single women too surly, my personal view is if anyone single, plays with couples of either sex, attends swingers clubs is a swinger! But as said above we are all here for the same thing abit of fun, why label it it doesn't concern anyone what we all get upto x

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Maybe the definition should be that those who look for sex without wanting a committed relationship are swingers, those couples who do likewise are swappers, this includes hot wives, chucks etc

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Maybe the definition should be that those who look for sex without wanting a committed relationship are swingers, those couples who do likewise are swappers, this includes hot wives, chucks etc"
cuck ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

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couples like to play with single women and men hence why they are here

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

Well I've been a single swinger for over 10 years now.

Swinging has evolved from it's roots and is no longer limited to couples playing with couples.

I meet single people and couples and have attended many a party in the past yet never been to a club.

I'm single.

I'm a swinger.

It's 2018 maybe time for the attitude towards swinging in general to evolve within the community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've been a single swinger for over 10 years now.

Swinging has evolved from it's roots and is no longer limited to couples playing with couples.

I meet single people and couples and have attended many a party in the past yet never been to a club.

I'm single.

I'm a swinger.

It's 2018 maybe time for the attitude towards swinging in general to evolve within the community."
sorry I can't I just can't revise my opinion of it, it's deep rooted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else actually realise that if this site was truly for couples only, then it wouldn't have tick boxes for single males and females?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as a swinger.

When I was in a couple I played with other couples - this to me is swinging: seeking sexual pleasure outside a relationship but with your partners knowledge (swinging couples sometimes only have one partner playing).

Now I’m single that definition doesn’t work!

But I see myself as a single swinger - Swingle!

I’m not here for 1:1 hook-ups. I play with couples / orgies / cupcaking etc... i find Fab heavy on the singles looking for 1-1 meets, who have no interest in the Swinging lifestyle which isn’t for me, so I use the clubs to find people who are into it. Not keen on the judgement in forums from singles who state they wouldn’t swing / share but are on a swinging site!! Odd

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

I'm assuming this also applies to single women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah good point

Socials, group play and clubs have a part to play here too, speaking as a ‘swingle’, not a serial shagger.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

My favourite swinging activity is a moresome - there would be a lot of bored women sitting around if I relied entirely on men from couples. Thank goodness there are single men who are willing to join in, and enjoy, the swinging scene. To me that is enough to call them swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men who respect both parties have every reason to be on here.. it's the one's who don't understand the scene and treat this site like AFF that should be taught otherwise

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Is it just me or does anyone else actually realise that if this site was truly for couples only, then it wouldn't have tick boxes for single males and females?

nor would there be a quarter of the members!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for goodness sake why do folks have to find fault with everything!!! we are here to have fun! lets leave it at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP makes a valid point and one I see from both sides - has a ex MF couple that used this and other sites for year, I knew that "solo players" or "singles" where not really swingers by way of the fact they played alone - however - as a couple and later with my dear fem FB (who shared couples profile with here for 2 years), we had sexual itches needing sctratching;

MMF

MFF

which having a "singleton" was a safer / easier route to go down

J xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Without us singles you wouldn't have your mmf or ffm would you? It would just be wife swapping with other couples.

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By *webMan
over a year ago

doncaster/Benidorm

hi all im a single guy i meet up with single ladys and couple's i like to think anyone in my position is a swinger be it male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I class myself as a swinger.

Now I’m single that definition doesn’t work!

But I see myself as a single swinger - Swingle!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

You are describing wife swapping from the good old days. Swingers are people who enjoy sexual freedom and a wonderful lifestyle. I don't get why people think only couples can be swingers.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

In my opinion, singles are not swingers... especially if they are only looking for other singles. But, it's not really important. You could also say that couples where only one half plays are not really swingers, or cuckold couples. Ultimately the lifestyle is all about variety and freedom and most importantly "fun sexual encounters" and the label is not at all important.

Cal

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Does being a single guy make you a swinger? I would have thought not as it’s just sex with others that you can do anyway.

If that’s the case they are not swingers should they be on a swingers site?

Just a thought. Personally I don’t think they are swingers but they are needed on a swingers site yes.

Singles can be swingers, yes.

We enjoy meeting singles and perhaps wouldn't bother being here should singles be banned from the swinging sites and scene

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