FabSwingers.com forum: bigger women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hiya, we were just wondering if bigger women (size 18 plus) get much attention in clubs, we used to go to cupids but cant recall seeing any big women. now the march of time has caught up with us and weve given up the gym membership and joined the bargain booze club instead lol. were not embarresed by size but wouldnt want to waste our time. any suggestions.

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By *xscotMan
over a year ago

Kingston

Size or lack of it is not a problem - a fun attitude is always appreciated

anyway time catches up with all of us and it is nice ot appreciate a larger lady too - much more comfortable than a bag of bones

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By *ovesit101Man
over a year ago

Bridlington

mmm the fuller figured ladies alway get my attention absolutely. just wish you lived closer lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs we've been to, there have been lots of bigger girls.

They don't go short of attention

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

confident girls get attention, regardless of size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone with a pulse will get some attention at these clubs

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"anyone with a pulse will get some attention at these clubs

you clearly havent been to a club have you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs offer a bbw night so maybe worth checking out your local club I started off at Cupids one of the best night of my life opened my eyes to all of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone with a pulse will get some attention at these clubs

you clearly havent been to a club have you lol"

u got me

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

chams has its bbw night tomorrow cant wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a bigger lady and i dont find a shortage of attention. really boosted y confidence when i first started clubs

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We go to La Chambre most weeks and get plenty of attention altho i agree that confidence and personality count far more than any curves or wobbly bits do!!You can play with the most stunning folk in the world...but if they're miserable buggers its no fun at all!

Dean and I are holding a BBW Cuvy girls night next Thurs 8th at La Chambre to encourage the curvier ladies who are a little bit shy of trying a club chance to try it out.

see our profile for details

Hope to see some of u and ur curvy bits there!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Hmmm. When we first started out on this fun trip Katee used to be a size 14, we loved every minute of it.

Over the last 5 years health issues have seen her go from a 14 up to around 18-20. Our meetings have dried up completely, we have not met anyone in the last 8 months.

This is not because they don't want to meet us, its because Katee doesn't want to meet them being embarrassed over her weight gain.

So as long as you are enjoying yourselves there will always be people who want to meet no matter about size. The only thing that will stop the meetings are your own feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks guys, all great feedback, as i said we used to go to cupids and since putting weight on we feel a little embarressed, sod it were off to cupids on saturday see what happens. thanks again.any bbw lovers in the n/w get in touch.

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

the bigger woman is great x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I had a dream the other day that I had sex with a really big woman. She was taller than a house. She covered me head to toe in lube and used me as living dildo.

The next night I had a nightmare, it was the same woman but this time she wanted anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being a size 18-20-22 ( depends on where i shop and how fat im feeling lol) i thought i would be completely ignored in clubs apart from the "chubby chasers" who just want "bbw" women,

but its actually the opposite i get loads of attention from all sorts of people, i think thats alot to do with my confidence and smile more than my size though (and having huge boobs and a great cleavage probably helps too lol)

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"(and having huge boobs and a great cleavage probably helps too lol) "

After looking at your pics I believe you might have something there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feels like de ja vu....back in my bbw box..i say if a lady is confident she is then sexy no matter what size she is,be it a size 8 to size 28...confidence is a sexy trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me there is a point where size can become an issue! but thats so far down the line as not to worry about it.

most of the time it's more downt to how they carry them selves metaly that is, As a bigger woman who is proud of the way she looks and doesnt give a damn what other's think will come acros as sexy and alluring

james

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a size 22/24 I've never had a problem with getting attention, but it definitely varies according to how confident I'm feeling.

Hope you have a good time at the club. Good luck! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women are great big or slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 12, sometimes 14. If I see size 6, 8 or 10 girls I lose my confidence !!!

When I was larger I had no confidence at all and definitely would not have considered swinging then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved the BBW night at Chams, had so much attention, I think if you're confident, and I'm a size 30, then you do get lots of it....love being a bit different...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"confident girls get attention, regardless of size

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I concur...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"confident girls get attention, regardless of size

Agreed, confidence and gsoh win me over before size any day of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"confident girls get attention, regardless of size

BINGO!!! the secret has finally been revealed , I couldn't agree with u more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any problems and get lots of attention at our local swingers club

Sammi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"confident girls get attention, regardless of size

BINGO!!! the secret has finally been revealed , I couldn't agree with u more"

I agree too, its all about the confidence....I get lots of attention at La Chambre in Sheffield, and its all good....having a killer pair of tits does help though lol! POW POW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had an issue with my size in or out of the clubs!

I have no problems with it so why should anyone else? Sure I might not be everyone's cup of tea... but I have yet to be rejected by any guy!

Like the above poster says... generally the bigger ladies have the sweets the boys like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"confident girls get attention, regardless of size

to true

if you a bigger lady and self conscious of your size the chances are you will not get any attention, not because of your size but because of you attitude towards yourself, because the chances are you will be a 'wall flower' and nor get out there and mix

however if you go and are the same size but are a happy, outgoing, confident person you will have no problem getting attention

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