FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships within the Swinging World

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you form a real relationship within the swinging world??

Iv met people over the years and i have fallen two of them, They never cheated on me, although i never trusted them, i dont trust anyone (unfortunately its been the swinging world that has made me as hard as that)

I suppose im not looking for advice somewhere to just type my thoughts really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we met in the swinging world and have been together for 8 years now, we also know of a number of people that have met on here and are in solid relationships.

kat x x x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

There are many different forms of relationships,from friendship to romantic love...they can all exist in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppsoe like anything its down to who you meet and what your after

ive been to a couple of swinging weddings one didnt last a year the other ones still going strong

i think theres as much chance of a swinging relationship working as any other you just have to find the right person, but we dont always do that so no matter wether you swing or not some will fail

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Some work some don't I don't use this site as a dating site but I never say never... When the spark is there between both parties its hard to ignore..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived with my ex for a year and met from here, I always kept my fab/other site contacts but never played away..pretty pointless to me in any relationship...but to some even talking(chatting,flirting,camming)online is cheating

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Any and every relationship takes work. We have formed a few different kinds of relationships, friendships and some lusty ones.

We are not looking for love, just lust and with luck some laughs, so far so good!.

XxX MT

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Well we r married but didint meet on here, n i dont think that i could have luved the idea of finding sumone on here really.the thing is if u meet on here when ppl ask you where did u meet?wot do u say?N if u were used to meeting on ure own do u continue doing wot u used to do/?wots the story behind it all.i just dont get it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in three long term swinging relationships now one for six years and married to her

One for nine years and we lived together

And this one for 10 months and we are getting married

I had a 6 year normal marriage in-between although she was fully aware of my past and sexuality

The only swinger I've had a relationship with is my present partner who I met through fab

The other two swinging partners were vanilla when I met them

Yes it does work out

Both of my other relationships broke up because of reasons totally unconnected with the lifestyle xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love seeing them work and people happy.

I dislike them when they don't and the bitterness is spewed for all to read...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met jay through swinging, we where friends for a year first and we have been together almost 5 years and its the best relationship ive ever been in.

But i didnt fall for him as such it was a friendship that grew and we werent fbs first

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"I've been in three long term swinging relationships now one for six years and married to her

One for nine years and we lived together

And this one for 10 months and we are getting married

I had a 6 year normal marriage in-between although she was fully aware of my past and sexuality

The only swinger I've had a relationship with is my present partner who I met through fab

The other two swinging partners were vanilla when I met them

Yes it does work out

Both of my other relationships broke up because of reasons totally unconnected with the lifestyle xx

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if u put that in writing i can see ure book in the shelves of whs.Should be interesting to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough xx

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

best wishes it does work on different levels paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we r married but didint meet on here, n i dont think that i could have luved the idea of finding sumone on here really.the thing is if u meet on here when ppl ask you where did u meet?wot do u say?N if u were used to meeting on ure own do u continue doing wot u used to do/?wots the story behind it all.i just dont get it???

For us (and this is not how it works for everyone) once we had met and we both knew that there was something between us and both decided we wanted to be together, we tuck the time out of the lifestyle (although we where still on sites as a cpl and chatting etc) to get to know one another and slowing we brought swinging into our relationship and found what suited us best.

Worked for us.

kat x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we been together 10 years and swinging 9 of them, still having fun, still love and trust each other totally.

At the end of the day sex has nothing to do with love unless it's between just us two.

Anything else is just for fun and we hope it carries on like that for a while more yet

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